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Cheyenne Lackey
January 25, 2010
Merle!
I Love You!
I Miss You!
You Will Always Be In My Heart!
You Were A Great Friend To Me & Everyone Else!
You Always Made Me Laugh!
I Cant Wait To See You Again One Day!
Love Always & Forever!
Troyleena Pate
December 11, 2009
Though this was one of the toughest events of my life this year that I had to face, my memories of Lil Merle keep me strong and keep me from giving up. He will always be missed and he will always be on my mind, but I know that he is in a better place. God knows what is best and what one can bare and with that he watches over us each and everyday. In my brother's absences may all of his family remain close and not apart and may peace outshine the bad and may joy fill the hearts of those in pain. May his son be complete in his dad absence and my the love of all shine around Josiah so that he knows that his father truly loved him and alway has. I miss him, and I know I will see him some day. Jeffrey, Nickolas, Joshua, Gabriella, and Abigail miss him, and love him and he will never ever be forgotten, for words will never express what he meant to us. RIP
October 5, 2009
Merle, Sr. and Marva Ann,
I am sorry for being so late in telling you that I love you both, I pray that you will be able to endure your loss as each day passes. Know that God make no mistakes and he truly picked a beautiful flower to add to his surroundings. Keep yourselves busy talking about Lil Merle and the joy he spreaded around your community.
Love, Doreatha Lark-Wynn
Troyleena Pate
October 1, 2009
As each day passes, its gets a little harder, but somewhat easier to know that Merle is in the hands of the Lord. Life as I knew it, has changed forever, and the memories of him I cherish. As the coldness comes, he is covered with warmth, and he is not alone no more, and my tears of saddness are directly tears of peace that he is not struggling no more. I miss him so much and there is not a day that goes by that I do not look at his picture and close my eyes so that I can visualize my brother. He is loved, he was loved and I pray for his son, his parents and all his relatives and friends each and everyday.
HE IS NOT FORGOTTEN, AND HE NEVER WILL BE. HE WAS REMARKABLE, WITH AND ADDED TWISTED AND HE WILL ALWAYS BE MY BROTHER THAT I LOVED WITH ALL MY HEART.
Carl Brown
September 1, 2009
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Latoya dotson
August 26, 2009
I kewn him, and i am going to miss him so very much. I still can't believe he is gone. I thought he would come back AND VISIT ME BUT I GUESS NOT NOW.
Am gald he had a baby. He will live on for him. R I P Merle
Love Latoya Dotson
Troyleena Pate
August 24, 2009
As you layed so quiet and still
the presence of the LORD was REAL.
No more pain and hurt for you,
as you journey to a land that is indeed true.
No more hunger for you in this life, only P.R.A.Y.E.R and M.I.G.H.T.
Singing your lyrics OH SO SWEET,
you had a talent that was so UNIQUE.
You were my Angel and God made no mistake, a choosen son with a VEIL on your FACE.
You were not just an ordinary boy,
you were on A MISSION FOR THE LORD.
Saddly I was too blind to see,
the strength and grace you brought to me.
My brother in your death, I rose to the occassion of SELF-RESPECT.
For I lost something so sweet,
that only MY LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST can restore in me.
I listen my brother to your words, to get a better understanding of what occurred.
How our bond was suddenly BROKEN,
like a theif that devil was lurking.
Waiting for a chance to make everything look BAD, pushing the BIBLE away from our hands.
You came to protect, and all you reapped was disrespect.
Lifeless but full of HOPE,
you walked that long and narrow road.
Hoping for a chance to be LOVED, instead saddened by the response of those above.
I miss you oh so much, and I could really use a hug; but since you have gone on to meet the LORD, your LEGACY continues on through your SON.
Be not afraid anymore, for your mission on EARTH IS DONE.
GOD made NO MISTAKE IN YOU, for what he put in you was TRUE, oh my brother if I only KNEW,
the LIL MERLE THAT GREW.
