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David H. Ling
May 27, 2024
Mark,
It´s Memorial Day 2024. You are a fallen hero and we miss you.
I often think of you through each year and have to wonder about your life´s trajectory had you not been called into my office in 2000.
You went on in the Army to do what you were meant to do...lead men in combat. You paid the ultimate sacrifice and left us to soon.
We are still proud of you and love you like a son.
Very Respectfully,
COL (R) D. H. Ling
John Doyle
May 8, 2021
Visited Mark yesterday at Arlington. We were classmates at West Point (Go Hogs!). I spent hours telling my wife about the great times I had with Mark at school. We certainly cooked up our fair share of trouble. Mark was a great person and a great friend who will never be forgotten. RIP.
Barclay Neel
July 24, 2020
Thinking of you today, old buddy, which isn't all that unique after all these years. It's pretty amazing how certain people stay with you even though we haven't hung out properly since we were in our teens. So glad we had the inseparable years we did, and clearly they were enough to stick with me throughout. So wonderful also reading how many other people's lives you touched and the importance and meaning you gave to other people. Proud how you lived your life, and it still angers me it was cut way too short. A daily reminder it is to not take a single day for granted. Miss you, my man.
Katherine Katz
May 26, 2020
Thinking of Mark on Memorial Day and so many days. His memory does not fade for me. He is unforgettable.
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David Ling
May 24, 2020
Mark, tomorrow is Memorial
Day...Joyce and I think of you today as always. We were honored to know you as a young man, an officer, and a warrior. You will never be forgotten. With utmost respect and fond memories, Colonel (R) David Ling
COL (R) David Ling
May 24, 2013
To the Paine family,
It is a sad moment, but one of honor to say on this Memorial Day weekend... we were privileged to have served with Mark. He will always be known as a gentleman, an officer, and a warrior. We miss him. Very respectfully...
Katherine McMaster Katz
December 20, 2011
I visited Mark in Arlington over the Thanksgiving holiday. I always thought I'd see him in D.C. but not under these circumstances. I feel so fortunate to have know him.
December 10, 2011
To the family of Capt Mark Paine, My son Tristan Smith served with Mark in Iraq in 2006, I wanted you to know that Mark was honored and remembered today with a wreath.
Mark was visited and remembered today at Arlington
Grant Smith
December 10, 2011
Peggy Childers
October 15, 2011
To the family and friends of Capt. Mark C. Paine:
Please accept my remembrance of Mark on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
October 15, 2010
To the family and friends of Capt. Mark C. Paine:
Remembering Mark on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Katherine McMaster Katz
May 31, 2010
I think of Mark and his family often, but of course am thinking of them today. I am thankful for Mark for who he was and for everything he did.
Grant Smith
May 31, 2010
To the family of Mark Paine. my son served under Mark in Iraq. I wanted you to know that Mark and his family are frequently on my mind. His letter to us after Tristan's death helped us to ease the pain.
Thank you all and peace to you on this Memorial Day
May 30, 2010
First of all, I want to say that I'm really sorry I waited so long to thank you for the very kind words you wrote about my brother Moises Jazmin, in the letter you sent our family from Iraq. I'm terribly sorry I dind't get a chance to thank you personally, those words you wrote showed what kind of person you were, they touched us all. My heart goes out to your family because I feel their pain. May god have you and my brother close to him.
ricardo Favela
February 19, 2010
To the family of Capt Mark Paine first let me give you my sympathy for your loss. My name is Ricardo Favela,I am a member of V.F.W. Post 8680 in Rancho cucamonga Ca. We recive a plaque from a gentleman name Derek Sizemore from Lewisburg Ohio stating he bought the plaque in a garage sale 7 years ago. Mr.Sizemore belive Capt.Mark Paine was from the Rancho Cucamonga Ca. area. The plaque was given to Capt Mark Paine from the Marines of the 4th civil affairs Groupe.Our Post would be honor to present the plaque to the family Of Capt Mark Paine.Please let me know if this is The Capt Mark Paine we are trying to located. Once again my deepest sympathy. Please call (909) 957-1418
Katherine McMaster Katz
June 18, 2009
Dear Mark,
I was hoping to reconnect with an old high school friend when I searched for you on the web. Finding the news of your passing in Iraq has brought on such a deep sadness. It is really quite unthinkable that someone who was larger than life could be gone already. You were so special to me and I always thought our paths would cross again. I always knew you would do great things and I’m happy to see you stuck with your dreams and did so much. Your charisma, passion and fire were so brilliant and have not dimmed in my mind despite the many years since we last saw each other. I can still see the twinkle in your eye. I have always had such fond memories of you and can’t help but to laugh when I think about our times together. Thanks for harassing Officer Rader when I got pulled over after Moraga curfew; I was convinced you would get us arrested. Thanks for being such a fun prom date. Thanks for the stories and inspiration. Thanks for fighting for our country and way of life. I always hoped and thought our paths would cross again, and now I know I need to wait until I get to heaven to see you again. You always have had, and always will have, a special place in my heart.
