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Bernadette Feid Obituary

FEID, BERNADETTE, 60, died Monday, August 25, 2008 at Miriam Hospital surrounded by her family. She was the companion of Paul Patterson of Tiverton.

She was born in Providence a daughter of the late Roger M. and Eleanor J. (Souther) Feid.

Bernadette was an insurance agent for Aipso for several years.

She leaves two sisters, Eleanor P. White and Beverly A. Frank, and one brother, Roger F. Feid, all of East Providence. She is also survived by six nieces and four nephews.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday at 10 A.M. in St. Martha Church, Pawtucket Ave. Contributions to Make A Wish Foundation, 757 Park Ave., Cranston, R.I., 02910, would be deeply appreciated. Arrangements by the Perry-McStay Funeral Home.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Aug. 27, 2008.

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Armand Gaudet

September 15, 2008

The shock of Bernadette's passing will always be with me. I knew her for nearly 30 years. She taught me everything I knew about underwriting. We spent many hours together after work trying to fathom our co-workers and their actions. After American Universal, we stayed in touch and I many fine times together. I will miss Bernadette very much. I always thought we would face our aging together as we shared our youth. She was one of the kindest and most up-standing person I ever knew. She will be missed by me always.

Judy Chaisty

September 12, 2008

To Bernadette's family & Paul,
I am deeply saddened to hear of Bernadette's passing. I worked with her for many years at American Universal and have stayed friends with her over the years. I will miss her dearly and will cherish my memories with her. My thoughts and prayers are with her family at this difficult time.

Christine Byrnes

September 10, 2008

My sincerest condolences on Bernadette's passing. It has been years since we last saw each other but I enjoyed her company whenever we were together. I have some photos of Bernadette at a party at my home with her beautiful smile. I'm sorry we lost touch but do know she was a special person and may your memories guide you through your grief.

Scott, Sheryl, Craig, & Derek Patterson

September 4, 2008

Dad and the family of Burnadette. I am so sorry for your loss. It was a pleasure having her over my house & sharing the holidays with my family. I know that she was a great traveling compation for my father and can never be repleaced.

Elaine Cedrone

September 2, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Bernadette. I am a former co-worker and am saddened to hear of her passing.
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Barbara McIntyre

September 1, 2008

My deepest condolences to Paul and Bernadette's family. Bernie was my dear friend and I will miss her greatly. I have many, many fond memories of us getting together with friends at the holiday season. We made it a point to get together whenever I was in town to catch up with our lives. There were (4) of us, Sharon, Pat, Bernie & I. We'd pick a nice restaurant, have wine, good food, and good converation..then hug each other, wish each other well till the next time. Bernie had a passion for bargains...loved shopping at Savers. I smile when I think of her taking a day off from work to shop the Savers 50% sale. I will miss her. Again my deepest condolences.
Barbara

Lisa Alves

August 29, 2008

Auntie Bernadette, I will miss you so much. I am so sorry that I could not say goodbye today, I am at home sick and am trying to feel better before I go into work tonight. My mom will miss you the most, she said to me "who will I tell everything to now" "who will I talk to", she has me but I cannot fill your shoes. You will be missed by so many. I love you xoxoxo Lisa (Dearnley) Alves

Lori Lemos

August 29, 2008

To the Feid Family and Paul, my deepest sympathy goes to you. Bernadette was like an Aunt to me. She has known me since I was a newborn. Bernadette was my mother's best friend and I thank her for being there for my Mom. I have great memories of her and she will be sorely missed. With all my love, Lori Lemos (Dearnley)

Sid Wax

August 29, 2008

I am deeply sorry to hear of Bernadette's passing. As I long time friend and co-USP member, I have fond memories of her, and to lose her so young is very sad. I was always happy to see her, and she will be missed.

Angel Maria

August 28, 2008

To Paul;
My condolences for your loss of your great companion Bernadette. She was a good person and I know you will sadly miss her.
From Bernadette's Next Door Neighbor

Jeff Maria

August 28, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the family and friends of Bernadette. She was a world class person and will be greatly missed. Thank you Bernie for all you have done for me and my family. God Bless you!!

Angel Maria

August 28, 2008

Bernie was a wonderful neighbor. She was like family, always extremely thoughtful and helpful. I will always remember her working in her yard, going for walks, and our talks. She will be sadly missed and will be in my prayers and mind always. Deepest condolences to her family.

Jo Anne Turgeon

August 28, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the family of Bernadette. We will miss her greatly. I will always remember the good times that Susan & I shared with her and the frienship for many years.