(written by Troyleena)
To My Dearest Lil Merle,
I love You, I miss you and you are in my thoughts and prayers each and everyday. Your death has taught me so much and I finally realize why God made us so close. You brought me great joy, and I am proud to call you my little, BIG BROTHER.
Love Your Sister,
Troyleena Ikea Pate.
My Deepest Thanks to Each and Everyone who supported Lil Merle, who gave in our time of sorrow and who loved him inspite of what they may or may have not seen.
God Bless You All
Spyder Virus
August 24, 2009
He was my boy
Danette Casey
August 21, 2009
Merle was my friend's and my son's and he was a love like no other love. Life as I once knew it has changed forever and my heart will alway feel the separation. But I will alway be thankful to My Lord's and Savor Jesus Christ for 22yrs. Merle smile's will live on through all of us who love him.
Shannon Martin
August 19, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Richard Whitaker
August 19, 2009
Merle and Family,
Please know your in our prayers. We hope love and peace will follow you all the days of your lives.
Toni Brown
August 18, 2009
May God continue to bless you and keep you in your time of sorrow.
Karla & Gerard
August 18, 2009
Merle & Family
If I've learned anything down through the years, it's that nothing beautiful in this world is ever really loss.
Those we cherish will always live on in memory.
Sandra
August 18, 2009
Merle we are cousin but, I think of you as a brother.
Why?
That's what we ask. The truth is, we may never be able to know for sure why.
But we do know that there is no single "should have done" or "could have done" or "did" or "didn't do" that would have changed that why.
All the love could do was done.
With Deepest Sympathy
Johnny and Roberta Paige
August 18, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Valerie and Julia Hunter
August 17, 2009
Katina you and your family are in our prayers. God and your precious memories will get you through the days ahead. One day at a time.
August 17, 2009
Danette May you have comfort in knowing you and your
family are in our thoughts and prayers in you time of sorrow. CHERYL HAMM-FITZGERALD, GERARDIA WILLIS, JENNELL DANIELS AND TONYA COOPER
JETTICA MORRIS
August 17, 2009
MARK, OUR THOUGHTS & PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU & YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME. IF YOU NEED ANYTHING AT ALL DON'T HEISTATE TO LET US KNOW. JIMMY FOUND ONE OF THE CD'S YOU GAVE HIM & MERLE WAS ON IT. MY EYE'S FILLED WITH TEARS.. HE WAS SO TALENTED WITH A GREAT PERSONALITY.. NOW HE'S AN ANGEL & WILL FOREVER BE MISSED.
WE LOVE YOU,
JETTICA & JIMMY MORRIS
angela stewart
August 17, 2009
To the family my deepest sympathy goes to you and your family I will keep you in my prayers and thought through your time of grief. Troyleena you are with my thought and prayers
TWEETY & FAMILY
August 17, 2009
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
LUCILLE JONES-GRAY
August 17, 2009
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Carole D Moyer
August 17, 2009
It is our sincere prayer that the Lord would grant the comfort, grace and strength that only He can provide. May the Lord's presence embrace you at this difficult time.
Love,
Carole and Kevin Moyer (and Maria too)
Courtney Spradlin
August 17, 2009
May God bless your family with peace and strength during this time of sorrow.
August 17, 2009
Merle and Marva
May God continue to strenghten you during this time of bereavement.I pray for peace in your souls.No one knows or can explain why this had to take place but God knows.
I heard Little Merle's prayer through a song and I believe in my soul that he is with the Lord, so I find peace in that.When you feel like you can't make it tie a knot and hold on... God will be there...
Peace and Love I bring to you
Bishop Frank and Kathy English
Hazel Bowman
August 17, 2009
Danette, I did not know your son, but I know you. So he must have been a very kind and loving young man. All I can say is please know in your heart that all of our prayers are with you and your family at this time of great pain and sorrow. Please keep your head towards the sky. Keep your faith strong. Allow God to comfort you. We are here for you.