Always,
Kasserine
MICHAEL MCCARDEL
June 15, 2009
Just wanted you to know I think about you all the time and the great times we had at motars. god bless you sir you were by far the best damn commander i ever had and i miss you more than the world. rest in peace.
Rachel Rizzo-Diaz
May 25, 2009
Dear Mark,
In gratitude for the sacrifice you made in defense of our country's freedom on this Memorial Day and every day of the year. Thank you for your friendship at Campolindo, for sharing faith, love of history & USA. You will never be forgotten. "No one has greater love than this, to lay down one's life for one's friends." God bless you, my friend, and may you rest in peace.
Kenna Larra
March 10, 2009
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In Memory of Mark ~ (Debra Estep)
October 16, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Mark, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Peggy Childers
October 13, 2008
To the family of Capt. Mark C. Paine:
Mark gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Loren Bass
July 21, 2008
Mark,
I think of you every day. Thanks for being that voice in my head that makes me want to do more, more, more and do it better. I miss you my friend. Thanks for beleiving in me and helping me to beleive in myself.
June 8, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Capt Paine!
MAJ Kevin Robinson
January 26, 2008
Although the present light that was CPT Mark Paine no longer is visible in this world, his spirit lives forever in the hearts of his family, friends, and in those fellow Soldiers who knew him. I pray for God's peace and comfort in mending all hearts affected by his loss. I crossed paths with Mark for the first and most regrettably the final time late one evening at Camp Taji just mere days before his passing. Mark struck up a conversation and I recall, through his kind words, that he knew more about me than I would imagine someone who had only seen another in passing would know. It was with shock and sorrow that I greeted the news of his death. At his memorial service on Taji, I gained a better understanding of the man Mark was and the tremendous effect he had on all those who knew him. I also felt and shared the overwhelming grief that the members of his command endured at the loss of so able a captain. Rest in peace Mark. The day you departed us this nation lost one of the greatest patriots I've personally ever known. For me, your leadership abilities and selfless devotion to this nation will be the measuring stick applied to all others both within uniform and without. I thank God for that chance encounter in a foreign land, thousands of miles from home....for meeting you my brother on this earth before your passing.
james mccready
January 21, 2008
Here's to the best damn commander that you could have ever asked for. I think of you all the time sir. I think about you every time I am in San Fran. Thank you for being all that you could be.
Much love to the family.
Cpt (P) Michael & Mrs Terri Glotfelty
October 15, 2007
We wanted to let you know that we were thinking of Mark and you, his family today. We visited Mark at Arlington upon our return to the mainland in March. Michael will soon be stationed in the DC area and we will visit him frequently when we move. We continue to keep you all in our prayers.
August 6, 2007
I don't pretend to know what to say or do that would bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY
August 2, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Capt Paine and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Bryan Achee
May 29, 2007
I had the honor of serving with CPT. Mark C. Paine during OIF 05-07. CPT. Paine was my Company Commander. You couldn't ask for a better soldier to lead you into combat. I would have followed him anywhere. He had a soft side but would never let that get in the way of what he know needed to be done. You will be missed.
SGT. Kevin Downey 412th CA BN
May 15, 2007
I had the distinct honor of serving with CPT Payne for about 6 months at the end of my tour. My team leader and CPT Payne graduated from West Point together and he was always in our team room cracking jokes. Ill never forget his sense of humor which could always get a chuckle out of anyone on their worse day. God Bless his family and friends.
Major (P) Greg Rowlands
May 4, 2007
I visited Mark yesterday at Arlington. I did not know him, however we shared a mutual friend in a great American named Major Des Bailey, who is currently in Iraq again. It was a beautiful day at Arlington and I wanted to pay my respects. I hope you don't mind that I left a small piece of granite from Little Round Top, Gettysburg at the base of Mark's grave marker. As I did for Des and Mark's buddy Ian Weikel resting nearby. I felt the spirit of courage, valour and personal sacrifice forged long ago by the infantrymen of Alabama and Maine on that hallowed ground, was the most appropriate thing I could leave there for fallen warriors. Ian and Mark are now surrounded by men and women from the Army and Marines who have also given their all. I stayed for some time reflecting on their personal sacrifice for us all. I could feel the pain of loss in that peaceful place and I'll admit that I left with tears welling in my eyes.
