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Stephen Gaskin Obituary

GASKIN, STEPHEN JOHN, SR., 52, of Johnston, RI left us early Tuesday, July 29th at the Philip Hulitar Hospice Center. He was the endearing husband of Cathy (Bordieri) Gaskin for 30 years and the proud father of Amy and Stephen John Gaskin, Jr.

Stephen was the son of the late Charles E. and Dorothy C. (Youde) Gaskin and the son-in-law of John and Maria Bordieri.

Besides his wife and children, he is also survived by his 6 brothers Charles and Maria Gaskin, Ronald and Helene Gaskin, Donald Gaskin, Timothy and Dawne Gaskin, Richard Gaskin, Jeffrey Gaskin and 5 sisters Patricia Gaskin, Holly Moniz, Dorothy and Everett Melo, Heidi and Joseph Cole, Susan and Gregory Caldarone. He was the Brother-in-Law of Karen and Enrique Remolina, David and Brenda Bordieri and the late Joseph Moniz. Stephen was also the cherished uncle of 15 nieces and nephews and the treasured friend to many.

He was a hard working man whose strength, willpower and spirit will always inspire the people whose lives he touched. Though his journey has ended, those who knew and loved Stephen will tell you that in addition to the endless and unconditional love he had for his family and friends, he was also a die-hard Lakers, Dolphins and Red Sox fan, wine enthusiast and found peace and enjoyment in his back yard. He lived life to the fullest and was a firm believer of living for today. He will be sadly missed however we know that he will always be with us.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Mass of Christian Burial on Saturday at 10 am in St. Robert Bellarmine Church, Atwood Ave., Johnston. His burial will be private. Keeping with his wishes, visitation hours will be respectfully omitted.

For our endless gratitude to our new family for the amazing care given to Stephen, memorial contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to Home & Hospice Care of Rhode Island, 169 George St., Pawtucket, RI 02860.

Visit www.nardolillo.com for more information and online condolences.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Aug. 1, 2008.

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KEVIN Pincins

August 17, 2008

To the GASKIN Family I was sad to hear of the passing of my old friend and classmate 1974 Johston High.
Steve will always be in our prayers.

Janet Carroccia

August 15, 2008

Dear Cathy, Amy and Stephen,
I'm so very sorry to hear of Steves passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Steve was such a great man. He was such a real true friend with a heart of gold. My family and I will never forget all the good memories we have with Steve. If ever you need anything please don't hesitate to call me.
Janet Carroccia-Ciampanelli

Maria Gelsomino

August 7, 2008

Dear Cathy, I'm so sorry for your loss, I know that you have been great in taking care of Stephen. My sincerest sympathy to you. I feel that you are too young to have this unbearable pain. My God bless you and Amy and Stephen and may he see you through this terrible ordeal.
Love, Maria Gelsomino

Dorothy

August 6, 2008

Cathy, Amy, and Stephen:
Stephen was an inspiration to all of us who knew and loved him. He was a fighter right to the end. Cathy, you took such great care of him and I am so thankful for that. We have great memories of Family Reunions, Birthdays, Christmas, and that Thanksgiving when Stephen wanted all his family there. Stephen was a great carpenter and Everett is so thankful that he had the opportunity to work with him. He will be greatly missed.
Love, Everett and Dorothy

Larry, Zachary, and Rebecca Sprague

August 4, 2008

Dear Cathy, Amy and Stephen and the entire Gaskin family,

We extend our condolences to you and your family. We hope that time and memories will help lessen the burden of your sorrow, and that you may draw some measure of comfort knowing that others care and share in your loss.

Sincerely and with love,

David Bordieri

August 4, 2008

Cathy, Amy and Stephen,
I am unable to fathom the depth of your loss and sorrow. Stephen was the brother I never had, as well as dad number 2 to David (Booger). There are not enough words for me to express the gratitude and respect I have toward Stephen for the unconditional love he gave to our David, which showed to me the person and man he truely was. The relationship they shared was very special to them and to us, and will never, ever be forgotten.
It was sooooo obvious to all, the love Stephen possessed for the three of you, as well as his extended family was endless and will live on through his memory......Stephen the husband, dad, brother, uncle........the man, will be greatly missed!!

Your loving brother and uncle,

David

Wendy Lewis

August 4, 2008

Jeff and the rest of the Gaskin Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time.

