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Joyce Abe Obituary

Beloved wife, mother, and grandmother, Joyce "Pat" Abe, 79, of Roanoke, Va., passed away peacefully on November 19, 2009. Born on August 17, 1930 in Bath County Virginia, she was the daughter of Clara and Hubert Patteson. She is survived by her husband, Charles Hugh; two daughters, Susan Abe and Elizabeth Abe; and two grandchildren, David Guynn and Elle Zeller. She was preceded in death by a sister, Charlotte Harris, of Stuarts Draft, Va. She is survived by siblings William "Bill" Patteson, of Verona, Va. and Lorraine Montgomery, of Burlington, N.C.; and many beloved nieces and nephews. Pat was a graduate of Millboro High School and the Roanoke Memorial Hospital nursing school. She practiced both in the United States and in France. She worked for DC General Hospital, the US Army, Community Hospital, and Dr. Branch's private practice. She enjoyed antiques, auctions, refinishing furniture, fine carpentry, flower arranging, oil painting, sewing, quilting, interior decorating, and genealogy. Open to new experiences, Pat achieved many skills throughout her life, including both spelunking and Internet genealogical research when in her 60's. Pat was a devoted wife to Charles "Hugh" for 60 years. They first met when Hugh made a bet with a friend to see who would get a date first! They lived and worked together in France, Japan, Hawaii, and the Washington area before returning to Roanoke. The family will receive friends and share memories on November 22, 2009 from 2 to 5 p.m. at the family residence at 6932 Mary B. Place, Roanoke. In lieu of flowers, donations may be sent to either the Poage's Mill Church of the Brethren or the American Cancer Society. The family would like to express their very deep appreciation to the unwavering support of the Poage's Mill community during Pat's illness and passing.
Published by Roanoke Times from Nov. 21 to Nov. 22, 2009.

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Carmen Jordon Martin

December 7, 2009

Liz, Susan and Hugh,

I know there's nothing I can say to help or change things, but I want you all to know how saddened I am to find out about Pat. I just found out. I didn't realize she had been ill.

There are so many fond memories that I have from early childhood through high school and even college of her and your entire family that I'll never forget.

Please know that I'm thinking of you...

Elaine Wilkinson

November 22, 2009

Pat was a neighbor to our family for 24 years. We will miss her very much. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

Pam Berberich

November 22, 2009

Elizabeth and Elle
My prayers are with you and your family. I am thinking of you.

Susan Abe

November 21, 2009

The family will welcome friends at the home on Sunday, November 22nd from 2 PM to 5 PM. We ask that memorials be made in Pat's name to Poage's Mills Church of the Brethren or the American Cancer Society in lieu of flowers.

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