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SANTOS, DENISE M. (BOUCHARD), 46, of Crescent Ave., Cranston, passed away Saturday, October 25, 2008 at Philip Hulitar Inpatient Center in Providence surrounded by her loving family. She was the beloved wife for 25 years of Paul Santos.

Born in Cranston, a daughter of the late Donald L. and Marguerite M. 'Rita' (Navarette) Bouchard, she was a lifelong resident of Cranston.

Denise was office manager at James B. Owens Public Insurance Co. retiring due to illness and previously worked at Cranston ARC.

Besides her husband, she was the devoted mother of Paul B. Santos and Justine M. Santos, both of Cranston; loving grandmother of Makayla Marie Maloney; dear mother-in-law of Adam Maloney and dear sister of Donald L. Bouchard, Jr. and his wife Donna of Coventry, David B. Bouchard and his wife Debra, Dennis L. Bouchard and his wife Lisa and Daniel W. Bouchard and his wife Michelle, all of Cranston. She was also the loving aunt to many nieces and nephews.

Funeral from the NARDOLILLO FUNERAL HOME, 1278 Park Ave., Cranston on Wednesday at 9:00 a.m., followed by a Mass of Christian Burial in St. Mary's Church, 1525 Cranston St. Cranston at 10:00 a.m. Burial will be private. VISITING HOURS TUESDAY 4-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to: Home & Hospice Care of RI, 169 George St., Pawtucket, RI 02860. Visit www.nardolillo.com for information and online condolences

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Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 27, 2008.

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Hannah and Carla Spacone

November 16, 2008

Dearest Dennis, We were so sad to hear of your loss. You and your family are in our hearts and our prayers. We wish you strength and love always.

Patricia Giarrusso (Callahan)

November 13, 2008

My sister just informed my of your loss. My deepest sympathy goes out to the Santos and especially the Bouchard Family. I shared some laughs with Denise awhile back about old times with Danny and your family. My heart goes out to all of you. It is hard enough to lose parents, but to also lose a sibling at a young age is unbearable. Try to keep in mind that she is at peace and watching over each one of you. I wish that we were aware of this sooner to attend the ceremonies. Please let Danny know that I am thinking of him and sending my deepest sympathy to him and his family.

Debbie Lemay

November 12, 2008

Dennis,
I just found out about Denise, I am so sorry to hear about your loss.
Denise was a wonderful person. I still smile when I think about us as goofy kids ?
My heart goes out to you and your family with all the losses that you have gone through I know it is hard to go on. You are from a great family and I’m sure that you are all pulling together at this time and where all there for Denise.
We recently had a loss in my family and this was given to me, I hope it helps your family as much as it did mine.

Take care you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Debbie (Callahan) Lemay

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

KELLI OATLEY

November 11, 2008

Dennis,
I was so sad after talking to you yesterday. I can not even begin to imagine the pain that you and your family are going through right now. Stay strong and know that you are in our hearts and prayers.
Love
Kelli & Scott Oatley

Susan Emond

November 3, 2008

Paul Paulie and Justine,
I was away when Jimmy called to tell me of Denise's passing. We are so sorry for your loss. Please let us know if there is anything at all you need.
Alison, Jimmy & Susan

Lori and Claire Ragosta

November 3, 2008

To Dennis and Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your sisters passing, she was a great person. I'll always remember the younger days when we went to school together. With our deepest sympathy.

DEBBIE BULGER

November 3, 2008

My condolences to the Bouchard and Santos families. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Dennis im so sorry to hear about your loss,I just found out, Iwould have been there. Call me if you need anything.

Vinny D'ambra

November 3, 2008

Dear Donald, David, Dennis, Danny, and your families, I just found out about Denise's passing . I regret that I found out too late, I would have liked to have been at the ceremonies to give you all my deepest sympathy and support. I have nothing but fond memories of Denise growing up and whenever we'd run into eachother as adults. I can only remember her smiling face and positive attitude. She will be missed by many, as I'm sure you all know. Your old friend and neighbor,

Karen & Ralph Fisco

November 1, 2008

Dear Dennis, Lisa & Bouchard/Santos Families,

We were so saddened to hear of dear Denise's untimely passing. Please know that we share in your loss and sorrow here in CA. Our heartfelt, deepest sympathy to all of you at this most difficult time. You are in all our thoughts and prayers across the miles. Bless you with strength, courage and peace in the days ahead.

