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John Thomas Wray

John Wray Obituary

John Thomas (Tom) Wray, 81, of Rocky Mount, Va., passed away at his home on Monday, October 13, 2008. He was a faithful and devoted member of Rocky Mount First Church of the Brethren. He was the eldest son of Johnny and Annie Wray, whom are deceased. Also preceding him in death are his son, William Thomas Wray; and his brother, Willie Wray. Mr. Wray is survived by his wife of 60 years, Elsie Carter Wray; son, Mike Wray; daughter, Kathy Holland; brothers and their wives, Price and Estelle Wray, Clyde and Betty Wray, and Paul Wray; his only sister, Betty Brown; grandchildren, Greg Wray, Brian Wray, Wendy Perdue, and Erik Holland; and several great-grandchildren whom he loved very much. Also surviving are in-laws, Eugene and Libby Carter, Chris and Billy Wills; and many other family members and friends. He never met a stranger and was one of the most loving and caring man ever. He was also a hard worker and a great husband, father, and grandfather. He will be missed forever in our hearts. Funeral services will be conducted 2 p.m. on Wednesday, October 15, 2008, from the Rocky Mount First Church of the Brethren with the Rev. John Collins officiating. Interment will follow in Oak Hill Church Cemetery. His family will be receiving friends from 6 to 8 p.m. on Tuesday, October 14, 2008, at Flora Funeral Service, 665 South Main Street, Rocky Mount, Va.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Oct. 14 to Oct. 15, 2008.

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AMBER DEARMIN

October 15, 2008

TO MY BROTHERS GREG AND BRIAN I AM SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR GRANDFATHER I KNOW YOU ALL LOVED HEM VERY MUCH AND WILL MISS HEM BUT HE IS WITH THE LORD IM AM SURE OF THAT AND AT PEACE NOW JUST KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE YOU AND WILL THINK OF YOU ALL AT THIS TIME

Brandi Smith

October 15, 2008

Aunt Elsie,
I love you and miss you and I'll be praying for you!!!!
Love Always,
Brandi

Kristie (Gregware) Long

October 14, 2008

Elsie, Mike, and Kathy,

I was deeply saddened to hear of the passing of Tom. It has been many years since I have seen him but I hold memories of you all in my heart. He was a wonderful person! I remember all the days at Grandma T's (Mary's) house when you all lived there. May you know he is resting in peace and you all are in my thoughts and prayers.

Amanda Newton

October 14, 2008

WENDY-
I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your grandfather. If you need anything please let me know. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

-Amanda

Tim & Patricia Wray

October 14, 2008

Elsie, Mike & Kathy,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tom always had a kind word and smile for all he came in contact with. He will surely be missed by all who knew him.

Please do not hesitate to contact us should you need anything.

Patricia Bailey

October 14, 2008

Elsie, Mike and Kathy
We are so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. If we can be of any help, just let us know. Tom was a great person and we will all miss him.

Edward and Patricia Bailey

RHONDA HICKS

October 14, 2008

DEAR ELSIE AND MIKE & KATHY

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSE TOM WAS A WONDERFUL MAN AND HE WAS ALWAYS GOOD TO ME HE WILL BE MISSED BY ALL MY CHILDERN THAY ALL LOVED HEM VERY MUCH YOU ARE ALL IN MY PRAYERS MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL AS I KNOW HE IS WITH GOD NOW

Lisa Ball

October 14, 2008

To Elsie, Mike and Kathy I will keep you all in my prayers. I know you all will miss him dearly but just remember his is with his father now and the rest of his family that has left us. Every time I saw Tom he reminded me of my Dad Willie....

Love,
Lisa

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