Ian Sanchez Obituary

Hi Dad,
It's me. I miss you more than words can express. I´m now 24 years old and in grad school, working towards my master's degree. I've already earned both an associate's and a bachelor's degree from wonderful colleges, and I know you´d be so proud of me. I was blessed with incredible parents, and an educated mother who has shaped me into the kind, educated woman I am today.
After you passed, a new chapter began with my stepfather entering our lives. I truly believe you sent him to us. He´s set such a high standard that I sometimes worry I´ll be single forever, haha. His father´s headstone is right by yours-how remarkable is that? He´s raised me as his own, and I´m forever grateful to him.
Sadly, I´m estranged from the family, including my own brother, but not by choice. Although I didn´t have the chance to grow up with my brother, I couldn´t have asked for a better family. I recently finished a scrapbook of the letters you wrote to me and Mom; it´s one of the most precious things I own.
Every year since you left, we´ve held fundraisers in your honor to support various nonprofits. While some may have forgotten, I never will.
I´ll always cherish you and the memories we´ve shared.
I love you, now and always

your little girl

Its been along time my brother but you crossed my mind today. And I just to say you are a unique soul. I could feel the moment I meet you. Very humble and caring it just how you was. I miss you my friend an love rest easy....

To the family I am truly sorry for your loss. Hoping you have found some peace over the years.For the short time I knew Ian he was a friend.Almost 14 years have passed. Still think of yall often. Never forgotten. Always in our hearts and memories.

I knew Ian when he first got to South Korea in 2002. He is a great guy who only wanted to learn and take care of his family back in NY. I didn't find out about his death till 2011 and it made me sick to know that such a great man/person was taken from his family. I feel guilty even though I wasn't in Iraq with him the same year. I know he was there for me many times in Korea and I feel as if I failed myself and him. God Bless you Mrs Sanchez and the rest of his family.

I can't believe it's been 10 years I think of you and Lt.Ewens everyday and it's been so hard living with that pain I try to make sense of it but I just don't understand why. Rip Sgt Ian T Sanchez luv u Sapper

It's such a joy to have had you in my life and I thank god for a happiness I never thought I find until I met you. I gaze at our son and see a reflection of you everyday. We celebrate you, we bravely face each day to honor you by living each day the way we hoped to build together. You fought for everyone to have that opportunity to build everyday. I love you so much and though time has past that is something that will never change..your footprints in my heart shifted my life for the better and though it hurts to not have you here with us the memory of you and your essence still remains gladly. We celebrate you love.. Your jokes, your passion to uplift others, I want those that know you to fill in the rest...Let us celebrate him this Memorial Day.

Mrs. Sanchez

Goodbyes are only for those who love with their eyes. Because for those who love with heart and soul, there is no separation.
-Rumi

Hey brother...i finally went to your stone..i just couldn't face it for a long time..i found out i still can't..anyway i just wanted to say that i love you brother and i still think about you every damn day..i tell my son's about you and how great of a friend you are..i bet you are looking over them...i watch my son Nicky and my nephew xavier together and it reminds me of us...i love you kid...you are forever missed and thought about ...talk to ya later bro..

In memory & honor of Sgt Ian Sanchez. It has been 7 years since his passing. He is still remembered.

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Sanchez Family know that we recently sent Care Packages to American troops in the war zones. Each box carried a dedication sheet that includes the name, service information and a photo of your loved one. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals in the youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

it was like yesterday when we were boxing in the bacement ,happy new year bro ,

Thank You Juni, I am so so sorry for the the families loss of Evelyn. She was a very admired woman and loved & missed her son dearly. I had the pleasure of knowing Evelyn as she was a customer of mine at Jewett Check Cashing for many many years. I stopped working there in April 2007....I always wondered how Evelyn was doing. Now I know she is resting peacefully with her baby boy. Thank You for your response Juni & God Bless </3

Ian,
I love you! miss you always, Aunt Juni
Lisa, Evelyn passed away peacefully at hospital on May 28, 2008.

