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Randall Hien Obituary
Born in Woonsocket a son of Jeannine (Bacchi) Hien and the late Charles A. Hien. He lived in Lincoln most of his life.
Mr. Hien was the owner of The Living Room in Providence since 1975 and also Hien's Family Restaurant in Lincoln. He was a communicant of St. Jude Church, Lincoln. Mr. Hien was very active and dedicated to the sport of baseball. He coached Cumberland Farm League for two years, Cumberland Babe Ruth for five years and Lincoln Little League for twenty-eight years. He also coached the Lincoln Parks and Recreation basketball league for two years.
Besides his wife and mother he leaves two daughters Elizabeth A. and Catherine M. Hien at home, three sons Charles L. Hien and his wife Stacy M. of Lincoln, Randall C. Hien, Jr. at home and Jason Gagnon of Lincoln, two step-sons John E. and Kevin S. Greene both at home, one sister Paula Gautieri and her husband John of Cranston, two brothers Brian A. Hien and his wife Vicky of Narragansett and Scott W. Hien and his wife Nancy of Barrington, one grandchild Haley S. Hien and niece Lauren A. Giusti of Florida.
His funeral will be held on Saturday at 10 a.m. in St. Jude Church Front St., Lincoln. Burial will be in St. James Cemetery, Manville. Relatives and friends are invited and may call Friday 2-8 p.m. at the Bellows-Falso Funeral Chapel, 160 River Rd., Lincoln. In lieu of flowers contribution in his memory to any branch of the Bank of America c/o Randall C. Hien, Jr. would be appreciated. For directions and guest book please visit www.legacy.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Randall Hien
Sponsored by Beth "McCarthy" Breinan.
Elizabeth Hyman
September 21, 2020
You are Loved
You are Missed
You are Remembered
Never to be Forgotten
Fred Anzevino Jr.
September 2, 2017
Approaching my 60th B'day tomorrow looking back-i suddenly remembered at one point in my life as a theatre student at RI College I was one of the first mud fighting performers at Randy's (The Living Room) around 1978-He set up a mud rink in the middle of the club and myself and a friend Mary lip synched "You're the one that i want" from Grease performing on top of the bar concluding the number wrestling in the mud...lol..I remember Randy full of fun,energy,humor,and inclusiveness.Sad to read of his passing.Rest in Peace!
Nathan duquette
April 19, 2012
randy, the other day I was in salesville elementary and saw a project done by your son, Randall hanging on the wall. it brought me back to the days of playing for you and seeing his name brought a smile to my face. it's hard not to think about you now and then because of the impact you had on my life. your mannerisms and the way you carried yourself in every aspect can not be put into words, you're one of the greatest people I'll come on contact with. I can't thank you enough for what you did and this is now 8 years later. love and miss you randy. your glow and love for everyone you met shows through every kid you coached, you made every one of us better people than we were before.
Gregory T Rourke
December 2, 2008
Randy wore many hats in my life: father figure, mentor, boss & best friend. He always had a spot for me at any family event, for which I was always grateful. My family lived so far a way. Charlie became like and brother to me and Brian & Scott like uncles. I miss you so much Randy. All the wisdom and life lessons you taught me. I will never forget your warm smile or the pride in your eyes when you called me one of your "good boys" I have a child on the way and I now understand were all you joy came from when you and Patty expanded the Hien family. I will teach my child the lessons you instilled in me: Perseverance, faith, respect, Pride, how to be positive in the most dismal of times, to always follow your dreams no matter how many people are betting against you, never give up, true inner strength and how to win big and maintain a humble smile with a tip or your big brim hat. You always went above and beyond to make others feel welcome and equal, there was a place for everyone at the Living Room all styles and music cultures were welcome. Life ever lasting. Thank you for everything you were always there for me and helped me through one of the toughest times in my life. Much love and respect as always I carry your smile in my heart and soul. Thank you for everything "Music is a mission not a competition." My favorite Randyism. I use to have hair just like yours"
DAVID RUDOLPHO GULIEMI
November 14, 2007
I HAVE BEEN SO LONG IN THE HOLY CITY, ROME..MY OFFICE JUST TOLD ME OF THIS SAD EVENT. I AM CARDINAL RUDOLPHI GULLIEMI FOR THIS EVENT I PRAY FOR A NEW HOLY DAY. I TRY NOW
TO SEE IF CONTACT BE MADE WITH PAULA, BRIAN AND SCOTT..IF YOU READ THIS, PLEASE TELL THEM THE CARDINAL SEEKS CONTACT.
stephen knudde
October 29, 2007
Randy....this Red Sox victory is youurs..if they win it again next year it'll be Charlie's and Parri's. A clerk at the Norwood Stop & Shop got into a short but heavy Sox convo with me last month (Walpole came close to Williamsport this year) and for a sec I thought you had risen...Keep Ted happy and hold open the Doerr for Bobby when his time comes.
stephen knudde
October 29, 2007
Randy....this Red Sox victory is youurs..if they win it again next year it'll be Charlie's and Parri's. A clerk at the Norwood Stop & Shop got into a short but heavy Sox convo with me last month (Walpole came close to Williamsport this year) and for a sec I thought you had risen...Keep Ted happy and hold open the Doerr for Bobby when his time comes.
