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Debra Barnabe Obituary
A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, November 1st at 1:00 p.m. in The Butterfield Chapel, 500 Pontiac Avenue, Cranston. In lieu of flowers, the Family asks that donations be made to the American Cancer Society.
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Memories and Condolences
for Debra Barnabe
Jenn
September 1, 2025
Mom, we're coming on 17 years and my heart aches the same as it did then. You were my rock, my best friend, and always there for me. It was always us against the world. I keep trying to reach the stars to make you proud. Love you always. 143 FAAD
Richard
March 20, 2024
Deb,
I miss you dearly and our special times together. I pray for you frequently, please pray for me also. Rest in Everlasting Peace.
Richard
dawn pari
March 6, 2021
mom. I think of you all the time and my heart does not heal for time lost. I have amazing girls who have amazing families carrying on the legacy. I miss you so much , I cry for you and for what should have been.....all the time
Jenn Rose
September 15, 2009
Mom: One year ago tomorrow you and I were sitting in your Doctors office and were told the awful news. I cannot believe how fast you were taken from us. There was still so much for us to do. You are missed dearly and not a day goes by that you are not thought of.
Love you,
Jenn
Pastor Mike
April 17, 2009
Nancy I was looking at my website and Remembered a message ,I truly Wanted to convey...A message as you celebrate your Birthday.and the pain that Physically Deb wasn't there to do it with you...please copy and paste this link in the top browser and Remember Don't Give up You Still Have Friends like Me and so many others ..and Deb was and still is with us..as we will always remember as she wlks with us in spirit each day we remember her..
Bless you in Jesus Name.Amen
Pastor Michael J. Turcotte
http://www.motionbox.com/videos/ee9adbb41f10ec64?type=sd
Nancy Mulcahey
April 13, 2009
My Dear Sister Deb
It has been six Long Months
Easter has come and gone. This will be my first Birthday without a card from you.
I miss your friendship every single day.
Love,
Nancy
Norm Moreau
April 13, 2009
Easter is here reminding us of your resurection Jesus and that you hold the keys to Death and the Grave Thank God you accomplished this so that we know for sure we will see Deb again See you soon Deb In Jesus Name..Amen
Jenn Rose
April 12, 2009
They say that time heals all...I can't even begin to explain how untrue that is. I miss you more and more as so many things in life change and I can't share them with you.
patricia gurrieri
December 8, 2008
Hi Nancy,
It was great to hear from you. I tried to reply, but it kept being returned "undeliverable".
Take care, your in my thoughts and prayers.....
~Pat
richard lafontaine
December 8, 2008
Deb, I miss you more than ever!
Richard
Jenn Rose
December 5, 2008
Happy 57th Birthday Mom. I hope the angels and your loved ones in heaven that are beside you are helping you celebrate this day. You are greatly missed. Love you! Jenn
Nancy Mulcahey
November 27, 2008
One month
A holiday
A birthday
How I miss you so
Nancy
Charlene Harris
November 26, 2008
O Lord, my God! Assist Thy loved ones to be firm in Thy Faith, to walk in Thy ways, to be steadfast in Thy Cause. Give them Thy grace to withstand the onslaught of self & passion, to follow the light of divine guidance. Thou art the Powerful, the Gracious, the Self-Subsisting, the Bestower, the Compassionate, the Almighty, the All-Bountiful. ~Àbdu´l-Bahá
Jenn Rose
November 25, 2008
It's been one month since you've been gone and yet it still hurts like yesterday. Time was just too short with how much you had to offer this world. I miss you dearly mom and am trying to get by on all the good memories.
Lucille and Rob Ford
November 25, 2008
Nancy and Family,
I was so sadden to hear the news of Deb's passing. I am still in shock. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Although you will miss her terribly Deb is in a better place with our Lord now.
Linda Ciolfi
November 23, 2008
I just learned of Deb's passing. Deb cared for my mom while she lived at St. Joseph's Living Center and I will always be grateful for the kind and compassionate care she offered. I know she will be missed by all the families who lives see touched. My sincere sympathy to all her family and friends.