Ian, I didn't know your mom came to be by your side. I am happy all of her suffering has come to and end and you are both finally with each other at rest. If anyone reads this can you please tell me when Ian's mother Evelyn passed away. I am so upset that I didn't know. R.I.P. Ian & Evelyn......Until we meet again my friend. <\3

Gone but NEVER forgotten! To many good times, but not enough time! Tell your mom I said hi! Thanks for your service and all you helped along the way! RIP friend, I'll see ya on the other side!

Thinking of you ! as you protect little Angels on earth from evil :)
I walked upon a few that are happy from your guidence.
Miss You sweet Heart rest in peace Love Debbie (MOM)

A Prayer is sent in your memory, as well as your Mom who adored you dearly, as you know she had to be with her Angel.
Love and Miss you
Debbie (Mom)

June 16, 2011
To the family and friends of Sgt. Ian Sanchez:
Please accept my remembrance of Ian on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Hi Ian
It's been five years and it still feels like just yesterday. I miss you soo much
as do we all. I love you forever.

Aunt Juni

Hello Ian,

Stopping by to visit a true GREAT leader. There are not many like you! But I know you already knew this. Gracias por todo.

SGT Quinones

Thank you for your service and sacrifice. You will not be forgotten. Freedom certainly isn't free.

To the family and friends of Sgt. Ian Sanchez:
Remembering Ian on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

I miss you Ian love forever Aunt Juni

R.I.P. Thanx for defending our country. lesia

Gone but neva forgotton....rip ian and ur mom I know you are happy together

Its memorial day 2010 an Ive been thinking to much lately. Sometimes I wonder if I didnt get in trouble I would be with you an you would probably still be here. I wish the best for your family an I will see you again at the crossroads!

IAN,
You helped me out a lot before I went off to Sapper School as you were coming back. You were a dedicated soldier and all of your peers looked up to you. I cannot thank you enough for helping me out when I needed it the most.

SSG Rodrigues

To the family of Sgt. Ian Sanchez:
Ian gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

SGT,
You were my first leader in the Army. I was moved from your squad just as soon as i got to know you. Miss you SGT. Just want to everyone know my family misses you.

SGT Andrew Morrison

Dear Ian I was just thinking of you today. I think of you and mom very often. I miss you both alot living next door for years and friends before that made us closer then family I just wanted to let you know i love you and mom and you are always on my mind.Thank you for being part of my family, dear friend, and brother.

”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,450 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
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Sincerely,
Kenna

Ian,its been a while since i dropped you a line. its xmas day and ive been thinking of you.I still think of you every day.Its also our first xmas without your mother she is missed just as much as you are.Mike and his son nicky came over for dinner. we all had a quiet xmas. anyway i just wanted to say hello.love allways your uncle scot

It's Veterans day, just want to thank you for the ultimate sacrifice for our country...

Hey big bro, happy birthday in Heaven... miss you and love you dearly... love always, nic.

hey seargant thinkn about you ill holla back ok

Our Dearest Ian, we miss you greatly..you are always in our hearts and thoughts, we love you so much Aunt Irene and Aunt Junie

whats up E you already know i think about you cause we talk dam nere everyday ya know i talk to shane alot i try to keep intouch with kasp i guess he real busy he almost up to steven with kids lol feel me i seen pictures of yours your son look just like you but um im gunna go ill holla at ya later tonight iron monkeys forever baby whoa!

Hey just stopping by to tell you I think about you everyday!!!

Here is a recent picture when Shane, Emily, Anthony, Steven and Myself went to visit your burial, the yellow rose is for friendship!!! Always thinking of you.

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Ian, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

I just wanted to take the time to thank you Ian for fighting for our freedom, Happy Memorial Day to you in Heaven. You've meet me only once but I know your mother Evelyn, She is a wonderful women and I miss her so much. Evelyn I hope you are doing well, I think of you very often especially on holiday's. Ian my 2 daughters are 10 & 12 years old, they pray to you every night, you are a hero to them. Ian you'll always be a hero. God Bless You. And God Bless You Evelyn.

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Sgt Sanchez!

"Greater love has no one than this, that one lay down his life for his friends." John 15:13 ~ On this memorial day, and everyday, I respect and honor your sacrifice!

