Lance Cpl. Troy D. Nealey

Lance Cpl. Troy D. Nealey

Troy D. Nealey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 2, 2006.
Before he rejoined his unit, Troy D. Nealey told his mother that if the worst happened, he wanted a memorial to benefit 4-H kids. "He loved agriculture," said Annette. "He was exposed to farm life, and he loved the cattle and crops. If he'd been born on a farm, I think that would have made him the happiest." Nealey, 24, of Eaton Rapids, Mich., died Oct. 29 in combat in Anbar province. He was a 2001 high school graduate and was assigned to Lansing. He played sweeper on the soccer squad and anchored relay teams in high school. In his senior year, he received the soccer coaches' award. "Kids like him made coaching very enjoyable," said Joe Honsowitz, his former soccer coach. "He was always positive. I never heard him once be negative about anything. He was a model player." He helped his dad, Norman, a builder, on construction projects and helped his woodworking teacher run electrical wiring in a pole barn. "He was 5 feet 6, but he had a big heart and a big smile," said his mother. Nealey's pickup truck showed his colors. "The truck had two stickers," his mother said. "One was 'Cowboy Up,' and the other was the Marines."

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October 30, 2014

Jan Squires posted to the memorial.

October 25, 2013

Jan Squires posted to the memorial.

October 24, 2013

AJ posted to the memorial.

Jan Squires

October 30, 2014

Forever grateful for your service. Saddened by your sacrifice

Jan Squires

October 25, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

AJ

October 24, 2013

We won't forget

Jackson Limousin

October 29, 2012

Our prayers and Love are with each and everyone of his family members may you be his blood or not. He will forever be the HERO that we all knew.

Jan & Jim Squires s

October 26, 2012

Due to the sacafice of Troy and too many others, fewer troops are at risk. Troy, in your name we pray for our troops.

Caroline Hubley

October 22, 2012

I saw you when I was seven or ten just a quick image, but I remember at a celibration. You really do inspire me, that I'm writing about you. Well a little.

Jan and Jim Squires

October 30, 2011

Our continued prayers for Peace in memory of Troy and his sacrafice.

Love,

Peggy Childers

October 29, 2011

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Troy D. Nealey:
Please accept my remembrance of Troy on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

You are Not Forgotten

September 1, 2011

Cowboy Up~Troy

OUR HERO GONE BUT, NEVER FORGOTTEN!

Val Jackson

August 31, 2011

On Monday Night my daughter who was really close to Troy in which he would call me MOM as he did others she went and got a tattoo on her wrist in memory of her brother her HERO her tattoo reads TROY 10-29-06. she is so PROUD of TROY as are the rest of us.

L Greene

August 30, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. May LANCE CPL. TROY D. NEALEY rest in peace and you find comfort in knowing that he is. My thoughts and prayers are with TROY and your family.I saw TROY on the Nancy Grace show ~ya see TROY you are Not Forgotten! Thank You A True American HERO!!!~GOD BLESS~

October 31, 2010

Troy you are still in our thoughts daily. Chelsea was in a parade and had to make a poster of a hometown hero. She made her poster in memory of you. That is her only hero she said. We miss you greatly but know that you always have our back. Love you,
Ma Clough

Peggy Childers

October 30, 2010

To the family and friends of Lance Cpl. Troy D. Nealey:
Remembering Troy on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Jan Hoadley

October 29, 2010

It's been four years. Seems forever and a blink of an eye at the same time. Wish you were here on this side.

October 29, 2010

Four years ago we celebrated the life of our hero Troy D. Nealey. Today, our thoughts are no fewer as we celebrate all those who serve our country. We are proud of you Troy and your comrads.

Jim and Jan Squires

Debbie Sweet

December 21, 2009

Troy, I think of you often. When I am faced with a difficult task, when I see the U.S. Flag, when I hear Military based songs,every parade, each Veterans Day, Memorial Day, the month of October and many other times. One person does touch many others lives. Bless you for being an outstanding example of a live well lived and one who gave all.

Jan Squires

October 31, 2009

Cannot believe it's been three years now. Yes, Troy is in a better place when you see the increasing grief that families are faced with. Troy was a great kid, proud of his uniform and service. So sorry for his family.

Love, Jim and Jan Squires, Beverly Hills, Fl

Kevin

October 30, 2009

My thoughts are with you and the ones who love you. RIP Troy.

Kenna Larra

March 10, 2009

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Sincerely,
Kenna

January 28, 2009

My deepest sympathy to the entire family of this American Hero. RIP.

Larry Kemp

January 23, 2009

I still haven't forgotten that day that I heard about what happened. We became pretty good friends playing basketball during lunch, running track, and running cross-country together. We were always laughing, having fun, and competing strongly. I won't forget those times and what happened and your committment hasn't went unnoticed.

Nicole

November 4, 2008

I miss you more and more everyday Troy boy! Not a single day goes by that I don't think about you. I wish my girls would have had the chance to meet you, and that my parents could see you one more time. I'll never forget you, or your sacrifice. I find small comfort in the fact that you believed in what you were doing, and you were happy. Love you for forever!

Tonya Clough

November 2, 2008

Not a day goes by with out a thought of you. There are days that I still think you are here messing with my mind especially when the lights go out for no reason., you fixed that remember... It scares the crap out of me every time! Especially because all I have to do is go to the nasty basement and trip the breaker. I think that's your way of making me laugh...

Since your passing you have made me realize a few things. Life is to short to stay mad, be strong and stand up for what you believe in and be proud of who you are. Some days are harder for me to accomplish these ideas but I just remember you, and think "I can do it."

