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Frank Helton Gordon Jr.

Frank Gordon Obituary

Frank Helton "Buddy" Gordon Jr. On September 5, 2008, Bedford lost one of its most loved native sons. Frank Helton Gordon, Jr., better known as "Buddy" passed away at Carilion Roanoke Memorial Hospital surrounded by his loving family. He fought a brief but valiant fight against Leukemia. Buddy was born on Friday, March 29, 1929 to Eva Frances Burnette Gordon and Frank Helton Gordon, Sr., who preceded him in death. Buddy served in the U. S. Army from 1951 1953. He was a member of the Special Forces and was stationed in Germany. While there he was a medic and member of both football and baseball teams which provided entertainment for their fellow troops. Shortly after his return, Buddy was named the Director at Recreation for Bedford City and County. His passion for sports and children made him a perfect choice. His goal was to instill in the children of Bedford a love of sports and sportsmanship. The Dixie Youth Baseball Program was introduced during his tenure. As a result, many youth of the county were able to participate in summer baseball and to play on the local, state and national levels. Many other youth and adult sports programs evolved during his time with the department. Buddy committee countless hours to the development and maintenance of the fields in Bedford, which are still enjoyed today. Eventually, Buddy joined CMT Sporting Goods where he managed their Lynchburg store until his retirement. People often ask, "What is a Hokie?" To this we say, "Buddy Gordon"! He was a loyal Hokie for most of his life, through thick and thin. He was a Hokie Club Representative for decades. He truly loved Virginia Tech and passed on his enthusiasm to both his children and grandchildren.
Buddy is survived by his wife and best friend of fifty-seven years, Catherine Varner Gordon. He is also survived by his children, Robin G. Stowell and husband, Mark, Barry A. Gordon and wife, Terri and Laura G. Baudendistel and husband, Jay. He was blessed with ten grandchildren, including Cynthia, Justin and Ashley Stowell, Hunter and Allie Gordon, and Peter, Caitlin, Audrey, Gretchen and Ava Baudendistel. He is also survived by his sister, Patricia Recknor and husband, Carl; and many nieces and nephews.
The family requests those wishing to make memorials to consider The Bedford Hospice House, P. O. Box 985, Bedford, VA 24253 or The Leukemia Society of America, 2101 Executive Drive, Hampton, VA 23666. A service of celebration will be held on Tuesday, September 9, 2008 at 1 p.m. at Bedford Baptist Church, where he had been a member for many years, with the Rev. Dr. David Henderson officiating. Interment, with military honors by American Legion Post # 16 will follow in Virginia Memorial Park. The family will receive friends Monday, September 8, 2008 from 5 until 8 p.m. at Updike Funeral Home & Cremation Service, Bedford.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Sep. 6 to Sep. 8, 2008.

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Benny Dooley

September 10, 2008

Catherine and Family,I want you to know that We have you and your Family in our thoughts and prayers at the time. Buddy was a gentile, caring person who never had an enemy.May the good lord be with you.

patsy Crowder

September 9, 2008

Catherine & family
We have known Buddy for so many years and there was no finer person. He will be greatly missed by all. May God be with each of you and help you through your loss.

Wesley and Pat Crowder

Bill & Phyllis Huffman

September 9, 2008

We are so very sorry for your loss, but it is Heavens gain. Buddy was one of the finest, caring men that we ever knew, and devoted to each player and parents, he was always there for them. He was a blessing to know. He will truly be missed.
May God bless each one of you and give you strength and comfort in the days ahead.
Please let us know if we can do anything.
Love and prayers,

Bill and Phyllis Huffman

Fran Hazlegrove

September 8, 2008

Everyone who knew Buddy was enriched by his presence. He was an extraordinary man. There is surely another very bright star in heaven.
My love and prayers to each of you.

Jeff Cohen

September 7, 2008

Catherine and Family, I just wanted you to know that we have you in our thoughts and prayers at this time. Buddy was a special person and I will always remember him as being a great Hokie and friend as well. I'm sorry for your loss and hope you can find comfort in knowing he is in a better place now. Please pass my condolences along to the rest of your family and Barry especially,as I would see him at Hokie functions over the last several years. With deepest sympathy, Jeff and Emily Cohen

Bobby Lazenby

September 7, 2008

Catherine,I'm so sorry to hear about Buddy. I left Bedford for the Air Force in 1950 but all the school years prior to that we spent a lot of good times together.He was a great friend and I will miss seeing him during my visits there.

David and Faye Grant

September 7, 2008

Catherine and Family, sorry for the loss of Buddy. He was special to so many people. We thought a great deal of a fellow Hokie fan. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and the family.

Lisa Robertson

September 7, 2008

Barry, Teri, Hunter, & Alley the loss of your sweet father/grandfather is truly a hardship for you all. I know that the wonderful memories you all have will help you during your hard times. I have you in my heart and prayers and you know I am here if you need me. Lisa Robertson

Michael Burnette

September 7, 2008

Buddy was one of the biggest influences in my life with his guidience as both a coach and a freind. I will never forget him being there when my Father died as one of the people to help me along the way. Your whole family is in my thoughts and prayers. All of Hokie nation has lost one of its best members. Anything that We can do for you, please give us a call. All our Love. Michael and Karen.

Carla Varner Torrence

September 7, 2008

Aunt Catherine and family, I am so sorry to hear of Buddy's passing. He was always so kind. I always loved his cheerful nature. Love, Carla

Mike Smith

September 7, 2008

So sorry to see Buddy go. He was one of a kind!!!
Smitty, Kelly and boys

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