Lodi, CA
Elizabeth Van Tine O'Brien
January 19, 1911 - May 23, 2008
Second of five children of John Raub Van Tine and Elizabeth Hardy Kynett, born in Lansdowne, PA (Philadelphia), Elizabeth, also called Betty, came to Lodi, CA from New Jersey with her husband, James T. O'Brien and children in 1959. A strong advocate for women's rights, in 1958 Betty was the first woman elected to school board of Evesham Township, NJ, on a write-in vote. She and Jim traveled widely in connection with his work with Lions Club Int'l. An accomplished seamstress and knitter, she worked at The Fabric Store in Lodi for years. Longtime member of Lodi's First United Methodist Church, Daughters of the American Revolution, Pi Beta Phi, Daughters of Founders and Patriots, and Dickinson College Alumni.
Predeceased by siblings Karldon K. Van Tine; John Raub Van Tine, Jr.; and Catherine B. Styles; husband Jim O'Brien and stepson James T. O'Brien, Jr. Survived by sister Eleanor Slim of PA; daughter Aline O'Brien and Corby Lawton, San Rafael; daughter Catherine O'Brien and Anthony Montanino, Palo Alto; grandchildren James T. O'Brien, III, Idaho; Rainbow Aline and Vincent Porthé, Chicago; Deirdre Blessing Wolfer, San Rafael; and Alexandra Amelia Foster, San Diego; great-grandchild Brandon O'Brien; and many other friends and relations.
Friends are invited to a memorial at 2:00 pm on Saturday, May 31, 2008, at First United Methodist Church, 200 W. Oak St., Lodi. Donations in her memory may be made to Hospice of San Joaquin County.
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Eleanor Blair
May 28, 2008
I have pleasant memories of our families getting together in Bustleton, Marlton, and Ocean City especially. Your Mother and mine stayed in close contact for many years. She used to write to me and send along words of wisdom, quotes, and prayers. I miss that. Your Mother shared much genealogy information with me. She was a neat lady and will be missed.
Christine Duncan Bosson
May 27, 2008
I remember both your mother and father so very well. When I first went to work in the real estate industry, your father was working for who would later become my husband...Jim Duncan (he passed away in 2003). Even after your father's passing, I continued to take your mother to lunch every year for her birthday, until she no longer remembered me. I will always remember her lovely poems and letters and I will never forget the green pants and jacket your father would wear on St. Patrick's day. In addition, my father Midge Kramer was associated with the Lions Club for many years so both of my parents knew your parents as well. My sympathies and prayers go out to you and your entire family.
May 27, 2008
Aline and Catherine, I remember your mother well. I am sorry for your loss. Best Regards, Sharon Tutt Bearg
Jerrie Hildebrand
May 26, 2008
Each of us are legacies fulfilled for our parents and family. We carry on their stories, and the light of who they were forward in this world to our children and the generations to come. May you be blessed when those stories are shared and may you feel a smile remembering Elizabeth and the time shared with her. Brightest of blessings to you all.
Tony Berry
May 26, 2008
I want to extend my sympathy to Elizabeth's family. Her long life was a positive testimony of closeness to God and her encouragement to others. I was impressed with her comfort and peaceful atmosphere as she traveled THROUGH the valley of the shadow of death. I remember the prayer I shared with her just a few days ago in Arbor. She continued to bless new friends in her long journey of life. God Bless You.
Scott and Linda Davis
May 25, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of the passing of our friend Betty. It was always good to see her sitting in her favorite pew every Sunday morning. She will always be remembered.
James Duran
May 25, 2008
I'm sorry to hear of your mother's death, Aline, but it sounds like she had a fine life. My condolences to the whole family.
Sincerely, Jim Duran
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