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Tom Gug Gugliuzza
June 14, 2025
Stash, you are in my thoughts and prayers each day. I think of your mom and send hugs.
Gaynell Lapinski
May 31, 2025
Dearest Stash, I miss you more every year of my life. I can't tell you how much Dad and I love you. I pray that you are happy up there with Dad. Love Always, Mom
Tom Gug Gugliuzza
May 26, 2025
Stash, you are not forgotten. I think of you often.
JoAnn Stupka
May 25, 2025
Memorial Day weekend and time to remember our heros! You are truly a hero but not just on Memorial Day but everyday! You are always on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers!
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February 23, 2025
The last of the Mohicans cooler than the other side of the pillow. Your presence is sorely missed
Gaynell Lapinski
December 19, 2024
Happy Birthday Stash! Mom has trouble doing computer work now! I miss you and Dad ever day! Please take care of each other until I get there!
JoAnn Stupka
December 16, 2024
Happy Birthday Stash!!! Hope you are having a Great celebration with your Dad!!
You are Always on my mind, in my prayers, and in my heart! Love you
Tom Gugliuzza
December 16, 2024
Stash, Happy heavenly birthday dear one. Know that you are not forgotten. Sending hugs and love to your mom.
Gaynell
November 13, 2024
Dear Stash, I miss you and Dad every day of my life! I know you are both in Heaven! I You were the best son a Mom and Dad could ever think of. Always know you are loved and missed. Love,Mom
JoAnn Stupka
November 11, 2024
Stash,
Happy Veteran´s Day. Thank you for your service & ultimate sacrafice. You are always on my mind, in my prayers and in my heart.
Hoping you, Kenny, and your Dad can have a drink together for Veteran´s Day!
Joann Stupka
Gaynell D. Lapinski
July 12, 2024
Dear Stash, My life began the day you were born! Your Dad and I felt blessed to be your parents. We are thankful for having you for 35 years. Love to you in Heaven. All my love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
June 11, 2024
Dear Stash
You will never be forgotten! This is such a sad day but you are always in my prayers , on my mind in and in my heart!
Tom "Gug" Gugliuzza
June 11, 2024
Dear Stash and Gaynell. My heart continues to ache. Stash know you are not forgetten. Will meet you one day and what a joy that will be. Gaynell know that you are not forgotten as well. I'm sending you heartfelt hugs.
Gaynell Lapinski
May 29, 2024
My Dear Son, The years fly by but you are my first thought in the morning and my last prayer at night! I love you with all my heart! Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
May 27, 2024
Happy Memorial Day! As always you are on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers!
Love
JoAnn
Gaye Lapinski
December 16, 2023
Happy 54th Birthday Son!! Love you & miss you with all my heart❤
Love Mom
JoAnn Stupka
December 16, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday! Always on my mind, in my prayers and in my heart!❤
Gaynell Lapinski
May 29, 2023
Dear Son, It has been 18 years since Dad and I lost you. Nothing changes because we love and miss you everyday. Know that will never change. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
May 27, 2023
Dear Stash,
Another Memorial Day weekend! Time to remember all our heros like you, your dad and Kenny, but I remember you 3 on a daily basis!
You are always on my mind, in my prayers and in my heart❤
Love you!
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
December 21, 2022
Happy Belated Birthday Stash.
You are always & forever in my thoughts, prayers and heart.
JoAnn
May 28, 2022
Dear Stash,
It’s Memorial Day Weekend again and time to honor our true heroes!
You will NEVER be forgotten as long as I have breath in my body!
You are always on my mind, in my prayers and in my heart!
Love
JoAnn
JoAnn
December 25, 2021
Dear Stash
Merry Christmas. Give your Dad & Kenny a hug from me.
Always on my mind, in my heart& in my prayers.
Love
JoAnn
Tom Gugliuzza
December 17, 2021
Happy happy heavenly birthday Stash. Sending hugs to you and your mom.
Gaynell Lapinski
December 16, 2021
Dearest Stash, My heart is heavy today because I cannot wish you Happy Birthday in person.. I hope you know that you are in my heart and on my mind everyday of my life. Love, Mom
JoAnn
December 16, 2021
Happy Heavenly Birthday Stash!!
You are always on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers!
Love you❤
Joann
JoAnn
November 11, 2021
Happy Veteran’s Day to a true hero!
Always on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers!
