Toccara Green Obituary
CPT Steven B. Shaw
Captain, Transportation Corps
Commander, 57th Transportation Company
Toccara Green's desire to be in the military was evident early: for four years in high school she got up early and stayed late to participate in her campus ROTC. Family and friends say her devotion to her country is what inspired her. "The only thing that puts my mind at ease is that she died for what she believed in," said Garry Green Jr., her brother. "She said her ideal situation: go out fighting for our country." Green, 23, of Rosedale, Md., died Aug. 14 when several bombs detonated near her unit in Asad. She was assigned to Fort Drum and is believed to be Maryland's first woman soldier killed in combat in Iraq. Spc. Nicole Coleman met Green during basic training in 2003 and became fast friends. They referred to themselves as "Batman and Robin" or "Pinky and the Brain." Green graduated from high school in 2000 and attended Norfolk State University in Virginia, where she studied telecommunications and broadcasting. She loved roller skating and working on cars. She is survived by her father, Garry Green Sr., and mother, Yvonne.
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J Cherry
November 18, 2025
Still on my mind lady,VA
Charlie Gili
July 25, 2018
Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and we'll be dedicating several of these to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and the hometown of Toccara R. Green US Army Specialist. We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
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Mark Selvie
July 22, 2015
you will be forever missed.. I think about every day miss you T.
May 5, 2013
Toccara is being remembered today and everyday.
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April 1, 2012
You are not forgotten.
Peggy Childers
August 14, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Toccara Green:
Please accept my remembrance of Toccara on the anniversary of her passing and know that she will never be forgotten.
Jon Hardy
May 29, 2011
Its been years and Im still at a lost for words. I still remember the day I found out like it was yesterday. I miss you so much Toccara, even though we had not been in contact. You are in a better place now, and I know we will meet again. To Mr. and Mrs. Green, I am deeply sorry for your lost. Your daughter was a beautiful person.
Celeste Holley
May 5, 2011
Hey Lady! Just stopping by to let you know that I am thinking of you. I stopped by the Woman History Museum today and I saw your beautiful smiling face! I was speechless and excited at the same time. I miss you! May you continue to rest in peace. Love you always.
Chontel Bevans
May 1, 2011
I miss you so much Aunt Tee. you have been a great influence in my life and you are my role model. I love you so much and you will always have a place in my heart. Aunt Tee you are my hero and you will never be forgotten. Here is a song that I wrote about Aunt tee:
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Mom and Dad's little girl gone but not forgotten
God's little angel living her life in heaven.
She gave her life to christ first and then gave it to man. She set goals for herself and made sure that she met them. If she conceived it then she achieved it and that was her plan.She was a willing servant and an open vessel to be used anyway God asked her to.She changed many lives but didn't take the credit because she knew it was Gods will being done using her as a living vessel to save that life. incredible but no surprise.
Mom and Dad's little girl gone but not forgotten
God's little angel living her life in heaven.
She had a loving family that cared for her dearly, prayed for her daily, and gave her the chance to live her life freely. In living her life she didnt go from what she was taught. kept her standards and most of all kept serving god.
Mom and Dad's little girl gone bnut not forgotten
God's little angel living her life in heaven
She was a great example for her generation and the ones to come . She wasn't perfect but tried her best to be. She continually did what was right even if it was hard. I believe she is my angel from heaven watching over me!
Mom and Dad's little girl gone but not forgotten
God's little angel living her life in heaven.
There was a message in all of this and this is what it is, to appreciate the people and things that life has offered you.Cherish your life because your day is coming soon. Will you be ready to enter into heaven? To becomeone of God's angels as she has done
Mom and Dad's little girl gone but not forgotten
God's little angel living her life in heaven
Such an example for the world!
Lauren Snell
March 9, 2011
I look at her picture and remember the sweet and funny girl who use to walk th halls and hang out in the JROTC room. Its never easy to lose a loved one... but I pray that God has his hands on my dear friend's spirit and her family and friends left behind. R.I.P Toccara!
Reginal Joseph
December 17, 2010
Grief can be so hard during the holidays, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering Toccora Green during this holiday season. You are greatly remembered and will always remain a part of my memories.
