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Tammie Oliviera Obituary

OLIVIERA, TAMMIE (COOK-DiGIOVANNI) 43 of Paul St., tragically passed away Sunday, September 28, 2008 along with her husband Michael Oliviera in the waters off Black Point, Narragansett.

Born in Providence, she was the devoted daughter of Frederick Cook Sr. and Alice Lincoln both of Riverside.

She is survived by her children Natasha, Jason, and John DiGiovanni Jr. all of Providence, a stepson Michael Oliviera Jr., of Johnston; a sister Cheryl Lambo of Conn., three brothers David Cook Sr. of Riverside, Frederick Cook Jr. of Providence and Philip Cook of Warren; a stepsister Maria Ilidan of Providence and two grandchildren Trinity Simas of Warwick and Jason DiGiovanni Jr. of Providence. She is also survived by 5 nephews and 2 nieces. She was the stepdaughter of the late Alfred Lincoln

Her funeral will be held Monday at 10am from the A.A. MARIANI & SON Funeral Home, 200 Hawkins St., Providence followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 11am in St. Ann Church, Hawkins St., Providence. Visiting hours Sunday 4 to 8pm. Burial will be in Gate of Heaven Cemetery, East Providence. In lieu of flowers, donations in Tammie's memory to: Columbus Credit Union, C/O The Tammie Oliviera Fund, 560 Main St., Warren, RI, 02885.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 4, 2008.

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kelly hopkins

November 3, 2008

:(((((((((((( i miss u in so many ways my auntie and dear godmother i luv you

Gail Games

October 17, 2008

I express my hearfelt sympathies for both families on your loss of Michael and Tammie, They meant so much to so many people,When I first met them at bingo,they glowed You could see how much they Loved one another..And they are for ever together and so much in Love that God could not seperate them..God bless you both , You will be in my heart for ever,and to the Families my Thoughts and Prayers are with you all.
Patty Payette's Sister....

Maria Ilidan

October 11, 2008

Tam...you are my sister, my best friend...I'm so happy you met Mike and found happiness and love...I'm so lost without you...you've always been in my life, to laugh with, cry with, to confide in, to check in with...YOU CANNOT BE REPLACED AND THE PAIN IN MY HEART WILL NEVER HEAL. You're with your soulmate so I know your safe in his arms...forever.

Jamie Thorne

October 11, 2008

i really cant believe this has happend u were my best friend we were going out for my 40th b-day party and i will never see you again i will never see Mike again everyone keeps asking hows the dog he's great but me im not so good but i got his i am there for the kids and i am there for the family I LOVE U 2....... Natasha,Jason and Johnny i will be there whenever u guys need mei love you Auntie J

Friends

October 9, 2008

Tammie and Michael, May God Bless you both. You will be deeply missed. You will always be remembered. We will see you again someday.

Robert Choquette

October 9, 2008

Tammie will be missed deeply. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends. God bless.

Joseph Bettencourt

October 8, 2008

To Tammie's family I just met Tammie and Mikel and could see how happy they were so sorry

Bill McQueen Jr. (milkman)

October 8, 2008

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Tammie was a great person, and she will be missed.

Jaraul Correia

October 8, 2008

Dear Tammie, Our Condolscences go out to you, michael, and your family, for the time that we knew you you were a wonderful person, you will be missed god bless. From the Correia Family, Jaraul Cathy, Donna, And Kids

October 8, 2008

I still can not beleive your gone, Tammie I new you for fifteen yrs in that time we were always neighbors and friends. I only met Mike once, but thats all it took to see the love between the two of you. I will keep a close eye on your children.
they are like my own.
I miss you
Susan and Frank

Brenda Ferreira

October 8, 2008

Tammie and Micheal, You both were such beautiful people inside and out ! I've only known the both of you for around a year, but i'm so glad that i had the chance to be friends with you both! I will never forget the way you both lit up the bingo hall with the love you both shared. For each other and all your friends.You both will be in my heart forever! Good bye my dear friends You both shall be missed very much!

MaryAnn Scarsella

October 8, 2008

Dear Alice & Family
I am still numb and can't believe Tammie and Mike are gone. I can't even begin to explain to you in words how empty I felt when I was told the tragic news. Tammie and I go back a very long way and I always considered her and all of you family. I'm so glad I got to see the two of you this summer at the 711 store. Although It was the 1st time I had met Mike I was so happy for her, she had finally found true love with Mike. If there was one person who truly deserved happiness, it was Tammie. It somewhat relieves my emptiness knowing they will now be able to rest in piece together forever. Theirs was truly an original Love Story. She will remain always in my heart. I will come and see you when I come home from being out of town.
Sincerely
MaryAnn Scarsella

Christine Martin

October 8, 2008

Auntie Tammie, I remeber the day I met you.You welcomed me right in to the family and made me feel so comfortable. They broke the mold when they made you. Definitely won't be the same without you. I will miss you so much. Dave and I will do everything we can for the kids. It makes me feel good knowing that Mike is with you. He is a great guy. R.I.P. I love you and we will meet again someday.