Dorothy

August 3, 2008

Uncle Stephen, who could forget the bird sounds you always use to make. I will always remember that and just the thought of it right now brings a smile to my face. Looking through pictures the other day I came across one of you and me. I'm on your shoulders and we're playing basketball! The memories we shared will always be on my mind and in my heart. You were a great uncle and you will be missed. I love you! xoxo

Colleen Hopkins

August 3, 2008

Dear Cathy and Family:
I totally understand what you are going through right now. I will always be here if you need to talk. Stephen was a great friend to my family all through these years. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Remember though Stephen is gone, that he is no longer suffering and that should bring peace to your heart. God Bless all of you.
Love Colleen

Lori Gaskin

August 3, 2008

Cathy, Amy and Stephen
My thoughts and prayers are with you. Stephen was a wonderful husband a great dad and a good friend to many and a terrific uncle to my son. I know he watching over you and sees a family that he was so proud to be the husband and father to.

Love, Lori father

Nancy Zambarano

August 3, 2008

Dear Richard and entire Gaskin family,

My deepest sympathies to all of you for your tremendous loss. Please know that others are thinking of you at this very sad time.

Sincerely and with love,

Nicole Gaskin

August 3, 2008

Uncle i love you and miss you dearly. You have left a lasting impression on my life and showed me what a true hero is made of. I will continue to cherish the memories we have made and be sure to remind everyone what a truly amazing person you where. Not a day will go by that i wont wish you where still "right down the street" or remember your wink. I love you & will always keep you close to my heart.

Love, Nicole

Paul Cotter

August 3, 2008

Steven,
I was sorry to hear of your father's passing. There are no words to express my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family.

Hang in there, buddy. Stop by when you can and we'll cheer you up.

Terry Manney

August 3, 2008

My heartfelt sorrow extends to all family and friends at this time of great loss.

Michael Almonte

August 2, 2008

To the Gaskin Family
My prayers are with all of you at this time of sorrow.

Scott Hopkins

August 2, 2008

Cathy, Amy, & Stephen,

May God be with you in this time of sorrow. Stephen was a special man whose life touched so many. He will be sorely missed and joyfully remembered.

Love,
Scott, Shelley Shane & Shawn

Kathye (Blasi) Infantolino

August 2, 2008

To Karen (Bordieri) and the Gaskin Family:

My heartfelt sympathy goes out to all of you. I graduated with Stephen and though we never really new eachother, his presence was there and he always had a smile. Though his life was much too short, I'm sure he's smiling with the angels now. I wish you strength in your days ahead and peace always.

Nora

August 2, 2008

Dear Sue

I am so sorry for the loss of your dear brother Stephen!!! Keep the wonderful memories you have of him close to your heart, where he will live on.

Please accept my heart felt condolence.

Love Nora

Donna (D'Ambra) Gemma

August 2, 2008

To the Gaskin Family: My husband Steven and I offer our heartfelt sympathy for the loss of your beloved Stephen. He was in my class at Johnston High School. It seems like only yesterday when we walked those halls with our entire lives ahead of us. Sadly, Stephen's life ended much too soon. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers for strength at this difficult time.

Kelsey Rainone

August 2, 2008

To The Entire Gaskin Family:
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. Stephen was a great person and I'm so glad I had the honor of knowing him.
Love,
Kelsey Rainone

susan

August 1, 2008

Dottie&Maria~ my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family at this difficult time

nicole ceraldi-colannino

August 1, 2008

Cathy, Amy, and Stephen
My deepest sympathy for your loss. What an amazing fight your husband/father put up. The clients I share with Karen and Enriique would keep me up to date with your journey over the last couple of years. Your family has been in my thoughts and will continue to be .

Jennifer Cole

August 1, 2008

Uncle, Your memories and values will continue to live on in the family as we all think of you daily and speak of you often. You were a great man whose pride, strength, persistence, and appreciation for family closeness, amazing holidays, good food, and of course, good wine, left an everlasting impression on all of your nieces and nephews. Love you Jennifer xoxo

Pauline Carnevale

August 1, 2008

Kathy, my prayers are with you and your family. I know what you are going through, life isnt easy, but just remember how lucky you were to have him for the years that you did. Now he is with God and someday you will all be together again.

Karianne Polak

August 1, 2008

Stephen will be greatly missed. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. As Susan is considered to be our sister rather than our sister-in-law, the Gaskin's are considered to be our family. We are here for you always.

Love, Karianne, Jonathan, Ashley , and Amber

Ken and Mary Hopkins

August 1, 2008

To the Gaskin family,

Our prayers are with you. Stephen has now found peace. He was a true friend to our entire family.

Darlene Verrier

August 1, 2008

Dear, Cathy, Amy, Stephen Jr. & the entire Gaskin Family.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this sorrowful time. You were all often in my thoughts. I am so very sorry for your loss.