Beth McCarthy Breinan
October 22, 2007
Randy,
You must be looking down with the biggest smile that the Red Sox are going to the World Series. It had been many years since I had seen you or your family but I think of you often. I hope that their awesome memories are keeping them going and that your children are growing up to be as wonderful as you. Peace!
Marc & Annie St. Martin
October 22, 2007
Randy, We know there was a heavenly influence at Fenway last night. Sox in 7!! Easy on the celebratory brewski's with Mr. O!!! Go Sox!! You're gone but not forgotten. Love, Marc and Annie
Patti Hien
September 25, 2007
It is so hard to believe that it has been one year since you were taken from us. We miss you so much. Your spirit and legacy are very much part of all of us and always will be. How lucky we were to have loved such a wonderful human being. You have made us all better people for having known you. Your good work will live on within all who knew you, especially your family. Thank you to all our friends and relatives who have given us comfort and support. You help give us the courage to go on despite the pain of grief which never leaves.
Love to all,
Patti Hien
brenda johnsen
April 8, 2007
On this Easter morning I wanted to let the Hien family know I am thinking of them. All of them. For not only did we loose Randy we lost Grammie Florence Hien so close together. I know they are both sadly missed but very fondly remembered. Cherish the memories you have of them both and they do live on in our hearts forever. Love to all, Brenda
April 7, 2007
"It's a beautiful day for baseball"
You are greatly missed.Rest In Peace Randy, you mean the world to so many people.
Garen Haddad
October 11, 2006
Charlie, I am thinking about you and praying for peace.
Jeff Condon
October 8, 2006
What a man, what a life, what a loss. It must be true that only the good die young. I met Randy in 1978 as a student at Rhode Island College while working a concert and was immediately struck by his enthusiasm and kindness. For the next 6 years while working the door at the Living Room along with Brian, Scott, Lauren, Charlie and Mrs. Hien and too many others to list, we all became great friends and part of a big family. Randy taught me a great life lesson at that time, which still benefits me to this day. As the person working the door he explained that I would be the first person patrons at "The Room" would meet and would effect the mood of the night. He said "smile, ask the people how they are doing, and tell them to enjoy their evening at The Living Room." We never had a problem with the crowds because of the vibe Randy promoted. This advise has benefitted me for the last 20 years while touring in the music business, selling merchandise to thousands of people. I stopped at The Room a month ago while on tour with the Dixie Chicks and was hoping to see Randy but he wasn't there so I left my number with the bartender. I really wish I had seen or talked to him. I'm very proud to have been a part of that early punk and new wave movement with a class act at a time when other venues projected a less than positive image. To Randy's family, my thoughts and prayers are with you, please accept my deepest sympathies. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help.
Love,
Jeff, Sue, Jake and Sammi Condon
Mary Coppa & Andy Varrecchia
October 4, 2006
your life has been fullfill with the leacy that you left behind, this was felt by all whom attended your mass, and shared the merories of frieds and family who spoke so highly,and dearly of your great zest for life, and the great stories that were shared with every one present at the party at the living room .
October 4, 2006
I'll always remember the "original"L.L. as a rite of passage into a world where I found not only where I belonged;opening the door to ...so many more behind it.
October 4, 2006
I'll always remember the "original"L.L. as a rite of passage into a world where I found not only where I belonged;opening the door to so many wonderful people behind it.
Edie Tavares
October 3, 2006
Mrs Hien and Family,
Our deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss. Over the past week we have learned how special Mr. Hien was and how many lives he touched. May you find some comfort and peace in knowing he is with angels. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy Manny, Edie, Andrew, and Nicholas Tavares
Risa Gilpin
October 3, 2006
I just wanted you to know that Randy will be remembered in our hearts and souls forever. A parent couldn't have asked for a better coach for their son. The son found strength and courage from the guy who taught him about team spirit and the "fundamentals of baseball". Willie said the other day, "Well Mom, at least we know that Randy led a good life - he got to do the things he loved, spend time with his family, be surrounded by music, and enjoy baseball - that's more than most people can say" Randys always positive, upbeat spirit set the tone for leading that good life. How can we ever forget that moment when Lincoln won the district championship for the first time in over 30 years - go team...and on and on from there. THANKS RANDY...you WILL be sorely missed.
all of our love - Risa and Willie Gilpin
John Roche
October 3, 2006
I played for Randy during his early coaching years (Giants/ Tigers). He was always positive and inspirational, the greatest coach anyone could ever have. I will always look back fondly upon those years because of Randy. He was a very special man. My thoughts to Charlie and his family. Always a Tiger.......
Tom (TCULL) Culhane
October 3, 2006
To the Hien family
Whenever I reflect on the old days I smile and recall the fun and many adventures we had while life revolved around the living room. The best memory is telling the stories later and how Randy would do that with enthusiasim,as he did everything. He was an inspiring person that would give anything to help you no questions asked. I will miss you Randy. God Bless. Tom.
Renee Murphy
October 2, 2006
To The Hien's Family,
Randy and I only crossed paths a few times. He always managed to be there when we needed him.
