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Katherine Dorius Obituary

Katherine Bean Dorius 1949 ~ 2008 Kathy Dorius, 59, passed away July 27, 2008 at her home in Draper, Utah of melanoma. Born February 28, 1949 in Salt Lake City, to Ralph James and Helen Coray Bean. She graduated from Highland High School and the University of Utah with a degree in speech therapy. She loved dancing especially with the Utah Civic Ballet Company. On September 4, 1968, Kathy married her childhood sweetheart, Earl F. Dorius, in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. Together they raised four beautiful daughters who inherited their mother's love of dance, and two wonderful sons. She was an active member of the LDS Church and served in many ward and stake positions including Relief Society President, Young Women's President, Activities Chairman, and Ward Missionary. She also choreographed many church musical productions. She loved serving others. She was a speech therapist and also worked with children with special needs in the Granite and Jordan School Districts. She was the Office Manager at Aspen Ridge Dental, and served as the Executive Secretary of the Utah All-Breeds Horse Show Association and the National Association of Extradition Officials. But most of all, she loved being a stay-at-home mom while raising her six children. Kathy was the most kind and selfless person who was adored by everyone who knew her. She would do anything for her children, and each one considered her their best friend. The Dorius home was a gathering place where the children brought all of their friends. Kathy gladly hosted these gatherings and made life a party for everyone. She had the uncanny ability of remembering the name of every person she ever met, and memorizing their phone numbers. She rarely had need for a phone directory. She loved family traditions like trips to Disneyland, Balboa Beach, and the family condo in St. George, hosting brunches on Christmas morning, dinners at the Pagoda Restaurant, and the annual family pilgrimage to Payson, Utah to camp in the trailer and celebrate Onion Days every Labor Day weekend. She loved to travel, and especially enjoyed touring England and Wales where her husband had served his LDS mission. She is survived by her husband, Earl, Draper, UT; children, Jennifer Allen (Scott), Sandy, UT; Dawn Hall (Aaron), Sandy, UT; Ashley Marsee (Robert), Layton, UT; Amanda Hatch (Brett), Lehi, UT; Joshua Dorius (Megan), South Jordan, UT; and Adam Dorius, Draper, UT; sister, Barbara Bean Daly, Salt Lake; sister-in-law, Ruth Ellen Bean, and 17 grandchildren: Jessica, Tanner, Sam, Mackenzie, Mackay, Hayden, Taylor, Rustyn, Kamryn, Neil (Lynette), Chace, Dane, Jake, Jane, Tobe, and Alyson. She was preceded in death by her parents and brother Michael Coray Bean. A viewing will be held Wed., July 30, 2008, from 6-8 p.m. at the Mountain Point 5th Ward located at 400 East Stokes Avenue (13535 S.) in Draper. Funeral services will be Thurs., July 31, 2008, at 12 noon at the Mountain Point 5th Ward Chapel with a viewing beginning at 10:30 a.m. Interment at Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 E. 10600 S., Sandy, Utah. Funeral director, Mike Anderson 801-580-3366. Online condolences at [email protected]. We will miss you Mom ("Grandma Kathy"), but we are comforted by the knowledge the gospel provides that you will be near during special occasions and those special times when we need you the most.

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Published by The Salt Lake Tribune from Jul. 29 to Jul. 30, 2008.

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Debbie Bartholomew

August 12, 2008

I worked with Kathy and Ashley at the Utah State Fair, only one day each year, but was made to feel like I was a special friend of Kathy's. We got caught up on each other's life as we played "horse show" and laughed our way through that day. Kathy was truly a loving, organized, remarkable woman, and I am enriched by knowing her for the short bit that I did. Best of luck to her family for the tough times ahead, but aren't we lucky that we know where her beautiful spirit is, and that death is not the end? Love to all.

Shauna Bennion

August 6, 2008

Dear Earl and Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. I always remember Kathy for her kindness and thoughtfulness. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. Shauna Bennion (Herrera)

Lisa Kingsbury

August 5, 2008

Dear Family of Kathy;

My family and I are patients of Aaron Hall. We really enjoyed seeing Kathy each time we had a visit. She was always so gracious, always remembered our names, always very helpful.
She was our first impression of Dr. Halls office and it was a wonderful one.
I hope that the memories you have of Kathy will sustain you through the sad times and will bring you all peace.
I didn't know her well, but can tell that she was a wonderful person and will be deeply missed. My prayers are with you all.

