Special Warfare Operator PO 2nd Class (SEAL) Nicholas P. Spehar

Special Warfare Operator PO 2nd Class (SEAL) Nicholas P. Spehar

Nicholas P. Spehar Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 12, 2011.

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August 6, 2025

14 YRS, GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE

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May 26, 2025

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May 27, 2024

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THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.

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May 29, 2023

THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.
GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.

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August 10, 2022

Gone but not forgotten -- - never forgotten

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2022

11 YRS, GONE NOT FORGOTTEN
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE

Sandee Garza Schock

May 30, 2022

GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2021

10 YRS, GONE NOT FORGOTTEN
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE

Sandee Garza Schock

May 31, 2021

THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.
GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2020

9 years gone but not forgotten.
Rest In Peace.

Sandee Garza Schock

May 25, 2020

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.
Gone But Not Forgotten.

Corey Fernandez

December 26, 2019

You were and are the best of us. If we could manage a life half as honorable as yours with the years your sacrifice has granted us, what a world this would be. My heart aches for your family, but my family is grateful that we are safer because of you. God bless you and your family. More importantly, THANK YOU.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2019

8 YRS GONE NOT FORGOTTEN
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE

Sandee Garza Schock

May 27, 2019

Rest In Peace HERO
Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice

Sincerely

HOWARD LOSO

November 25, 2018

THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2018

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.
Gone But Not Forgotten

Jim Hoffoss

July 4, 2018

My family and I frequently travel to Taylor's Fall, and along the route thereto, we see a sign honoring SO2 Spehar. I decided to google the man's name, who I intuitively knew had lost his life while defending others. By EVERY account, SO2 Spehar was an exceptional man, and I wish merely to say thank you to his family for the service he gave to all of us, and to also express my deepest condolences.

Sandee Garza Schock

May 29, 2018

Never Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2017

GONE 6 YRS BUT YOU'RE NOT FORGOTTEN.
THANK YOU FOR THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE.

Sandee Garza Schock

May 29, 2017

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice.
Gone But Not Forgotten.

August 7, 2016

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Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2016

5 years Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice

Sandee Garza Schock

May 30, 2016

GONE BUT NOT FORGOTTEN

Sandee Garza Schock

November 11, 2015

Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice. Gone But Not Forgotten.

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2015

Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice

Sandee Garza Schock

May 25, 2015

Gone But Not Forgotten
Thank You for the ultimate sacrifice

Sandee Garza Schock

August 6, 2014

R I P HERO
Gone But Not Forgotten

Sandee Garza Schock

May 26, 2014

Gone But Not Forgotten
Thanks for the ultimate sacrifice

Leila Campbell

August 21, 2013

To the family of Special Warfare Operator PO 2nd Class Nicholas P Spehar:
As you may know, the Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation has honored your loved one at its Memorial Day Sunday worship service (each year in May) … since the time of your fallen hero's ultimate sacrifice. We will continue to pay tribute to our nation's veterans … lest we ever forget!

Now we would like to honor you … as the next-of-kin … who have also paid a great price on the altar of liberty. On Sunday 29 September at 11:00 a.m. we will host a Gold Star Family Sunday.

I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship … as we pay tribute to your sacrifice. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain (Colonel-Retired) Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “By Dying, We Live.” The special music will be the husband/wife vocal/piano — Wickman Duo. Following the worship experience, your family is invited to attend a social time in our Fellowship Hall … with some light refreshments.

As this historic chapel has limited seating, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org

If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.

Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]

Leila Campbell

May 1, 2013

To the family of Special Warfare Operator PO2nd Class (Seal) Nicholas P. Spehar:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, 26 May 2013. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.

The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served in the United States Armed Forces and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each 8-foot cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.

I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Freedom:Free, but Costly.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and there place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel. The Memorial Garden will remain until 5:00 p.m. on Monday, 27 May (Memorial Day).

As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/286-7296) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/286-7296) or email the office ([email protected]) and leave your name and contact information.

Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 25 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday, 26 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.

If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.

Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org

Charlie Gili

April 30, 2013

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Spehar Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Sandra Schock

August 7, 2012

Gone But Never Forgotten

Peggy Childers

August 7, 2012

August 6, 2012
To the family and friends of Special Warfare Operator PO 2nd Class (SEAL) Nicholas P. Spehar:
Remembering Nicholas on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten.

Curtis Glass

August 6, 2012

On this day of the 1 Year anniverary , I wanted to remind your family that Nicholas's sacrifice Has not & Will not be forgotten by my family & I . This Country seems to forget how Lucky we are to have the caliber of people that it takes to do what these men & women do & the families that raise them . God Bless our troops & there familes .

May 2, 2012

To the family of Special Warfare Operator PO 2nd Class Nicholas P. Spehar:
The Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation will be honoring your loved one at the non-denominational Christian Memorial Day Remembrance worship service at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday 27 May 2012. We will remember the casualties of the Global War on Terrorism from Minnesota … and the bordering states of Iowa, North Dakota, South Dakota and Wisconsin. Outside of the historic Fort Snelling Veterans Memorial Chapel will be a “Memorial Garden” filled with some 300 white crosses bearing the names of the war dead … including your loved one.

The Memorial Garden will be encircled with larger white crosses representing all of the wars of our nation's history and give honor to all who have served the United States and made the ultimate sacrifice for the freedoms we enjoy today. Wreaths will be placed at the foot of each cross bearing the number of U.S. Service Members killed in each of America's conflicts.

I would like to extend to your family an invitation to honor us with your presence at worship as we pay tribute to the sacrifice made by your service member and family. Our pastor, U.S. Army Chaplain Col. Kenneth L. Beale, Jr., will preach a message entitled, “Lest We Forget Freedom's Cost.” At the conclusion of the worship hour, all of the congregation will be invited to silently pay their respects at the garden and place poppies at each of the crosses. A Memorial Rifle Squad of the Fort Snelling National Cemetery will fire vollies as the US flag is lowered to half-staff and Taps is played. Following your visit to the Memorial Garden, your family is invited to attend an informal reception (weather permitting) outside of the Chapel.

As this Christian worship service has traditionally been well attended, we would be happy to reserve seating for you and yours. To do so, kindly call (651/456-4410) and leave a voice message indicating your veterans' name and the number of persons attending. For more information about the Foundation or driving directions to the historic chapel at Fort Snelling, visit our website at: www.fortsnellingmcf.org Special rates for nearby hotels will be available. For more information call (651/456-4410) or email ([email protected]) the office, and leave your name and contact information.

Also, beginning at dusk (8:30 p.m.) on Saturday 26 May through dawn (6:30 a.m.) on Sunday 27 May, a “Prayer Vigil for Peace” will be held in the sanctuary of the Chapel. You are invited to stop by, light a candle and place it at the foot of your loved one's cross in the Memorial Garden … and then enter the Chapel for prayer.

If you are not able to attend, we pray that you would find comfort in knowing that our prayers are with you and all of the fallen heroes.

Respectfully,
Leila Campbell
Office Manager
Fort Snelling Memorial Chapel Foundation
email:[email protected]
web site:www.fortsnellingmcf.org

January 31, 2012

This link is provided for the family of Nicholas. I wrote this article about your son/brother/nephew and wanted to share it with you. Didn't know any other way to get the info to you.

I know the loss was tremendous for you, but to paraphrase what your daughter said during the funeral, I thank God for the 24 years this country did have with Nicholas. I honor both his service and your loss.

http://commotioninthepews.com/?p=399

dee coombes grammer

October 31, 2011

Annette and family,

I am so very for the loss of your son, it takes a lot for a person to choose the military life. I apprecite that your son chose to protect our freedoms. He must have been a very special young man. I pray for you to find peace at this most difficult time.

Lance O. Adams

October 11, 2011

Rest in Peace Warrior, your sacrifice will not be forgotten. A grateful America thanks you for your service and welcomes you home to your final place of rest as you have given all that one can give. And may the Lord wrap his arms around the family and help them find a measure of peace. With the utmost respect, TSAF ......