With love,
Chrissy Martin

Giorgio Family

October 8, 2008

To the Cook and DiGiovanni Family, Our Deepest Symphathy go out to you and your entire family during this difficult time. I know that words cannot express how you feel with the loss of Tammie and Michael, but you know in your hearts that they are still together. We only had the pleasure of meeting Tammie on their wedding day. We wish we could have gotten to know Tammie better as I am sure she was a wonderful person. We knew Michael for over 20 years and we loved him. They made a beautiful couple. Please know that you are in our prayers. Donna, Hank and Lauren Giorgio

Paula LaBonte

October 8, 2008

To the Cook Family,it is with deepest sympathy that we express our sincere condolences. We truly know how hard it is at this time. May you all find some peace and comfort in the days to come.

The DiCarlo Family

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October 8, 2008

auntyyyy tetetetetetetete i miss you so much i cant believe your in heaven with my uncle, but now i know your happy with him =D and thats a good thing

Carolyn Gallo

October 7, 2008

Tammie you will be greatly missed... There is not a day that I have not shed tears and I won't see one for a very very long time. You brought so much laughter into my life this past year since you met Mike, and I wish I had known you longer. I am so glad all of us were able to spend Saturday night together. The last vision I have of the both of you were us blowing kisses and saying "I love you's", with those beautiful smiles as the both of you walked out the door. Thats a memory that I will never forget...

David Cook Jr.

October 7, 2008

Auntie Tammie, I still can't believe you are gone. I am at a loss for words. All I can do is remeber all of the good times. You were like a mother to me. I love you more than words can say. It makes me feel better knowing that Mike is with you. I promise you that I will help my cousins in any way that I can. I will be here for them always. I love you auntie! You will be greatly missed. I will see you again some day.

Your loving nephew,
David Jr.

Charlotte

October 7, 2008

My deepest sympathies to the family of Tammie and Michael. They were a wonderful couple. I hope you can find comfort in your memories. Know that they are with you always and you will see them again some day.

Jacqueline Alves

October 7, 2008

Dear Johnnie & Family,

We are truly sorry for your loss. Remember all the times you/we had together. We will keep you and yours in our prayers.

Sincerely,

Jordan & Mommie Jackie

Alice Lincoln

October 6, 2008

my dearest daughter and son in law my heart is broken in many pieces but now that i know mike is with you i know you both are holding hands and smiling mommy will have you in my heart till the day i die thank you both for being my children and making me so proud you two are the love of all our lives i hope to see you soon i love you both mommy Lincoln

Ronny Goodinson

October 6, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the Cook family.

Stefanie Scully

October 6, 2008

To Tasha Jason and John

I am so sorry for your loss be strong for each other and know you have plenty of friends and family that are here for you. Your mom will be missed by so many.

Renee Carrier

October 6, 2008

Tasha, Jay & Johnny
Our deepest sympathy goes out to all of you in the lose of your loving mom and her husband, I know mom from Aunt Jamie I lived with her for a while and I knew of her from working at Wanskunk. May you all fine peace and love during this tragic lose

Cheryl O'Donnell

October 5, 2008

My condolences to both families.

Tammie & Mike were very much inlove and will be missed by many.

LYNNE,KERRY AND PHIL (PEARL) GALUPPO

October 5, 2008

TO PHLIP AND FAMILY,
I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS. I HOPE THAT MIKE'S FAMILY FINDS COMFORT IN KNOWING THAT HE WAS A TRUE HERO AND HE WILL BE REWARDED FOR THAT IN HEAVEN. AND NOW TAMMIE CAN REST IN PEACE WITH HIM. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH BOTH FAMILIES.PHILIP, IF YOU NEED ANYTHING,CALL ME. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE FAMILY TO US.

linda lanzieri

October 5, 2008

This message is sent to Tammie and Michaels families. Though we did not know Tammie personally,we are deeply saddened by the news of her death. Michael was my husbands cousin. We did not see Michael often but, cared a great deal for him. We are sickened and saddened that they had to leave this earth at such a young age. We know they are in heaven together. They are in our prayers. We send our love to all of you who loved Tammie and Michael. Cousins Vin and Linda Lanzieri....

MaryAnn Scarsella

October 4, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, ""I welcome you.""

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......""My day was not in vain.""
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

Jillian Powers

October 4, 2008

Tammie, i always looked up to you like you was my aunt. I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU and all the things you did for me.For awhile me tasha and karen were unsepartable. You was like a 2nd mother at that time. i will always love and ur memory will always live on in my heart.
TASHA JOHNNY AND JAY,
im so sorry for your lost and i know its a very hard thing to deal with but please be strong for eachother. you guys ever need anything im just a call away!!!
love always and foreva,
Jillian and baby Nelson

michael ilidan

October 4, 2008

dear aunty Tammie ....i love you and i will always miss You ...from ur nephew..Mike

John Cowan Jr.

