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Ruth Patterson Wall Alves

Ruth Alves Obituary

Ruth Patterson Wall Alves, of Roanoke, passed away Saturday, January 31, 2009. She was born January 30, 1935 to the late Ruth Newlin Patterson Wall and James Thomas Wall. She is survived by her daughters, Pamela S. Holt (Donald Hamm) and Patterson Lee Wells (Randy); granddaughters, Ashley Patterson Wells and Jillian Elizabeth Wells; brothers, James Thomas Wall (Sonia), Barry Lyman Wall (Mary); and many beloved nieces, nephews and dear friends. She is preceded in death by her parents and a brother, Patterson Wall. Ruth was born in Grosse Pointe Farms, Michigan, and attended the University of Kentucky. She was married in 1955 to Stanley Powell Alves, and they made their home in Lexington, Kentucky, later moving to Oxford, Ohio. In 1984, Ruth moved to St. Petersburg, Florida and worked as the assistant to the President of Bay Medical Corporation until her retirement in 2003. In 2004, Ruth relocated to Roanoke, Virginia and enjoyed traveling to Europe and Alaska, cooking, making candy, decorating, antiquing, reading and working as a volunteer at Carilion Roanoke Memorial Hospital. She had a special love for her cat, Sugar. Ruth is remembered by her family and friends as a strong, loyal and no nonsense friend who had a beautiful smile and a mischievous sense of humor. She will be dearly missed. Services will be at Oakey's South Chapel on Brambleton Avenue at 6 p.m. on Tuesday, February 3, 2009. The Rev. Lisa Meyer will officiate. The family will receive friends at Oakey's South Chapel from 4 p.m. on Tuesday until service time at 6 p.m. Arrangements by Oakey's South Chapel, 540-989-3131.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Feb. 2 to Feb. 3, 2009.

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Sandra Brown Smith

February 10, 2009

Dear Pam and Pat, I am your Mother's second cousin. Your grandfather Wall and my mother were first cousins. I had not been in touch with Ruth for a number of years but we visited with each other when we were teenagers. Your Uncle Jim can fill you in. I was so very sorry to hear of your Mother's illness and passing.

Frances Murrie

February 3, 2009

Pam - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in the loss of your Mom. She will always be with you through those special memories you hold in your heart.

Randy Parsley

February 3, 2009

Pam, i am so sorry to hear about your mom....she was such a great woman....i am so glad i got to know her and will miss her sweet smile.....my heart goes out to you and your family...i will keep you in my prayers.... Love you Randy Parsley

Adam & Sara Pullen

February 2, 2009

Dear Pam and Family,
We are so sorry to loose such an incredible woman. She will always hold a special place in our hearts. She had a heart of gold and put so many people first. Our lives have truly been blessed to have known her. We love you so very much. All our love, Adam, Sara and family

Kent, Terri, Mike & Allen Niederman

February 2, 2009

Please accept our condolences on the passing of your mom. If there is anything we can do for any
of you, please call.

Cathy Jennings

February 2, 2009

Pam,
I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. She was such a lovely person, inside and out. Her beautiful smile gave me a lift every time I saw her. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Love,

Joel Tucker

February 2, 2009

Pam and family,

I thought the world of Ruth and she was such a nice person. She was always so cheerful and uplifting. She will be sadly missed.
Your neighbor,

Joel

Betty Jo Johnson

February 2, 2009

I am distressed abot your Mom. She was a joy to work with while selling her home and buying her condo. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Betty Jo Johnson

Pat Collins

February 2, 2009

Dear Pam and Pat and family:

We were so sorry to learn of Ruth's passing. Your family fills our Oxford memories. We so enjoyed the time spent with Ruth and Stan. Your obituary comments described her perfectly. She was a lovely person. May God's love and peace surround all of you at this time and always.

Pat and Paul Collins

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