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
May 29, 2021
My Dearest Son and Husband, A lot of years have gone by but time changes nothing for me. I miss you two just as much as ever. I pray that you both are doing well and spending lots of time with each other. Never doubt how much I love and miss you both. I know that God is taking good care of you until I can get here. All my love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
May 28, 2021
Dear Stash,
It’s Memorial Day weekend again and as always you are on my mind, in my prayers and in my heart!
You are a true hero!
Happy Memorial Day!
Love always
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
January 3, 2021
Dear Stash
Just sitting here watching the Steeler game and started thinking about you.
Can’t remember if I wished you a Merry Christmas & Happy New Year!
I think about you all the time but since Kenny passed away, my mind is a mess!!
Hope we can get a win today! Playoffs start next week! “Let’s Go Steelers “
You are always on my mind, in my prayers, and in my heart!
Merry Christmas ‘ Happy New Year to you, your Dad, and Kenny!!❤❤❤
Gaynell Lapinski
December 19, 2020
Dear Stash, I hope that you and Dad are having good times together. I miss you and not a day goes by that I don't remember something you did or said. I will miss you everyday until I can be with. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
December 18, 2020
Dear Stash
Happy belated birthday!!!!!
Always on my mind, in my prayers and in my heart!
Love you!❤
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
November 12, 2020
I am still in North Carolina and thinking about you and Dad. I hope you are spending lots of time together. You would be so pleased if you knew how many people cared about you and still do. I love you, Stash. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
November 11, 2020
Happy Veteran’s Day Stash!!
You are truly missed! And always on my mind, in my heart, and in my prayers!❤
Please tell your Dad and my husband Happy Veteran’s day from me!❤
Miss you all!
Love
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
June 12, 2020
Dearest Stash, Well, made it through another 6/11. Thank you for keeping me as calm as I can be. I am grateful for all the nice things people have said to you and about you. I only wish everyone could have seen what a wonderful son you are. Please take care of Dad until I can get there. I love you with all my heart, Love Mom
JoAnn Stupka
June 11, 2020
Dear Stash,
Today is one of the worst days in my life. It is the day you were taken from us so many years ago.
As long as I have breath, you will never be forgotten!
Always in my heart, on my mind and in my prayers!
Love
JoAnn
Gug Gugliuzza-Smith
June 11, 2020
Stash 15 years ago today you were taken. I met your mom and dad on line and then at Arlington National Cemetery. My heart was broken for them that you passed. Your mom shared stories about you and for years while I lived by ANC I would visit your resting place and talked to you. To this day Stash I continue to pray and talk to you. Your mom has a special place in my heart. I continue to pray for her as well. Stash you are dearly loved and one day I will get that opportunity to see you.
Gaynell Lapinski
May 23, 2020
It has been almost 15 years, son but I have never gone through a day without thinking about you and sending you. I pray that I will be lucky enough to join you and Dad when I die. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
May 22, 2020
Dear Stash
Here we are another Memorial Day!
You are on my mind, and in my heart and prayers!
You will never be forgotten!
Love,
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
December 26, 2019
Dearest Stash, I pray that you and Dad enjoyed your Christmas together. I think about you both every day of my life. Love, Mom
Gug
December 25, 2019
Blessings Stash and dad
JoAnn Stupka
December 24, 2019
Stash
Merry Christmas!!!
Always in my heart, on my mind and in my prayers!!!
Keep an eye on your Mom!
Love
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
December 17, 2019
Hope you and Dad celebrated your 50th together. I couldn't get on the computer until now. I miss you Stash and always will. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
December 16, 2019
Dear Stas
Happy Heavenly Birthday!!!! The Big 50!!!
You are always in my heart, on my mind and in my prayers!!!!
Love
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
November 12, 2019
Dear Stash, Another Veterans Day has come and gone but you are never forgotten. My life is spent remembering our lives together. I dream of the days when I will be with you and Dad again. Love you always, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
November 11, 2019
Happy Veterans Day Dear Stash!!!
Always on my mind, in my heart, and in my prayers! You will NEVER be forgotten!!
Love,
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
May 27, 2019
Stash....I love you and miss you more and more each day. You were the best son anyone could ever have. Cannot wait to be with you again. Love, Mom
Tom Gug Gugliuzza
May 26, 2019
Stash think of you often. Talk to you as well. Keeping your mom in my thoughts and prayers. Sending prayers and hugs to you both. Much love Gug
JoAnn Stupka
May 25, 2019
Dear Stash
Another Memorial Day Weekend and cant stop thinking about you and how unfair it is that you were taken from us.