ROBYN GARSIDE
March 24, 2007
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Jared Rudacille
March 6, 2007
I knew Mark from 1-22In and 1-66AR. He was such and outspoken and friendly person who was always the first to come and shake your hand and see how you are doing. My deepest sympathies to all of his family.
Glen
February 1, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Ryan Finnegan
February 1, 2007
I'm an '05 Campo grad. I just read about Captain Paine a moment ago, after searching for members of the military from my hometown.
He will be remembered.
Nichole Scott
January 19, 2007
I am sorry for your loss. I never knew Mark. I am a cousin of his West Point roommate, Josh Sipes. From what Josh has told me, Mark was a wonderful person and will be sorely missed.
Roger Paine
January 14, 2007
It has now been three months since Mark passed from us. I can't imagine what my life will be without Mark's presence. In Brandon's eulogy, he identified Mark as living as "boy scouts without parents". Mark was a true patriot, well aware of the possibility of his being killed in action. Frankly, I don't think Mark ever thought it would happen. I'm not sure I actually thought it would happen either. I know Mark is in a better place, and his pain and suffering are at an end. I know that Mark died for a purpose, although sometimes I have to wonder about the politics. I still remember VietNam, and as a veteran of that war I know the pain of losing troops, nd knowing that I was going to lose troops. I will always be proud of Mark, and proud of his dedication. Mark truly did make a difference, and wll always be a shining example. I love you, and miss you Mark, and my life will never, ever, be the same.
I love you, Son, and look forard to being reunited some day.
Your Dad
Christopher Taylor
December 25, 2006
The United States lost a patriot with the loss of Mark. During Desert Storm, Mark rallied the students to support the troops as he marched through the hallways of Campolindo High School. He proudly wore the United States flag. As a track star, Mark always brought a winning attitude and always rallied his fellow track members to finish strong. He led by example. I'll always remember Mark as a teammate and a patriot. Mark will never be forgotten. God Bless.
Tim and Bridget Hammersmith
December 1, 2006
To The Paine Family -
We had the honor of meeting Mark at our daughter Terri's wedding to Captain Michael Glotfelty in 2000. One of the highlights of the reception was when Colonel Ling, Mark, and Michael led a group in dancing the Electric Slide. All of our guest commented on what a special person Mark was. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Most sincerely, Tim and Bridget Hammersmith
November 26, 2006
I had the honor of serving as the company senior medic in CPT Paine's company for the past two years and I was with him the night that he gave his life for what he believed in. I will always remember that the men in his company and his dedication to our mission over here was all he thought about. My deepest sympathies go to the Paine family for your loss. Know that he will always be remembered as long as any of us still lives.
SGT Andrew Meyer
B Co. 1-66 AR
Company Senior Medic
CPT Michael Glotfelty
November 22, 2006
To the Parents of Mark,
Mark (akk Pinky) was a close and dear friend of mine while we were asigned together in 2-7 IN, Ft Stewart, GA and where he honnored my family and I as being one of my groomsmen for my Wife Terri and I wedding in Va (dec 2000). There are too few frineds that Mark was. I still remember that butt chewing he reviewed by LTC Ling (BN CDR) about not letting him and his wife know that Terri and I had elope in July before our big church wedding in December. He kept our secert that our parents didn't even know. I also served with him in Kosovo. I was deeply saden from the news of his death, it seams like it was yesterday that I chated with him. I too am station in Iraq, just 20 miles from where he was and always hope that our paths would cross again. He was a great friend and great Officer who cared for his Soldiers.
terri & michael glotfelty
November 22, 2006
Dear Paine Family,
Mark will always have a special place in our hearts. He was a groomsmen and a reader at our wedding almost 6 years ago. He served with my husband, Michael, at Fort Stewart & was just one of the most wonderful people I had ever met. I remember his fantastic personality and everyone at our wedding commented on what a wonderful young man he was. We are truly sorry for your loss but greatful that we were lucky enough to have known him.
God Bless You All,
With Deepest Sorrow,
terri & michael glotfelty
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
November 14, 2006
To the Paine family; Last week my neighbor's brother visited from CA. He said he wanted to go to ANC to visit someone. He didn't know where Mark was located at. I explained in detail. He said Brandon and he are friends. The next day he said he had a wonderful visit. As promised...each time I am at ANC I visit Mark.
