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Michael Oliveira Obituary

OLIVEIRA, MICHAEL ANTHONY, 43, of Paul Street, tragically passed away Sunday, September 28, 2008, along with his beloved wife, Tammie (Cook) DiGiovanni Oliveira, in the waters off Black Point, Narragansett.

Born in Providence, he was the devoted son of Anthony Oliveira and the late Agostina (Vittorio) Oliveira.

Michael was a member of the Benny's family, employed as a stock clerk at their warehouse in Esmond, R.I. for over 20 years. He was an avid golfer and enjoyed singing karaoke with his family and friends. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.

Besides his father, he is survived by a son, Michael Oliveira, Jr.; three step-children, Natasha, Jason, and John DiGiovanni; a brother, Anthony Oliveira, Jr.; and three sisters, Gina Desrosiers, Marie Williams, and Deanna Young. He is also survived by uncles, aunts, cousins, and friends.

Michael's visiting hours will be held Thursday, 4-8 PM in the A.A. MARIANI & SON Funeral Home, 200 Hawkins St., Providence. Relatives and friends are invited to a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated for both Michael and Tammie on Friday at 9 AM in St. Ann Church, Hawkins St., Providence. Burial will be in Gate of Heaven Cemetery, East Providence.

In lieu of flowers a fund has been established for his son, Michael, Jr. Donations to: The Michael Oliveira Jr. Fund, c/o Sovereign Bank, 1414 Atwood Ave., Johnston, RI, 02914. WWW.MARIANIANDSON.COM

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Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 8, 2008.

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emily austin

November 3, 2008

i pretty much have known you my whole life, and now its sad to see you go. about 3 years ago i remember everyday of my life i was at your house, and all you made me and rachel do was laugh. your a great guy, and don't deserve to end your life like this. miss you lots<333

Steven and Carrie Austin

November 3, 2008

We just found out the awful news. We are deeply saddened to hear of Michael's death. We remember him with great fondness. He was a great guy who we will always remember. Rest in peace Michael.

Brenda Ferreira

October 22, 2008

To all Michael's Family my sincere sympathies, especially for his son!I only knew him for a year , But i can say he was such a great guy! I knew how much in Love him and TAmmy where.I would see them sitting in our Bingo Hall holding hands,and smiling from ear to ear!I will miss Him and Tammy very much!

Gail Games

October 17, 2008

I express my hearfelt sympathies for both families on your loss of Michael and Tammie, They meant so much to so many people,When I first met them at bingo,they glowed You could see how much they Loved one another..And they are for ever together and so much in Love that God could not seperate them..God bless you both , You will be in my heart for ever,and to the Families my Thoughts and Prayers are with you all.
Patty Payette's Sister....

ts

October 14, 2008

I was so sad to hear about mike&tammie, my heart goes out to both familys, I just seen them at ST. Rocco's Smiling from ear to ear, not to many people past away being that happy, not two many of us can say we are hero's or give their life for another. I will always remenber the two of you holding hands and smiling. Bless all of you

Maria Ilidan

October 12, 2008

Mike...Thank you for bringing happiness and love into my sisters life...you will be deeply missed...to the Oliveira Family my deepest sympathy to all of you.

Linda Lanzieri

October 11, 2008

Uncle and Cousins, Vin and I are so saddened by the loss of Michael and his beloved wife Tammie. We want you to know Michael, Tammie and all of you are in our hearts and prayers. We are sorry it has been so long since we last saw each other. Every Time we did see Michael he had a smile on his face and, nothing but kind words to say. He was such a nice person that we are sure he is in heaven with his love Tammie. We pray that with time the pain in your hearts will ease and you will find peace. God Bless you all. Love Vin and Linda.

Jamie Thorne

October 11, 2008

To The Olivera Family Michael will be deeply missed by myself and my childrenMichael was a wonderful man and he will be deeply missed by my family

Doreen Fortes

October 11, 2008

Please accept my condolences during your time of bereavement.

Doreen (Family Dollar)

David & Chrissy Cook

October 9, 2008

Mike, We are honored to have known you. You risked your life to try to save auntie Tammie. "Hero" is what will always come to mind when we think of you. Just 2 months ago we were celebrating with you and your family at your wedding. You have a beautiful family. Honored to be a part of it. We love you both and may you rest in peace. Till we meet again.....