At the car washes I organized, randy was our #1 customer, he brought every car he owned (lots).
Randy was always there because of the good cause.
He was a wonderful person.
At the end of the last car wash he made me laugh, telling the kids not to rub his car to hard cause it would fall apart.
My daughter Elizabeth was there with me, he asked her name and then told her stories about his beautiful little Elizabeth.
He'd tell us stories of about baseball with Michael Monteleone, and with a twinkle in his eye that little league world series.
I regret that I shall never have the chance to be able to sit down with Randy again to have our talk.
He was wonderful!!
God bless Randy and his family, and all those wonderful kids he had the chance to coach.
Ferrante Family
October 2, 2006
I was so devastated when I heard the news about Randy last Monday. Unlike many others, I did not know Randy from the music business or from Little League Baseball. I only knew Randy throughout the past few years. Still, he has made such a positive impact on my life. I have a brother Johnny who is special needs. Patti had Johnny in her classroom her very first year of teaching. Even after Johnny moved on from her classroom, Patti still offered to tutor him during the summers. It was then that we met Randy. He would take Johnny outside after a tutoring session and throw the baseball around with him. When Johnny was a senior in high school last year and was looking for a school-work program, Randy invited Johnny to work at his restaurant a couple days a week. Normally, my family would feel uncomfortable leaving Johnny. However, Randy made us feel so at ease; we all knew that he was in good hands! Johnny loved working at the restaurant and Randy loved having him there. Since Johnny graduated, we had run into Randy on several occasions. He knew Johnny had graduated and time after time told us that Johnny was always welcome to work at the restaurant. Whatever hours he wanted, they were his. This meant so much to my family. He did not offer Johnny the job to make himself look better. He did it out of the true kindness of his heart. This portrays Randy perfectly: Always Thinking of Others. My heart goes out to Patti and the Family. Please know that you are all in our prayers. Randy was truly one of a kind and will be missed dearly. He will forever live on in all our hearts. May he forever rest in peace.
Love,
The Ferrante Family
dulce gomes
October 2, 2006
Our deepest sympathy to the family of Mr. Hien.
My 2 children and I met Mr. Hien at the restaurant on mother's day. He was so friendly and kind.
cinimon (cindy) imondi
October 2, 2006
A legend in the eyes of a time so dear to those of us whom frequented the LIVING ROOM is laid to rest.
RANDY HIEN, a dear and gentle Guru, chanted a message that few outside of the perimeters of little rhodie understand.
I was one of many who strolled my underage(late 70's early 80's) self within the gritty walls behind the “big bubble” to hear the local bands strut their stuff.
He seemed to have a natural insight of understanding to a music scene that called forth those whom required a need to belong.
The name LIVING ROOM ,seemed so appropriate, since Randy created an ambiance that created a world of la familia .
I made life long friends and listened to my Schemers and Neighborhoods on a regular basis .
RANDY changed my life by allowing me to become a part of a scene and a lifestyle that had a strange and loving innocence .
RANDY was our Guide , whom knew how to talk to the masses by example.
I know I was changed the first second I walked in that door and paid my admission.
Randy set the stage for all of us to carry on his warmth and life’s work by being his true self of humanity and generosity.
May we all continue his mission .
Thanks RANDY , I feel privileged to have been in your company.
Safe journey.
Jim Thomson
October 2, 2006
To The Hien/Greene/Gagnon Family,
Our deepest sympathies to you and to everyone Randy touched.
Thank you so very much for all the lessons Randy taught my boys and all the boys he coached (or even coached against) - and it had very little to do with how to hit the outside pitch or which shoulder to catch the ball over (although he was also, exceptional at teaching baseball). He taught, by example, the right way to treat people and helped all the boys be better prepared for life.
He gave to everyone and was never financially rewarded for all he contributed to the game of baseball, however, everyone he knew became a little richer for knowing him.
Sincerely,
Angela, Mark, Eric, & Jim Thomson
October 2, 2006
Mrs. Hien and Family:
Our deepest sympathy to all of you. I had only met Mr. Hien a few times at the restaurant and with me were my two children ages 7 and 5 and he made them feel so welcome there as if it were a place "just for kids". God Bless you! He is now the Angel in heaven picking up were he left off on earth -- he is always with you.
Jeff 'Fej Cabral
October 2, 2006
The way in which Randy conducted himself in every aspect of his life sets an example we can all try to emulate.
God is smiling because when Randy's around, everyone smiles.
The Coppa Family
October 2, 2006
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Steve, Karleen, Mike, Alex + Brandin Tedesco
October 2, 2006
Dear Patti + Family,
We are so sorry about Randy he is in our hearts.
We knew him over 10 years from our sons playing Lincoln Little League.
Even if the boys were on another team Randy still would take the time to give them wonderful advice on the game he loved so much.
My sons said Randy is the best and we agreed.
Hope this will help the family at this time of heart break.
OLD IRISH BLESSING...
May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sunshine warm upon your face.
May the rains fall soft upon your fields, and until we meet again.
May the Lord hold you in the palm of his hand.
Randy is in the arms of angels now watching over all of you.
REST IN PEACE RANDY...