Brigid Wonder
November 12, 2006
I am a Campo mom of 3 (2 boys). Your son will always be a shining example to all of us of the very best we could ever hope for in a young man.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time.
Jim & Nancy Powell
November 9, 2006
Roger,Kairyn and Family,
Your loss is felt by many more than you can imagine. Mark touched many and helped us to learn and do better in our lives.
What a wonderful young man you raised. You guided him to the life he always wanted, opened his eyes to all that he could do and showed him the road to get there. You opened his wings so he could fly and boy did he ever soar.
Mark lived his dream and always left his footprints wherever he walked, leaving all good things...helpful things, even if it was only a hug and good wishes.
Mark will never be forgotten, for through his teachings we will remember him and the world will be a better place.
Thank you for giving and sharing Mark with us. Thank you Mark for living your dream and doing so much to share it with us. You will be sorely missed by all, but never forgotten.
Casey Lusk
November 6, 2006
Paine family and friends, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. I had the honor of serving with Mark (CPT Paine) in 1-22. He truly had a passion for his job and went above and beyond in all that he did. He was a fine officer, and friend. I'm sorry this comes so late, I just heard the news. "Regulars by God."
Casey
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
November 4, 2006
To the Paine family: It was an honor meeting you today at ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY. From the most inner part of my heart I am so sorry Mark was taken from you. I cry with you in your loss. As we spoke I promised you each time I am at ANC I will stop and visit/honor Mark. As Mark held Ian when he died in my heart I know Ian was holding Mark. Not knowing how to say this, but Mark was buried right behind Ian. They are together in heaven watching over each of you.
1LT John Fitzpatrick
November 4, 2006
To the Paine Family,
It is with great respect and sadness that I write these words. I remember Mark as Campolindo High School Football teamate, with a dedication to serve which at a young age was both evident and enviable. I have heard stories from Matt Treadway and Phil Pillsbury these past weeks filled with fond childhood memories. Mark still brings smiles to our faces. When I decided to join the NYARNG I thought of Mark often. I always admired his ability not only to decide his future with such clarity at a time when the rest of us were far from such a proud example, but also his ability to succeed. Mark was an excellent teamate and leader and he will be missed. For the former I am grateful, for the later I am sorry.
Very respectfully,
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
November 3, 2006
To the Paine family; I previously signed Mark's guest book. While I was at ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY today I attended Mark's service. My heart was broken and I cry with you in your loss. I promise you each time I am at ANC I will stop by and visit/honor Mark.
Candy and Jim Watkinson
November 2, 2006
We have all been so saddened by Mark's death. His life was full and impacted many of us with his love for Chirst and his zest for living. We are praying for you all. We are honored to have shared time with such a wonderful young man as he was growing up in our church family at MVPC.
Patrick Early
November 1, 2006
Dear Dear Kairyn, Roger and Brandon,
Words cannot express the pain I feel in hearing today of Mark's passing. Just as Kairyn and Roger were my "second parents" of sorts growing up, Brandon and Mark were very much my brothers. I'll never forget the laughs and antics and life lessons we shared in together as boys. For the loss of a brother, particularly one as full of life as Mark, I share in the pain of your loss.
Please accept my most heartfelt condolences in these days of grief. Know that I am with you in missing his spirit, his energy and his life.
Much love to you all.
Gilbert and Ellen Jensen
November 1, 2006
We will always remember Mark’s warmth, charm, his love, his consideration for others and his words. He had an extraordinary skill with words that made him communicate with ease and sincerity.
Mark quietly pursued his dreams and goals with such infectious enthusiasm that all in his presence could not help but be impressed by such a genuine, yet humble and modest young man. His concern for others and natural leadership among men filled every room he entered.
We will forever cherish the small 4th infantry Christmas tree ornament Mark presented to us when he stayed with our family in Tahoe for several days during his 2003 Christmas leave. It will take a special place on our tree every year and always remind us of a man who, though he touched our lives all too briefly, enriched them forever.
May the memory of Mark’s strength and courage ease the sorrow of these troubled days.
Jeffrey Nilson
November 1, 2006
I knew Mark from High School, and he was always a man of great conviction. I appreciate the men and women who are, have, and will continue to fight for our country. I offer my condolences to the Paine family, as well as everyone affected. I'm proud to say I knew someone like Mark Paine.