Hey,
I've been having dreams about you, more frequently than ever. I guess it's cause I really miss you... You'll always be a big brother to me! Thinking of you!

Our Dearest Ian,Happy Easter in heaven. You are in my heart.Uncle Neil's.Gregs and Shannon's hearts every day.You are greatly missed Ian,but you.,our hero will live on forever in our memories. Love Aunt Irene

mY DEAR IAN IT IS EASTER AND I HAVE BEEN MAKING PHOTO ALBUMS FOR YOUR MOTHER, YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN FORGOTTEN FOR A MINUTE,I GO TO YOUR GRAVESITE ALMOST EVERY WEEK. ITS NOT TO WEEP, ITS JUST TO SAY HELLO TO YOU AND PUT A FLOWER OR TWO THERE ANYWAY WITH ALL YHE PICS I HAVE BEEN DOING FOR EVE I FEEL LIKE SAYING HELLO,ALSO YOUR SON MARCUS IS LOOKING MORE AND MORE LIKE HIS FATHER AND JESSENIA IS A BEAUTIFULL LITTLE GIRL ANYWAY IAN I;LL SAY GOODBYE FOR NOW AND I MISS THE HELL OUT OF YOU LOVE,YOUR UNCLE SCOT

Merry 2nd Christmas in Heaven. Ian I miss you and always think of you. We were at the grave today and left some little things on the grave blanket. I spoke to Jennifer and Marcus. Marcus is doing well and misses his daddy. You will always be in my thoughts and in my heart. I love you Ian.

You know I'm not big on expressing how i feel into a computer. I don't have to show everyone how much it hurts that you're gone, because you already know and that's all that counts. I was always proud to call you a big brother, you and Kasp, even before you went into the service. Now, I'm even more proud to call you my brother. Proud of your courageousness, your patriotism, your dedication to your family, friends and country. I still remember your laugh like it was yesterday, and the stacks of pancakes you would throw down in mommy's kitchen. You remember You, Anthony, Steven and Mike all rotating those 4 pairs of jeans? ha ha.. And the late night pool dips on Castleton..and the puerto rican showers; oops i mean scottorican.. Those memories will NEVER be erased. Blood is thicker than water, but that doesn't apply here because we all had a special bond that couldn't be broken even by harsh tragedies. I love you, and you will always be my brother, my hero. Always in my heart.

to my brother, Ive known you since we were babies . We grew up next door to each other and i am so grateful for every second i hung out with you. I dont think anybody could ever understand how close we truly were. We trusted each other wit everything. even when you were 9 and moved to todt hill we still hung out all the time. We are brothers and always will be. We been thru it all together good and bad. I remember diggin holes in the backyard for our gi joes and makin forts . there must be a million gi joes buried back there. I have a picture of us on my livingroom wall and we were in kindergarten at our graduation, it maskes me smile but at the same time breaks my heart cause we were supposed to get old and tell our kids all the crazy and stupid things we did together . I always looked forward to you coming out on leave cause we would chill and go out or just drink and play cards. I wanna let you know I could never have a closer friend than you and i mean it. This might sound corny but i always dream about you and in my dreams we are always hangin out like old times and when i wake up it makes me feel like we just hung out . Ill admit it bro Im still in denial .Physically your gone but in my heart and mind youll always be here cause I know well meet again . Oh yeah , I have another baby . I have another boy, his name is Nicholas Ryan Shenk and hes 9 months old and he alreay walks and he cheers me up everyday. Mikey jr is 6 yrs old now in the second grade and doing outstanding in school. I really miss you bro .I never felt as much pain as I did as when you moved on. Im sorry I havent seen your mom in so long. Im gonna go see her , I promise. Its hard to be in that apartment .I love your mom so much , shes definitely one of the strongest people I ever met and she gave you that same stength along with alot of other good traits. I just wanna let you know that you are always in my heart and my thoughts and until we meet again , I love you my brother from another mother. Im so sorry Evvy Jen Marcus Tiffany Jessenya and everyone who ever got the chance to have Ian in there life. YOUR ALWAYS IN MY HEART>>>>IRON MONKEYS FOREVER Love your big brother KASP