Gary Allain

October 10, 2011

SPECIAL WARFARE OPERATOR PO 2ND CLASS (SEAL) NICHOLAS P. SPEHAR
You are my Hero may God keep you in his arms forever.

Toni Flamion

September 15, 2011

I am awed by the hometown stories of all these heroes. Thank you for Nicholas. I will not forget these young men. I have shed many tears reading the stories of their lives.

WILMA VILLA

August 31, 2011

KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE LOVED AND REMEMBERED FOREVER.

August 28, 2011

Dear Spehar family,
Our family grieves the loss of Nicholas. A true hero. He will not be forgotten. We are humbled by his service and sacrifice. May the love of family and friends carry you though your grief. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
K. Collins family of Colo. Sgs., CO

Kristine (Appel) Magrum

August 23, 2011

May his soul and all the souls of the faithfully departed Rest In Peace, Amen. Many thanks for Nick's selfless service. Prayers go out for Nick and the rest of the Spehar family. It has been many years but, I have fond memories of being homeschooled with Marie, Nick, and Luke. May God give you all strength during this painful time.

Betty D

August 22, 2011

My deepest condolences to SO2 Spehar's parents and his entire family for the loss of your special loved one, and my sincere thanks, as a citizen, for the ultimate sacrifice that Nicholas made in giving his life for our country. You are in my prayers.

Lynne Neibert

August 22, 2011

Prayer Shawls 4 Fallen Soldiers ([email protected]) is an organization with groups throughout the country who strive to send handmade prayer shawls and/ or lap robes to families who have lost a loved one in service to our country. Members of Trindle Spring Lutheran Church in Mechanicsburg, PA would like to honor your son's sacrifice and memory by sending our prayers and comfort through a shawl which we will mail to you. If you are interested, please contact me at [email protected] with the names and addresses and what they would like to receive. We will send them as soon as possible. Also, if you know of any other families who are grieving the loss of a loved one who died serving our country, please pass along my e-mail address, as our organization can no longer get family contacts through the military. May God bless you and comfort you in the days ahead. Sincerely, Lynne

Zach Reed

August 20, 2011

On behalf of fellow firefighters of the Chisago Lakes area, it was an honor to help celebrate your life. You were an excellent young man and your service was greatly appreciated by friends, family and the community. Your memory will forever remain in our hearts and souls.
Thank you for your service!

Chisago City Fire Department

J. Spehar

August 19, 2011

Nicholas touched so many...I am proud to carry the military Spehar name- I cannot and will never compare to his service record but love him and his service to our wonderful country! today's service was an honoring tribute to a fine young man.

joseph losier

August 19, 2011

it was my sincere honor, and a humbling experience to render SO2 his final honors today. my heart goes out to his family and his team. thank you nicholas for all that you did for our navy, our country, and for our freedom. god bless you, and i will carry the memory of your sacrifice until the end of my days.

Mary Glatz

August 19, 2011

I hope for peace to his family. Thank you for his service for all.

Theresa Bennett

August 19, 2011

Hello,

I have never meet you, but know Fr. Jeff Huard very well. My prayers have been with you and will continue to be with you during this time of great loss. As mentioned by so many others Nicholas paid the ultimate price. He truly embraced his faith, by laying his life down for ones friends. It's easy for me to say I pray you will feel the love of Christ around you during this great time, but yet you may feel he is miles away, but in reality He is most present to you in those who are helping hold you up during this great time of loss. Be assured of my continued prayers for you especially in the days and weeks to come.
May you feel the arms of Jesus and Mary holding you during this time.

Blessings,

Peggy Childers

August 19, 2011

To the family of Special Warfare Operator PO 2nd Class (SEAL) Nicholas P. Spehar:
Nicholas gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."

Alex Zacho

August 18, 2011

I was a classmate of Nick's. He was a kind person, always so nice to me in class, wonderful smile. He will be missed greatly. Thank you Nick, for your service as a soldier, classmate and friend.