Friendship, Support and Condolences,
Karen & Ralph Fisco

renee lafazia

October 31, 2008

dear paul an family-glad to know denises smile as so many did. deepest sympathy-sincerely yours

sean lanigan

October 31, 2008

May god bless your family at this time of loss.We just returned from vacation and heard the news. We are very sorry for your loss. Your friends and neighbors, Sean and Patricia Lanigan

Diane

October 31, 2008

I went to Hugh B. Bain Jr. High School with Denise. We use to roar with laughter in Mr. Tanzi's math class. She was so much fun to be with. I didn't have that many friends in school but Denise was one of the best. God Bless you all and please know that she made a huge difference in this shy girl's life.

darcy gallagher

October 31, 2008

I'm a little late signing this im sorry please accept my sympathies and prayers ....darcy gallagher (missys sister)

Erick & Daisy Malong

October 30, 2008

To the Santos & Bouchard Families:

We would like to extend our sincere condolences at this difficult time, our thoughts & prayers are with you all. Denise is now at peace & in loving arms. There were many memories that I shared with my dear friend Denise, I will miss her. We all will!

May we all find comfort in the happy memories of Denise. She was a caring & loving human being.

Michael Darezzo

October 30, 2008

Dear Bouchard and Santos Families,

I am sorry to hear of the loss in your family. My deepest condolences. My
thoughts are with you.

Mark Cutler

October 30, 2008

I'm so sorry to hear about my old neighbor and friend Denise. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Such sad news.

The DiPippo's

October 29, 2008

Our condolences to the Bouchard and Santos families. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Donna Roy (Rousseau)

October 29, 2008

to the Santos and Bouchard families:

I am so sorry to hear about Denise's passing. I have many fond memories of me and Elisa coming over and babysitting for Justin and Paulie. My condolences to all of you.

anne angilly

October 29, 2008

Dear Paul, Justine, Paulie, Bouchard and Santos Families,
My sincere sympathy on the loss of your treasured Denise.
Denise loved her family and was a wonderful daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and friend She was artistic, generous, free spirited, and had a generous laugh, a terricic dry sense of humor, and a true zest for life. She was a woman of tremendous courage.

No Christmas Eve was complete without Denise’s pesto, and her stuffed artichokes could not be duplicated.
"The eyes are the mirror of the soul“
Denise's eyes said everything about Denise. She had a beautiful soul and can finally rest in peace. I will miss you Denise. Love, Anne

Sue and John Aucoin

October 28, 2008

Paul, We are so sad to hear that Denise has passed. She was always the life of the party, always had a great outlook, and that laugh! Always remember those good times

Andy Beaulieu

October 28, 2008

Kath and I have been praying for a miracle this past year. God always answers the prayers of the faithful. (Not always the way we want)His purpose for Denise on this earth is done. As a man of faith, you can find joy in this time of sadness. Joy, knowing Denise's suffering is over and she is Home. Joy, having had her with you for 46 years. Our deepest condolences to you and your families. God Bless, Andy & Kath

Joanna Furtado

October 28, 2008

Dear Dennis and family -
Please accept our sincerest condolences for the loss of Denise. May your memories bring you comfort. She, and all of you, will be in our prayers.
Love,
Matt and Joanna Furtado

Joan and Bear

October 28, 2008

Dave and I are saddened by the loss of our friend. We have known Denise since she and Paul were married. Our hearts go out to Paul and Justine and Paul. Let us know if there is anything we can do. Joan and Bear.

Bill Nolan Jr

October 28, 2008

To My dearest cousin Denise, Thank you for all the memories you have given me. Your fight was courageous and May you now rest now in eternal peace.

Philomena Robinson-Morris

October 28, 2008

Paul, Justine, & Paulie,
While working with Denise @ CranstonArc, my memories are of her great smile and always being ready to assist the people she cared for. I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Keeping you in my prayers.

Gene L'Etoile

October 28, 2008

Dennis-
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart felt sympathy and prayers are with you. Considered yourself hugged by your fat Italian Frenchman friend on the Cape

God Bless
Geno

Geno

Gail Scognamiglio

October 28, 2008

Dennis,
Sabino and I send our sympathy to you and your whole family. I remember Denise in high school, her sence of humor and she always had that great smile. So sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you all.

Stephen & Beth Romano

October 28, 2008

Dear Dennis & family,

May your many, wonderful memories sustain you during this difficult time. Our deepest sympathies and sincerest condolences...

