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Ethel Pugh Spangler Merritt

1924 - 2009

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1924

DIED

2009

Ethel Merritt Obituary

Ethel Pugh Spangler Merritt, 84, of Roanoke, died Sunday, February 22, 2009, at Brandon Oaks, surrounded by her family after a courageous battle with ovarian cancer. She was born March 14, 1924, in Floyd, Va. to the late Otho Cline Pugh and Gladys Sumner Pugh. She was predeceased by her first husband, 1st. Lt. John D. Spangler, U.S. Army Air Force, in 1948 in Japan, a daughter, Irene Spangler Underwood , and a sister, Edith Pugh Chapin. She is survived by her husband, Lucius M. Merritt Sr., of Brandon Oaks, and the following children and their spouses, son-in-law, Kent Underwood, Chesterfield, Mo., Lucius M. Jr. and Brynda Merritt, Blacksburg, Va., Mark and Ardis Merritt, Martha and Tom Gibbs, and Sarah Lupton, Roanoke, Va.; grandchildren, Scott and Sarah Underwood, Chesterfield, Mo., Jeff and Kay Underwood, Greely, Colo., Jennifer Cole, Blacksburg, Va., Ryan Gibbs, Mark Merritt Jr., Catherine Merritt, Korey Lupton, Roanoke, Va.; and great-grandchildren, Regan and Riley Cole, Billy and Peter Underwood, Tyler and Lane Greenwalt. Mrs. Merritt is also survived by a brother and sister-in-law, Leslie C. and Joyce Bowman Pugh, Floyd, Va.; and a brother-in-law and wife, Charles and Suzanne Merritt, of Pensacola, Fla.; and several nieces and nephews. Ethel was a member of Raleigh Court Presbyterian Church, having served there as deacon and as an elder in a former church. She was a member of the Woman's Club of Roanoke, a former member of the Thursday Morning Music Club, and a member of the DAR, General James Breckinridge Chapter. Ethel was a career federal employee beginning service with the Agricultural Adjustment Agency in Blacksburg, Va. in 1942, following graduation from National Business College. She also was employed by the Army Air Force, Selma, Ala., Federal Housing Authority, Portsmouth, Va., the Veterans Administration in Roanoke, Va. and Milwaukee, Wis., National Aeronautics & Space Administration, Cleveland, Ohio, and the U.S. Attorney's Office in Roanoke, from which she retired in March 1979. Following retirement, Ethel and Lu enjoyed traveling extensively, including trips to Israel, Lebanon, Jordan, Turkey, Egypt, China, Japan, Russia, the British Isles, Ireland, Scotland, Wales, Sweden, Denmark and throughout Europe. Ethel will be remembered for her engaging smile, light hearted friendliness, abiding faith and nurturing personality. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother and great grandmother, and a strong influence and loving support to every member of her family. She was a wonderful friend to all and generously supported many worthy causes, including the Red Cross by reaching donations of 30 gallons Pheresis and 125 gallons Platelet Pheresis. Services will be held at 2 p.m. on Wednesday, February 25, 2009, at Raleigh Court Presbyterian Church, conducted by Dr. F. Tupper Garden. Interment will follow in Evergreen Burial Park. Visitation will be at Oakey's South Chapel on Brambleton Ave. on Tuesday from 5 to 7 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the music program at Raleigh Court Presbyterian Church, the Endowment Program at Brandon Oaks, or to the American Red Cross. "She lived and brought unto this earth a bit of beauty, love, and faith. And now her life will ever be reflected in your heart."
Arrangements by Oakey's South Chapel. 1-540-989-3131

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Published by Roanoke Times from Feb. 24 to Feb. 25, 2009.

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Wendy Wall

February 25, 2009

Sarah and Family,

I am sorry I could not be there for visitation last night, but am glad Vince could be there. I am truly sorry for the loss of your mother. I know how you must be feeling--unfortunately--too well.

May God bless and comfort you and your family. May He show His goodness and compassion by surrounding you with friends and family to encourage and support you.

Please let me or Vince know if there is anything we can do for you.

Sincerely,

Wendy Randall Wall

Donna Spradlin

February 25, 2009

Sarah and family--
My heart goes out to you. God bless you.

Debbie Weems

February 25, 2009

Lu & family - I'm so sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. She sounded like she was truly a great person and so giving. I know she'll be missed, but I hope knowing she is in a better place & pain free will be a comfort to you.

American Red Cross Plateletpheresis staff

February 25, 2009

Ethel was a wonderful platelet donor and helped many with her donations--she will be missed!

Les & Danita Hutchinson

February 25, 2009

Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Ruby Weaver

February 24, 2009

Dear Mark & Family

Wayne & I are sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Wayne & Ruby Weaver

Kathleen Looney

February 24, 2009

Mr. Merritt and family,
You have my heartfelt sympathy of the passing of your love one.

You two was so special to me while I was at Brandon Oak's. When you got ready to travil you would give me your order for sandwich's to take with you. You never failed when you got back to come and tell me your appreciation of my service. You all were so nice to every one and thanked us so many times. I must say that you were a great blessing to each of us and was very happy to have been of service to you and to get to know a great couple that loves each other so much.

I am so sorry for your lost but, heaven is a much better place. We can look forward to meeting her again.

You will be in out thoughts and prayers.

May God bless you!

Kathleen R. Looney
New Castle, Va.

Crystal Patrick

February 24, 2009

Mrs Merritt will truely be missed. I used to work the front desk at Brandon Oaks and she used to always check on me and bring me snacks. We would compare our national stories, of course, her's were better. Mrs, Merritt dance within the clouds now and watch over all of us.

Kay Koehler

February 24, 2009

I know Lu doesn't do the internet, but I am sure others in the family do. All of us at Raleigh Court Presbyterian Church are deeply saddened by Ethel's passing. Those of us who go back even farther than Raleigh Court more so. Lu and all of you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Deb Moras

February 24, 2009

Please know that your family is being lifted up in prayer by all your friends from Gentle Shepherd Hospice. Family Care Representative

Scott & Beth McDonald

February 24, 2009

Lu-what can I say. So sorry to hear about Ethels passing. We are truely sorry. Will see you in the spring.

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