November 16, 2010
Toccara was honored just now at 8:55 by Nancy Grace on TV 11/16/2010
MARK SELVIE
September 9, 2010
Just wanted too say that she will never be forgoten. I love you toccara with all my heart you have done soo much for me, and i thank you. I know that you are with me everywhere i go, i cant say it enough i miss you and i love you man
Joanne Gray
August 16, 2010
To The Parents and Family...Memories Of Toccara Will Never Fade Away...We All Remember Her In Our Own Special Way...And We Will Keep Them In Our Hearts...Until We Meet Again On The Other Side...
Peggy Childers
August 14, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Toccara Green:
Remembering Toccara on the anniversary of her passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
SGT Rodriguez
June 11, 2010
Miss you!!!
MARK SELVIE
June 9, 2010
GIRL I LOVE YOU
June 9, 2010
I LOVE YOU WITH ALLLLLL MY HEART GREEN I MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY BUT I KNOW YOU ARE HERE STILL WITH ME.. I LOVE U BUTTERCUP
YOLONDA EASLEY
June 1, 2010
WE LAUGHED, CRIED, DANCED AND ALL THAT GOOD OL STUFF. I MISS U FRIEND LIKE U WERE JUST TAKEN FROM US TODAY. I LOVE U AND I KNOW UR WATCHN OVER ME REST, UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN
Red
May 31, 2010
Today we honor our fallen. I had the pleasure of knowing Toccara and I am thinking of her greatly today. You are missed so much and never ever forgotten.
Peggy Childers
August 14, 2009
To the family of Spc. Toccara Green:
Toccara gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Ladson "Truckmaster"
June 11, 2009
Today I walked the truck line, making sure the motorpool was to standard. The windows were clean and all pieces of equipment were dress right dress. A young Soldier asked me, "Truckmaster do you want us to wipe down the sign in front of the motorpool also?" My reply, "absolutely yes, and don't miss a spot. That sign, represents a dedicated and proud Soldier that walked this motorpool". It is a permanent fixture to the 57th Transportation Company and the 10th Mountain Division forever. Always she will be apart of our heart and memories.
Tammy Shriver (Richard)
June 10, 2009
T,
You have touched my life and I will never forget you. You were such an inspiration to me and give me the motivation I need daily to continue on in this Army. I remember all the times we had togethere in Ft. Leonardwood and the times in Ft. Drum. Man I miss those times. I love you and will always think of you as days go by. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. In the morning when I get up, put this uniform on and tie my boots, head out that door, you are the one person I want to imitate throughout my day.
Love and Miss you
SSG Shriver
Kenna Larra
June 5, 2009
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Kenna
May 25, 2009
You are gratefully remembered.
ANTIONETTE Robinson
September 25, 2008
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Mollie Moncrief
September 14, 2008
Believe it or not, there are lots of times when I stop and think of Toccara. I know I'll never forget you, and I would never want to!
I'll always remember when we first met in Kuwait. You were watching Gem and the Holograms on your DVD player. I thought that was great, and watched it with you, from then on my nickname for you was "Gem". I considered you a friend, even though we didn't have much time to talk since we were in different platoons. You were an incredibly nice person, with a fantastic sense of humor.
The Army most definitely lost a great Soldier when you were killed, and the world is a certainly a lesser place. But I hope that at least you are at peace, and can rest assured that you'll always be remembered. Take care, Gem.
In Memory of Toccara ~ (Debra Estep)
August 14, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
I did not know Toccara, but I am remembering
her service. She is my hero. !