Susan Kallaher
November 1, 2006
To Family, Friends, and Loved Ones of Mark: I too knew Mark to be an amazing individual. I am deeply saddened and pray for all that feel the pain of this loss. May God Bless You and Keep You. You will never be forgotten, Mark.
Mike Wagner & Family
October 31, 2006
Dear Paine Family,
My family’s thoughts and prayers have been with you constantly since we got the news. Mark is an amazing human being and we are truly blessed to know him. He has touched out lives in many ways. He was my classmate at school and I am proud to have served our country with him for 2 years, both in Iraq and at Fort Hood. He is a great American and a great officer who is passionate about his soldiers and his profession. His tireless efforts, selflessness, and seemingly endless motivation are an inspiration to all who knew him, and he is sorely missed.
Michelle Miller
October 31, 2006
Dearest Paine Family,
I am a friend of Jill's from work. I never had the privilege of meeting Mark, but know how much Jill loves her family and how highly she speaks of every one of you. I heard of your tremendous loss and wanted to extend my most sincere and heartfelt condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
Michelle Miller
John Truesdell
October 31, 2006
We here in the Air Force are so sorry...what a loss to the family and our country.
Tom Coyle
October 31, 2006
Thinking of you during this hard time: To the Paine family, I want to wish you well and let you know you are all in my thoughts and prayers. I was a classmate of Mark's at West Point. He was an inspiration to us all.
bonnie brown
October 30, 2006
to the paine family, our hearts and thoughts are with you as you grieve. as the parents of a west point grad (class of '97) who is presently a captain in the united states army, we can only imagine your pain. may God hold you all in the palm of His hand... the brown family
Stephen Pence
October 30, 2006
Dear Roger and Kariyn, I'm still heartbroke over Mark's death. He's in my thought's and prays as you are. If I can help call me. What a American Hero He was and is. There's none finer. Stephen Pence
Carol Cook
October 29, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
Florence DeLong
October 29, 2006
To the Paine Family: Mark's brother, Branden, married Jill Waymire. Jill Waymire's brother, Josh, married Melissa Mangan, who is our niece. I realize this is a convoluted connection to your family, but in hearing of your tragic loss we simply wanted you to know that people you don't know and probably will never know are thinking of you and sharing some of your pain. You must be very proud of Mark's large accomplishments in such a short 32 years! Many of us spend a lifetime trying (vainly) to accomplish anything noteworthy, and Mark has surely made his "mark" on his family, his comrades, his country and indeed, this world. Please accept our profound sympathy. Gene & Florence DeLong, Oelwein, Iowa
Kent Peterman
October 27, 2006
I was Mark's second grade teacher. I remember him as a bright and witty young man. He always seemed old and wise for his years. He possessed so many special qualities. It is so hard to think of that smiling, happy, joyful boy not with us anymore as that smiling, happy, joyful man. He lived a good and godly life. He will be missed. He made a difference in the lives of all of those he knew and who knew him. His spirit will live on through us and through our friends and children. What greater tribute and legacy could there be?
Peggy Esposito
October 27, 2006
My heart goes out to all those whose lives will never be same without Mark Paine. He was obviously one of the finest young Americans one could wish to meet. Mark's family and friends, but especially his mom and dad, are in my thoughts and prayers and I wish them strength for the days ahead. With sincere condolonces, Peggy Esposito (mother of two Marine Corps sons)
Suzanne Tabor
October 27, 2006
Dear Kairyn, Roger and Brandon & Jill,
My heart aches for you, Mark was such a joy to be around. I got to know him through my daughter, Michelle. They had a very special friendship and we will miss him.
Our prayers are with you.
Suzy, Allan and Sean Tabor
Orinda
Lisa Disbrow
October 27, 2006
Dear Paine Family,
I am a Campolindo mom with a son at West Point. I have been praying for your Mark since he was added to our group of Lamorinda soldiers this past June.
I have been deeply moved by Mark's life. His love of Jesus and trust in His will have strengthened me in many areas.
I honor Mark's bravery, his love for his men and his willingness to defend our nation. I am deeply grateful for all that he lived for.
I am so sorry for your loss of Mark but comforted that you will enjoy eternity together.
Your family will remain in my prayers.
Lisa Disbrow
Tom Ehrhorn
October 26, 2006
I was deeply saddened to learn of Mark's death while in service to our country. My lasting memories of Mark revolve around his magnetic smile and a spark of playful mischief in his expressions. As his high school principal I had many occasions to work with Mark and to observe his leadership and his ability to work with others. Mark was a special young man who set a remarkable example of selfless dedication. The world is diminished by his loss as it was enriched by his life.