Mary Goding
November 20, 2008
For Deb's family and her beloved dog, I was deeply sadden when I heard of her death. Deb was special and I knew as a RN, I worked with her @ BH and can only say how I will always remember as a kind ,caring and loving person. It was pleasure to know her.
Chris Soulard
November 7, 2008
Nancy ~ Love the photo album...I didn't realize it was there! Thanks for pointing that out.
What a beautiful tribute to Deb ~ her service, video of her life, and the photo album, as well as a testament to how much she will be missed. God Bless! Chris
Nancy Mulcahey
November 6, 2008
I PERSONALLY WOULD LOVE TO THANK THE HOLY SPIRIT FOR KEEPING THIS GUEST BOOK MAINTAINED UNTIL NOVEMBER 28,2009.
ALSO MAKE SURE YOU LOOK AT DEB'S PHOTO ALBUM, FOR THOSE WHO HAVE NOT YET.
I MISS MY SISTER SO MUCH.
THANKS FOR ALL THE CARDS, FLOWERS, PRAYER SERVICES...GIFT BASKETS....AND ESPECIALLY YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT.
NANCY MULCAHEY
Dawn Pari (Barnabe)
November 5, 2008
To the Family, What a beautiful service and video displaying all the wonderful times you had as a family. i did not have a close relationship on earth with Deb but look forward to seeing her once again and having that chance. She is with the lord, playing with the angels and that brings peace. if there is anything i can do please do not hesitate to contact me.
Dawn & Family
November 3, 2008
I remember Deb when she was a student at St. Joseph School of Nursing and how hard she worked to get through the program. We were saddened by the news of her death. Our sincerest condolences to her family.
Carol Ross
Acting Director
St. Joseph School of Nursing
Charlene Harris
November 3, 2008
Family & Friends,
I'd like to share just how grateful I am to all those in attendance of Deb's memorial. It was an honor to share in the love & compassion for the bright & mighty woman we all knew her to be. How splendid to witness these attributes reflect from the souls closest to her; Sisters, children, nephews, nieces, cousins & friends!
Yes, I have missed my companion of youth. My consolation is this:
"... separation is temporal; this remoteness & sorrow is counted only by days. ... Physical companionship is ephemeral, but heavenly association is eternal & never ending union, thou wilt be comforted & blissful."
"... and there she will be informed of the secret of truth; how much more will she recognize..."
"... a love that one may have entertained for any one will not be forgotten in the world of the Kingdom. Likewise, thou wilt not forget (there) the life that thou hast had in the material world." ............ Baháí Teachings.
Love to All, Charlene (cousin & friend)
Gary & Paulette (Coutu) Larocque
November 3, 2008
So saddened by the loss of Deb. Even though we weren't in close touch, it's apparent that she touched many people. Nancy & Jen, you did a wonderful thing taking care of her and providing her with a moving tribute on Saturday.
Paulette & Gary Larocque
November 3, 2008
So saddened by the loss of Deb. Even though we weren't in close touch, it's apparent that she touched many people. Nancy & Jen, you did a wonderful thing taking care of her and providing her with a moving tribute on Saturday.
Deborah Boory
November 3, 2008
Dear Jenn,
I am so sorry to hear about your mom. Deb was my friend from St.Joe's Living Center and I met you during the New York trip. I am sorry to have missed out on her services. We were out of the country and just returned today to realize that Deb was gone. Please accept my condolences. Your mom loved you and always talked about you and Ed.
Richard Lafontaine, MT
November 2, 2008
Jen n Ed,
With Deep Sympathy to both of you, I hope that cotinued connection among us will keep Deb
alive!
Love,
Richard
Richard Lafontaine, MT
November 2, 2008
Deb, saying goodbye to you yesterday was one of the most difficult things in my life, part of me has left this earth with you!
It made me so happy to see your family, friends and co-workrs there to honor your life and memory.