You are always on my mind in my prayers and in my heart!
Love you
JoAnn
JoAnn
January 1, 2019
Dear Stash
Happy NEW Year!!!
Always on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers!
Love
JoAnn
Ganell Lapinski
December 19, 2018
Dear Son, I tried posting you on 12/16, your Birthday but my darn computer wouldn't let me post it. Happy 49th .. You will always be my Baby. Love, Mom
joann stupka
December 17, 2018
Happy Birthday Stash!!
I don't even know what to say except that you are always on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers!
I can't believe you would be 49! Seems like yesterday
I wrote this yesterday but for some reason it did not post.
Happy Heavenly Birthday!!!!
Love
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
November 23, 2018
Happy Thanksgiving Stash!!
So thankful to be your godmother!
You are always on my mind in my prayers and in my heart!
Love
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
November 11, 2018
Dear Son, Happy Veterans Day again to you and all of your fellow Veterans. I hear from your fellow Veterans and your high school friends. It warms my heart to know that they have not forgotten you and others who have given their lives for our country. I miss you, Stash and look forward to the day when we will be together again. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
November 10, 2018
Dear Stash
Its Veterans Day weekend and time to honor our heros who gave the ultimate sacrifice for us and you are at the top of that list!
You are always on my mind, in my heart and in my prayers!
Love
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
July 4, 2018
Stash
Happy 4th!!!!!
Always in my heart on my mind & in my prayers
Love
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
May 27, 2018
Dearest Son, Cannot believe that 13 years have gone by. You are never out of my heart or my mind. Hope you and Dad are loving sharing time with each other. Love, Mom
Gug Gugliuzza
May 26, 2018
Stash you are thought of often, You are dearly loved. Special prayers. Hugs to your mom,
JoAnn Stupka
May 25, 2018
Dear Stash
Here we are at the end of May again, time to celebrate Memorial Day! It is a very special day because this is when we honor the true heroes and their families. You are a TRUE hero as is your Mom & Dad. You are in my heart, on my mind and in my prayers every day and you will always be remembered!
Love you,
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
December 31, 2017
Dear Stash
Another year over and a new one starting can't help but wish you were still on earth with us!!! You are ALWAYS in my heart and on my mind!!!!
Happy New Year Brave Hero!!!
Love
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
December 25, 2017
Merry Christmas Stash!!!! Always in my heart and on my mind!!!
Love
JoAnn
Gaynell Lapinski
December 17, 2017
Dear Stash, Thinking of you as always and want you to know, I will be there to visit you and Dad this week...Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
December 16, 2017
Happy Birthday Stash!!!!!
ALWAYS in my heart and on my mind!!!
Love
JpAnn
November 12, 2017
Hello Son,
Your Mom is a day late. Not feeling up to par but wanted to tell you how much I love you and miss you. You are so lucky to have such a wonderful God Mother. She never forgets. Happy Veterans Day to you and Dad and all other Veterans.
JoAnn Stupka
November 11, 2017
Dear Stash
Another Veteran's Day and time to remember all of our Heroes. Although today is a special day to honor heroes I honor YOU EVERY day!!!! Love you!!!!
ALWAYS in my heart and on my mind!!!
Gaynell Lapinski
July 5, 2017
Good Morning Son,
Another holiday has passed by. It makes it hard for me to celebrate anything since you aren't here. I just want you to know that you are never forgotten for one minute. I love you, Stash. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
July 4, 2017
Dear Stash
Happy 4th!!!!
Love and miss you!!!!
Gaynell Lapinski
June 12, 2017
Dear Son,
Yesterday was a day of good memories from all the people who love you and miss you. I know that you would never imagine what an impact you made on so many people. I love you son and you and Dad, please lead me in the right direction. I pray I get to where you are when it is my time. Love you more each day.. Mom and Bradley
JoAnn Stupka
June 11, 2017
Dear Stash
It has been 12 long years, I think of you soooooo often, and you are always in my heart and my prayers.
Seems like such a waste for such a sweet person to be taken so young but I guess the Good Lord had other plans for you.
I know I don't have to ask but I will anyway. Please look after your Mom.
Just remember you are truly loved and missed very much!!!!
Love ya
JoAnn Stupka
May 27, 2017
Happy Memorial Day Stash!! You are the true meaning of Memorial Day, you and the thousands of others who gave the ultimate sacrifice so that we would keep our freedom!!!