Brenda Panasuk

August 28, 2008

To Aunt Bernadette's entire family,

I am sorry for your loss. I do not even know were to start with all the memories that I have of her. She always had a smile on her face and always made sure you had one on yours. I could have not ask for a better person to ever walk into my families life, my mother, grandmother and myself will always hold a special place in our heart for her. Aunt Bernadette you are going to be greatly missed by me and everyone that has come in contact with you, you have changed and touch so many lives I do not even think you knew how much. I love you and I am going to miss our talks that we had.

Love Always,
Brenda

DAN MIM NOETZEL

August 28, 2008

oUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO BERNADETTES FAMILY AND ARE VERY DEAR FRIEND PAUL. MAY SHE FOREVER SMILE DOWN AT ALL OF YOU AND GIVE YOU PEACE.
MUCH LOVE DAN AND MIM

Bernadette & George Russo

August 28, 2008

Although I didn't really know Bernadette very well, we have been neighbors for over 20 years, and I would like to express our condolences to her entire famlily, and are very sorry for your loss.

Karen and Jeff Goncalo

August 28, 2008

Dear Dad and Bernadette's family,
Words cannot express how truly sorry we are for the loss of Bernadette. She was a kind and thoughtful person who always came to our family gatherings with a smile on her face and a good sense of humor. We will always be grateful to Bernadette for giving my dad fond memories to cherish of their many vacations and the time they shared together. Dad, may these memories bring you comfort during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Lisa Caprioli-Cadieux

August 27, 2008

My deepest sympathies to Bernadett's friends and family. I worked with Bernadette at American Universal and we had many great conversations, she was truly a real nice person.

Beverly Kelley

August 27, 2008

Bernadette was a true friend to everyone, there was not a person she met that she did not have a smile to give and an open heart. She will be sadly missed as she always left you smiling. Bernadette was touched by an angel and she is with them now.

Renee Carter

August 27, 2008

I just wanted to send my condolences to Bernadette’s family and friends. I worked with Bernadette and have sat next to her since her first day at AIPSO. Some of the things that I can think of from our daily conversations are when she told me what a wonderful birthday party her family threw for her this year, and how thankful she was. She also talked a lot about her travels with Paul and how they liked to fill up their itinerary so they could see as much as possible on their trips. She talked about the woman who lived near her that cooked meals for her occasionally and was thankful. She would sometimes come in and give me a lottery ticket or scratch ticket for helping her on some projects or audits. We would talk about what we would do with the money if we won. We had some laughs together on our trips for work as well. Bernadette was a nice and sincere woman and will be missed.

Maureen

August 27, 2008

To Bernadette's Family-

I met Benadette at AIPSO. She was always pleasent and we often exchanged greetings. She participated on a team I ran some months ago and was a great team mate. I will miss saying Hi to her.
my deepest sympathy to all her family.

NHIS

August 27, 2008

New Hampshire Insurance Services expresses our deepest sympathy to the family of Bernadette Fied.

NHIS

August 27, 2008

New Hampshire Insurance Services wishes to express our deepest sympathy to the family of Bernadette Fied.

Rita Ashton

August 27, 2008

So thankful for the many happy memories I have of Bernadette.
I will always keep her in my thoughts and prayers.
I send my sincere heartfelt condolences to Bernadette's family and my son Paul.
Rita Ashton

Andrew & Lisa Patterson

August 27, 2008

To Uncle Paul,
Sorry to hear of Bernadette's passing. Though I only met her briefly when you were in Florida, she seemed to be a great person.

Nancy & Stan Zych

August 27, 2008

To my brother Paul and the Feid family: Please accept our deepest sympathy. I will never forget Bernadette's enthusiasm for life, her kindness, generosity and the love she had for her family. She will be missed.
Nancy & Stan Zych

Carolyn Bowen

August 27, 2008

Dear Cousins, I am sorry to learn of Bernedette's passing. I know what a close family that you are. I am unable to go to her service because I am presently receiving chemo and have been in Miriam Hosp for 11 days. My prayers are with you.

Cousin, Carolyn Feid Bowen

Charlotte Ann Cleary

August 27, 2008

Bernadette was a lovely lady that I met here at Aipso several years ago, we had lunch several times and talked about our families and prior jobs, where we lived, we really got to know each other in a short time. A pleasant gal, quiet and easy to like. I will miss her as we passed many times in the halls during the course of a day and updated our lives.
My sympathies to all of her family at this time.

August 27, 2008

Beverly and family,

Our deepest sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

East Providence Teammates

Betty Cushing

August 27, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time.

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