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The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
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Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Amanda Peacock (Minor)
May 24, 2008
As Memorial day approaches and civilians do different things to honor and pay respect to the soldiers over seas or fallen, I wonder if they were as lucky to have known any soldiers personally or have known a true soldier like Toccara. To some Memorial day is just another opportunity to throw a cook out or what ever have you. My heart bleeds every time T crosses my mind and my heart aches for her family. I also weep for the soldiers who are still in Iraq still living that nightmare every day. I pray for all my battles to come home safe and not mamed. I pray for your mental state as well as your physical state. I know that you are our countrys back bone and I thank you. I thank you for swallowing that lump in your throats as you say good bye to your familys. I thank you for your sacrifice of saying bye to your babies to protect mine. And to Toccara's family you have suffered the ultimate sacrifice and my heart continues to go out to you. Toccara you were a high speed spit shined soldier. You led our platoon with a iron fist but a soft hand. We all looked up to you and wanted to be just like you. I remember trying for hours to get my bunk to be as perfect as yours. T, I love you, I will never forget you and I pay homage to you for you are a true soldier. HUA!
May 7, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Green!
Moscoe Gardner
March 11, 2008
She was my soldier and friend. As her Squad Leader, Toccara always kept me in line. She was well organized and had no problem letting others know when she felt things were not right. I along with her Team Leader, SGT Mccallister was molding her to go before the promotion board upon our return to the States. She was completely dedicated to the Army and without question, the best Gunner and Driver in my Squad. Some people can just man the gun, some can just drive, but she was among the best in both categories. She was a true SOLDIER.
JOANNE GRAY
August 20, 2007
TIME SURELY PASSES WHEN YOU THINK OF TOCCARA...I KNOW SHE'S MISSED ALOT BY MOM AND DAD...BROTHER AND FRIENDS THAT LOVED HER DEARLY...I KNOW I MISS HER AND I DIDN'T KNOW HER AT ALL...SHE'S JUST A ROAD MODEL THAT MY OWN DAUGHTER IS FOLLOWING...LIKE HER SHE'S JROTC HERE IN COLUMBIA AND 2008 SHE WILL COMPLETE 12TH GRADE AND SHE WANTS NOTHING MORE IN LIFE THEN TO FOLLOW TOCCARA'S FOOT STEPS...MY HEART ACHES TO HEAR HER SAY THIS...BUT THIS IS HER LIFE AND WHATEVER SHE DECIDES TO TO WITH IT...I AS MOM WILL BE PROUD OF HER TOO...TO THE FAMILY YOU HAD A VERY RESPECTFUL...LOVING DAUGHTER THAT SERVICED OUR COUNTRY WELL...SHE'S WITH YOU IN SPIRIT SOMETHING THAT WILL NEVER FADE AWAY...AND MAY HER SPIRIT CONTINUE TO MOTIVATE MY DAUGHTER AND LEAD HER DOWN THE RIGHT PATH IN LIFE...MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS EACH OF YOU THROUGHT THE YEARS...AND HELP KEEPING HER MEMORIES ALIVE...MY HEART AND CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO YOU ALL.
SINCERELY,
JOANNE
August 19, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
keena smart
August 15, 2007
I can't believe it's been 2yrs, there is not a day that goes by that i don't think about your laugh and how your smile could brighten up a room! R.I.P Green.
Shameeka Gray
August 14, 2007
It has been two years since you have been gone from this earth but you have always been in my heart and always will. R.I.P Green
SGT Gray
Frankie McAllister
August 14, 2007
R.I.P. to my favorite soldier. You will always be remembered as a outstanding person that was always willing to help others.
SGT McAllister
July 31, 2007
If this person can stand in battle to ensure my freedom, then I will stand in grief with his/her family to honor him/her. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guest book for the rest of my life, but I promised Le Ron A. Wilson (a dear friend KIA 7/6/07, 18yrs old) that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
July 22, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Green and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses her! May God bless all of you!!
Robert Walton
May 14, 2007
I hope that you recived the photos of my racecar. She will always be part of my "pitcrew in the sky"
shameeka gray
May 1, 2007
To the Green family,
I am sending my deepest sympathy as T will be greatly missed. She was a very good friend who always made me laugh. There is not a day that goes by where the thougt of her is not in my head. She is the example of what a good soldier should be.