Always in my heart and on my mind!!
Gaynell Lapinski
December 17, 2016
Hi Son,
Happy 47th Birthday! I can't believe how many years have gone by since we were together. Always remember that you are in my mind and heart everyday. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
December 16, 2016
Happy Birthday Stash!!!
Love you and miss you!!!!!
JoAnn Stupka
July 3, 2016
Dear Stash
Happy 4th!!!!!!
love you!!!!
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
May 28, 2016
Dear Stash
Today is the start of the Memorial Day weekend, the perfect time to let you know that you are one SPECIAL person!!!! Love you and miss you!! You are ALWAYS in my heart and in my prayers!!!!
Love ya
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
December 27, 2015
Merry Christmas my dear Godchild!!!!
Love you & miss you!
always in my heart on my mind & in my prayers!!
JoAnn Stupka
December 18, 2015
Happy Birthday Stash!!!!
Sorry this post is late
You are ALWAYS in my heart,my prayers and on my mind!!!!
Love ya
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
November 26, 2015
HAPPY THANKSGIVING STASH!!!!
Sharon
November 16, 2015
Dear Stash, With Veteran's Day and Thanksgiving day here, I just wanted to let you know that You are still loved and missed very much. I have my Memorial flags flying for you and those that have been forgotten. I see them first thing in the morning, afternoon and night and think of you always. My friend came back from a 2nd tour in Iraq and asked about the flags. I told him they are for our Heroes. Then we cried. You will never be forgotten my dear cousin, my hero.
JoAnn Stupka
November 11, 2015
Happy Veteran's Day Stash!!
always on my mind and in my heart!!
JoAnn Stupka
May 25, 2015
Dear Stash
Thank you!!!
Love You!!!!
JoAnn Stupka
December 31, 2014
Dear Stash
Happy New Year my sweet adorable godchild!!!
You are always in my heart and my prayers!!!!
JoAnn Stupka
December 25, 2014
DearStash
Merry Christmas!!!
December 20, 2014
Stash, You turned 45 on the 16th but you will always be my little boy. I look forward to the day when we will be together again. All my Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
December 16, 2014
Happy Birthday!!!!!
Gug Gugliuzza-Smith
December 16, 2014
Happy Birthday Stash. You are missed and loved. Know that you will never be forgotten. You are my hero. Much love Gug
November 12, 2014
Dear Stash, You are thought about everyday of my life. You and your Dad will never be forgotten. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
November 11, 2014
Happy Veteran's Day!!!!!
JoAnn Stupka
December 16, 2013
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
Always in my heart & prayers
Love
JoAnn
May 29, 2013
Dear Son,
I have heard from many who miss you and Dad just like me. You will never be forgotten and you and Dad will always be the loves of my life. Love, Mom
JoAnn Stupka
May 27, 2013
Dear Stash,
Another Memorial Day and as always, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Time does not heal all wounds.
Love you,
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
December 26, 2012
Dear Stash
Merry Christmas!
I know I don't have to ask but Please keep a watchful eye on your Mom!
Love you,
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
December 18, 2012
Dear Stash
Happy Birthday!!!!! Miss you! Love You!!
JoAnn
Gaye Lapinski
November 12, 2012
Dear JoAnn... You are the best GodMother that Stash could have ever had. Thank you for being in our lives. I don't know how we would have made it without you. Love, Gaye
November 11, 2012
Dear Stash,
Today is Veteran's Day & they say to Thank a Vet. I just wanted to let you know that I thank God every day for bringing you into my life. And just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts, my prayers,and my heart EVERYDAY!
Love you,
JoAnn
Gaye Lapinski
June 14, 2012
Thank you for remembering my Stash. He would be very grateful for your love and your kindness to me. He was everything a Mother could want in a son and I miss him with all of my heart.
Love,
Mom
Peggy Childers
June 13, 2012
June 11, 2012
To the family and friends of Cpl. Stanley J. Lapinski:
Always remembering Stanley. "Some gave all."
June 12, 2012
Dear Stash,
Another year has passed and it is still totally unbelievable that you are gone! But you will ALWAYS be in my thoughts and prayers.
Love you,
JoAnn
JoAnn Stupka
December 16, 2011
Dear Stash
Happy Birthday!! You are always on my mind, in my heart and prayers.
Love,
JoAnn
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