With love,
David Cook Jr.
and Chrissy Martin

Laurie McCaffrey

October 9, 2008

I met Michael 7 years ago through my best friend . After that 1st day we met he was like my brother. Friday night game night yatzee and football game sundays. GO BIG BLUE! Are the memeriors I want to hold on with you . The way you were with my daughter Brittany was like a father she never had ,but had in you. I am very happy you found love again in Tammie and my heart goes out to her family too. You both and your children will be in my prayers . God Bless you both . I love you . THE AUNTIE LAURIE

Kim Berube

October 9, 2008

Many thoughts came to my mind , but no words parted my lips when i heard about his tradgedy. I still can't believe you and tammie are not with us any longer..It was just a short time ago I was celebrating your marriage. My heart smiled watching the joy on both your faces. You were truly happy..I will hold that memeory of you in my heart along with many others....Mike, you truly were an amazing person who has touched the hearts of many. You always had a shoulder to lean on, and an ear to listen when I needed someone to talk to. An example of a true friend with a pure heart. Those of us who had the opportunity to have you in our lives were blessed. Goodbye for now, you will be deeply missed my friend. God bless you and tammie, may you both rest in peace and happiness.... To the entire Oliveira family,God bless you all. I hope all the memories you have of mike will be of some comfort to you at this difficult time. Peace, love and prayers to you all.

karen and peter meadows

October 9, 2008

Mike, you were always laughing and smiling loving life, we were so happy for you when you met and married Tammy. You will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with your families.

Kathy & Cole Harrison

October 9, 2008

I was lucky enough to work with and enjoy Michael through Bella and Old Mill Tap. His friendship and kindness was immediate upon our introduction. My baby brought such happiness to him and I'm glad to say the feeling was returned. They say no one dies alone. The angels come to take you by the hand and escort you to heaven. Michael died saving the love of his life and now they well live together forever. We grieve for them, but they smile upon us while they await our arrival. He is missed.

Nicole Narducci

October 9, 2008

Mike your smile was one of the warmest friendliest smiles of anyone I have ever met. My family and I were privilaged to have met you through the Jets. Seeing you and Tammie together at the Feast was so nice you both looked so happy! You will be missed dearly!

Tracie Vendetuoli

October 9, 2008

To Deanna and Tammie's family, I just want to express my sadness for all of you at this terribly tragic time. Mike was a great guy who I just ran into not to long ago and it was like no time had passed at all and I got to meet his wife and see how happy they were. May they rest in peace and happiness together!

Ronda lombardi/nicolay

October 9, 2008

My darling michael...I will keep you in my heart forever, as you have always been since we were kids...rest in peace and love with your wife and love eachother forever. My deepest sympathies to this amazing family.

Joe Burchfield & Family

October 9, 2008

Mike,
You will always be a class act! I, along with many others, will miss you. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family.

Robin Berube

October 9, 2008

Deanna, family, and friends of Michael and Tammie,
I recently ran into Michael and Tammie at a resturant right before they were married. How proud he was to introduced me to his fiance tell me that they would be getting married. I didn't know either of them that well, but the love they had for eachother was evident in the five minutes I spent talking to them. Their love shined through so brightly. Michael, I hope you and Tammie will always be as happy as I will remember you that day. Scott will miss you very, very much. I hope that all of you find some comfort in knowing how others felt about Michael. What a great, smiling, caring friend he was to many. God Bless you all at this time of sorrow. Michael and Tammie will forever be smiling down upon you.

Friends

October 9, 2008

Michael and Tammie, May God Bless you both. You will be deeply missed. You will always be remembered. We will see you again someday.

Nicki & Roger Francoeur

October 9, 2008

You are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of loss and great sadness. Michael made the ultimate sacrifice for the woman he loved. Please take comfort in knowing they are angels in Heaven, together forever.
***************
Make yourself familiar with the angels and behold them frequently in spirit; for without being seen they are present with you.
St. Francis De Sales

Jay & Nicole Natale

October 9, 2008

To Michael's family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Michael was a wonderful person and always smiling. We have a picture of Mike at our engagement party and that picture could light up a room. We never met Tammie, but when we saw Michael in August he was glowing when he was telling us about his wedding and his new wife. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Rest peacefully Michael & Tammie.

Robert Choquette

October 9, 2008

Michael will be missed dearly. My heartfelt sympathy to the Oliveira family.

Joseph Bettencourt

October 8, 2008

To Oliveira Family I just met michael and Tammie but i know they will be greatly missed So Sorry

Allison Gabriele

October 8, 2008

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Jaraul Correia

October 8, 2008

Dear Michael, Our Condolensces go out to you and your family. I Only met you once in the parking lot of crescent view manor, with tammy on valentines day last this past year where alice, and my mom donna live, From That day i knew you were a nice guy, Our Hearts Our With you,and your wife tammy god bless. From the Correia Family Jaraul, Cathy, Donna, and Kids.

