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Joan Coale "Joanie" Henderson

Joan Henderson Obituary

HENDERSON, JOAN COALE 'JOANIE', 80, passed away suddenly on November 9th, 2008. Predeceased by her late husband, David Sr. in 1990 and her son Jonathan in April 2008.

Joan is survived by her children, David Henderson, Jr., Susan (Henderson) Tyler, Jeffrey Henderson, and six grandchildren. Joan will be greatly missed by many other close friends and extended families. Joan was born on August 16, 1928, in Towson, Maryland. She was the youngest daughter of Francis and Edmund Starr Coale. Married in 1951, Joan was the loving wife of David E. Henderson, a very successful television broadcast executive and former CEO of Outlet Broadcasting Company. That 40 year broadcast career saw the Henderson family make numerous moves from television market to television market as David climbed the corporate ladder - from Philadelphia, PA to Westfield, NJ, to Wellesley, MA, to Berwyn, PA, to Ruxton, MD, to Oyster Bay Cove, NY, and finally to East Greenwich, RI in 1973. With every move Joan designed, built and decorated brand new homes for her family, making sure to keep similar designs so her children would feel at home.

Joan was a pioneering broadcaster and talented actress in her own right. Her television career started on a live variety show on WMAR-TV in Baltimore in 1949. In 1951, while working on another live television show on WFIL-TV in Philadelphia, she met and married a young television director, David Henderson. Throughout the 1950's Joan worked on numerous live television shows and with some very soon to be famous television personalities. She worked with Ed McMahon, who went on to the Johnny Carson Show, Jim McKay, who went on to become an ABC Sports legend, and Dick Clark of American Bandstand legend. Joan appeared in live TV commercials on Dick Clark's American Bandstand in the mid 1950's. In 1956, Joan went into labor with her first child, David Jr., while on live television!

The next 20 years saw Joan raising 4 children, making 6 moves, designing 6 homes and doing lots of local community theater. Then in the late 1970's Joan returned to television as co-host of the first PM Magazine Show with Charlie Jefferies on WJAR-TV in Providence. In the early 1980's Joan went on to be Entertainment Reporter for WLNE-TV, Rhode Island Channel 6.

Joan tragically and unexpectedly lost her husband David in 1990 just 3 days after a family Christmas. From the mid 1990's on Joan enjoyed life as a loving grandmother to David III, Coale, Weller, Sophie, Phoebe, and Paige, to whom she was known as 'Noanie'. She also had a devoted companion during these years, William F. Buckley, of Wakefield, RI, who became an important part of her life and family. Joan was also blessed with the incredible care given to her over the years by Wanda Bonacore of Carolina, RI. She too, has become a part of Joan's family.

In April of this year, Joan lost her 2nd son Jonathan after a 9-year courageous battle with cancer. This past summer, Joan celebrated her 80th birthday with a wonderful weekend with all her family and a lovely party with her closest friends at the Dunes Club, where she has been a member for over 30 years. She made a heartfelt and very inspirational speech about her loving son Jonathan and his amazing cancer battle. It was by far her finest hour!

Joan will be remembered as a loving wife, a wonderful mother, a loving grandmother, a talented actress, with two amazing television careers and a lifetime of Community Theater. She was a woman of enormous talent and passion with endless energy for love of family and love of life. She will be greatly missed. As her loving husband, David, coined the phrase, she truly was our 'Joanie Only'. A Requiem Eucharist will be celebrated Friday November 21st at 11:00am in St. Luke's Episcopal Church, Peirce St., East Greenwich, RI. Burial will follow at Quidnessett Memorial Cemetery, North Kingstown, RI.

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Published by The Providence Journal from Nov. 16 to Nov. 17, 2008.

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Ron & Sue Clarke

November 27, 2008

Bill, We are so sorry for your loss. Ron and Sue Clarke

Ron & Sue Clarke

November 27, 2008

David, Susan and Jeffery,
We are so saddened by the passing of your mother. She was an extraordinary person and a great friend. We had many happy times together. She often spoke of you all so lovingly. She will be greatly missed. Ron and Sue Clarke

Cathy Struhar

November 21, 2008

Dear Sue , I am so saddened to hear about your mom. She was such a delightful lady. I can clearly hear her laughter when I think of all the wonderful times we shared together. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers at this time.
Cathy ( Kirby) Struhar

Beth (San Souci) Kavanagh

November 20, 2008

Dear Sue and Family:
I was sorry to read of your Mom's passing. May wonderful memories bring you comfort at this difficult time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Valerie Huba

November 19, 2008

I had the pleasure of enjoying time chatting with Joanie while working and working-out at the YMCA. I was never fully aware of all of her accomplishments throughout her lifetime, but it was evident that she was a remarkable woman.
My sincere condolences to the Henderson Family, Bill and Wanda

Jean Kirby

November 18, 2008

Sue & family,
I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. She truly was an incredible lady. Lots of fond memories at the Dunes Club. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Lenore Shannon Gustafson

November 17, 2008

Dear Susan, It has been such a long time. I am so sad to hear about your very lovely mom (and your brother Jonathan). I will never forget meeting her for the first time; she personified the word "style." May you and your children carry her torch long and far.

The Players

November 17, 2008

We are very sorry to hear of Joan's passing. We always enjoyed her acting and directing abilities and being part of our group at "America's Oldest Little Theatre." Sincerest wishes to her family.

Barbara Lees

November 16, 2008

I had the pleasure of being Mrs. Herderson's house keeper for 5 years when she lived in East Greenwich.
She will be greatly missed as she was a wonderful mother and wife. I am also saddened to read of her son Johnathen's death. My heart goes out the her children and grandchildren whom she adored.
Barbara

Marcia McVicker

November 16, 2008

To all the Henderson Family, Bill,and Wanda,
It was surprising to learn of the passage of Joanie. I had seen her the morning before at the Y on the treadmill,which she was so determined always to accomplish four miles every day.I would often tell her I could never keep up with her.
Joanie love life, and lived it to the fullest, being active right to the end.

Please accept my sympathy on her passing.Joan did it her way.She would never be able to accept a long illness where she had to be inactive.
I will miss seeing her at the Y,and ,of course,our little chats.

May she rest in peace.Amen

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