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Mary Susan Rinehart Kummer

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Mary Susan Rinehart Kummer, 88, of Roanoke, Va., passed away on Wednesday, October 15, 2008. Born and raised in Catonsville, Md., Sue attended Wilson College for two years, then transferred to University of Maryland, graduating in 1940. She married her high school and college sweetheart, Stan Kummer, in March of 1942. Shortly after their wedding, Stan left to serve our country in the European Theater in World War II. Upon returning, Stan and Sue lived in Baltimore, Md., and Richmond, Va., before moving to Roanoke in 1956. Sue taught speech at Breckinridge Middle School before becoming a guidance counselor at Ruffner Middle School. Sue loved golf and tennis, playing often at the Roanoke Country Club, where she and her family were members for over 50 years. The highlight of her golfing career was a hole in one at Hidden Valley Country Club at a Member-Guest Tournament. Sue was an accomplished bridge player, teaching one of her daughters to play at a young age, an activity her daughter still enjoys today. Sue was gregarious, loved to entertain, and could often be found at 5 p.m. enjoying her bourbon and water, working in her garden. She inherited her love of roses from her father, and grew some of the most beautiful roses in the city. Sue was a fabulous cook, and her kitchen was a warm and inviting place. Sue loved to dance, and she and Stan enjoyed dinner and dancing while members of the Benedicts. Sue was a devoted wife to Stan for 66 years, and is survived by him and their three daughters, Barbara Ann (Babs) Smith, wife of Dr. Donald G. Smith Jr., Mary Susan (San) Kummer, and Nancy (Slim) Nance. Sue adored her grandchildren, Marshall Lauck, (wife, Casey Lauck), David Lauck, (wife, Meg Lauck), Kimberley Nance Zandler (Michael Zandler), Catherine Nance, Donald G. Smith the third (wife, Katie Smith), and Carlie Smith (fiance, Kevin Compter). In addition, Sue is survived by four greatgrandchildren, Carrington and Emerson Lauck and Caroline and Matthew Zandler. The family would like to thank the staff at South Roanoke Nursing Home who cared for Sue in such a loving and compassionate manner. A memorial service will be held 3 p.m. on Friday, October 17, 2008, at Second Presbyterian Church with the Dr. George Anderson officiating. A reception will follow the service in the fellowship hall. Arrangements by Oakey's Roanoke Chapel, 540-982-2100.

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Published by Roanoke Times on Oct. 16, 2008.

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Neza Jolly

October 17, 2008

I have such fond memories of the tennis outings I had with you and our Roanoke friends. You will be missed by everyone whose life you touched. A special lady.

Ginny Headen

October 16, 2008

Babs, I wanted to let you and your family know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. She was a beautiful lady. I always admired you as the person you are now I can see where you got it from. Sincerely, Ginny McLelland Headen.

LINDA PERDUE

October 16, 2008

MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ON THE PASSING OF SUE.
SITA (MY DOG) AND I MADE OUR VISIT ON MON. AND I COULD SEE A DECLINE IN HER HEALTH BUT SHE MANAGED A SMILE AND FEW WORDS.

I AM IN CHARLESTON, S.C. TO DO THE RACE FOR THE CURE ON SAT. WITH HOLLEY BUT YOU WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS.

SHE WAS SO BLESSED BY SUCH A LOVING AND SUPPORTIVE FAMILY.

I WILL MISS HER BUT KNOW SHE IS AT PEACE AND SMILING DOWN ON US.

I AM MAKING A DONATION TO ST FRANCIS SERVICE DOGS IN HER MEMORY.

SINCERELY

Betty Tom Bradshaw

October 16, 2008

My love to all of you.

Betty Tom Bradshaw

Stoke and Julie Caldwell

October 16, 2008

I have very fond memories of Coach and Mrs. Kummer from many years of city league basketball. She will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with Mr. Kummer, Babs and the rest of the family.

Jo Anna Tudor

October 16, 2008

I am very sad to lose one of my best friends, but know that Sue is at peace and probably enjoying her rose garden in heaven.
Thinking of Stan and family wth my best love. Jo Anna

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