Gary Santos

October 27, 2008

Dear brother Paul, niece Justine and nephew Paul,
There are no words that I could possibly express that would make things easier for any of you or for the many people who loved and continue to love Denise so dearly. Denise is as cool as a sister-in-law can get…. I am blessed to have known Denise for so many years both as a friend and relative. Denise always projected fun, laughter and love (I think that says it all). I hope that all of the many people who share this grief will take comfort in knowing that she will continue to shine-on by way of our memories and her most beloved legacy…. her children, grand children and all that follows. My deepest sympathy to all. Gary Santos

Tracy Wasilewski

October 27, 2008

To both the Bouchard and Santos families,
I am very sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Tracy Wasilewski (Bianco)

Sherry Coppotelli

October 27, 2008

Dan, Michelle & The entire Bouchard and Santos Families,
Please accept my deepest sympathy for your loss. I hope that God provides you with the strength you need to get through this difficult time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Bob Myron

October 27, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Bouchard and Santos family.
I was saddened to hear the news. It's been a long time since I saw Denise but I will always remember growing up with her and all her brothers. My sympathies to all.

October 27, 2008

Dear Paul, Justine and Paulie,
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time. Know that Denise is at peace in the Loving Arms of our Father.
Loving thoughts, Sue Tremblay

Janice Lennon

October 27, 2008

To the Bouchard family, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Your friends and neighbor,
The Lennons

Alaina & Joe

October 27, 2008

~Thinking of you
xoxo
Alaina & Joe

Lori Chartier

October 27, 2008

Dear Dennis & Family, Bob & I our so deeply sorry for your great sorrow. Dennis, when ever you would speak of Denise I could feel the love you had for her and the deep sadness you felt because of her illness. May you & your family find comfort and peace in the days to come.
Neighbors, Lori, Bob and Jacob

Carol (Mikaelian) Schlink

October 27, 2008

Dear Dennis, Debbie, Don and family:
I am so sorry for the loss of your dear sister.

Barbara Tellier

October 27, 2008

Paul,

You and Denise have both been in my prayers for some time now. I am soo sorry for your loss.

Christine Zych

October 27, 2008

Dear Danny & Family,

My deepest sympathy to you and your family. My prayers are with you at this difficult time. Your sister will always be in your Heart and she will watch over you. Christine Zych

Denise Gierszon-King

October 27, 2008

Dear Bouchard Family,
Wishing you peace and comfort at this time of sorrow.
Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
With deepest sympathy,
Denise Gierszon-King & Family

Jack O'Keefe

October 27, 2008

To the entire family, our deepest sympathies. Dennis, you are in our prayers. Jack and Judy

Lisa Donnelly

October 27, 2008

Dan & Family
My thougths and prayers are with you at this sorrowful time. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories with your sister.Our Deepest Sympathy to you& your family. May GOD BLESS YOU ALL and please know that your in our prayers always.Deepest Sympathy. Love to you all.Terry,Lisa and Marissa Callahan

Stephanie Ogden

October 27, 2008

Dear Bouchard Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Denise will be missed her smile could brighten any room even when she wasn't feeling so good. I admire the fight she had for this illness. Denise will never be forgotten and always in our hearts.

Paulie, Paul JR., Justine she is an angel that will watch over you all forever.

Stephanie (Nail Tech)
&
Harry

David Reo

October 27, 2008

My deepest condolences to the Bouchard and Santos Families. I have wonderful memories of Denise and the enitire Bouchard Family sitting around the dinner table laughing.
Denise had a wonderful sense of humor. She was a warm loving person. I am deeply sorry for your loss.

Dave & Sue Rathbun

October 27, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Nancy (Parrella) Crosby

October 27, 2008

Saying I'm sorry doesn't seem adequate to express my feelings at Denise's passing. When I think of Denise, I think LIFE!. So full of life and love. She was blessed with wonderful parents, four brothers and a happy marriage and children. She lived her life, and we can learn from her example. Take comfort knowing she is at peace and well taken care of in heaven.

Lisa Pepin

October 27, 2008

To Dan and family,

Please know my heart goes out to you in this very sad time and pray that God fills you with his strength to endure.

Dennis L Bouchard

October 27, 2008

Denise (Wombie 1):

You fought this battle bravely, with grace and dignity as always. I will miss you deeply. You will always be in my heart, and always be a piece of me. We came into this world together, and I was honored to be by your side when you left this world. Rest in peace my angel.

To Paul, Justine, and Paulie, you have my deepest sympathy and eternal love.

All my love always,

Dennis (Wombie 2)

The Players

October 27, 2008

Know that the whole family is in our thoughts.
Fondly, The Players

Deborah Galasso

October 27, 2008

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.

anthony grieco

October 27, 2008

my deepest condolance

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