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Joan Cote Obituary

COTE, JOAN 'JOANIE', L. (NIGHTINGALE), 69, passed away peacefully Friday at home. Born in Providence she was the beloved wife of Lowell Cote, daughter of the late Carl H. and Leona R. (LaPlante) Nightingale.

Mrs. Cote worked in retail store security for 25 years. She was a security guard for Providence College for nine years before retiring in 1996. She was also a store manager for Ann Taylor.

She was a loving mother and loved by all the children and grandchildren. She belonged to the Anthony PNA Lodge 1001 of Coventry.

Besides her husband she is survived by three children Kenneth McLaughlin, Kathleen Robbins, and Linda Wilson, four step children Steve, Jeffrey, Douglas, and Barry Cote, eight grandchildren, eight step grandchildren and two great grandchildren. She is predeceased by her former husband Edward McLaughlin Jr., a daughter Lorraine McLaughlin and a brother Steven C. Nightingale.

Her funeral services will be held on Tuesday at 10:00 am in the St. John & James Church, 20 Washington St., West Warwick. A calling hour will be held on Tuesday from 8:30 - 9:30 am from the Gorton Funeral Home, 721 Washington St., Coventry. In lieu of flowers donations can be made to the American Cancer Society, 931 Jefferson Boulevard, Warwick, RI 02886.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Providence Journal on Oct. 22, 2007.

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Richard/Judy Kicia

November 3, 2007

Hi Lowell,

We are so very sorry for your loss. God be with you thru the coming months .Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Richard and Judy Kicia

Juliann Riley

October 23, 2007

Ken, Kelly, and Family,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. I know its been a difficult time and please know we have been praying and will continue to pray for all of you. Love, Chris, Juli, Jenna and Noah

Rhonda Proulx

October 23, 2007

Hi Lowell,
My sympathies to you and your entire family on the passing of your wife. If anyone knows what you are going through it's me. Please take care and just remember all the great memories you've shared with her.

Rhonda

Christy & Greg Wilson

October 22, 2007

Grandma... we will miss you so, and we love you. also i would like to give my condolences to my family i know this is a hard time for us all. she was a great woman, mother, and grandmother.
and well be missed.
our prayers are with you.

The Allen Family

October 22, 2007

Joan, a special eloquent woman, will be remembered thoughtfully by those whom knew her.

Fran, Chip & Charles Klensch

October 22, 2007

Linda (and Family),
Joan was a wonderful person who will be sorely missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May you find comfort in each other, in friends and in God.
With deepest sympathy,

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