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Eleanor Ellis Obituary

Eleanor Dauer Ellis, 90, of Roanoke, Va., passed away peacefully on Thursday evening, December 3, 2009. She was born in Chicago, Ill., on August 10, 1919. This gentle soul is survived by her five children, Grant and wife, Joy, Sarah, Lou and wife, Becky, Leslie, and Russ and wife, Kelly. Also surviving are her sister, Adele Van Altena; and eight grandchildren, Chuck Willey, Kathy Messinger, Sarah Rokicka, Christopher Mize, Jamie, Dauer and Ginna Ellis, and Rob Floyd; and five greatgrandchildren. Eleanor was predeceased by her husband, Henry G. Ellis Jr.; two brothers; and one sister. Eleanor was very adventurous, and lived life to it's fullest, spending several years living in India, among other exotic places. She was passionate about travel, spirituality, and her family. The family wishes to express their appreciation for the many kindnesses extended to Eleanor by the caring staff of Our Lady of the Valley. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to CHIP of Roanoke Valley or Children's Trust. A private family service will be held at St. John's Episcopal Church. Friends are invited to a celebration of Eleanor's life to be held at the home of Russ and Kelly Ellis from 4:30 to 6:30 p.m. on Thursday, December 17, 2009. Arrangements by Oakey's South Chapel & Crematory, 540-989-3131.

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Published by Roanoke Times from Dec. 5 to Dec. 7, 2009.

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Katherine 'Kat' Roche Irby

December 18, 2009

My heart aches for you all. As a small child, I remember your Mother as a kind and gentle woman--with patience that was unspeakable. May your wonderful memories get you through these hard times.

Kitty Roche

December 17, 2009

Having had the privilege of meeting Eleanor, owner of the Ellis abode, after her trip to India to meditate and seeing what a wonderful job she did in raising a grand, loving, protective family by herself, I always had great admiration for her gentle tenacity and strength. I had equal admiration for the returned love and kindnesses of her children, especially in her later years. What a nice family! My love to all of you. I share your loss.

December 9, 2009

So Sorry to hear of your loss. We did not know about your mom until after we heard about Sarah. Shirley and I both have you in our thoughts and prayers. She must have been one fantastic lady to have wonderful kids like all of you. Bev and Shirley Fitzpatrick

Blake Cogbill

December 8, 2009

Lou,

Please know that you and your family are in our hearts and prayers.

Bob & Olga Floyd

December 8, 2009

December 9, 2009

Sincere condolences and know you have many happy and fond memories of your Mother. We are also greatly concerned about Sarah's condition and pray for her.

Tommy and Vikki Thomas

December 7, 2009

Heartfelt condolences to all of you; I hope your grief today quickly recedes and is replaced only by the fondest memories of your Mother. Peace to all.

December 6, 2009

On behalf of our family thank you so much for your kind expressions. It means a great deal to us.

Sincerely,

Lou & Becky Ellis

Susan Magerkurth

December 6, 2009

Our deepest sympathy to the family.

December 5, 2009

We are so sad to hear of Mrs. Ellis' passing. We will miss that sweet smile she always greeted us with when we visited our mother at Our Lady. We extend our deepest sympathies to her loving family.
Diane Brogan and Linda Wright
(Mrs. Catron's daughters)

December 5, 2009

Our sincere condolences are sent to you at this sad time. May the fond memories of your mother and the love for each other sustain you in your grief.

Betsy & Joe Thomas
Canton, Georgia

Steve Lilly

December 5, 2009

Grant,
I am sorry to hear of your loss.
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

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