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Barbara Spencer Obituary
Bobbi was a giving person. She would drop everything when a need became apparent. She was the full-time caregiver for her father-in-law for several years and supported her husband at the home and the office, filling the roles of doctor, nurse, chef, driver, etc.
She loved to cook and give parties. She had family and friends all over the country that she kept up with by phone, mail, and visits. Whenever a family member or friend had a problem, large or small, Bobbi was there to help. She didn't wait to be told what to do but jumped in and did whatever she saw that needed to be done.
She was an AVID SUPPORTER of Virginia Tech football. Every room in her house is filled with Virginia Tech memorabilia, and the Christmas tree is decorated in VT ornaments from top to bottom. The flowerbed in their backyard was formed in the shape of a football with marigolds planted to form "VT." Their annual tailgating parties, held before the season started each year, bring together family and friends from several states. In 2007, the Hokie Bird was included on the guest list!
She is survived by her husband, William Henry (Bill) Spencer III; her son, Christopher Todd Spencer and daughter-in-law, Catherine; daughter-in-law, Melissa Spencer; grandsons, William Scott (Scooter) Spencer, II and Zachary Kane Spencer; father, Lester O. (Dude) Moxley Sr.; brother, Lester O. (Dude) Moxley Jr. and sister-in-law, Carolyn; and sister, Susan Moxley. Bobbi is also survived by numerous nieces and nephews; and LOTS of friends.
She was predeceased by her son, William Scott Spencer; and her mother, Bertha Moxley.
A memorial service will be held 2 p.m. on Friday, February 20, 2009, at Oakey's North Chapel on Peters Creek Road in Roanoke, Va., with the Rev. Carl Douglas officiating. The family will receive friends on Thursday evening, February 19, 2009, from 7 to 9 p.m. at Oakey's North Chapel, 540-362-1237.
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Memories and Condolences
for Barbara Spencer
Dennis & Robbie East
March 2, 2009
Dennis and I are saddened by the sudden loss of Bobbi,whom we remember as always bright and bubbly at LCHS. We all have wonderful memories. Keep the faith.
David Squires
February 22, 2009
To Bill & Family of that special person, Bobbie.
I am saddened by this dreadfull news of Bobbie's passing. I was out of the country and just now received the messages. Why, oh why do the Good go so soon?
--
He who binds to himself a joy
Does the winged life destroy;
But he who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in Eternity's sun rise.
wm blake
Thanks, Bobbie, for giving us that 'kiss' of your life.
Dave Squires
John & Margaret Jones
February 21, 2009
Warm Summer Sun
Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light.
Good night, dear heart,
Good night, good night.
By Mark Twain (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)
The Poetry Foundation
Bob Ziegler
February 20, 2009
So sorry to hear of Bobbi's passing; I 'm sure she will be missed by many who knew her.
Class of 1962; Bob Ziegler
LeaLynn (Montgomery) Firebaugh
February 20, 2009
Bill and family,
I have great memories spending time at your house with all the kids when we (the children) were still in school and then first getting married. You and Bobbi (Betty Boop) were the greatest parents we knew. My thoughts and prayers are with you. There will always be a special place in my heart for you, the family, and the memories we share. Love, Hugs, and Kisses
Tim Newberry
February 19, 2009
Bobbi made everyone day brighter
Love, Ginger, Tim, Nikki, and Tj Newberry
April and Mike Atkins
February 19, 2009
Bill, I just opened the paper tonight and saw Bobbi's obituary. I am so sorry for you and your family. She always made me laugh! She will be missed. Please take care of yourself. You and your family will be in our prayers.
Al & Betty Patterson
February 19, 2009
Bill,
Betty and I were shocked and saddened by the news of Barbaras passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy and may God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Darvin and sharon conner
February 19, 2009
Sorry to hear about Barbara! we have many good memories of our young days in Leesburg.We especiially remember Barbara as sharons maid of honor.May the lord strengthen you in the days to come.
Kim and Bennie Horton
February 18, 2009
Bill and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Bobbi. I thought the world of her. She was such a sweet and genuine person. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you.
Bill & Betty Anderson
February 18, 2009
Bill,
We share your loss, Barbara was a terriffic friend for all these many years and will be missed by all who knew her.