You will be missed so much
Jan Smolan
October 1, 2006
Randy, a beautiful human being! A very, very good person! I will miss you greatly.
anonymous anonymous
October 1, 2006
charlie,i will never forget all the little league practices and all the fun times we had together at the living room with your father.randy always made me laugh and always made me smile. being around you and your father were the best times of my life. i am grateful to have known such a woderful kind person as randy. god be with you.
The Daniels Family
October 1, 2006
To Patti and the extended Hien family,
Our prayers and thoughts are sent to you at this most difficult time. According to this legacy book, Randy has not only touched the lives of us who live in Lincoln but have touched many many lives all over the world. He will be greatly missed.
Gayle, Mike, Ashley, Michael and Amanda Daniels
Dori & Scott Graft
October 1, 2006
To all of the Hien Family -
You have our deepest condolences - He was a wonderful man that will be greatly missed. I've known Randy most of my life but I really got to know him at this last Living Room. My husband and I met there while working at the time and we share so many fond memories there. That place and everyone there will always have a special place in our hearts. Randy was a special character who loved to laugh. He knew everyone and never had a bad word to say about anyone. We were honored to attend such a special funeral for such a special man.
We love all of you very much!!
Anonymous Anonymous
October 1, 2006
Randy is in Heaven because he practiced pedagoguery to the extreme.
October 1, 2006
Patti and Family,
We were sorry and saddened to hear of Randy's death. Although we did not know him well, he had the rare gift of touching a person's life in spite of that fact.
Sincerely,
Sue and Jeff Smith
Steve Knudde
October 1, 2006
To the Hiens...
Sincerest condolences. Randy was a giant in the alt music scene for someone whose own taste gravitated to the Doobie Brothers, and was a true charismatic in general. I'm sure he's sitting in Heaven wearing the giant duckbill teaching Ted Williams how to play guitar. So Randy, how about dem Friars?
Shay DiPina
October 1, 2006
Charlie & Brian,
My deepest condolences to your entire family. Stay strong and may God be with you.
Randy,
Thank you for giving me the opportunity when I asked. I will forever remember the talks we had and the passion you instilled in me on those Sunday nights at the Living Room. I will always miss you!!
Paco and Judi Zimmer1
October 1, 2006
Our sincere condolences to the family. Randy was a gentleman and a gentle man. Gone too soon, too soon.
Gary Chianese
September 30, 2006
Rndy was one of the nicest sot dspoken men I know I sold his home on River Rd for him inthe late 80's he take me around the home and show me pieces of the Living Rm Club Bar right in his home, albuum, music is my second favorite pass time we would spend time talking about the band and how his mom cooked for them all and of course we alos talked about baseball and how much we both loved the game. He was a joy to work for and I would see hom from time to time and as the years go by it's funny now my kids go to hios club his son's runs man time goes fast and is short I will miss Randy and his stories very much never had a chance to try his mom's cooking and he introduced me to his aunt who owned Maplewoods and Lincoln Downs funny my parents bouyght maplewoods and she lived there, yes she would talk about randy for hours . He did a lot for the kids and the music industry and will be missed by all Randy may you enjoy the music all day as you play ball in the big ball park in the sky
Gary C Re/Max
PHILIP MANIAN
September 30, 2006
TO PATTI AND FAMILEY:
I STARTED SEEING RANDY AT THE 2ND LIVING ROOM LOCATION. HOWEVER, I WAS AT THE FIRST LIVING ROOM LOCATION ON WESTMINSTER ST ACROSS FROM THE ORIGINAL LUPO'S HEARTBREAK HOTEL. WHEN ONE BAND HAD INTERMISSION, I WOULD GO ACROSS THE STREET AND SEE THE BAND FROM THE OTHER CLUB. I REMEMBER ONE TIME AT THE PROMENADE ST LOCATION, MAX CREEK AND THE SCHEMERS APPEARED IN THE SAME NIGHT AS A BATTLE-OF-THE-BANDS. THAT WAS NICE AND SWEET.
I WATCHED THE LITTLE LEAGUE WORLD SERIES IN '04, BUT I'VE NEVER SEEN RANDY AND THE TEAM IN PERSON. UPON HIS DEATH, I WILL PICK UP MY APPEARANCES NEXT YEAR AT THE LINCOLN LITTLE LEAGUE. THANKS FOR ALL THE TIMES, RANDY.
Nick and Lisa Zammarelli
September 30, 2006
Patti, Charlie and Family,
My time coaching with Randy is something I always remember. He had the amazing ability to always make each child feel special as he tried to teach them the game he loved so much. He had the patience of a Saint.
Lisa and I will always be grateful for the summer our son spent with him. Nicky did not just grow as a baseball player, he grew as a person.
I will miss the numerous baseball conversations as well as coaching by his side. But mostly, I will miss his friendship.
T Mellen
September 30, 2006
Dear Hien Family, when I was 8 years old my family moved from Woonsocket to Lincoln. We would be moving there in April of that year, but I needed to try out for Little League in March. The only thing I can remember about that cold day was Randy. He had Charlie play catch with me to make sure I had what it took to become a Tiger. Needless to say, I was drafted by Randy. I went on to play four years of Little League for Randy as well as Pony League and Babe Ruth... He also coached my three younger brothers. He was the best coach I have ever had. He always made the game fun... Twenty two years later, he still did. I am a teacher now in Lincoln, and I have had the privilege of teaching some of his players. They all feel the same way I do about the beloved Randy.