Always, Richard
JIM Mulcahey
November 2, 2008
JEN&ED
I'M SO SORRY FOR OUR LOSS,SHE IS THE BEST SISTER-INLAW A PERSON COULD ASK FOR AND I WILL TRUELY MISS HER, SHE ALSO WAS A GREAT FRIEND LOVE ALWAYS
Nancy Mulcahey
November 2, 2008
To All,
My sister was sure proud of the beautiful Tribute and turnout of her friends and family yesterday. There was a big void there tho, as she was not there in person.
My life will never be the same without her.
Thanks for all the support.
Nancy and family
BIG MIKE TURCOTTE
November 2, 2008
want a getaway trip when things settle down ,to compose yourself and rethink, what matters in life, and what a precious opportunty we really have to live it! and what it means ..when you only have one on this earth???
Jenn Rose
November 2, 2008
Thank you to everyone that has signed this guestbook and/or attended the service for my mother yesterday. The turnout was amazing and another tribute to the woman she was. Her death has left a void in so many lives. Thank you for sharing stories, laughs and tears with us.
Kate & Keith Jackson
November 2, 2008
Dear Nancy & family,
No one truly understands the loss that you feel, the sadness that you are going through...and yet, warm thoughts are reaching out in hopes that you know the strength and comfort that this wishes you.
Susan Hinton
November 1, 2008
Dear Nancy,
I am so sorry for your loss. If you and Jim need anything, you know I am just a hello away.
LINDA HADLEY
November 1, 2008
Nancy
I'm so very sorry for your loss of your wonderful sister-My thoughts and prayers are with you daily-
Linda hADLEY
Anne Marie Seebeck
November 1, 2008
Jennifer and Family, I am so very saddened at the loss of your Mom and my dear friend !! We shared many many happy times together ! She is forever in my heart !!! I asked God for her to be my guardian angel !! My only regret is we didn't get a chance to talk !!! !! Love to you all !!!
Barbara Bonin
November 1, 2008
Joanne: I am so sorry for the loss of Debra. Although you weren't very close, I know the pain is still there. May you find comfort in knowing that she is at peace now. It is times like these that remind us how short life really is and shouldn't be taken for granted. If you need anything Jo call me. You and your family are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
Love, Barbara
Lisa, Steven & Sam Wojes
November 1, 2008
Nancy ~
We are so sad for your loss.
We know how close you and Deb were. Remember all the the times you have shared together, they will help you everyday.
We love love you lots!
paul melia
October 31, 2008
Hi Jen
Paul & Ron Melia - Sorry for your loss.
Life goes on.
Our Best to all.
Paul & Ron
Jackson Johnson
October 31, 2008
Dear Mom and Jenn,
My deepest sympathies for your loss. Her laughs contagious, her sarcasm hilarious, and her love for Scruffy incomparable. I know she loved both of you just as much, and I would venture to say perhaps even more! I will miss her visits to Boston and our dinners together at only the finest steakhouses in New England. You and Deb are in my prayers.
With love,
Jackson
Jeff Christo
October 31, 2008
From your friends at the United States Marshals Service. We are very sorry for your loss and we are here if you need us.
EVELYN MCNULTY
October 31, 2008
TO THE FAMILY OF Debra A. (Geoffroy) Barnabe
The amount you miss someone
is not measured
by the number of days
gone by.
It is measured by
the love
that is bestilled
within the heart...
MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL
Janet Bourgeois
October 31, 2008
Joanne, My Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this diffcult time. Please know I am here for you. My heart goes out to you and in the days ahead.
Blessings, Janet Bourgeois
Tom & Beth Rezendes
October 31, 2008
To: Jenn, Ed & the Barnabe/Geoffroy family
We are very sorry for your loss and hope that good memories of Debra help you through this difficult time.
Rose Valentim
October 31, 2008
Nancy and family
What moves through us is a silence, a quiet sadness, a longing for one more day, one more word, one more touch, we may not understand why you left this earth so soon, or why you left before we were ready to say good-bye, but little by little, we begin to remember not just that you died, but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget
May all the wonderful memories you have help to get you through this very difficult time.