Tim Carambelas

August 4, 2008

Jennifer,

I always admired how much you as a teenager -- at an age when most kids typically try to spend less and less time with their families -- cherished being with yours. Certainly your Mom deserves much of the credit (as does your Dad and the four pretty girls living there) for creating the kind of environment that you, and so many of our mutual friends loved being around.



I have no doubt that, as a tribute to your Mom, this legacy will continue in the homes you and your brothers and sisters have made.



Please accept my most heartfelt condolences.

Art & Elaine Glenn & Family

August 1, 2008

Earl and Kids,
We were so sorry to hear of Kathy's passing Sunday morning. I have been out of town on business and was unable to tell you personally how much we loved and appreciated Kathy. The families of the Butler 8th Ward all felt her kind and gentle caring for them while she served as Relief Society President. We will always remember, with fondness, the good times we shared at the Christmas open houses your family hosted each year. We have missed our group sing-alongs as we have all grown older and lost our voices and memories for lyrics. We will always treasure the friendship and association we have had over the years. We know that Kathy has touched the lives of many and our thoughts and prayers are with you at this tender time in your life. We know the knowledge of the eternal nature of families will be a comfort to you all.
With all our love,

Linda Warner

July 31, 2008

Dear Earl, Mandy, Dawn and Jenn - Our prayers and thoughts are with you at this sad time. Although it is sad, we have also reflected on happy memories of Kathy. She was always a delight to be around - always happy and warm. I too, lost my mother at an early age (she was 50) and I know that even when you are prepared for it, it is still hard. I also know that she will be very near at special times as you said in the obituary. You are in our prayers.
Love, Paul and Linda Warner

Debbie Markosian

July 31, 2008

Dear Earl and Family, I was so shocked to learn of Kathy's illness and death this week. I used to live in the Cottonwood Heights area with all of you and remember Kathy and you with fondness. I know she will be missed by all of you and her friends. May God bless you at this time and be with you all.

Sincerely,

Debbie Markosian

Valaine Brown

July 31, 2008

Dear Dawn, Jenn and families,
I am so sorry for your loss. What experiences and emotions you have gone and are going through. Even though we are so greatful to know and understand the Plan of Salvation, it is still hard to lose a parent. (I lost my dad two years ago). Take comfort from the great memories you have had with your mom. They will become treasures and will help you through the times when you will miss her deeply and wish you could just talk to her one more time. What a tribute you all are to your mom and her legacy will continue through you great people. Know that I care.
With love,
Valaine Brown (Robert, Terry, Kira and Carissa too)

Pat (Hill) Buck

July 30, 2008

Dear Earl, I did not know your wife, but I remember you from school. I'm sorry to hear of your loss, and my thoughts are with you and your family. Thank you for your friendship.

David & Celia Jacobson

July 30, 2008

From part of the Morgan horse association, we are so sorry to hear of your loss and our loss, she was a great Lady and we will deeply miss her at all of the horse shows

Steve Mikita

July 30, 2008

Dear Earl,
I am so sorry for your loss. Kathy was always so kind and good to me. I always felt her caring nature and generous attitude when I met her. You are in my prayers and my thoughts. You know what I know-- that your reunion will not only be sweet, but be forever.
With my love and sympathy,

Steve Mikita

Chris Johnson

July 30, 2008

Earl and Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. Kathy was a wonderful caring person. Our prayers are with you at this time.

Glen, Chris and Brandon Johnson

Charles Carlston

July 30, 2008

Freddie:

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. She must have been a special lady. And the two of you will miss each other until you reunite beyond the veil.

My prayers are with you, the children and grandchildren who will be quite disrupted by her early departure.

Love,

Chuck Carlston (cousin)

Julia Vernon

July 30, 2008

For Earl and the family -
My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort you with His richest comfort.

Jon Butler

July 30, 2008

Dear Earl and Family:

Shauna and I express our most sincere condolences to you at this time.

Jon and Shauna Butler

Brent and Pat Kranendonk

July 30, 2008

Earl (and family),

Your wonderful life is still a beacon to all who know you, even though we last saw you over 38 years ago at your wedding reception. After reading about Kathy today, we wish you the very best and are grateful to see you have both lived the lives expected by anyone who knew you.

Stories about you have occasionally been read in the Deseret News Online and in the papers when we have visited Salt Lake over the years; so somehow we feel as though we still know you.

We know your family will continue to be the comfort and strength you need.

Sincerely,

Dave & Jan Swope

July 30, 2008

Dearest Earl and Family,
As friends from so long ago, we treasure the memories of the "Little Society" folk singing group, and the love and kindness of Kathy during those wonderful years. She and Dave were the original "goupies".

