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Marilyn Milner Obituary

MILNER, MARILYN (PEDDER), 64, of Gurnee, IL, passed away December 6, 2008 at Midwest Palliative and Hospice Care Center in Skokie, IL. She was born in Providence, RI, to the late George and Frances Pedder.

She is survived by her husband of 43 and a half years, Robert Milner; her daughters Denise Swynenberg of Liberty Hill, TX, and Elise Carman of Raymore, MO; her grandchildren Andrew and Kathryn Swynenberg and Ian and Kyle Carman; and her brother, Donald Pedder of Freemont, OH.

Marilyn moved to Gurnee in 1985 and worked at the Chicago Medical School, A Safe Place, and Catholic Charities in various administrative positions.

Memorial visitation is scheduled for Dec. 10, 2008 at 6-8 PM Wednesday at Marsh Funeral Home, 305 Cemetery Rd., Gurnee, IL. Interment will be Dec. 13, 2008 at 11:00 AM at Highland Memorial Park, Johnston, RI. In lieu of flowers, please make memorial donations to Midwest Hospice, 2050 Claire Ct., Glenview, IL 60025.

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Published by The Providence Journal on Dec. 12, 2008.

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Gail Shlagor

September 10, 2022

Some of my best memories included Bob and Marilyn Milner, as we were neighbors in Germany. They were so very kind to my husband, Jonathan, and I and their kindness taught us both to always "pay it forward". Denise and Elise were just babies, but were rays of sunshine in our day. The family has made many long lasting memories . I am sorry for your loss.

John & Marion Mulcahey

December 12, 2008

Dear bob,and Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Marilyn was a beautiful person and it was nice that I got to talk to her on line a while back. You all are in out thoughts and prayers and we will be in touch.
Our love to all of you!

Kathy Faust

December 11, 2008

My memories of Marilyn are so warm and wonderful. She always had a smile on her face and listened with care. I loved the little hint of her Rhode Island accent. She was an amazing, kind, and special woman. I am so very sorry for your loss. The world will be a little off kilter for a while, but heaven will be brighter.

Connie Evans

December 10, 2008

Marilyn was a great person to work with at Catholic Charities. She was always very helpful and took the time to listen. I am sorry for your loss. My deepest sympathy and prayers to the family.

norm stead

December 9, 2008

Bob I'm so sorry my thoughts can't express my sympathy.my love to you and your daughters.Kathy and I send our love. will talk to you soon.Norm

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