Hattie Vojvodich

August 18, 2011

My heart breaks when I see we lost another great man...My deepest sympathy to his family and my deepest gratitude to Nicholas and the rest of the guys who are doing a tremendous job! Praying for you all on a daily basis! Thank you so much!

Gary Finseth

August 18, 2011

I did not know Nicholas or his family, but my thoughts and prayers are with them now.

Valerie Brunnette

August 18, 2011

So sorry for your loss. He will be missed.

m a

August 18, 2011

from one warrior to another. your act of service to this country, will not go unoticed. myself have had the honor to wear the trident. that many have tried to achive. it is special to have this honor, but to give it all is truly special. sleep well my friend! it is somebody else time to stand watch on the wall! reiterd seal 1979 to 1989

Tammy Howe

August 18, 2011

On behalf of Bruckner Supply, I wish to extend our heartfelt condolences to Pat and the Spehar family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Edith

August 18, 2011

We were saddened to hear of the loss of your beautiful son. Thoughts are with you. Thank you for your service, Nicholas.

Relative

August 18, 2011

Nicholas,
You touched our hearts very deeply with your visit to my kids and me earlier this summer. Thank you for your service to our country and the way that you faced the task in front of you to protect us. You are missed and our hearts grieve that we will not see you soon. Yet we know you are near us in the communion of saints. Rest in peace. We love you deeply from our hearts and we are so proud to be related to you.

Barbara Donovan

August 17, 2011

Losing a son is the deepest grief I've known. Another son is currently serving in the US Marine Corps. Let your faith, family & friends assist you now & in the coming days. The best books I found were written by Paula D'Arcy. Her wise yet simple words speak from the heart about grief & spiritual recovery. Thank you for your family's sacrifices & your son's military service for our many freedoms. Peace & prayers coming your way...

Sharon Al-Azzawi

August 17, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. May your memories of Nick and your family bring you great joy.

Shayla Houser

August 17, 2011

I send my most sincere condolences to the Spehar family. I remember him when we were kids, always very kind and very smart. Thank you for fighting for our country.

LT

August 17, 2011

In a time like this I am truly reminded that our freedoms come with a hefty exchange. I thank Nick and the Spehar family for their bravery and strength. May the Lord comfort and uphold you during this difficult time.

Jeff Wilfahrt

August 17, 2011

To the Spehar family. We know this grief.

Jeff and Lori Wilfahrt, Rosemount, MN

Marby

August 17, 2011

Our Country has lost a fine and brave Soldier; the World has lost a bright and shining Light; we All have lost a Son.

Nicholas Patrick Spehar now rests in peace, leaving us to rest in the comfort of shared grief, and in the Belief that his Loved Ones will see him again.

Thank you for your service, Patrick....
and thank you to Pat & Annette (and Family) for raising and supporting such a fine young man.

August 17, 2011

Thank you Nicholas for living and dying for this country that we all love. You are a true hero.

To the Spehar family:
I don't know you but I saw the procession of fire trucks bringing your son / brother home. I can't imagine the incredible pain you are experiencing or the incredible pride in this young man you loved and raised so well. I am so sorry for your loss.

Karen

August 17, 2011

As a citizen of these United States and a resident of Minnesota, I give thanks for your son and others like him who are willing to make the ultimate sacrifice to keep our country safe.

You raised a special man and I'm sure you already know that, but I hope it helps to know that even complete strangers appreciate your efforts in raising such a fearless leader.

May God comfort you as you move on in this life without your special boy. My heart cries for you.

A grateful citizen.

August 17, 2011

Dear Pat and Annette, I am more sorry than I can say for your loss of Nicholas. What a brave young man, and what a testimony to both of you as his parents. I have such fond memories of our time in Minneapolis, and visiting with you. Of course, I don't remember Nicholas, but I pray that God and his dear Mother Mary will comfort you all. As you may know, Colette died 14 months ago, but she would join me of course. Love, Anthony Rowland

August 17, 2011

Parents of our brethren , we are grateful to you for instilling the warrior spirit in your sons.
Wives of our brothers, we are eternally thankful to you for sharing your husband with us.
Children of our warriors, we are here for you forever, take pride in your father's actions.