Rachelle Porter
April 22, 2007
In My Pocket
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
Carl Ladson
April 20, 2007
To the Green Family,
My deepest and most sincere condolences goes out to all of you from my heart. During here last deployment I served as her Platoon Sergeant. Her death created a big hole in our family/team. On her behalf we continued to do our job, beyond our best ability, because thats what we knew she would have wanted us to do. For me it was like loosing a daughter, and a sister to the other soldiers. Greatly her warm and high spirit is missed. Daily I carry her in my memory and in my heart. Without a doubt I know, because of who she was, that she is definitely in a better place with the Lord. To those who never knew Toccara, I can say she was an outstanding soldier, friend, daughter, and companion. She displayed qualities of a soldier and a person for many to emulate. On behalf of all the "Regulators" (1st Platoon Motto) RIP Toccara.
Marc
April 18, 2007
Mr. & Mrs. Green,
Our bar here in Baltimore would be honored to hold a fund raiser for your Foundation and would love for you to contact us as soon as possible to get your blessing in this and have You and Your Family present during this event.
God Bless,
Marc
Steve Shaw
March 29, 2007
To the Green family,
I was your daughter's commander in the desert. I talked to your son shortly after T was taken from us. I just wanted to drop a quick message to let you know that there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about your daughter and pray for you. It almost seems cliche these days to say that someone touched our lives, but your daughter will live on with me as long as I am able to tell people about her. My kids will know about her and how she represents what is best about our country and our Soldiers. I pray that this message finds you all well. Feel free to contact me via email.
Steve
Yvonne Green
January 17, 2007
Correction:That is [email protected] for any inconvience.
Yvonne Green
January 5, 2007
For more info go to [email protected]
SYLVIA CAMP
December 28, 2006
BEAUTIFUL, YOUNG WOMAN GONE TO HEAVEN SO EARLY IN LIFE. YOU ARE OUR HERO !!!!! AND DEAR FAMILY, NEVER FORGET THAT YOU WILL SEE YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER AGAIN IN HEAVEN SMILING JUST AS BEAUTIFULLY AS EVER AND WAITING FOR YOU. I LOST A CHILD ALSO AND PRAY FOR YOUR STRENGTH THROUGH GOD. LOVE YOU ALL.
Jessica Bryant- Leonard
October 24, 2006
To the Green Family:
It is with my deepest sympathy of your lost. Tocarra and I lived in the Twin Towers dorm across the hall from each other @ Norfolk State University. I knew her very well and she was a great person. I am terribly sorry that I missed her home going services. I really wish I could have been there to show my aprreciation of having to know one of the most caring, friendliest people in the world.
With much love and sympathy from my family to yours. Toccara will forever be in our hearts and minds and your family in our prayers. Thank for giving me such a great person to call my friend.
Marc Friend
October 12, 2006
Mr.& Mrs. Green,
Words can't express how I still feel today on the lost of Toccara and it lives with me to this day. I remember me and you Garry talking many times about family and how I met your family when I worked at Morgan State and still remember Toccara as A little girl and was so griefed when I heard of her death and seen you on t.v. and it all hit home for me. I do not know if you remember me , but i rememebr you even from the old days when you stopped in at the Crown gas station on Belair Rd on the way to work and then I went to Morgan to work.Our own son Marc Jr was in Iraq for a year and is suppose to go back this coming year and I only wish that all of our Men and Women could come home safe and sound. Been wanting to contact you Garry , just do not know what to say Brother and it would hurt even more to see you all after all these years.But one day I pray I run into you and your family so I can give you all my Love and Respect in Person.
God Bless,
Marc Friend Sr & Family
yvonne green
October 12, 2006
May GOD continue to BLESS each and everyone who took the time and continues to take the time to write their sentiments.Keep watch,a Foundation has been established in Toccara's memory and a website is in the making.We appreciate you all so much,whether we know you or not.Thank you so much.
Yvonne Green
Walt Clark
October 4, 2006
My deepest smpathy to spc. Greens
family. SFC. Walt Clark (Retired)
I was a Platoon Sargeant with the 57th. during Somalia.
Lydia Rodriguez
August 28, 2006
My deepest condolences goes out to Toccara's family and friends. I had the honor of serving with her during our first tour. She was a true friend and a great battle buddy. I will never forget the good, and the bad memories that we encountered as soldiers in a time of war. GOD BLESS YOU...