Our Dear Ian, you recently had a Birthday,Happy Birthday in Heaven. You are missed so very much,and in my thoughts and heart always. Your children are beautiful,and will always know .. who their father was,you will always be their hero,Ian. Rest easy,knowing you will be in our hearts forever. I love you,Aunt Irene,

Ian we Miss you!!!, You'll forever stay in our Hearts, Memorys...
OUR HERO
Love (Debbie)2nd MOM

Ian for lack of appropriate words all i can do is wish yoy a happy birthday. Your aunt dottie and i were up to your gravesit yesterday on your birthday. Ian, I miss you so much. I

SGT Sanchez Family,
Solo quisiera campartir algo que ya ustedes saben sobre el. Era una persona dedicada ayudar a quien necesitara ayuda. Parece a ver sido ayer cuando llegue a Ft Drum, era una soldada nueva sin experiencia y no sabia que hacer. El siendo no tan solo sargento pero una buena persona me dio buenos consejos, los cuales ahora comparto con mis soldados. Recuerdo que salia de pase a visitar mucho a su familia en NY y que los extranaba mucho. Estoy segura que ahora es un angel que cuida a su esposa e hijo. Estoy segura que todavia da consejos a otros angeles. Fue un gran placer conocerlo y espero que algun dia mis soldados esten tan orgullosos de mi como yo lo estoy de usted. Gracias. Visite a su familia en suenos y que Dios mantega a su familia fuerte en estos momentos tan criticos. Que Dios los bendiga

To the family and friends,
I would like to extend my deepest sympathies. Losing a loved on is the hardest thing in life. I am writing to not only express my sorrow for you but to let you know about a memorial I am working on. I am creating a quilt to honor the fallen soldiers from the New York City Area. Each soldier will have a panel created. I am inviting the friends and families to get involved. I am a friend of Kim's and was trying to let her know about this but I haven't been able to reach her. If you are interested or would like some more information please contact me at [email protected]

I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Sgt. Ian Sanchez
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Sgt Sanchez and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

We've been through a lot together. You were one the most inetelligent people I have ever met in my life. We both did something with our lives by joining the military. I remember when I first got to Korea and I didn't have any money. You let me borrow money and you didn't even know me. I miss you Ian I really miss you man. Its like I lost another brother. This is hard. I'll get in contact with your family. If your kids need anything I'll help out. You have a son named Marcus. It brings me to tears. I'll never forget you. I swear on my life. God has a home for you better than anything down here. I love you man. I should of found you and told you this earlier. You taught me a lot. You'll be missed dearly.

A true American hero.God bless Ian and his family.

I remember you when we where just teenagers hanging around TodtHill Projects. You where the sweetest thing ever and would do anything for anyone. My prayers go out to your family, they where lucky to have a man like you in their lives. You will be missed deeply.

Jen...

It has taken me months to try to come up with something eloquent that I haven’t already told you in person. I struggle even now as I look at you and Marcus and wonder if there isn’t some way I could take away the pain you have been feeling since June and continue to feel daily. The love you have for Ian is one of the greatest joys that a person could ever hope to find. You were lucky to have found that love and the love you have with Ian is amazing.

I remember the first time that we met the three of you, we were all walking in from the parking lot and Sari was being Sari and barking. I hate to admit it even now but it was funny to watch the three of you jump a little when the monster peered over the fence. But I knew I was going to like you.

Jen... you are my best friend and if I could do anything to change the pain that you feel I would. Marcus, your daddy loved you more than you can imagine and when you get old enough to dial the phone you call me and I will share some of the memories with you that I have about you and your dad. Especially the drums.

Ian, may you rest in peace and know that your mission was not in vain and know that when your family, friends and love ones look up at the sky and smile they are thinking of you.

“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers

Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still

We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever

Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away

Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go

We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light

Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray

Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound

Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go

It is the American Serviceman, not the reporter, Who has given us freedom of the press.
It is the American Serviceman, not the poet, Who has given us freedom of speech.
It is the American Serviceman, not the campus organizer, Who has given us the freedom to demonstrate.
It is the American Serviceman, not the lawyer, Who has given us a right to a fair trial.
It is the American Serviceman, who salutes the flag, Who serves under the flag, And whose coffin is draped by the flag.