James & Rowena Taylor
August 17, 2009
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Steve Maxey
August 17, 2009
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
KEATH HAMPTON
August 17, 2009
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Michele Shannon
August 17, 2009
To Marva and Casey Family:
To my "Prayer Partner", friend and co-worker. My prayers are with you.
Monica Arnold-Johnson
August 17, 2009
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009
Michelle Bonds-Nicholson
August 17, 2009
Merle and Marva,
I want to express my deepest sympathies to you and the family.If there is anything I can do to ease any burden at this time please call.
Becky Jackson
August 17, 2009
Psalms 27:14. Katina and family my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May the sweet and precious memories of your loved one be comfort to you all in the days to come. Lean on our LORD for your strenght and the many friends that love you. GOD bless you.
Crystal Journette Hawkes
August 16, 2009
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Ajanet Hampton
August 16, 2009
The Casey Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Lil Merle. All of you are definitely in my prayers and may the Lord comfort you during this difficult time. He is definitely in a much better place watching over you all. Rest in peace Merle.
Caidi Luke
August 16, 2009
Weezy,
u were truely a memorable person. you always knew how to make someone laugh and make the best out of any situation. i will never forget all the times we spent together. May God bless your family and may you live in our hearts forever.
Renee' Fields
August 16, 2009
Because we care our lives are touched when sorrow comes to you, Because we care, our hearts are touched, we feel your sadness,too.We're with you in our thoughts today, You're with us in prayer Because we understand but most of all, because we care. With our sympathy Renee' and Family.
Renee, Al & Family
August 16, 2009
Merle,
We can never be separated from those we love... because God leaves us with memories to hold and love that doesn't passaway.
You're in the hearts of other who care about you and pray for you as God eases your sorrow and replaces it
with sweet memories.
In Sympathy
Sandra Morris
August 16, 2009
To the parents of their beloved son, Merle, I donot know your son,but I know your pain! My son was killed at the same age back in 1996. Iwant you to know that my prayers are with you and your family.And right now you feel that your heart is torn in pieces, you cannot eat nor sleep and you have anger but lean on your faith AND IT WILL GET YOU THREW the rough and hard times. And times goes along you will never forget but you can go on. I know as time go on I can talk about my son, Jesse and remember the good times and my heart feel warm. I will pray for you and your family every time I pray for mines.My sincere hope that God will carry you in your times of need and he will walk with you after everyone as went back to theirs lives and your heart is still aching. May God bless you.
Steve & Carol Poindexter
August 16, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
JC Poindexter
August 16, 2009
To the Casey Family:
from JC Poindexter and Family
We send our deepest condolences and prayers. Stay strong in the Lord and may God Bless You All.
Camese Noel
August 16, 2009
Casey Family,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love of God, and support of family and friends. You will continue to be in my prayers.
August 15, 2009
When a father passes on too early, we are given but one eternal source of comfort - the rememberance of lessons they taught and the legacy they have left in their children. May all those that loved Merle find peace in what they learned from him and may all those that love Josiah find strength to teach him the lessons of his father.
Karla Andrews
August 15, 2009
As you Remember Merle "A Young life has passed from our sight.... but never our hearts."
Parents never expect to outlive their children, and surely there is no loss that is sadder or harder to understand. Know that those who care about you are thinking of you with deep compassion and sorrow at this difficult time.
BG "MISS LADY"
August 15, 2009
Merle, I don't even know what to say. Hanging out with you was always fun and you always knew how to make everyone laugh. I'm going to miss the funny songs and the late night phone calls. I wish we could've hung out soon like we were planning to but you were taken too soon. We love and miss you "Weezy"!
"If you have my back, I will have yours."
August 15, 2009
There are times when the right words just don't exist..times when feelings are too deep to be expressed, but at this sad time may it bring you some peace and comfort to know that caring thought are with you every day .
Love Aunt Lean
Washington, D.C
Charlene Pender
August 14, 2009
Danette,
My you continue to be strong,and keep the faith that God has blessed you with.We all love you so very much.