Sgt. Rodriguez
Amanda Peacock (Minor)
August 15, 2006
It's been a year since I first got the news of your passing Toccara. I am still just as much in shock now as I was then . I guess that type of hurt and devastation never goes away. You were so beautiful and rare, an angel that every one got to meet but didn't realize until you were gone. Even though training at F.t Leonard wood is over I will always march to the beat of your cadence. I love you Toccara
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
August 14, 2006
To the Green Family: I previously signed Toccara's guest book. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there two or three times a week. Each time I am there I visit Toccara. Toccara a year ago today you were taken. Know that you are my hero and that you will NEVER be forgotten. While I was at ANC today I saw several family members visiting you.....I spent some time honoring you and burnt some incense.
Garnet Jenkins
August 14, 2006
Paying tribute to Spc. Toccara Green, with a Multitude of Thanks for her service and dedication to our country and our freedom..
May she rest, in the Mighty Hands of God and know that she Truly is an American Hero.
May God's Loving Grace and Comfort continue to be with the Green family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
My brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"And God shall wipe away every tear from their eyes,
there shall be no more death,
nor sorrow, nor crying,
there shall be no more pain.
For the former things have have passed away."
Revelations 21:4
keena smart
August 9, 2006
I had the pleasure of meeting green in 2003 when she came to 57th trans company.she was a great friend and always did something to make me laugh. I will always remeber the moments we shared and look back on them when I start to miss her or think about her.To the Green family you are always in my prays and may God give us the strength to carry on.
Lomax Roberson
July 18, 2006
Just to sad to respond. Did not hear about this until January and I can't except it yet. She was a good person and a great friend. I have a purple blacket that she wanted from Korea and would like to give it to her family. Please call me at 803-236-8541 she really loved purple...We talked briefly before she passed...She loved life! Bless her and her family! I will miss her badly!
Pamela Hilton
July 7, 2006
Gary and Yvonne,
It has almost been a year since our little lady has lift us. My heart is still a little heavy but GOD is making the load a little lite. My prayers are with you all, no one knows what you are going though, but I might have just a little feeling. Gary you know I love you so much you are the brother that GOD did not bless me with but I'm so grateful that I have you and a niece to keep in my memories always.
I was just sitting here and the army popped up on my screen and I begin to think back.
Love you always you lil sister
Pamela
ROBYN GARSIDE
July 5, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HER BEAUTIFUL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
HEATHER
July 1, 2006
YOUR FAMILY SHOULD BE VERY PROUD OF HER SACFRIFICE.MAY THE LORD SHELTER HER IN HIS ARMS.MAY YOUR MEMORIES KEEP YOU GOING . YOU WILL BE IN OUR PRAYERS.
Rebecca
June 30, 2006
You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
June 30, 2006
To the Family of Spc. Toccara Green;
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courgeous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life. We lost a son 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. In reading Toccara's profile I see that she didn't have to be on the road the day she was KIA and neither did our son.
I know first hand there are no words right now that will bring you the comfort and peace you need. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you mourn this loss. We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with. I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally, but none of these courageous men and women will be forgotten. They will never be able to be replaced, but sometime, someday your loving memories will help to sustain you. This courageous soldier will forever now be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well. To her family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss he, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by her presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is those wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever. If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero. God Bless this courageous soldier and family.
Pam Adams (SFC Brent Adams, KIA 12/1/05 Ramadi, Iraq)
[email protected]
(Millersville, PA )
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
June 30, 2006
Rest in peace at your last post in paradise.
connie sing
June 28, 2006
God Bless!
You are my HERO!
Thank you!
Heather Jones
April 24, 2006
Mr. Green and family, my heart goes out to you. My mom (Off. Nancy Jones)recognized you on TV after the loss of your daughter. I am also a soldier who recently returned from deployment. I am very sorry for your loss and you are continually in my prayers.
Debbie Lund
April 20, 2006
Dear Green Family,
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious hero Toccara. My heart aches for you. Thank you SPC Toccara Green, a true American hero.