God Bless Sgt. Ian Sanchez!

To my nephew Ian Its only now Ian that I can say something to you i,m not sure why but i was unable to do so. Ian I had Marcus in my arms two weeks ago,just as I had you in my arms 25 years ago,He is the spitting image of you.I have no doubt that he is going to be just like his father in every way. I miss the hell out of you IAN,you were like the son that I always wanted.I told you that I was proud of you I still am and always will be.Your uncle Gordon and I still mention you no matter what we are talking about,your name comes up.I just felt like having a little chat with you,nephew ust a check in to say hello,love till next time,your uncle Scot

I am Deeply saddened by the loss of Sgt. Ian Sanchez. The price this young hero and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

May he rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Peace of the Lord be with the Sanchez family.

There will never be enough ways to humbly thank these heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.



"The soldier, above all others, is required to perform the highest act of religious teaching--SACRIFICE."

~General Douglas MacArthur~

Ian you were every thing a mom would expect a son to be. Evelyn is lucky to have had a son so great and your Uncle Scot and I are sorry to have lost you. Ian you will always be in our hearts and prayers and we will look out for your wife and children along with all of your other family members. Ian I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU SO MUCH. LOVE UNCLE SCOT AND AUNT DOT AND YOUR SISTERS AND BROTHER.

Ian went out of his way for his soldiers. He always joked around and encouraged everyone. Ian was truly a leader and his superiors saw the potential he had. He had a passion to succeed and was very proud to be among these fine soldiers. I pray for all our soldiers out there and extend my condolences to the families that have lost their soldiers. "FREEDOM IS NOT FREE"



I would also like to thank everyone for their support. My heart is broken and a piece of myself left with him. I love my husband and obstacles in life did not separate us neither will death. In truth it will be a long journey for me but in my heart I know that Ian will be right beside me guiding the way. I will honor his wishes as if he was standing right next to me. May he rest in peace knowing that. I will never say goodbye only that I'll see you later.



Jessenya and Marcus



Daddy is watching over you both. Daddy loves the both of you very much. His last wish would be to honor his memory by going to school, staying out of trouble and most of all respect your mothers. Daddy's last piece of advice "Do you know why we fall down? So that we can learn to pick ourselves up". He is a HERO and he worked hard to defend our country and to make sure this world was safe for the both of you.



Evelyn



The pain we share may not be similiar but our love for Ian is equal. Time may never completely heal us but we have to use this time to fulfill Ian dreams. He was the sun, you are his earth, I am his moon and his children the stars. Let's take care of our stars.

Thank You to all who have posted your condolences, your kind words mean a great deal to me. I am very greatful.

To my former co-workers, Kathy and Maryann, I never forgot about our time working at Baley Seton together. Thank You again for your kind condolences. I am doing my best to be strong and have faith in Gods plan.



A proud Mother of an Honorable man

Our deepest sympathy to the family of Ian Sanchez--Evelyn, Jennifer, Marcus, Jesenya, Gordon and all the aunts, uncles, cousins, friends.

At Ian's memorial at Ft. Wadsworth, my heart ached for all of you as I remember almost a year ago burying my godson and nephew, Nils Thompson, killed in Iraq 8/4/05. The tears flowed as I felt your pain of losing your dear Ian. How brave he was to leave his family, especially his children to fight for our country! Ian is now your personal angel watching over you. How fortunate that your family is connected and was there in full force. Please know that you are in our prayers, we know how empty you feel, how the tears won't stop. The memories of your dear Ian will keep you strong. God and family will help ease the pain. Sincerely from the family of Pfc Nils Thompson.

Jesenya, I'm so sorry to hear about your Daddy he loved you, and you will find out one day, that he was a great man that fought for his country and loved his children!!!!!!

jesenya,



im sorry to hear about your dad... if ever you get sad just remember your dad is smiling down on you. also my condolences to the Sanchez family.