With our deepest sympathy and love.
Rose and family
Eva Morrison
October 31, 2008
Joanne,
I am sorry for the loss of your sister Debra. You and your family have endured a lot of pain over the past year. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your entire family. If you need anything, I am a phone call away.
richard lafonaine
October 31, 2008
My life will never be the same without you Deb, miss you so much, lots of huggs n love to you up above.
Richard
Trish & Jim Dillon
October 31, 2008
Dear Nancy & Family,
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel with the loss of your sister Deb. May the comfort of God, family and friends help you during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.............always.
Love, Trish & Jim
Kathy Paradis
October 31, 2008
Joanne,
We are thinking of you during this difficult time. Please know we are here for you. Our sympathy to your parents.
Love, Kathy and Ray
Patricia Gurrieri
October 30, 2008
Nancy .....
I am so sorry for your loss. I was reading the Sun Chronicle online , like I often do and the name jumped out at me. I was shocked to read of the loss of your brother last year as well, I had no idea what you have been going through.
I cannot imagine the pain you are in, and although we have lost touch over the years, you have never been far from my thoughts.
You and I have seen each other through so many difficult periods in our lives, I will never forget that.
Please know you are in my thoughts, my prayers, and forever in my heart.
I miss you, and always will.
Love, Pat
(Collins-Couturier)
Mom, Nancy, Robin & Dad
October 30, 2008
Jenn & Jackson...Love ya
October 30, 2008
Deb 2007
October 30, 2008
Auntie Deb and Jackson 2007
October 30, 2008
DEB & FRIENDS, CONNIE AND CHRIS
October 30, 2008
CHRISTMAS 2007
October 30, 2008
Paige Geoffroy
October 30, 2008
To the Geoffroy family,
I can only imagine the grieving you must be going through at this time with the loss of Debra and not even one year ago, the loss of Gary. Time will heal. They are both in a better place, at peace, with no more pain and suffering. My deepest sympathy is with you all.
Michael Turcotte
October 30, 2008
Did you know that an eagle knows when a storm is approaching long
before it breaks?
The eagle will fly to some high spot and wait for the winds to come.
When the storm hits, it sets its wings so that the wind will pick it
up and lift it above the storm. While the storm rages below, the
eagle is soaring above it.
The eagle does not escape the storm. It simply uses the storm to lift
it higher. It rises on the winds that bring the storm.
When the storms of life come upon us - and all of us will experience
them - we can rise above them by setting our minds and our belief
toward God. The storms do not have to overcome us. We can allow God's
power to lift us above them.
God enables us to ride the winds of the storm that bring sickness,
tragedy, failure and disappointment in our lives. We can soar above
the storm.
Remember, it is not the burdens of life that weigh us down, it is how
we handle them. Pastor Michael J. Turcotte
Frank Crowley
October 29, 2008
To Deb's family, I wanted to take this opportunity to express my sincere sympathy for the loss of your daughter, mother, and friend. I was fortunate to have the opportunity to work with Deb for almost 3 years. She was a gifted nurse, a warm and loving human beingI've asked my Mama, a beauty herself to give her the grand tour; her stuggle and pain are over. To the parents, Children and Scruffy, God bless you all for allowing all of us to have known and loved her; I'll never forget her. Sincerely with my Love . Frank Crowley R.N.; MPH; her friend.
Joyce Bourque
October 29, 2008
Jenn, Ed and Nick
Our family sends our deepest sympathy over your loss. Your mom is proud of you Jenn! She is no longer in pain and will watch over your family. Remember if you need anything we are all here for all of you. Love, Joyce, Dick, RJ, Ben, Charlena and Amanda
susan wilcox
October 29, 2008
To the family of Debbie-I am the sister of the late Nancy Letourneau-I knew Deb through her...They were good friends and shared many fun times together....I would like to think that maybe they are having a get together right now...bless you all
Judy Audette
October 29, 2008
Jen and family, My heart aches for you. I am glad you had so many special times and trips with her. I worked with her and know what a special person she was. You all will be in my prayers. Hugs
Brittany Cabral
October 29, 2008
hm.. really haven't talked to any of you in a long time. but i am sorry for your loss. sucks to lose someone your close too, hope you all will be ok.
well just wanted to be a darling and let you all know you are in my thoughts.