You are in my prayers.
Donna Touros
October 26, 2006
Kairyn, Roger and Brandon,
I am heartbroken at the news of Mark's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
I will never forget Mark, as the darling little boy I used to know and love. As I read the stories and comments, left here, by so many of his friends I realize what a good and great man he became, I never doubted he would.
I am especially touched by the family of another fallen hero who repeated Mark's words to them in saying,
"The enemy did not take Mark from us. He gave his life to Jesus Christ a long time ago."
May the Peace of Christ, and the comfort of loving friends and memories be with you at this difficult time.
Stephen Rubright
October 26, 2006
Dear Paine family,
I am Mark's West Point classmate. Please accept my deepest sorrow for Mark's loss. He was a good man who died serving his nation and a great cause. Please know that you are in my prayers and thoughts now and in the future. I pray that God brings you strength in this time of need.
Barry Hearne
October 26, 2006
Dear Paine Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you with the loss of Mark. Mark inspired the best in everyone that was around him and he exemplified all the trademarks of a great leader. His untimely passing is a great loss to this nation, and his sacrifice will not be forgotten.
Respectfully,
Scott Swantner
October 26, 2006
Dear Paine Family,
I was shocked to hear the news of Mark having fallen in the field. I have known Mark since we were both members of the same Boy Scout Troop in Lafayette, California. I was younger then him so it is only natural that I would and did look up to him. Though I won't say that I was a close friend I will say that I followed his life and career with earnest as it somewhat paralleled mine. When Mark was accepted to the Military Academy it was one of the major factors that made me apply to the Naval Academy.
I seem to always run into Mark throughout the years all over the country. The most recent meeting came at the USO lounge in the Atlanta airport in December of 2003. I was with my wife transiting through and we ran into Mark on his way back into country from R&R. Having returned from Iraq some months before myself and both being Infantry Officers we found that we had much to talk about; more so then when we were growing up. I was struck by how quickly I recognized another brother-in-arms. I was also taken with the level of dedication and detemination that would shine through any time Mark spoke of the mission there. His dedication to his soldiers was something that was also completely evident. We talked for hours before I finally realized I was about to miss my flight!
Mark's modesty was something that I have just now come to gain a newfound respect for. Only after I read his biography on this blog did I know of his full training and compliment of decorations earned through a successful military career. He never mentioned any of this throughout the four hour conversation we had that day. I consider that the epitome of a true professional and a trademark of a solid military officer.
Mark has been an inspirartion to me without him evening knowing that he was. I truly consider it a great honor to have known a person of his caliber and will never forget the short time I was able to interact with him.
For Mark's family, please take solice in the fact that Mark was truly special in all he did and said. He was the prime example of the complete package: smart, athletic, aggressive and dedicated to all those he served with. Please accept my sympathy and allow me to express my gratitude to you for having raised a man who stood to be counted with his fellow warriors when his country was in need. He will not be forgotten.
Semper Fidelis,
Scott M. Swantner
Captain, United States Marine Corps
Debra, Sam, & Amanda Foster
October 25, 2006
To the Family of Capt. Mark Paine,
Our deepest sympathy and condolences for your loss. We did not know your son personally, but our son Chris is in Iraq and served with him in the 1/66 AR. He spoke very highly of Capt. Paine, and said that he was a 'great, really great guy'.
Our hearts break for you loss. May God grant you comfort and peace, and may fond memories of Mark ease your sorrow. You are in our prayers.
Nancy & Jess Yap
October 25, 2006
Dear Paine Family,
Our family is deeply saddened to learn of Marks tragic death. Please know that our love, prayers and thoughts are with all of you.
Sincerely ,
Jess and Nancy Yap
October 25, 2006
Mark Paine was a leader of men. He was fearless and always in the thick of it, with his men. His legacy of bravery and professionalism lives on in his soldiers here in Iraq. I am honored to have served in combat with this great man. He is the best of Americans. I will forever remember him and consider myself a fortunate soul having been in his presence. My deepest sympathies to his entire family and his friends. He is with his buddy, Captain Ian Weikel, and we know they both are looking out for their soldiers.
LTC Dave Thompson
Commander, 7th Squadron, 10th Cavalry
Kristen Maddas
October 25, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with Mark & his family. Mark was like brother to myself and many others. He will be dearly missed and remembered by us all.