Please know that you and your family
are in our prayers. Your forever friend.
Gertlene Leak
August 14, 2009
Danette,
Our prayers are with you and your family. Look toward the Heavens and he will give you strength.
Your Evangelfellowship family.
Miranda Pearson
August 14, 2009
Merle Sr, Marva Ann, Mark, and Katina,
Praying for you all and your families in this time of bereavement. Brandon, Mom (Doreatha) and I love you all very much!
Lois Whorley-Crawford
August 14, 2009
To the Pate and Casey family,Please accept my condolences, God only put people here for a time and a short journey, we are only passing through,and when our time has come, God takes us to a place where peaceful waters flow,No more hurt or pain,a place prepared just for us.R.I.P
Chassidy (Jordan) Young
August 14, 2009
I am so sorry for the loss of merle,we went to school together and I am in
shock. He was a great friend and could brighten your day when you were down. You are going to be missed...
Monique Montree
August 14, 2009
Lil' Merle was one of the best things to ever walked into my life. He always knew how to cheer me up and make me smile. Everytime we were together, we always had so much fun. He was always a gentlemen and never disrespected me. He truely was an angel on earth and everytime I was in his arms I felt safe. I feel safe now knowing that he is in the heavens watching over me. God Bless his wonderful family and his son Josiah. I will always love you baby and I will see you soon.
Love,
Monique and The Montree Family
*I will always keep my promise baby*
Kristen (Carter) Swink
August 14, 2009
I lived up the road from Merle and went to school with him. He was always the funny guy and always knew how to cheer someone up. I know you will be greatly missed. To the family you will be in my thoughts and prayers.
Sheena Wimmer
August 14, 2009
Merle was loved and cherished by many. He may no longer be here with us in physical presence but he will be with us each and everyday in spirit. He had so much love and talent in his heart that will live on through his son, Josiah. He is in a better place smiling down on those he loves. I feel him...he walks with me...... Thanks for everyones thoughts and prayers.
Love Always and Forever
Sheena and Josiah
"For He shall give his angels charge over you, to keep you in all your ways." Psalms 91:11
August 14, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss.Lil' Merle was a very nice young man. I only knew him for a short time,but he really was a good guy and kind.May God Bless and keep him.Kim Taylor
Anthony, Angie & Jeneva Preston
August 14, 2009
Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. Lil' Merle will be greatly missed.
August 14, 2009
Merle you are deeply missed. I cant belive you are gone. I am going to miss you silly jokes and loveable smile . No matter what you could allways just walk in a room and brighten in up . Everyone missing you merle like crazy i hope u can now R.I.P homie
August 14, 2009
Danette,
We have been friends since childhood. We've watched each other's children grow up and have children of their own.
I now realize that we were placed together for a reason....... I could always count on you to brighten up a dreary day or pray for me when I couldn't pray for myself. So today it's my turn to repay what you have done for me. I cannot remove your pain but I will stay in constant prayer for your strength diring this time.
Hold on to your memories and continue to love your family.
I love you,
Debora Flint
August 14, 2009
Danette,
We have been friends since childhood. We've watched each other's children grow up and have children of their own.
I now realize that we were placed together for a reason....... I could always count on you to brighten up a dreary day or pray for me when I couldn't pray for myself. So today it's my turn to repay what you have done for me. I cannot remove your pain but I will stay in constant prayer for your strength during this time.
Hold on to your memories and continue to love your family.
I love you,
Melvin & Leisia Cooley
August 14, 2009
Words cannot express our sorrow for your loss. May God hold you closely as you travel through this time of grief.
we will keep you in our thoughts & prayers
Ebony Hicks
August 14, 2009
Lena,
I love you and I'm praying for you. I am so sorry to hear of lil' Merle's passing, I still can't believe it. To the rest of the Pate/Casey family I love you all and I am praying for peasce and comfort in your times of sorrow.
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