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Evelyn McLaughlin Obituary

Published by Roanoke Times from Aug. 18 to Aug. 20, 2008.

Evelyn Mclaughlin, 60, of Roanoke, Va., passed away Saturday, August 16, 2008. She leaves behind a dedicated and loving husband of 37 years, James Mclaughlin. She was preceded in death by her parents, Cherry Katherine and Freddie Joe Grant; sister, Margaret Grant Simmons; and brothers, Ulysses and Eldridige Grant. Those left to cherish her memory are her daughters, Crystal and Vera Mclaughlin, of Roanoke, Va.; sisters, Dinah "Louise" Grant-Marke, Clara Grant, Cherly Grant, Ollie "Elsie" Awolowo, of Sacramento, Calif., and Mae West of Rocklin, Calif.; brothers, Charles, Dave and Ralph Grant, of Salem, Va., Leon Grant, of Roanoke, Va., Westley "Donald" Grant, of Tennessee, Freddie Grant, of Brooklyn, N.Y., and Mark Grant, of Sacramento, Calif.; and a host of nieces, nephews and other relatives. Funeral services will be held 2 p.m. Wednesday, August 20, 2008, in the Hamlar-Curtis Chapel with the Rev. Dr. K.B. Wright officiating. The interment will be in Williams Memorial Park. The family will receive friends on Tuesday, August 19, 2008, from 7 to 8 p.m. at Hamlar-Curtis Funeral Home. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.Hamlar-Curtis.com.
This obituary was originally published in the Roanoke Times.

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August 20, 2009

Teresa Brown posted to the memorial.

August 27, 2008

Angelle Simmons posted to the memorial.

August 21, 2008

Vera Mclaughlin posted to the memorial.

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Teresa Brown

August 20, 2009

Mr. McLaughlin, Vera and Crystal

I continue to pray for you and your family. I love you all and will always be there.....no matter the circumstance.

With all my love,

Teresa Brown (Saunders)

Angelle Simmons

August 27, 2008

Uncle James, Cousins Crystal and Vera,

I wanted to write earlier but couldn't find the right words to express my feelings. I want you all to know that with each passing day it will get better. I can't not promise that a memory or even a person walking by will not remind you of Evelyn or make you cry. I can promise you she is no longer in pain and the memories you have will not fade away. When things seem a little hard or you feel alone, remember that your faith in God will carry you through. She had a smile and ways that would brighten any space she was in. I will continue to keep you all in my prayers.

Angelle, Wayne, Donovan and AbiGail

Vera Mclaughlin

August 21, 2008

Dear Ma,

Truly, all that's left to say is Thank you.

Love, Vera

Cheryl Grant

August 20, 2008

James, Crystal, and Vera,

I thank you for being a devoted family by showing your love and dedication to each other. I am sorry for our loss.

In Sympathy,

Cheryl Grant

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Ollie (Elsie) Awolowo

August 20, 2008

James, Crystal, and Vera,

I am truly sorry for the unexpected passing of Evelyn—a very special wife, mother, and my sister. Regrettfully, I am unable to be there to give each of you a consoling hug to express my heartfelt sorrow of the loss which we all are dealing with as a family.

Admittedly, I am still in shock at Evelyn’s passing. Since adulthood, I’ve often reflected back on the helpful and thoughtful things which you and Evelyn did for me when I was a child (i.e., taking me to my doctor appointments when my arm was broken, stopping by the house to visit with us, and always surprising us with treats and goodies).

It has been a joy seeing how happy you all were together. James, THANK YOU for being such a loving and devoted husband to my sister. I truly appreciate how you two took your marriage vows so seriously and without reservations. Thanks for giving Evelyn the comfort of knowing that your love for her was pure, honest, and everlasting.

Even though miles separate us, please know that each of you will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

With Love and Sympathy,

Tim (Mack) Moyer

August 20, 2008

JW & family. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I know Evelyn had the best of care from you JW and couldn't have had a more devoted husband. You are in my prayers. Take care and God Bless you & yours.

Donna Saunders&Saunders Family

August 19, 2008

Letter From Heaven

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...

but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.

I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.

Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.

Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.

That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,

God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.

As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.

I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.

There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.

And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.

And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.

God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years

because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.

But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.

Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.

But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.

But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.

I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;

but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.

It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...

that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,

then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."

And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,

knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,

just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.

When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;

I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,

remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

The Saunders Family (Roanoke/CA/NC)

August 19, 2008

see me through
your own eyes
i am here.

don't look for me
in poems
i'm not there.

don't look for me in
shadowy faces
i'm not there.

see me through
your own eyes
i am here.

once. when or with whom
i disappeared went
into hiding behind
my own skull
wasn't seen for a decade or two
wasn't seen for a decade or two.

now i am back
carrying my life in a small bag
now i am back
holding open my hands
holding open my hands.

see me through
your own smile
i am here.

see me through
your own smell
i am here.

see me through
your own eyes
i am here
i am here...

Teresa Brown

August 19, 2008

McLaughlin Family:

Crystal and Vera have been my best friends every since Jr. Highschool, some 23 years or more.
I can remember walking all the way from my house on 22nd street to Grand Ave. several times a week, if not daily. Mrs. McLaughlin would take us to the mall playing her Gospel music all the way. Being so young, we couldn't understand the relationship she had with God even back then. What I now realize is that she was showing us how to live for God! She praised God to the fullest not just at church, but also at home. What a blessing it was to have such a role model in my life while growing up. She praised God without limits. Without worry as to what anyone would say or think. I strive to be like her. Someone who no matter your circumstances, will praise God. Someone who no matter your health, will praise God. What a true shining example she has been to me in my life. Her light will forever shine in my heart. And to my sisters, Crystal and Vera, just know that I love you both with all of my heart and will always be here for you no matter the need. Mr. McLaughlin, what a true blessing and role model you have been as a father and a husband. God bless you all. Love always Teresa Brown (Saunders)

Gloria Faulkner

August 18, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Andre' Lori Saunders

August 18, 2008

To: Mr. Mclaughlin, Crystal, and Vera. May god watch over U in your time in need. Your Wife and Mother was an beautiful person, and her spirit was on fire for the lord! She will be missed very greatly in our family. May god hold u during these difficult times. Love Always Andre' and Lori Saunders (The Saunders Family)

Ava Coles

August 18, 2008

McLaughlin Family

God bless you all through this transitioning moment. May your heart always be filled with loving memories.

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