Over the years, Randy became more than a coach to me; he became a great friend and a mentor. I will miss him... My prayer now is that God will watch over his family and the Lincoln community will rally around Patti and the children. I want people to give to them, like Randy gave so unselfishly to so many other people. May Christ have mercy on your soul Randy and may he keep a watchful eye on your loved ones.
Love always... TJ, Jason, Joey, and Troy (Tigers for Life!)
PHILIP MANIAN
September 30, 2006
I FIRST EXPERIENCED RANDY AT THE 2ND LIVING ROOM LOCATION ON PROMENADE ST; BUT I ALSO FREQUENTED THE FIRST LIVING ROOM LOCATION ACROSS FROM THE ORIGINAL LUPO'S HEARTBREAK HOTEL. UPON A BAND'S BREAK AT LUPO'S, I WOULD VENTURE ACROSS THE STREET TO EXPERIENCE THAT SCENE, WHICH BACK THEN AROUND 1975 WAS MAINLY PUNK ROCK GROUPS.
I AM SORRY THAT I NEVER SAW ANY LINCOLN BASEBALL GAMES AND RANDY'S STYLE OF COACHING. BUT, NOW UPON HIS PASSING, I WILL TRY TO COME TO SOME GAMES NEXT YEAR. I LIVE CLOSE ENOUGH TO THE LINCOLN FIELD, JUST OVER THE LINE IN N ATTLEBORO (NEAR S ATTLEBORO)
Patricia Palmieri
September 30, 2006
Dear Mrs. Hien,
I grew up watching Randy play little league, himself with his ever-present friend, Leo Raymond. You can imagine my surprise years later when my mother-in-law, Mary Palmieri was telling me all about her friend's son, Randy Hien. She was truly saddened, as am I to read of Randy's accident. I immediately looked into my Lincoln High yearbook to find the kind words he had written to me when he was graduating. He was ALWAYS a special person. You must be so proud. You're in my prayers,
Pat (Noreau) Palmieri
Kristen Jackson
September 30, 2006
To the entire Hien family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of sorrow. My brother had the pleasure of playing for Randy this summer. Ever since he was 10 there was no other team he wanted to be on more than Randy and Charlie's all-star team. If there is anything I can do to help, all you need to do is ask and I will be there. Randy was a great man and will always be remembered.
all my love,
Kristen
no name
September 30, 2006
We sent our condolences to Patti, John, Kevin, Jason, Cathrine, Elizabeth, Randall Jr., and Charlie. This has been the best summer of our family's lives. Randy was a great man and always will be remembered for that.
September 30, 2006
To the Hien Family,
Randy will always be remembered in our community. He was a great man, and he will missed deeply. May God be with you in this difficult time.
Karen Colli and Family
September 30, 2006
Although I didn't personally know Randy, and my family just moved back here last summer, the love this man gave and shared was very evident from those who knew him and whose lives he touched. All I can say is, I can only hope people would feel and say the things they have about Randy when I pass on from this life to the next. It was an inspiration for me to look outside of myself and to look out to how can I make a difference like Randy Hein has. My prayers go out to Patti and her family that God will comfort their hearts and give them strength to deal with such a great loss.
Jane Twombly
September 30, 2006
Patti -
As you know, I never did get to meet your Randy - but there was no way anyone could not see how much you adore him. I am so very sorry that your family must endure this. I can only hope that the amazing outpouring of affection can help you all to get through it. It is very obvious that he was one very cool guy.
Joshua martins
September 30, 2006
Sorry for the loss, randy was always good to me at the living room, even when i first started and couldnt draw anybody he still took chances on me and gave me more gigs, he will be missed
Diane Meloccaro
September 30, 2006
When I worked at the Living Room in the early 80"s, I never thought of Randy so much as my boss as I did a friend that I happened to worked for. He was affable, good natured, and one of the truly nice people I've ever had the priviledge to know and call friend. In providing a place for local musicians to gather and play, he was instrumental in creating the whole Providence music scene, which had a profound effect on so many of our lives! I know it did on mine. the Living Room is where I met all the people who became my life long best friends: if not for Randy and Brian, I would never have even met the people I love the most in this life! Randy was a giver, a man who quietly changed his little corner of the world, and left it a better place than the way he found it. I shall always be indebted to him, and grateful that I had the honor of calling him my friend.
Jon Andrews
September 30, 2006
I met Randy 25 years ago when I started playing baseball for the Tigers. Growing up with Randy as a baseball mentor and great friend was a blessing, he will be missed greatly. He always had a smile and something nice to say. Randy used to say to us "is this awesome or what" well Randy you were awesome. Our thoughts and prayers are with you Patti, Charlie and your families.