Katy & Adam Truitt
October 25, 2006
Dear Paine Family,
I had the honor to meet Mark at Brandon and Jill's wedding. What a remarkable man! I was amazed at how he warmed the room and how quickly those around him were drawn to him. He made such an effort to get to know everyone. He was kind and thoughtful and so full of life. My heart hurts for your loss.
I hope you find comfort in knowing so many friends care.
Bill LeFever
October 25, 2006
I am a classmate of Mark's from West Point. I had also had the honor of serving with him here in Iraq for the last 5 months. I got to work with him in his area during that time. Upon my arrival we went to many of his towns and he introduced me to the key players. He was very respected by them and by doing so he helped me immensly in performing my job effectively. Mark was an outstanding commander and person. Many of the people and village leaders we both worked with were very upset to hear about his passing.
Andre Velasquez
October 25, 2006
To The Family of Mark Paine And Also the Benson's I am truley sorry for your loss. Mark Was a great man and inspiration to all who were lucky enough to know him, he will be greatly missed
Ellison Escocio
October 25, 2006
I did not know Mark, but I would like to pass on my sympathy for your loss. Although I am saddened by the loss of every one of our service members, the news of Mark's death touched me. See we have a few things in common. First, I too served with the "Bravo Bandits" 1/66th AR at Ft Hood from 1993-1994. Second, my last Plt Ldr, now Cpt. Mike Birmingham says that he was at the academy with Mark. And lastly, I work with a guy, Vaughn Seifers, who grew up with your sons. Talk about seven degrees of separation. Again, please accept my sympathy for your loss.
Carol, Bob and Debbie Puccinelli
October 24, 2006
Our memories of Mark were in his younger years when we all got together at the Gowdys' house for our Annual Family Christmas Party. We had such fun decorating gingerbread houses, singing carols and sometimes caroling in the neighborhood or convalescent homes. We were so excited about Santa's arrival where each child would receive a gift. These are our memories of Mark that will never leave us.
You are in our hearts and prayers go up on wings of angels to Mark and also to you.
Eric Benson
October 24, 2006
It's impossible to capture two decades of close friendship in only a few sentences. Mark was more than just a "best friend", that saying does not even come close to describing our bond and close relationship. Mark was a brother.
By all means Mark was considered the fourth Benson brother. Family vacations and adventures were not complete without Mark being there. I say adventures because the chemistry between all four of us always made the most mundane trip into a rock and roll road show, typically leaving numerous people scratching their heads as we departed the area. This magic chemistry is the result of Mark's vibrarant character and personality.
Mark is the most compassionate person I have ever known. Compassionate about everything he did whether it be playing sports, excelling academically, leading soldiers or just being a friend. There was no "Half Speed" in his vocabulary and certainly no room for cutting corners, everything was done at 110%. There is simply nothing you could challenge him with that he would not knock out of the ball park. If you were to give him a pick and shovel, told him to start digging for coal, it would not be long before he would own the mine and be the richest person in the state. Mark was simply the best at whatever he did.
As a brother/best friend he was always there no matter how long of a road trip it was or what obstacles might lay in the way. No matter what time of night/early morning somebody would call, he would always answer without hesitation in his lively voice ready for whatever you could throw at him. He would literally drop everything in order to help someone out.
Today we all lost a steadfast Christian, friend, soldier, cousin, brother, son and someone who simply made our lives and the world a better place. You will never be forgotten Bro, Paintball and 4wheelin forever!
God Bless you Bro - Eric
Phyllis Hawkins
October 24, 2006
I did not know Mark C. Paine but was told about his courage and heroism by Natalie Glavinovich. She painted a complete and heartfelt picture of Mark for me. I am deeply, deeply sorry for your loss. Having lost several family members in a short span of time, I know all too well the pain and sadness you are suffering. I will not tell you it will get better, because it doesn't - but the truth is you will learn to better manage the pain.
In closing, even though we've never met, we are held together by a unspeakable bond - love of family and love of country so know that I pray for you, Mark's family, and for those that knew him and are feeling his loss.
From my heart to yours - May GOD bless you and keep you. He will never be forgotten.
Gail, Jim, Josh, Taryn, Aaron, Kyle, and David Shroyer
October 24, 2006
My dearest cousins Kairyn, Roger, Brandon, Jill, Karla, and Ariel and my darling aunt Joy,
There are never the right words at times like this to ease the pain or bring the comfort we want for you all. Please know how much we love you all and that you are in our hearts and prayers now and forever
Julie Sommers
October 24, 2006
To the family of Mark Paine,
Mark was a wonderful cadet and friend. He will be missed. You will be in my familys thoughts and prayers during this tough time.
