There was always a project under way when Joseph Maffeo, T.J. Beinert and Robert Melloy got together. Which was pretty much always.
As teenagers, the friends spent a summer cruising Staten Island in a Cadillac they made into a convertible by sawing off the roof.
Mr. Maffeo was the handyman. "He always had the right nut or the right bolt," Mr. Beinert said. As a firefighter, Mr. Maffeo, 30, was called Joey Pockets because he sewed so many onto his bunker gear to make room for gadgets.
He carried a black duffel bag with rope, gloves, water and a can of tuna. Just in case.
That is why his wife, Linda, kept hoping, even after many other missing firefighter's wives had given up on any hope that their husbands would survive.
"Joey's got his tuna and water," Mrs. Maffeo, 26, had said. "Joey's probably rationing it out," the wife of another firefighter at Ladder Co. 101 in Red Hook, Brooklyn, had added. The Maffeos, who have a 1-year- old son, Christopher Joseph, met while she was working as a bank teller. He asked her out. She agreed.
"I wouldn't usually do that," Mrs. Maffeo said. "You know when you can look at someone and tell they're a sweetheart?"
Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 4, 2001.
MAFFEO-Joseph. FDNY. On September 11, 2001. Killed in the line of duty at the World Trade Center. Beloved husband of Linda (nee Dornes), loving father of Christopher, fond son of Louis and Jean, cherished brother of Donna Maffeo, Susan Drury, Linda Manfredi and Debra Morri. Also survived and loved by many nieces and nephews. Memorial service at 11:00 A.M., Monday, December 3, Our Lady Queen of Peace Church, Staten Island, NY. In lieu of flowers, donations to the Christopher Maffeo Fund would be appreciated. For further information, please contact Hanley Funeral Home, 718-351-1800.
Paid notice published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on December 2, 2001.