Jon and Jaime Andrews and family
thom tenz
September 30, 2006
randy thanx for letting me and my band realize our dream, thanx for giving hector a job. i had the time of my life playing your stage.it something i will NEVER forget. we had a fantastic local music scene in the 80s i dont think it could ever be duplicated again, you were the hub of it all THANX RANDY .to brian and scot and charlie and the whole hien family im sorry for your loss
Sue Labossiere
September 29, 2006
Patti and family,
It saddens our hearts to lose such a special person. Randy was a man who was always full of life. We loved him as a coach, a friend and even a father figure for our boys. We are so lucky to have known such a man. He will always be in our hearts and he will be sadly missed.
Sue, Mike, Josh and Seth
Ken Labrie
September 29, 2006
In the relatively small amount of time my family had the pleasure of knowing Randy, I can't remember one time him not caring for others. Always caring for his family, friends, coaches, and his players. I've never experienced such dedication and I consider it a wonderful gift to have been given the opportunity to know him. My family will miss him and always remember him. Our deepest sympathies goes out to Patti and his family and friends. Our Little League, in fact our community, have very large shoes to fill. I know Randy will be helping us along the way.
Ken, Diane, Ryan, Cameron LaBrie
September 29, 2006
Wendi DeNinno ( Lori Olson's sister)
Nick Speakman( wendi's boyrfriend)
Tom Conti
September 29, 2006
To the entire Hien family:
Deepest sympathies from your Canadian "cousins". We can only imagine what you are all going through and want you to know that our prayers and thoughts are with you. Randy was truly, "one of a kind"
Brittany Strom
September 29, 2006
To Kevin and his family,
People say they’re sorry,
And they mean it from the heart,
But to understand your heartache,
They couldn’t even start,
To have a loss like you have had,
Is too much to understand,
I see it and I feel for you,
But it’s only secondhand,
You’re the ones who are suffering,
And I'm the one who cares,
But if there’s anything I can do,
Call me, I’ll be there.
Love your friend, Brittany Strom
Lincoln Middle School Student
September 29, 2006
Dear Hein/Greene Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Many people loved Randy,and will never be able to forget him. I did not know him personally, but I new one of his step sons (Kevin), his daughter-in-law (Stacy), and his grandchild (Haley). I feel so bad about what happened and I want you to know you have every one of my sympatheys. I wish there was more that I can do, but I can tell you this: He was a great man, and no one can replace him. He was so loved by the town of Lincoln, and all the people he has meet in his lifetime. My condolences are with you, and I will pray for him everytime I walk threw St. Judes doors. Randall C. Hein is unforgetable. And still loved by every person in Lincoln, Woonsocket, and where ever else he has been. God Bless you all.
Donna Tschuta
September 29, 2006
Randy, May you dance among the stars as you have transcended from the physical to the spiritual, watching from a distance the sparks of light that you have sprinkled into the hearts of so many, including me.
Ellen Murphy
September 29, 2006
Randy Hein lived a full life albeit mixed with tragedy. What lives on is the incredible spirit of this unique man. I knew Randy for many years, back in the Living Room days. I will always treasure the memories I have of the exciting,tumultuous and unpredictable local music scene of the late 70's and '80's that Randy helped make possible. Even when things were bad, be it lousy bands, lousy weather or any unseamly circumstances, he knew how to create a great atmosphere with his inate positivity. He was a good friend, a great entrepreneur,and most importantly, a dedicated family man who touched so many people's lives in a positive way. Randy will live on forever, never to be forgotten. God bless you, Randy.
Ellen Sullivan Murphy
September 29, 2006
To Jean Hien and Family..Our lifetime of love, friendship and sympathy is extended to you and your family today and always. Love, Mathew, Joan, Angela and Michael Milas (Lincoln)
September 29, 2006
To Jean Hien and Family..Our lifetime of love, friendship and sympathy is extended to you and your family today and always. Love, Mathew, Joan, Angela and Michael Milas
thom tenz
September 29, 2006
brian & scot ill never forget the time when i got into a fight with john felice from the real kids there drummer alpo broke his hand hitting the wall downstairs in the dressing room. RANDY told both of us john and me that we could never play the living room again. it took a while, we worked it out an john and i are still friends as far as i know. i dont see him much anymore.im gonna miss randy alot, he used come to pma to buy some drvers, hed punch me in the stomache ,and we would talk about the old days he gave my band some great gigs[bad brains] plus he was just great to visit during the day [chiken sandwhiches from across the street]and asteroids, anyways,the light in my heart will be a little bit darker anybody who knew him feels the same
Tom Martin
September 29, 2006
To Patti, Charlie and Family:
Randy was a man who loved all and was also loved by all. He cared about people first and treated eveyone equally and without judgement. He always forgave and taught us all that being able to forgive was the only way to live your life. He always smiled and said he was well no matter how he felt. He always had time to talk. We will miss him.
Tom, Lisa, David, Martin
Nancy Sullivan
September 29, 2006
I am so very sorry to hear about Randy's passing. The Living Room and The Hein Brothers are so much a part of my youth! So many wonderful memories for so many people are held because of Randy! My heartfelt prayers are with the entire family.
Nancy Sullivan
Ed Bielecki
September 29, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Hien Family. Twenty years ago Randy gave me and my bandmates a chance to pursue our dream of making music. Because Randy believed in us, we believed in ourselves. I am grateful that I had the privilege to know and work with Randy.