<3Brittany (Dawn's daughter)
Kelly Soucy
October 29, 2008
Jenn & Ed
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your lost. Your mom was a wonderful person.
Lots of Love
Kelly Soucy & family
Tonichia Tavares
October 29, 2008
Dawn,
so sorry to hear of the loss of your mother. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Robin Hood
October 29, 2008
Nancy,
We just want you to know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Your sister was the best. Remember the yard sale when we had so many laughs. Will miss you always Deb...
Love, Robin Hood & Ricky Ritchotte
Nancy Parker Gomes
October 29, 2008
Joanne,
I will be thinking of you through these trying times. I hope you have some comfort in knowing that friends are right by your side in thought and prayer.
Sincerely,
Nancy Parker Gomes
Christyne Nelson
October 29, 2008
Dear Nancy & Family,
Your family has been through so much tragedy lately. I hope you are comforted by knowing your sister is no longer in pain and safe in God's hands. God bless you all.
Alexander, Danielle, Christian & Nicholas Elliott
October 29, 2008
Jen, Ed, Mom, Grandma and Grandpa:
We are all saddened by the loss of such a wonderful woman. We share in your grief and send all of our love. Our hearts and tears are with you all.
Christine Soulard
October 29, 2008
Jennifer & Family ~ my deepest condolences on the loss of your mom. She was a wonderful soul, and I was blessed to know her. May many happy memories comfort you during this difficult time. God bless.
Chris (& Estelle) Soulard
Christine Soulard
October 29, 2008
Nancy & Family ~ My deepest sympathies on the loss of Deb. She will be missed. It was wonderful knowing her. She always made me smile and I'll remember her fondly. May you find peace and solace in the Lord during this difficult time.
Love; Chris (& Estelle) Soulard
CONNIE JOHNSON
October 29, 2008
JEN & ED
MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU & ED.
I WILL MISS DEB..SHE WAS A GREAT FRIEND TO ME.
WE TRAVELED & HAD GREAT TIMES TOGETHER
I THANK NANCY FOR INTRODUCING HER TO ME....
I AM A BETTER PERSON FOR MEETING HER
LOVE,
CONNIE JOHNSON
Michael Turcotte
October 29, 2008
PSALM 23: 1The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want.
2He marketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.
3He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.
5Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
6Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the LORD for ever. Amen
Nancy & Deb
October 29, 2008
Brenda Walsh
October 29, 2008
Jen I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. If I can do anything, please let me know.
Claire Barwick (Soulard)
October 29, 2008
Nancy & Family,
Words can't express my deepest sympathy for you. I know the heartbreak of loosing someone too soon. We will keep you in our hearts and prayers, that God will help you through this and He will gather Deb to Him with great love. For now, try to remember she is no longer in pain.
All our love,
Claire & Family
Norman Moreau
October 29, 2008
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jennifer Rose
October 29, 2008
I miss you so much already mom. I thank GOD we were able to share in the trips and memories we did. I hope I was able to follow your wishes and protect you from pain. Thank you for everything you sacrificed for me.Ihope I made you proud and will continue to try as I know you are watching over me. Love you!!
Nancy Mulcahey
October 29, 2008
Jenn & Ed
Wish we could all wake from this nightmare. Deb was the best sister I could have ever dreamed for and the best Aunt to my Son's. May knowing how loved she is help you through your grief. I know it is helping me. We must treasure our memories. Our lives will have a terrible void and will not be the same anymore. We will see her again along with Gary.
All My Love Jenn,
Auntie Nancy
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