Please let me know if you ever need anything.
Stephen Yap
October 24, 2006
Paine Family-
All of our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. While we are all saddened by Mark's passing, we will always be thankful and honored for having known such a courageous, selfless hero.
Lawrence M. Davis
October 23, 2006
On behalf of the West Point Society of the San Francisco Bay Area, we fellow graduates of the US Military Academy extend our deepest sympathies to the family and friends of CPT Mark Paine. "Well done. Be Thou at Peace."
Grip Hands,
Lawrence M. Davis, Class of 1971
President, WPSSFBA
Larry and Melva Keyes
October 23, 2006
Mark was a very nice guy. His aunt Lacreta brought him to hear LARRY'S BAND and to meet Larry. Wish we would have had more time to know him better. We send our love to Karen
Will Graves
October 23, 2006
To the Paine family...I'm truly sorry to hear of your loss and genuinely appreciate the tremendous sacrifice that both Mark and all of you have made. Words can't describe what you must be feeling. My thoughts are with you - please let me know if there anything that I can do.
Susan Brochini
October 23, 2006
My son was out with Mark when this happened. He is very sad about his passing. He said that CO Paine was a good guy and that he is missed by his men. My heart goes out to you.
Andy Roberts
October 23, 2006
To the family of Mark,
I am terribly sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Thank you for the sacrifice you have made as a family and thank you Mark, for making the ultimate sacrifice for all of us. Be thou at peace.
Sincerely,
Matt Gaffigan
October 23, 2006
To Mark's Family,
I had the pleasure of knowing Mark at the Academy, and he was a true friend and a solid soldier. He absolutely loved being in the Army, and gave selflessly of himself again and again. It's people like him that initially draw you to the Academy, and it's guys like Mark who make you want to stay in the military for an entire career. He is sorely missed, and our thoughts and prayers are with you in these hard times.
Neufelder Family
October 23, 2006
To the Paine family,
We are sorry for your loss and send our condolences. Know that your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May the love of friends and family carry you through this time of grief and may God be with you in this time of need.
BRANDY AND FRANK POTTER
October 23, 2006
THE POTTER FAMILY HAS YOU IN OUR PRAYERS. MAY GOT BE IN SWIFT WINGS AND PROTECT THE FAMILY AS WE ARE IN THIS TOGETHER.
Sue Freds Dowling
October 23, 2006
Dearest loved ones of Mark,
Thank you for raising a son like Mark.
My son, Will Freds, graduated with Mark from USMA.
My heart and prayers go out to you. I am so glad to know that Mark knew Jesus and we can rest in the peace that passes understanding and know that God is showing him the joy of heaven now.
I live in Redlands now although I was in Indiana when Will was at USMA.
May God be miraculously close to you at this time.
Sue Freds Dowling
sfreds9573@yahoo
Paul & Jenny Lopez-Rogina
October 22, 2006
My husband and I would like to express our deepest sympathy and condolences to your family. Our hearts go out to you at this very difficult time.
Bill Cory
October 22, 2006
To the Paine Family,
In life there are those who talk about doing things, and those who actually do things. To the very end Mark was an inspiration to all of us, for he was a man of great conviction and a man who always took action. Mark stood up for what he believed from the very beginning, and he never stopped. Thank you for bringing such a positively influential man into the world. We are all better people for having known him.
Love,
Bill, Kristy, Emma and Peter Cory
James Hickey
October 22, 2006
Captain Mark Paine, United States Army, was a man who gave the last full measure in the service of our Republic. Selfless, skilled and valorous, his life gave meaning to the word duty. I, my wife Maureen and scores of combat veterans of the First "Raider" Brigade Combat Team of the 4th Infantry Division honor Mark and will greatly miss him. We will all redouble our efforts in memory of him and in full respect of his example. May God give him peace.
Most Respectfully,
James B. Hickey
Colonel, USA
Commander (Former)
1BCT, 4ID(M)
Lynn Boyer
October 22, 2006
Our family extends deepest regrets to The Paine Family. Mark's life is a testament to the strong family values which were at his core. Thank you...for Mark.
Matt Gowdy
October 22, 2006
Kairyn, Roger, and Brandon,
I am forever in awe of the outstanding man Mark grew into. His success is a legacy you can all be proud of. It is also an amazing testament to the power of faith in Christ! My family will be there to help you say goodbye.
We love you all,
Matt Gowdy
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