Kathy was always so giving and sharing. She lent me her beautiful wedding veil to wear at my wedding. It was a wonderful gesture, that meant more to me than anyone could know.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of loss. But, because of our comforting beliefs we know all of you will be with her again and she will be painfree and more beautiful than ever.

From Houston, our tender love and prayers.

Judy & Wayne Andersen

July 29, 2008

Earl and Family. We express our Sympathy to you at this time.

Sandra Dorius

July 29, 2008

Dear Earl and family,
We are so sorry about Kathy's passing, but know that she is finally out of pain and no longer feeling ill. She is having a great reunion with her family that has gone before her and know she will always be watching over your family, rejoicing with you during your triumphs and strengthening you during the hard times.
Kathy was such a wonderful example of sharing love, kindness and overall happiness everywhere she went. She always made you feel important when you were around her.
I recently emailed her and she told me cancer sucks (and I agree) and she gave me Josh's blog page, which I enjoyed reading, it gave me a new perspective on how family members feel when a loved one is dealing with cancer.
If any of you need anything please feel free to call us, we would love to help any way possible.
We love your family and are praying for you and hope that you can all find comfort in the knowledge we have in the gospel and knowing she has returned home to her Father in Heaven.

Love,
Todd & Sandy Dorius and family

Marsha Abernethy

July 29, 2008

I didn't know Kathy that well, but I worked with Earl. I am so sorry for your loss. Reading Josh's blog was incredible, what a wonderful son. My heart aches for you all.

Sally Davis

July 29, 2008

Memories of Kathy always bring a smile. Laughter came easy to her.
I remember all the good times we had in the "old" neighborhood. The parties...the one's you hosted...cookie exchanges, BQ's, dinners, open houses...the one's Bean's had... Mash party, Bag Lady, "Family Reunion" w/ the Nordstrom branch. How we'd laugh till we'd cry.
Great, great memories!
Kathy really celebrated life and loved much! What a wonderful legacy she has left!
Know that you are in our prayers
Love,
Sally Davis

Debbie, Dirk, Taylor, and Maddy Peterson

July 29, 2008

Dear Dorius Family,

We are neighbors of Jenn and Scott, and just wanted to let you know how deeply sorry we are at the passing of your sweet mom and grandma. We loved "Grandma Kathy." She was such a neat lady, and always had a smile for us and greeted us by name. We know that she will now be watching over you all, will be your own special guardian angel, and will be there for you to provide comfort and help when you need it most. May your knowledge of the gospel and His plan for us give you much comfort in the coming days.

With love,

Lee Ann Tuckfield

July 29, 2008

Earl and family,
So sorry for your loss. Kathy was indeed a very special person--loving, kind, strong. She will be missed by many. Praying you will be comforted and blessed with peace. Earl and Kathy have always had a special place in my heart, and they have raised a wonderful family. God bless you all, Lee Ann Tuckfield and family

Diane Moore

July 29, 2008

Dear Dorius Family, I have followed Josh's Journal and have been so impressed with your wonderful family for the way you have dealt with this very heartbreaking trial in your lives. Earl, how blessed you are to be surrounded by such loving and caring children! My heart aches for all of you, moms are such a special part of our lives. But, I have no doubt that she will never be far away from you. I love your family and I am so grateful for the example and faith you have shared with each of us through your journal. Gather those precious little grandchildren and have them write all the special memories they have of Kathy and make a little memory book for each of them that they can read when they have days that are hard and they are missing grandma so much. It will bring a smile to their lips and a warm feeling that will get them through. I love you all and pray for each of you every day, Love, Diane Moore

Leslie Dorius-Jones

July 29, 2008

Earl and Family, I am so sorry for your loss, and it is a tremendous loss for all of you. I found the blog about Kathy through my brother Todd and have read some of what she must have endured. She is at peace now. I know what you went through because of what we, my sibs and I ,did with my mother in her last stages of cancer 2 years ago. Time will lessen the blow, but won't erase all the good memories. Take care all.

Adrian Gatherum

July 29, 2008

Dear Dorius Family,
I am a friend of Amanda's and have been keeping up with Kathy's journey-I am so very sorry for your loss. Words seem so simple at a time like this and there aren't ample words to express my sincere sympathy. I am grateful for the knowledge the gospel brings, even though it does not take away the pain and grief that you are all feeling right now. I have been so impressed by your strength and faith during this trial and loss. You have been in my prayers and will continue to be as you embark upon the time ahead without your wife and mom. Cling to each other for support and strength. I know that your mom will be with you and continue to guide your life with her love.

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