Lisa (LaBianca) Russo

October 8, 2008

When the winds blow, and the rains fall, know that "THEY" are with you. When you are on the beach, and the sun is setting. notice the two seagulls on the quiet beach just at peace with the quiet that is around them. "THEY" are with you. "THEY" are having the most beautiful honeymoon that anyone could imagine."GOD" is THEIR witness. "THEY" are together for eternity. Their life has not ended, it has just begun. God bless both families.

Lynn

October 8, 2008

Michael, was the kinda guy that everboby loved. He always had a smile for all. He was a caring person.
I did not know Tammy that well but,
i, am sure that i, would have. It's gonna be hard for me around catering season
not, having the pleasure to work with you again. God bless you, michael & Tammy, you both will be sadly missed.

Al Smith

October 8, 2008

I am at a loss for words at the thought of never seeing you walk into wes' after a catering job and shaking my hand and planting a kiss on my cheek, which used to make me feel un-easy. but you know what they say, you never miss something or someone till there gone.you will be sorely missed Mike and Tammie. God bless you.

lynne galuppo

October 8, 2008

I knew Tammie and her family, but I never got a chance to meet Mike. But I know he was a special person. When someone gives they're life trying to save another they have a special place in heaven. I pray that Mike's family and friends find comfort knowing they are now safe and together.

scotty b.......berube

October 8, 2008

that smile ...........always kissing and huggin me and anyone he loved ......a true deffinition of a loving caring friend the days you come to visit my mom as she was very ill my mom always loved you mikey as did my whole family words cannot exsplain how shocked and hurt i feel ,,,,to all ur family tony ,deanna ,and you dad and other sisters and mike jr and the rest of you and tammys family im so sorry i love you my brother you will always be in my hearts and prayers kiss my mom and now you hold your mom again god bless

Alice Lincoln

October 8, 2008

Dear Michael you have brought so much love and happiness to not only my daughter but the whole family i am very proud that you are my family as so is your other family thank you for trying to save my beautiful daughter your wife we will forever grateful to you but now you are both together like you wanted thanks for coming back to get her my heart is broke but I try to remember that in one short year you brought more love to my daughter than she ever had in her life bye my beloved mike ill always have you in my heart hope to see you soon God bless mother Alice

Ralph Medici

October 8, 2008

Michael touched many lives in a positive way.

Rhonda Anderson

October 8, 2008

Deanna and the entire Oliveira Family: It is with deepest sympathy that I write my feelings of great loss for Michael. My memories of Michael and Tammie and the great love they had for each other will forever live in my heart. The news of this tragedy will never be forgotten by family or friends. I feel certain that they will always be together as they are in our memory. Thank God Michael was recovered in time to join his wife Tammie as they rest in peace together. My condolences go out to the DiGiovanni Family and friends.

Love
Rhonda

A Friend

October 8, 2008

To the Oliviera Family: Michael was a wonderful person who loved life. I'm so happy he found the love of his life. He will be truely missed. God Bless.

THE GUADAGNO-ONEILL'S

October 8, 2008

Warm Summer Sun

Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.

By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation

LIZ GUADAGNO

October 8, 2008

MIKE YOU WERE AN AMAZING FATHER TO MIKE JR. YOU ALWAYS HAD SOMETHING POSITIVE TO SAY ABOUT MY SON FRANK ! OUR SON'S ARE LIKE BROTHER'S . I CAN NOT BELIEVE I AM WRITING TO YOU BECUASE YOU ARE IN HEAVEN ! IT IS SO UNREAL TO ME AND MANY OTHER'S! YOU WERE A LOT OF FUN SINGING AND SMILING NEVER HAD A BAD THING TO SAY ABOUT ANYONE . I USE TO DRIVE BY BENNY'S AND SEE YOUR CAR IN THE PARKING LOT " THERE IN THE FRONT WINDSHIELD, YOU STILL HAD MIKEY'S BABY SHOE'S!

YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY THOUGHT AND PRAYERS ...FOR EVER ... GOOD BYE KIND FRIEND!!
GOD BLESS!!!
LIZ GUADAGNO
FRANCKO O'NEILL AND GIORGI-AMANDA O'NEILL

Sandy Murphy-Sullo

October 8, 2008

To all the Oliveira family,
May the Lord bless you & comfort you in this time of sorrow. I remember him as a boy, always curious. Gina, call me sometime.

Russell,Patty & Danielle Berube

October 8, 2008

We were saddened and shocked to hear of the death of Michael and his wife Tammie. We never got to meet his wife but Michael and his family we have known for quite a long time. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his whole family. God bless you all.

Jamie Harrison

October 8, 2008

Michael,
You will be missed greatly, along with Tammie, by everyone at the Old Mill and beyond. Even though you are gone, your memory will live on in our hearts forever...we love you. p.s. i'm glad i got to hear "Home" one last time. i love you, kid....