Evelyn, I am so sorry for the loss of your only child. I don't know if you remember me after all these years but we used to work together at Baley Seton Hosp Anitas floor me you and Kathy Strucker we were a great team. I remember you always talking about your son Ian when he was young and what you used to make him for his school lunches. You always worried about him, as any mother does for a child,raising him by yourself, well let me tell you, you did a fantastic job you should be proud, I'm sure you are. Please accept my condolences, you are in my prayers

with heartfelt sympathy,MaryAnn Strano Gallo R.N.

Evelyn and Sanchez Family: I am so sorry for your loss. Evelyn, it has been many years since we have worked together on B3 and EF4, and I have thought of you often over the years. I was so saddened when I heard about Ian. I remember how much you loved him and lived for him. I remember when he turned 10 and that he loved tacos---you used to make them for Ian and his friends. I know he was your pride and joy. I felt as if I had known him~~just from your talking about him and your love for him! He grew up to be a handsome, wonderful and brave man~~~~what a great job you did!! I thank Ian for fighting for all of us, so we can live a free life. To Ian's wife and children: I am terribly sorry . Just know that your husband and Daddy was a very honorable man, a man to be proud of to do all that he could to give you a better life. He is looking upon all of you from Heaven and he is always in your heart. Evelyn, I so badly wanted to come for the funeral, but unfortunately I did not know when it was. God Bless all you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Kathy Carey Strucker (Montgomery, NY)

My Dearest Nephew Ian,

I miss you so much, I was just getting to know the man & hero that you have become, you were taken from us much to soon. Thank you for your courage your smile thank you for you. I love you so much you will forever be in my heart. May you rest in peace. love forever, Aunt Juni.

A thank you to my precious nephew:

The gratefulness we have that Ian brought two beautiful lives into this world and ours,cannot be put into words.When we look at Jessenya,we will see Ian's smile.When we look at Marcus,we will see Ian's eyes,hear his laughter. His legacy will go on. Ian,in your eternal slumber,rest gently,peacefully;knowing that you are so loved by so many. We want to thank Evelyn,for bringing you into our lives.We want to thank Jennifer for loving you with all of her heart and soul. To you,Ian, Thank you for standing so tall and proud for your family and Country.God Bless you, Aunt Irene,Uncle Neil,Greg and Shannon

Ian,you are dearly missed by all. Jessy will always remember her daddy as her hero. You grew to be a strong and honorable man.I know you are watching and smiling from up above at the things you see. You will forever live in the eyes of jessy. GOD BLESS YOU IAN FOR ALL YOU'VE DONE FOR THIS COUNTRY, AND YOUR KIDS!!

Family of SGT Sanchez,

I am deeply sorry for your loss. No matter what the problem was, SGT Sanchez helped me see the up side to things and put a smile on my face. I consider him a friend as well as a soldier I worked with. I have good memories of SGT Sanchez that I am blessed with for the rest of my life.

Sgt.Sanchez was a bright,smart,strong,and honorable man.I only new him for a short two months during our tour to Afganistan.My heart aches as i write this for you Jen,your kids,and all of your family.I will never meet another soldier like him and my work ethics will follow his.He was my friend and my leader.Im deeply sorry for your loss.I will never forget him or you his family. Spc.Richard Ehardt

To the Mcleod & Sanchez family:

I'm deeply sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

--Jen

Dear Titi Jen

I am here to tell you and everyone else that may be reading this, how very much I love you. This must be the hardest time in all of your life... And I cant even begin to imagine how you must feel. You are a strong woman, and I admire you so much for that. Out of all of this pain and hurt you still stood strong, and never stoped believing in yourself. I didnt know Tio Ian very much, but i know he must have been a wonderful person or you wouldn't have choose him. Just keep praying and i will do the same. Just remeber that God loves you and Ian will continue to live on in you and marcus's heart.