Thank the Gods these men died a warriors death.

Long live the brotherhood!

See you in Valhalla!

--Kyle Defoor

Kent Seetin

August 17, 2011

Pat, Annette and family, Deepest sympathies at this most difficult time. May the Lord Jesus strengthen you and may friends and family support you. In Christ

Molly Pauze

August 17, 2011

Dear Spehar family,

Our deep condolences to your family on the loss of your son, Nick. We know you through your brother, Fr. Jeff Huard. We also have a son in the military, training for Marines Recon now, and I can only imagine the grief you experience. But I want to thank you for raising such a man and for instilling in him the desire to give his all for this country. He now prays for you, his family, as he enjoys his rest. I'm sure he heard those words, "Welcome home, good and faithful servant." God bless you all.

Beckie

August 17, 2011

I did not know this young man personally but I am emotionally moved after reading his obituary and would like to extend my condolences to your family for your loss. I have a son only 2 years younger than this gentleman and I have been so excited to hear of him buying his 1st house which is quite a milestone for someone of 22 years but then I read about what your son has accomplished and I am literally speechless. What an incredible young man, such drive and compassion for his country and the armed services which he clearly loved with everything he had in him. It takes a pretty special person to give of themselves in the manner he has.
Too have such compassion for mankind, too serve to protect them alot of times with little or no thanks really says alot about a persons character. What a wonderful young man he transformed into, how very proud you must be. Blessed be your memory of him may it never fade and forever shine brightly as his spirit surely will.
God bless you and keep you in your time of greiving, please know that his service and heartfelt passion for life and protecting life is not going unacknowledged. I thank you for sharing his story, Rest in peace young Seal - I will forever remember your sacrifice.

Nicki Fabozzi

August 17, 2011

God bless your family during the unimaginable pain of losing someone so wonderful! He gave all!! Thank you for supporting him while he provided us with freedom! He will never be forgotten.

Jenny

August 17, 2011

There is not enough words to thank Nick for all the sacrifices he made to keep our country safe. The love he showed and demonstrated while he was on earth will never be forgotten during his time of protecting what he believed in. May the Spehar family be blessed with strength and courage to get thru this time. Just knowing that he did not die in vain should comfort your hearts. He is definatly a hero.

August 17, 2011

Pat, My heart and prayers go out to you and your family at this time of sadness. Thank you and your son for giving the ultimate sacrifice you me and my family's freedom. WIth deepest sympathy, Kim Berggren Gilsdorf

Debbie

August 17, 2011

Just wanted to thank your son for protecting us and keep us safe.

A.P.

August 17, 2011

Thank you for serving our country Nick, you have done what many can not do. You are a hero, and your sacrifice will not go unnoticed. You were such a great guy, and I am proud to call you a friend.

August 17, 2011

Your bravery and heroism are beyond measure. Thank you for your service to our country. May you rest in peace and may your family find comfort in the arms of God.

August 17, 2011

Thank you, Nicholas gave it all in the protection of my freedom. I will never forget.

Fellow Sailor (Retired)

Maryann Benson

August 17, 2011

Dear Spehar Family;
I want to thank you so much for your son and all he gave to his country that we all may be free. Today he is in the House of Jesus and there are no more Wars or Killings. Some Day we will all meet again in the mean time All I can say is I am truley sorry for your loss. God Bless & Be With You All. Maryann Benson Mesa Arizona

August 17, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you to your son and family for serving our country. I do appreciate all you have done for us American's.

Lifting you all in prayer.

August 17, 2011

Thank you for your selfless service.

August 16, 2011

I did not know you or your son. My family was driving home from a camping trip and saw your son "come home". God Bless to all of you that are left behind and heartfelt thanks to him for all he did for us.

Hallman Family

A

August 16, 2011

My Sincere Condolences go out to the Spehar family. May you find some comfort in the memories that you will forever have and stories that you can share of Nick. His bravery & dedication to the USA is very honorable and appreciated by so many. I did not know Nick well however I graduated with Marie and can imagine the pain as I too lost a brother very suddenly a little over two years ago. My Thoughts are with the family during this time. Bless you all.