HEIDI COLE

August 1, 2008

LIVE,LOVE,AND LAUGH ALWAYS!!!!!!
THAT IS ONE OF THE MANY LIFE'S
LESSONS THAT STEPHEN HAS TAUGHT US!!!!! STEPHEN YOU WILL BE SO TERRIBLY MISSED BUT ALL OF US WILL KEEP YOU ALIVE IN OUR HEARTS EVERYDAY! WE HOPE YOU ARE NOW AT PEACE AND SHARING A GLASS OF WINE WITH ALL OF OUR SPECIAL ANGELS IN HEAVEN. PLEASE KNOW THAT CATHY AMY, AND JUNIOR WILL BE STUCK WITH US FOREVER. WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!! HUGS AND KISSES TO YOU ALWAYS. JOE, HEIDI, JOEY, JENNIFER AND JAMIE!!!!

Edward Cole

August 1, 2008

Dear Cathy, Heidi and Gaskin Family;
How proud your parents must be.Through Stephan's difficult time, he was constantly surrounded by the unconditional love and support of his family. He's at peace now and no longer suffering. I am truely sorry for your loss.

Jeremy Giroux

August 1, 2008

Stephen,
I was so saddened to hear of your dad's passing. You and Your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Your mom and dad were troopers and they are an inspiration to us all!
Take care ! If you need anything give me a call.

Linda Ethier

August 1, 2008

Cathy....I am so sorry for yours & your children's loss. You are all in my prayers & thoughts.

Karen Gesualdi

August 1, 2008

Dear Cathy, Stephen & Amy,
We are so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. We will always remember what a great guy Steve was. You will all be in our prayers.
Always,
Joe, Karen & Joey Gesualdi

Jan Cole

August 1, 2008

Heidi and Joe and Family,
Sorry to hear of your loss. May God be with you at this time and always.

Walt & Jan Cole

Lori Papa

August 1, 2008

To Ricky & the Gaskin Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I know you all are a very close family and he will be missed by all. Our prayers are with you. Love, Gina Ambrosino, David & Lori Papa

Toniann Absi

August 1, 2008

Richard -I was so sorry to hear of your loss. I know the bond you have with your family, my deepest condolenses are with you as you grieve. There are no words to take away your pain. Please know that if you need anything, I am here for you.

Scott Medeiros

August 1, 2008

Cathy & Family:

We were saddened to hear the news that Stephen has passed away. His suffering has ended and he is resting in the hands of God.

Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Lynn Zambarano

August 1, 2008

Cathy, Amy & Stephen, Jr.,

I am so saddened with the passing of Stephen. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. As you grieve please remember that those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day. Unseen, unheard, but always near. They are still loved, still missed and always held dear.

With love and sympathy,
Lynn Zambarano

Mrs. Bove

August 1, 2008

Dear Stephen,

I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Philomena Ferruolo

August 1, 2008

Cathy, Amy, & Stephen jr,
My thoughts and prayers go out to you along with Stephen's brothers and sisters.May you all find comfort in your many memmories

Marion Jasparro

August 1, 2008

Timmy and Dawn,
Our sincere sympathy go out to your entire Gaskin family at this time of sorrow. Our thoughts and prayers are with all your family.
Love,
Auntie Marion and Uncle Frank

susan Cauley

August 1, 2008

Cathy, I'm so sorry for your lose. Your in my prayers everyday. God Bless you and your family!

KAT DONAHUE

August 1, 2008

Cathy & Family,
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Your Friends at Johnston Insurance Agency, Inc.

SUE FABER

August 1, 2008

TIM,DAWNE AND KIDS,

MAY YOU ALL LEAN ON EACH OTHER FOR COMFORT AND REMEMBER ALL THE MEMORIES OF THE FATHER, BROTHER, AND UNCLE HE WAS!!!!! WE ARE THINKING OF YOU.

LOVE, KEVIN, SUE, RYAN AND KYLIE LYN XO

alan gianfrancesco

August 1, 2008

dear family, it is with heavy heart i learn of this news this morning. i have no words within me that can make this easier for you. stephen was always positive and upbeat whenever i was in his company irreguardless of the situation.
my thoughts are with you all at this time.

DON GASKIN

August 1, 2008

THE SECRET OF A GOOOD LIFE WELL LIVED IS NOT IN COUNTING THE YEARS BUT IN MAKING THE YEARS COUNT LIVE EACH DAY AS IT BEING YOUR LAST KEEPING IN MIND THE SECRET OF LIFE THAT STEPHEN LIVED

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