October 4, 2008

You will be missed

Alyssa Faiola

October 4, 2008

To David Young and Family,
I am so sorry for the lost of your uncle Mike and auntie Tammie. My deepest condolences.
From: Alyssa Faiola and Family

Anthony DiTusa

October 4, 2008

My sincere sympathies. I will be mourning the death of both of these dear people. Michael was my Uncle and by marriage Tammie my Aunt. Both of these dynamic people went to soon. They will both be sorely missed.

Janet Whelton

October 4, 2008

I can't even begin to imagine the pain and grief you are feeling at the loss of your loved ones that young and not suffering an illness, the shock must be overwhelming. My thoughts and prayers are with both families at this most difficult time.

Kerri Carr

October 4, 2008

I love you Tammie..so did meatball..we will miss you

JESSICA MADDALENA

October 4, 2008

TAMMIE U WERE A SPEICAL PERSON 2 ME U WILL B SADLY MISSED N ALWAYS LOVED

JERRICA MADDALENA

October 4, 2008

U WILL ALWAYS B IN MY HEART

JENNIFER & CHILDREN JAZZMIN JOZZLIN & JAYDA MADDALENA

October 4, 2008

TAMMIE U WILL B MISSED ALWAYS

Caron (DeOliveira) Sheffield

October 4, 2008

We are so sorry to hear of the tragedy to this part of our family. We did not actually have the pleasure of knowing Tammie. Although I have not seen Michael in about 30 years, he was my first cousin. My father Frank "BeBe" and Michael's father, Tony, are brothers. Our family has been praying to find Michael. Please know both Tammie and Michael are in our hearts and we will continue to pray for them and everyone whose lives have been directly affected. I love the beach and sitting on the rocks for the peace it offers me, and I know I will never be at the ocean's edge again and not think of them, and say a prayer for them. Peace and love to all, especially my Uncle Tony.

JOSEPH MADDALENA

October 4, 2008

TAMMIE U WILL ALWAYS B MISSED

JUSTIN MADDALENA

October 4, 2008

TAMMIE U WILL ALWAYS B LOVED N MISSED

SHARON DONAHUE

October 4, 2008

You will always live in our hearts and prayers.

JAMIE MADDALENA

October 4, 2008

TAMMIE U WERE A PART OF MY FAMILY N A FRIEND I CANT BELIVE UR REALLY GONE MY HEART GOES OUT 2 UR CHILDREN N UR FAMILY U WILL 4 EVA HAVE A PLACE IN MY HEART U WILL B SADLY MISSED N REMEMBERED ALWAYS

JOHN COWAN SR.

October 4, 2008

TAMMY WILL BE SADLY MISSED,SHE WAS A GREAT MOTHER AND LOVEING NIECE,NO ONE COULD FILL THE VOID IN ALL OUR HEARTS.UNCLE JOHNNY

Cindy M.

October 4, 2008

To the family and friends of Tammie and Mike my heart felt sorrow for your loss. They will be missed always.

Cecile Cronk

October 4, 2008

I Love & Miss You Auntie. There will never be another like you.

A FRIEND

October 4, 2008

I HAVE NEVER MET TAMMIE OR HER HUSBAND BUT IM SURE THEY WERE WONDERFUL PEOPLE. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER CHILDREN AND FAMILY..ILL SAY A PRAYER FOR ALL OF YOU DURING THIS TERRIBLE TIME.

PHILIP COOK

October 4, 2008

DEAR, TAMMIE AND MIKE I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH,MY HART IS SO EMPTY WITHOUT YOU. YOU WERE NOT JUST MY FAMILY,BUT MY FREINDS, AND I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU BOTH AND NEVER FORGET YOU THE ONLY THING THAT KEPTS ME GOING IS,I KNOW YOU ARE BOTH TOGETHER WITH GOD.

Peggy Arnold

October 4, 2008

I will miss you.You was a great friend.I will miss the laughter and the big smile you had,your call for what was on the menu for thursday night.R.I.P. I know in my heart that Mike and you are still dancing.Till we meet again I love you

October 4, 2008

To the family of Tammie and her late husband. I express my hearfelt sympathies for both families on your loss. I didn't know either of them but I am a former Rhode Islander who read there love story online and it brought tears to my eyes. They both seemed like loving, wonderful human beings who were full of life.

I will be keeping you in my prayers. May the love of family and friends carry you through this difficult time.

A former Rhode Islander who cares.

Priscilla Iasimone

October 4, 2008

May the love of your family and friends help you through this most differcult time.

Steve I

October 4, 2008

In loving memory for Tammie and Michael

Lori A

October 4, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Georgianna Sousa-Smith

October 4, 2008

i would like to offer my deepest condolences,to tammie's family althought i have not seen her in over 30yrs.i grew up with her and she was a wonderful person

MICHAEL GALUPPO

October 4, 2008

TO FAMILY AND FRIENDS I AM SAD WITH THIS HUGE LOSS, I KNOW YOU HAVE LOST A BIG PART OF YOUR HEART,MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU ..TAMMIE AND MICHAEL REST IN PEACE WE WILL SEE YOU AGAIN SOMEDAY

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