August 16, 2011

No words can express the sorrow for the loss of your son. May God's arms surround you and comfort you always. Our prayers and thoughts are with each of you.
Robert and Dena Taylor, Lubbock, TX
Parents of:
Petty Officer First Class Robert S. Taylor USN
Captain John W. Taylor USAF

Beth Chally (DBT)

August 16, 2011

Marie and Family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss of Nick, I heard stories about him from Marie before we lost touch. I know that he was a very special individual and meant very much to her. I am thinking about you Marie and hoping that you know that I am sending you all of my strength. If you need anything please do not hesitate to reach out to me, once a connected soul always a connected soul. My love and hope to the whole Spehar family.

Valerie Kennedy

August 16, 2011

Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13

Our sincere gratitude for your son's service and your family's sacrifice ...
We share your pain, as we are walking the same journey that you are about to embark upon.

Rely on your faith and the loving support of those around you ...

Jim and Val Kennedy
Proud parents of SPC Joseph Kennedy KIA 4/15/2011, Afghanistan

Monica Dokken

August 16, 2011

Thank you for your service!!
You have my deepest sympathy.
I have a 22 year old son serving in the Navy, stationed in Norfolk, Va.

Debra Cain - MSP Airport

August 16, 2011

Dear Spehar Family,

Please accept the sincere condolences of the Armed Forces Service Center. So sorry for your loss.

Amanda Coleman

August 16, 2011

You are a hero Nick and will always be remembered. Thank you for honorably serving our country.

Jane Neuenfeldt

August 16, 2011

Dear Annette, Pat & family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your son. I can't even imagine what you are going through. Even though we have lost touch over the years, our families will always have a connection and feel each others sorrows.
God Bless you and your family.
With deepest sympathy
Jane Jezierski Neuenfeldt

Sylvia Kronenwetter

August 15, 2011

Please accept my deepest sympathy
for the loss of your loved one and
Hero Nicholas, and my sincerest
gratitude for his service.
God Bless you SPO2C Nicholas P.
Spehar...you will not be forgotten.

August 15, 2011

Thank you young man for what you did to keep my family free and safe.There is no war in Heaven so enjoy the place God has made for you in Heaven Thank You
Mark Dufour Family Winchester Tennessee

Julie Flynn

August 15, 2011

Lord, someone I love is hurting-
I feel their pain across the miles
Please pick them up so gently
And carry them through these trials…

Lord, my family's worried
They toss and turn at night-
Just give them peace to rest, Lord
Until there's morning light…

They never asked to carry
These burdens from my stand
But sacrifice and freedom
Walk always hand in hand…

Help them through their tasks Lord,
They go through every day,
Unite our hearts and spirits
When I'm so far away…

Remind them that I'm here, Lord
By bid of liberty,
Not attained for just a few-
But that all men should be free…

And when there is no ease Lord-
And fear begins to take command-
Just wrap around their heart, Lord
Give them strength…Help them stand…

Amen.

Annette, Pat and family, you are in my prayers...Losing a brave and wonderful son like Nick I cannot begin to imagine your grief. He was and always will be a Hero in every American's heart. May God continue to hold you tight as you go through this horrific loss.

Cy Laurent

August 15, 2011

I can only imagine the grief! Then, the reality of our faith, the treasure trove that is the Catholic Church and in particular the Communion of Saints give solace and consolation. Nick lives --- forever.
Be sure of my continued prayers.

Joan Curtis

August 14, 2011

Thank you so much for your service, bless you.

Kathy Johnson

August 14, 2011

Nicholas,
I did not know you, but feel the need to say "Thank You" for your selfless acts of bravery and dedication for your country and its' people. You have paid the ultimate price. R.I.P.

August 14, 2011

Thank you for your service SO2 Spehar. My condolences to his family at this very difficult time.

"Eternal rest grant unto him and may perpetual light shine upon him. May his soul and the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace."

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