Giorgio

October 8, 2008

We are so deeply sorry for your loss of Michael and Tammie. Our hearts hurts that this terrible accident happened. We loved Michael as family and he was a wonderful, fun loving person who was kind to everyone. Hank, Lauren and I were honored to be invited to Michael and Tammie's wedding and it was a beautiful wedding. Michael personnally told us he was honored we came. That says alot about the person he was. He will be deeply missed. Michael and Tammie are still together. You are in our prayers. We love you and your entire family. We are here for you and always will be. Love Donna, Hank and Lauren Giorgio

Todd Brochu

October 8, 2008

My heart constantly aches for the lost of my cousin. It also aches to know the hurt and sadness of his family members, relatives and friends. Michael will forever be in our hearts and the memories will go on and always bring a smile to our faces. My deepest condolences to Tammy's relatives and friends. My prayers go to everyone.
With Love,
Todd

Richard and Betty McCaffrey

October 8, 2008

We met Michael when he came to our Gaspee Day celebration for the first time several years ago. Our outstanding memory of him is that he was the shiniest person we have ever met with a lovely warm smile and we will miss seeing him from time to time. Our deepest sympathy to the entire family at this very sad time.

Cindy M

October 8, 2008

To all family members, this is a terrible loss and both Michael and Tammie will be loved and missed forever. My heart felt sorrows to all.

Priscilla Iasimone

October 8, 2008

Words could never express the deep sorrow I feel in my heart for all of michael and tammie's friends and family.They were an inspiration to everyone who knew them and a perfect example of what life is all about when you find true love for another.May they both rest in peace together and god give all that are left behind the strength and courage to get through this differcult time.

John and Joia Natale

October 8, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Oliveira family. Mike was such a wonderful person and he will be sadly missed.

Keith & Carole Stiles

October 8, 2008

They say that people make ripples in life. Each ripple representing another person touched. Mike and Tammie are true examples of that. Words fall short at a time like this. May your families find comfort in their fondest of memories. You are forever in our hearts. God Bless!

Dawn Marchand

October 8, 2008

My deepest sympathy to the families of Mike and Tammie, I am so sorry for your loss. Mike was a great guy and he will be missed.

Peggy Arnold

October 8, 2008

Michael and Tammie I will always have you in my heart.I only knew you for a short time but it feels like I have known you forever.They were beautiful people.R.I.P.Till we meet again.Love you

Cheryl O'Donnell

October 8, 2008

I'm so sorry for the families loss of Mike and Tammie.

The love that they showed towards eachother is beyond words

Now they both can live in peace now that they've both been found

JAMIE MADDALENA AND FAMILY

October 8, 2008

I DIDNT KNOW MICHAEL BUT TAMMY WAS A PART OF MY FAMILY THEY WILL BOTH B SADLY MISSED N ALWAYS B REMEMBERED

Patricia Mendes

October 8, 2008

I don't know you but my prayers are all with you. I followed the story and sometimes life is too hard. God does things for a reason and hopefully someday it will be easier to understand. God bless all of you and Michael & Tammie too.

Don Placido, Former Director, North Providence Boys & Girls Club

October 8, 2008

Fondly remembered.

Karen Lomax

October 8, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Debbie Spagnoli

October 8, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Lori A

October 8, 2008

In loving memory for Tammie and Michael

Steve I

October 8, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Bonnie Marquis

October 8, 2008

To the Oliveira Family: I am so saddened to hear what happened..I still can't believe it. I have known the family for over 20 years and it was always great to see them every now and then. Such a tight, close knit family. I truely feel your pain and your agony over this tragic accident. Michael always loved life. Everyone who knew him, loved him. You guys always held a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Deanna...if you need anything, I'm here!! May God help you and guide you through this horrific time. Rest easy knowing Mike and Tammie ( his TRUE love) will be together forever! And Frankie is up there with them and he and Mike are singing together and sharing a cold one!!! Love you guys...=o)

PHILIP COOK

October 8, 2008

TO MY FAMILY, THE OLIVEIRA'S WE HAVEN'T BEEN FAMILY LONG BUT WE WILL BE FOREVER.MY SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO ALL OF YOU IN THIS TIME OF SORROW AND LOSE, I MISS MY BROTHER-IN-LAW AND MY SISTER TAMMIE SO MUCH, MY HEART HURTS EVER TIME I LOOK AT A PICTURE OF THEM, BUT I KNOW I WILL SEE THEM AGAIN WHEN GOD CALLS ME HOME. MAY GOD KEEP YOU MICHAEL AND TAMMIE IN THE PALM OF HIS HAND FOR EVER, AND BLESS OUR EXTENDED FAMILY...

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