Luther Nichols
February 18, 2009
Billy, It has been a while since we have seen each other. Almost 46 years to be exact. Anyway, I still remember what a great person you were with that great personality like it was yesterday. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and may God be with you during this time of great loss especially knowing that such a wonderful person like Bobbi is now in a much better place. Take care. Jimmy and Joyce Nichols
Ruthie Furr
February 18, 2009
To Billy and Family and to the Moxley Family
My deepest sympathy to both families.
Pam Throckmorton
February 18, 2009
Billy,
I am so sorry to hear of Bobbi's death. I remember her as outgoing and beautiful and loving. It sounds as if the last 40 years found her surrounded by people who loved her in return.
Peggy Lambert Wingfield
February 18, 2009
My condolences to you and your family. Virginia Tech. lost a great fan.
MSgt Dan Hill
February 18, 2009
I was stationed in Roanoke from 2003-2007 and I worked upstairs from Bobbi. We said hi every day and I enjoyed starting my mornings with her friendly chats. This is sad news, I am sorry for your loss of a very sweet lady.
Sandy (Lewis) Jansen
February 18, 2009
Bill - so sorry to hear of your loss. Bobbi always made me laugh. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Larry & Vickie Cato
February 18, 2009
Bill & Family,
Bobbi was a very special friend and we have wonderful memories that will be treasured forever. She will be missed by all that knew her.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Dick & Sheree Hickman
February 18, 2009
We have been friends a long time. Bobbi was a great person in high school and after. She even caught you for her husband. What fond memories I have of the two of you. Make God bless!!!
Stanley Pangle
February 18, 2009
Bill, Zadiee and I were so sorry to hear about Barb, and our prayers and blessings are with you and your family.
Respectfully,
Stan & Zadiee Pangle
Nancy Uram
February 18, 2009
Billy,
I have happy memories of you and Bobbi from LCHS and extend my sympathy to you and your family.
Nancy Brown Uram
Rick & Lisa Chase
February 18, 2009
Bill,
We are so sorry for your loss. Bobbi was a very special person and will be missed by so many!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this hard time. We know you can celebrate her life with lots of love and laughter! What an awesome person.
Kat Huffman
February 18, 2009
Bill I am so sorry for your loss, our heart goes out to you. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Gary and Donna Goyer
February 18, 2009
Words are hard to come by when you lose such a special friend as Bobbi. She was a part of our lives for many wonderful years.Bobbi, you will be surely missed.
Gary and Donna
Mike and Fran Hough
February 17, 2009
Bill,
It was a shock to hear about Bobbie.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Mike has many good memories of growing up with Bobbie.
Debbie Owens
February 17, 2009
I was saddened to hear of Bobbie's passing. I have many fun filled memories of spending weekends with Bobbi, and Bill and their family. These memories stay with you even though you haven't seen them for years.
Deepest sympathy to you Bill and your family.
Linda Bailey
February 17, 2009
Billy,
I was so very sorry to hear about Bobbi. I have many memories of her during our school years together. Deepest sympathy to you and your family.
Linda Wallace Bailey
David Hines
February 17, 2009
Very saddened to hear of Bobbi's death. My heart goes out to Bill and the rest of their family.
David Heim
February 17, 2009
Bill,
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. May God bless and keep you.
Dawn Macfarland Doyle
February 17, 2009
Even though I havent seen Bobbi in years, I will always remember all the great times us kids had hanging out at ya'lls house and how welcome she made us feel. She was always so much fun! And I loved her Lasagna!
Im sure you all will miss her so much.
PAUL AND SANDY TURNER
February 17, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Beth Caruthers
February 17, 2009
Bill,
I am so sorry to hear about Bobbi. May your good memories help you through your time of grief.
I have missed you both since you left our building.
Sincerely,
Beth Caruthers
(Air Force Recruiting - upstairs in Ayers bldg)
Babs & Nigel Allen
February 17, 2009
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about the loss of our special Hokie Fan. Bill, we send you our special thoughts of peace and courage.
Cindy Driscoll
February 17, 2009
Bill,
I was so very sorry to hear about Bobbi. Such a sweet and bubbly lady, she will surely be missed by all who knew her. I will always remember her for her courtesy and respectful nature of us Moose Lodge employees.
May you and your family take comfort in knowing that she's now living with the angels. Many blessings of peace, comfort and healing to you all.
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