Richard James
September 29, 2006
Dear Everyone who Loved Randy,
(And I know that is a lot of people!)
I remember; music, peace, a goofy deep laugh that started slow and built up to a belly full, baseball cap on always, counting money at the door sometimes with a grin, sometimes with fear! I remember playing softball against Lupo's, I remember Mrs. Hein's cooking in the dressing room. I remember being told never, NEVER! to hurt even the nastiest person at the club. I remember Serious Brian, bartender Scott and bon vivant Randy. I remember Charlie and Lauren at the club so young they had to climb onto a stool. I remember Randy.
I don't know whether to cry for the loss or celebrate for his life...I think I will celebrate his life. It’s what he would want me to do.
karen grande
September 29, 2006
Dear Patti;
I was shocked and saddened deeply to hear of Randy's passing. He always amazed me....the kind of person who validates all the hard work in life, because he worked so hard and never complained, he loved to give and when life payed him back with good, he praised everyone who contributed and when life seemed to unfairly deliver a blow, he stepped up to the plate and kept swinging. I admired him greatly. Not to mention he was so kind and sensitive to people around him. I got back from him much more than i ever gave, and suspect, this is how it usually was. In my conversations with him he was smart, and funny and cared deeply about his family and his wife; he had a character of genuine goodness, we all should aspire to.
Michele & James Shaw
September 29, 2006
The Hein Family,
Please accept our most sincere condolences. I hope you can find some comfort in this most difficult time. God Bless
Sincerely,
The Shaw Family
Patricia Campellone
September 29, 2006
Patti,
Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family during this difficult time. We've always admired the remarkable strength that you possess and we pray that God will continue to watch over you and the children. We are grateful to have both you and Randy be part of Alex's life. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if we can help in any way.
Pat, Al, Adam & Alex Campellone
September 29, 2006
Our deepest sympathies.
Let the love of all comfort you in this time of sorrow.
Linda Siravo and Steve Saldibar
New Haven,CT
Mikey Power
September 29, 2006
I have known Randy since I was about 5 years old and was going to the Living Room with my father who worked with a lot of local bands. I was quite shocked to hear about Randy's death. My heart and prayers go out to the family and many friends that knew him. He was a great guy, and even that is an understatement.
Beth Piggott
September 29, 2006
Patti and family,
Our deepest condolances go out to you and your family. We had the pleasure of spending this last summer with Randy, it is one we will never forget, my son was so honored to play for him. God bless.
Beth , Sean and Kayla Piggott, and son Cody Phillips.
Michele Mericle
September 29, 2006
Dear Patti, John, Kevin, & Family,
We are so very sorry for your, and the world's, profound loss. We've seen the joy and light that Randy brought into your lives, and even though we've only known him a short time, it was clear that he was just one of those blessedly kind and wonderful persons. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.
With love, Michele, Rich, Robin, Daniel, and Alena
The Haley Family
September 29, 2006
We would like to extend our condolences to Randy’s family, friends, and all the lives he touched during his lifetime.
kevin timperley
September 29, 2006
Charlie and the rest of the Hien family, sorry for your loss, Randy was a great person in many ways.
The Boneheads Fugue
September 29, 2006
Randy thanks for all the memories... we will miss you.
Matt Securo
September 29, 2006
Truly a kind and thoughful person has been lost. I met Mr Hien this past summer in Bristol, RI during the 12yr old Tournament. Every day he was the 1st person to show up, long before his team would. He would come up to the volunteers and compliment us on the efforts to provide the kids with a top rate facility. In the times we spoke together, he was always promoting positives, whether it was in his players, coaches, other league officials, etc. I remember how proud he was of his players and also how much respect received from everyone around him.
Truly he was a great example of being 100% for the kids in youth sports. I just did not know that when I saw him on the field after the Championship was won, that it would be the last.
To Charlie and the remainder of Coach Hien's family, and to all the players who had the privilege to be the focus of his admiration, take comfort in these 2 words, because Coach wouldn't have it any other way...."PLAY BALL"
Thomas Hazard
September 29, 2006
To the Hien Family:
Our deepest most sincere condolences. Randy will be sadly missed.
The Hazard Family
Cheryl McShane
September 28, 2006
Patti and family, we are very sorry for your loss. Randy was a unique individual that touched the lives of many. We feel so fortunate to have known him as an individual and as our son's baseball coach. Randy gave Jordan encouragment on the ball field and words my son will never forget " It's a beautiful day for baseball". Randy will always have a special place in our families heart.
Al and Betty McGlauflin & Dorothy and Bob Scott
September 28, 2006
Jean, we are very sad to learn of your loss of your dear son Randy. We pray that God will guide and support you and your family as you face the days ahead.
Doug Allen
September 28, 2006
Randy helped me coach my son's fall ball team a few years' ago and as I sat next to him on the bench one practice he must have said something about music and it suddenly clicked in my head that he owned the Living Room. And I spent the next 15 minutes telling him of all the great shows I saw at his club in the 80's. And he made me laugh with musician stories. And then we stopped talking and he went out onto the ball field and taught my son how to properly hit. Now we both have Randy stories. It's amazing how many lives he touched by just being himself. He'll be dearly missed.
