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Laurence Gower Obituary

GOWER, LAURENCE C., 64, of Whipple Road, Pascoag was received into the loving arms of his Lord, Sunday, October 19, 2008 in the Philip Hulitar Hospice Center, Providence with his devoted wife by his side, after a year and a half long battle with lung cancer.

He was the husband of Deborah Jean (Bertrand) (Lapointe) Gower. He was the former husband of Diana (Airey) (Gower) Pierce of Attleboro.

Born in Springfield, MA, he was the son of Ruth Gower of Attleboro, MA and the late Stanley 'Mel' Gower. He resided in Pascoag for past three years, previously residing in Cumberland, and Attleboro.

He was a graduate of Attleboro High School, Class of 1962, and also attended Amherst College, Class of 1966, and graduated from New England College, Henniker, NH, Class of 1968. Larry was most recently a Property Manager overseeing several rentral properties in Cumberland and Pawtucket, retiring in 2007. He was previously employed by Lyons Advertising Company, and the former Wells Manufacturing Company. He also was the Owner of the former American Studios in North Attleboro. He was a member of the Army National Guard, 211th Artillery, serving during the Vietnam War. He was awarded a National Defense Service Medal, Good Conduct Medal, and Sharpshooter Commendations.

He was a Communicant of St. John Vianney Church, Cumberland, where he was a part of the music ministry program for many years. He was actively involved in the music ministry programs at St. Joseph Church, Pawtucket, and St. Joseph Church, Pascoag. He was involved in Kaleidoscope Theatre for many years. He was also a corporate member of the Battleship Massachusetts.

Besides his beloved wife, he leaves four sons, Adam C. Gower, and his wife Wendy of North Attleboro; Jason F. Gower, and his wife Siobhan of Oaklahoma City, OK, Raymond R. Lapointe of Cumberland, David B. Lapointe of Pascoag; two daughters, Christine D. Bataille, and husband Olivier of Montreal, Canada, Amanda R Jackson of Harrisville; two sisters, Barbara Dykas of Seekonk, and Marjorie Marot, and her husband James of Lakeville, MA. He also leaves six grandchildren, as well as several nieces and nephews.

His funeral with military honors will be held Thursday, October 23, 2008, at 8AM from the J. J. Duffy Funeral Home, 757 Mendon Rd., Rt. 122, Cumberland. Mass of Christian Burial at 9 AM in the St. John Vianney Church, Cumberland. Burial will follow in the Woodlawn Cemetery, Attleboro. Relatives and friends are kindly invited. Calling Hours will be held 4-8 PM, Wednesday, October 22. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Home and Hospice Care of RI, 169 George Street Pawtucket, RI 02860. Directions/Guestbook: jjduffyfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 21, 2008.

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Domenic Cotoia

October 24, 2008

I worked with Larry in the 80's & early 90's at Inland Cable in Attleboro. I always like him because he was a very friendly & giving person. I also found him to be a very genuine person. My prayers and thoughts are with his family & friends & with his former wife, Dee who was always a good friend. May God Bless him.

Chad Rodenbaugh

October 24, 2008

Hi,Deb it`s Chad Rodenbaugh. I`am sorry i missed the Larrys funeral. I was told about it friday night. Larry was a good man with a big heart. That was the one thing that i saw you two had in common. I will always remember you as a lady with a big heart&strong will.I hope you get through this ok. Sincerly Chad M Rodenbaugh

Eddie St.Hilaire

October 23, 2008

Debbie, I'm so sorry to hear about Larry's passing. I've only known you both for a short time but we've shared a common problem. I remember you telling me about Larry's cancer after Mass at St.Josephs and he's been in my thoughts and prayers. His problems are over but I will continue to pray for him and for you to help you get along without him. I'm still grieving over Dora's passing and I hope it will get easier as time passes for both of us.

Keith Platenik

October 23, 2008

Adam.Jason and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our fondest memory of Larry is when he would sing and play the piano at 62 Post Rd. Our thoughts and prayers are with Larry and all of you.
Sincerely, Keith and Mary Platenik

Don Gillis

October 21, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Brigette Robichaud

October 21, 2008

Debbie and family,

Larry truely fought a courageous fight and now is at rest in heaven! May you find comfort knowing his pain is released and that he is in the care of our lord who will hold him close always. May god's peace now fill your heart knowing that he has arrived and will always be with you!
My heart goes out to you all for your loss. May god bless you!

Sincerely,
Brigette Robichaud(Aimee's,Denis,Elise's) sister

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