WILLIE RAYNER
April 20, 2006
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I DIDNT KNOW YOUR DAUGHTER, BUT I AM A FELLOW SOLDIER, I CARE AND PRAY FOR EVERY SOLDIER THERE EVERYDAY. ITS A SHAME SUCH A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY LIKE YOUR DAUGHTER LIFE HAD TO END THE WAY IT DID. YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS, BE STRONG BECAUSE SHE IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW. HOOHA. SPECIALIST GREEN YOU MADE THE ULTIMATE SACRIFICE. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
SINCERLY, CORPORAL WILLIE RAYNER, JACKSON,TENNESSEE, [email protected]
A Gonzalez
April 18, 2006
I just wanted to express my condolences to Tocarras' family. I met "T" on our first deployment along with her best friend. A special kid, full of energy and happiness. I still cant believe it. take care.
Garry Green
April 12, 2006
Robert,
Is that you from the way man?I appreciate you,son.
Green
Pat Canfall
April 9, 2006
My condolences to the Green family.
Toccara may you rest in peace. Thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice in the name of freedom. You have earned your golden halo and wings. May you continue to soar in the heavenly clouds up above.
ROBERT POOLE
April 3, 2006
God Bless and keep you
Kimberly McFarland
March 16, 2006
Yes, Mommy; we love you too!
You are the image and exaple of a strong, woman of God!
Yvonne Green
March 14, 2006
Thank You and GOD bless each and every one of you.We Love You.
The Green's
Tom Gugliuzza-Smiths
February 26, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Green family in the loss of Toccara. I did not know Toccara, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young lady and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Toccara it has been a little over 6 months since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
February 16, 2006
Wendy David
February 5, 2006
Gary and Yvonne,
You know we are like brothers and sisters instead of cousins and it feels like Tee was my baby too. I miss her laugh and the way she would hold her mouth looking just like Aunt Mabel. I can not begin to imagine the pain you feel, I know people say time heals all wounds, but this wound will never go away. I miss her as if it was just yestarday. Family just know that we are all here for you.
Love you always your lil sis
Wendy
CPL Victor Hall
January 30, 2006
As a Soldier, It's hard to explain my hurt especially when I never met SPC Green. All that I can say is that God put Soldiers on earth. We are hand selected by his disciples to protect the freedom of our country. Be blessed that SPC Green was one of the chosen. Remember the warrior spirit that she, like all Soldiers posses. Remember that she IS a Soldier!
CPL Victor Perry Hall II
Southwestern High School C/O 2001
Bonnie Hobbs-Wade
December 14, 2005
God Bless and keep you, because He said He would.
Valerie McIver Bivens
November 2, 2005
Yvonne and Garry
The pain of your loss continues to weigh heavily on my heart. I pray that the love and warmth of the Most High God has sustained you through what must have been the coldest time in your life. Draw strength from one another...stand firmly in the Lord. My prayers continue to be with you and Toccara.
Kiesha Sampson-Hamilton
November 2, 2005
To the Green family,
I will like to say that I know God will see you through.Toccara was funny,smart and loving.God Bless you and I will keep you in my prayers.
Juana Gonzalez-Reyes
September 12, 2005
To the Green Family
When I first got the message, my heart just dropped. I never imagined the loss of one of my battle buddies. Even though we never kept in touch but we did keep up with each other through our other battle buddies. It kept us happy to know how we all were doing. Toccara was a great person as well as a soldier. From the start of her military career she was an outstanding soldier. The motivation she had was passed on to all of us. Her smile and motivation kept us going. Nothing let her down and I am sure she was the same way over in Iraq. That is the only way to go even though one is in a place away from your family. I can say that every moment being in a terrible country like Iraq is scary, but one gets use to it and tries to make the best of what they have. Toccara Green died defending her country and I am sure she did it well. She will be missed and my symphathy goes out to her family. She may be gone but she will always be in our memories. May she rest in peace. God Bless
tippany roberts
September 8, 2005
As you begin to think about the terrible lost of a sister, daughter, granddaugter, and a wonderful person with a loving heart. I met T in AIT in Ft. Leonard, MO; her room was next door to minds I can still remember her voice when she was calling cadence when marching our class down the street, her laughter on our down time. Whenever someone was down or out or thought that they couldn't go on. She was always trying to left their spirit and told them they can do anything if they put their mind to it. T was a good spirited person and never was down in out or at least she didn't show it to others. She will always be an inspiration to me and I know she is in a better place don't mourn for her but rejoice that she is in a better place.