Dawn Richardson
September 28, 2006
RIP Randy. Thanks for the Living Room, and booking all of our lousy bands. You will be missed.
Colleen Strom
September 28, 2006
To the Hien Family:
I love this poem and thought it might help you in your time of sorrow...
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2006
Donald R. Soucy
September 28, 2006
On behalf of Little League Baseball International, I offer my sincere sympathy and prayers for the entire Hien family.
The East Region Tournament in Bristol, Connecticut will not be the same without Randy. He will be missed.
Jessica Blais
September 28, 2006
Patti
and family, i am very very sorry for your loss of Randy! He was a great
man, when I went with the family and Jason to places, Randy was so
loving and caring. He was a wonderful man who inspired many many lifes.
You have such a strong family, and that will help in the prossess of
grieving. I just wanted to let you and your family know that i am
praying for you's and that Randy inspired my life even though I only
knew him for a couple of months. I am here if you ever need anything,
and dont be afriad to call. Jason I am always going to be here for
you no matter what happens!! Sorry for the loss of Randy!
Jon Dixon
September 28, 2006
Randy was a great happy go lucky guy, with the trade mark Duckbill hat that everyone knew. My deepest condolences to Charlie and the rest of the Hien Family.
Lincoln Middle School Student
September 28, 2006
I used to play softball, and I didn't really know Randy, but I saw him and his family alot. I am very sorry for your loss and I hope all of the family is okay.
Diane and Bob Grenon
September 28, 2006
To Randy's family -
We hope it brings you comfort to know that Randy's spirit will live on in the many lives he has influenced and touched. We are so glad that our son Mike had the opportunity to play baseball for Randy as a Tiger. Randy taught him alot about baseball but also taught him about life in general. Whenever I saw Randy, on the baseball field or church, he'd always give me a big hug and he'd ask about Mike. When Mike was in college he had to write an essay about someone who had a major influence on his life -- and he wrote about Randy.
We hope in time that all your warm memories of Randy will help ease the sorrow that you feel today.
Beth (McCarthy) Breinan
September 28, 2006
Randy is a rare example of a man of true integrity and a friend to both musicians and the baseball worlds as evidenced in his tributes. A friend and mentor to numerous people (many famous) as a down to earth, loveable person, always with a smile and non judgmental. He treated everyone with the same respect. It has been many years since I have seen the Hien family. I briefly worked at the bubble in the early 80's and have fond memories of the family. My condolonces to his family and close friends as your loss is great indeed. Keep your memories close to your heart. We are all richer as people to have known him. I am anyway.
sharon t.
September 28, 2006
Randy, knew you since you were across the street from Lupo's on Westminster, saw the best and newest bands there back before punk was punk, you were always willing to give everyone a chance and truly one of the nicest people i ever met, i'll never forget the night that dave edmunds and nick lowe played (when you were on promenade street), they were so loud during the soundcheck, it was the first (and only) time i'd ever heard you tell someone to turn it down, well turn it up now and rest in the noise!
Holly Goudreau
September 28, 2006
What a sad day in baseball!! We will miss his inspiration but will remember the great memories he gave us all!!
The Hawks Girls Softball Team
The Goudreau Family
September 28, 2006
To the entire Hien family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time in your lives. We will never forget Randy he was a wonderful man. He is going to be greatly missed. I guess God needed a GREAT baseball coach up in heaven. God Bless!!
The Goudreau Family
Joanne Brierley
September 28, 2006
To Stacy and the whole Hien Family,
Our condolences to you and your family at this time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
God gave us two hands - one to receive with the other to give with - but Randy gave using both his hands. He gave to his family and to his community. His philosophy on life was to help others in every way he could, no matter what it took. You didn't have to know him, but you knew of him from his many accomplishments in life. He will be sadly missed by us all.
May the love of God and others give you peace.
The Brierley Family (Joanne,Bob,Jon,Julie & Lauren)
Maryellen Holden
September 28, 2006
Dear Patti: I consider myself blessed to have met Randy, and I enjoyed talking with him every time he and his teams made it to our Eastern Regional Little League tournament. He always had a kind word and a smile for all of us in the Concession Stand. We all send our sympathy to you and your children.
Bill and Joanne McManus
September 28, 2006
Please know how much you are in our thoughts and prayers during your time of sorrow.
Beverly Tucker
September 28, 2006
Dear Patti and Family: Words cannot express our families saddness at the loss of Randy. He was such a mentor to our son and he taught us all lessons we will carry with us forever. Thanks Randy, you will now be our "Angel in the Outfield", Rest in Peace.
The Tuckers, Bev,Steve,Keith & Melissa
John Edwardo
September 28, 2006
Patti, I am truly sorry with Randy's sudden passing. From all the news accounts over the last few years, with the success of Lincoln's little league championships, he seemed to have touched many lives from his work with youngsters with his coaching. I am sure he did the same for helping new muscians who were breaking into the band business and muscians having tough times by his help through his nightclub operation. I hope you can take comfort in the life you were able to share with him and the family you both had together. God will be there to help you through this most difficult time and watch over you and your children as the days pass.
With sincere heartfelt sympathy, John
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