Jesenya, Tiffany and Mcleods,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I never imagined this would happen to you Ian. I remember you as a young teenager and can't believe what a great man you grew up to be. I know you are here in spirit walking besides your children. Jesenya, you know you are your Daddy's clone, it’s amazing. Ian, you have some strong genes. God bless you Tiffany, I never thought you would be such a great, dedicated Mother. Now you have to be even stronger for your daughter, who needs you more than ever. Evelyn, you are a gracious strong willed woman, with so much wisdom. Your son is looking down so proud to have had you for a Mother. May the lord embrace you during this difficult time.

Dear Jennifer,



My deepest sympathies to you, Marcus and the entire Sanchez family. Although I don't know you personally I've learned a lot about your strength and commitment to Ian through my dauhgher who is your neighbor at Fort Drum. Ian will always be remembered as a hero and you my sweet angel are a heros wife.

My heartfelt sympathy to the Sanchez family in the loss of Ian. I did not know Ian, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Ian you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.

I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.

Love and Peace

Tom



To live in the hearts

of those you leave behind

is never to die"

~Robert Orr~

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

You were an only child but you were my brother Ian and more. You were my best friend, overall a great person and words can't even describe the tremenedous heartache your ultimate sacrifice has caused our families&friends. I sit here and battle my mixed emotions and can't help but to think back and relive memories we shared, unforgetable memories you gave me, my family and most importantly my sister. The time I've known you, your gifted presence, your blessed personality touched my family, especially my sister JENNIFER. You grew on us instantly and we became so fond of you to the point we developed respect, admiration, love, and understanding as to why Jennifer loved you so much and chose you. You brought my sister incredible joy and happiness, a love many spend a life time searching so desperately for, but you gave it to her immediately and for that you are her HERO. You sacrifieced it all to protect and serve not only her and your children but also your country and now your THE NATIONS HERO! Ian I'm so proud of you for you lived up to the man you were and will always be. Our precious loss is the lords gain and I pray the lord gives each and every soul you came in contact with, each heart you touched the strength, the comfort, and the peace to get through this time as we all grieve. I will miss you dearly and know that I love you now and always and I will NEVER forget you!!!!!!!!!! I will always remember you because your blessed presence lives through my sister Jennifer and my nephew/godson Marcus. Our sweet precious angel may you rest in peace.

Dear Ian

It has been a great honor to know a hereo like you you have always been a great friend of mine and i will miss you dearly Since i known you you have always went the exra mileyou have done seen and achieved things that the ordenary person would be afread to do but you have done it with pride,exellence, and grace.My heart bleeds for your mother,wife, and your children.until we meet again, love always carol

My condolences go to the family of Ian T. Sanchez. I known Ian since i'm a little girl i grew up with him , he is a wonderful person inside and out as everyone knows . He will never be forgotten . My prayers are with the family of Ian as well as his children .

My deepest sympathy for the family of Ian Sanchez..While I didn't know him or his family..my husband who is the New York State Captain of the Patriot Guard - who is attending his service today in Staten Island has told me things about him and his wife and family..My prayers go out to everyone. Rest in Peace Sgt. Sanchez

Dear Evelyn,



We would like to express our deepest condolences from the bottom of our hearts for your loss. Ian was a fine young man, strong, smart and caring. Having the opportunity to grow and mature with a hero such as him was an honor.



Many times people pass away who never really lived their life; Ian was someone who lived everyday to its maximum. Whether he was the young man who wrote rhymes or the Soldier who fought for the freedom of us all, his life was one lived with happiness, vigor and purpose. Ian did die a hero, fighting to protect the FREEDOM of his son, his daughter, his family, friends and country.



We have lost more than just a soldier; Ian was a great son, a great friend, a great father and a great man.



He will not soon be forgotten

OUR DEEPEST CONDOLENCES TO THE SANCHEZ FAMILY.



TO JENNY AND MARCUS,

OUR HEARTS ARE WITH YOU DURING THIS TRAGIC TIME AND WE ONLY PRAY THAT GOD GIVES YOU STRENGTH. WE LOVE YOU AND WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER IAN.

Our hearts are with yiou Jennifer. Ian was taken from you to do another mission. He will be your special guardian angel and will protect you. Ian is a true HERO and you just remember to hold your head up high know that Ian is walking right beside you. We will be here for you to help you keep your head high. God Bless.