Amanda Minor
August 31, 2005
To the Green family I'd like to say thank you first off for allowing me to be blessed with such a special angel. I had the pleasure of training with Toccara from basic training to AIT at FT. Leonard Wood M.O. My first encounter with her was at the reception barracks during in processing. I felt so alone and scared to be away from home. T was one of the first girls who approached me and let me no every thing was going to be alright. From then on every time I saw her she had this smile that could only have been described as god sent, You just had to find out why she was so happy. But that was just T. She was a high speed soldier always spit shined and polished and whew could she call a cadence. She was a leader from the start there was no need to question it. I remember standing in formation and receiving word on our first duty stations. She was beaming when she got FT. Drum N.Y. she talked about all the shopping she was gonna do. She also spoke so highly of her brother and how proud she was of him. I have never had the pleasure of meeting him but feel like I have. She was such a beautiful person and best described as an angel on earth. She will forever be mourned and her life celebrated by her fellow soldiers. I love you Toccara.
Emily White
August 30, 2005
My prayers are with the family of young Miss Green. She gradutated with my son from Forrest Park High School in 2000.
Barbara Session
August 29, 2005
Our sympathy and prayers are with the Green family in the death of Toccara. May God grant you peace and comfort during this time of sorrow.
The Session familise of Maryland, North Carolina & South Carolina
Al Robinson
August 29, 2005
I would like to extend my deepest sympathy to the Green family. I will keep you in my prayers.
GaWanda Slate
August 28, 2005
Our prayers go out to the family of this Hero!
SGT Achieng Landy
August 28, 2005
As I finish my deployment in Al Asad, I will always remember the service and sacrifice that SPC Green has given. May her soul rest in peace.
Basilio Thrasher
August 28, 2005
I was deeply saddened to hear about Toccora's death. I read about it in the newspaper and I couldn't believe it. I didn't even know that she was in the army. I also went to forest park with her and it was a honor to have known her, she was a very special person who always had a smile on her face. My condolences go out to the green family.
Linda Thomas
August 28, 2005
My prayers go out to the green family, Toccara was a sweet person and so friendly i cant believe she's gone we went to forest park together.she will trully be missed.
GLORIA COOPER
August 27, 2005
My sympathy goes out to the Green family on the lost of Toccara Green.I've never met Toccara, but I feel as though I knew her. I work with her cousin Wendy David, and I have heard nothing but good things about Toccara. She has touched a lot of people in her 23 yrs, and even more has been touched since her death. I have never seen in my 52 yrs such outpouring of love for someone we have never met. I know as bad as you feel now and as much as your heart hurt now, you will be okay because GOD has HIS arms wrapped around you. Keep the faith, that I know you have and you will get through this.
Andre Green
August 27, 2005
I just want to send out my prayers and condolences to all of Toccara's family and friends. She was a very good person for the short time that I knew her. Her and I have the same last name and I befriended her before she went to the millitary. She had been to my house and even met my mother. I couldn't attend the funeral because of my own sickness but I know that her family will make it through this with the strength and faith of God.
Louise Denton
August 27, 2005
To the Green family,
Let God's deep love and understanding help you in your grief. For He is there to ease the pain and bring your sorrowing heart relief.
"He will not fail thee, nor forsake thee" Deuteronomy 31:6
John 16:33
Lakia Johnson
August 27, 2005
Even though I never knew Toccara Green, my prayers goes out to the family. Just know she is in a better place.
Christina Williams- Hargrove
August 27, 2005
I would like to send my prayers out to the whole Green family. I was on the drill team with Toccara at forest park ,and we also would take the bus together to school in the mornings. She was so nice and always kept a smile on here face. She will truley be missed, but I know she's in a better place. May God bless the Green Family
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