You are greatly missed, regardless of the years that go by. I wish you were here to see Chelsea ride her bike, run for student council representative at school and show her first heifer. But I know you are here in spirit. (Please don't let the heifer get away from her in the show ring!)

Thank you for all the memories and for serving are beloved country, I am very proud of you. You are deeply missed but never forgotten.

Love you and miss you,
Ma Clough

Jan Squires

October 31, 2008

Two years have passed, however, not a day passes that we don't think about you as we learn of still another son, father, niece/nephew, daughter, mother, friend has been loss protecting our country and her people. God Bless your soul and your family and friends.

Jim and Jan Squires - Beverly Hills, Fl

Anna Rufo

October 30, 2008

Thank you so much for your thoughts and prayers. It's amazing how many lives Troy touched. He is very missed.
Troys cousin, Anna

In Memory of Troy ~ (Debra Estep)

October 29, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Troy, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
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Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

Emily Fink

October 29, 2008

Two years already...wow. I know many of us think of you every day. The town will gather again tonight to remember. We all miss you so much.

Rest In Peace

Michael Iezzi

October 29, 2008

Troy,
Thinking and praying for you on the 2nd anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.

Peggy Childers

October 28, 2008

To the family of Lance Cpl. Troy D. Nealey:
Troy gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

MacDaniel

September 30, 2008

To the Nealey family,

I know there are no words to say, except how sorry I am for your loss. May you hold Troys' memory in your heart and please remember he shall never be forgotten.

...For you every single soldier
Those who served so honorable
Your life was forever altered
While I’m home safe and free
I stand with grateful admiration
I stand respectful and so proud
I know I’m only a civilian
And I don’t even know if it’s allowed.

But I salute you; allow me the honor
to salute you with permission let me say
Even though I hold no rank know that from my heart
My humble gratitude comes from the deepest part.
I salute you.

Suzanne MacDaniel
A Proud Aunt
Sgt. David M.Fisher
KIA 12/1/04

Jacqueline Mikkelson

September 29, 2008

To the family of Lance Cpl. Troy Nealey, My heart goes out to each and every one of you and my prayers. Your son will never be forgotten. He will live on in all of your memories.... his love will never die. God Bless, Proud mom of Corp. Michael J. Halal

Julie Scott

September 27, 2008

Freedom is NOT Free! Thank you and God Bless you SWEET Troy!

Safely Home

Michael Iezzi

September 26, 2008

Father we entrust our brother Troy to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Troy in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathies.

Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)

September 26, 2008

Rest in peace Marine you're paid in full.

Jan Squires

June 15, 2008

Troy would be so proud, in his humble way, of the beautiful monument in honor of our servicemen and women who have, and are serving our country.

God bless your family.

June 14, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Lance Cpl Nealey!

August 21, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

August 2, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Lance Cpl Nealey and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Jan Squiewa

April 3, 2007

Not a day goes by that we don't think of the void you have in your lives since Troy's departure to a more peaceful being.

How can we not think of you when every day we listen to the news. We know how proud you are and cannot comprehend how saddened you are. Know that our prayers are with you Annette, Norm, Todd and Michael.

Blessed Easter Greetings.
Jim and Jan

ROBYN GARSIDE

April 2, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Glen Nevogt

January 6, 2007

“Paid in Full”
In Honor of The War Against Terrorism’s Fallen and Injured Marines


Marines through and through, they paid the price
Six thousand miles away, we live the life
For which they paid with their blood, spirits and bodies
We will never forget what they paid in full

We hope and we pray that somehow their loved ones find comfort
In God, in the flag, in the memory of their loved ones’ bravery
They’re gone now but we see them still…proud, strong, willing
Covering each other’s backs… courageous, moving forward

What kind of love did they have for us to be willing
To give it all for the Black, White, Jew, Christian, Muslim?
We don’t comprehend but we honor you now and forever
You are Our Marines…some living…some not
Forever in our minds we will cherish your lives

Lives too short yet immortal they’ll be
Highest brotherhood of the few, the proud
They stand at attention, and we gaze with awe
Some know their names not, but our admiration for them
Flows limitless within us, between us

They sacrificed their limbs or their lives
Freedom still rings, a soft sound across the miles
It tolls slowly; all of creation takes note
Of the lives that were lost for people unknown

Out of sight but not lost; forever among us
The starched blues marching straight
Toward the place where we will meet them
Many years from now…how we loved them…
Well done beloved Brothers and Sisters…You’ve paid it in full
Always Faithful Marines, You Have Paid it in Full

Dylan Wells

December 16, 2006

Its never good when another Marine dies, but it really hits home when they are from your hometown. Knowing that Marines and other armed forces members die everyday, you never think it will happen in your town. Eaton Rapids is so small and it really hits me hard to know that we have heroes amongst us. Oorah. Semper Fidelis.

Paige Tuggle

December 15, 2006

I also knew Troy. He was a wonderful person in many ways. We will never forget his smile and the way he always laughed. Thanks for everything you have done Lil'M and we will remember your smile!

J K

December 15, 2006

Our thoughts are with you and your loved ones during this difficult time of loss.

SHIRLEY DONEY

December 13, 2006

GOD BLESS YOU TROY, I DON'T LIVE TO FAR FROM YOUR HOME TOWN, TO THE NEALEY FAMILY JUST REMEMBER ALL THE MEMORIES AND GOD BLESS SHIRLEY

Andrea (Pettit)Caito

December 10, 2006

I just found out today what happened. Troy and I grew up together just two houses apart in Grand Ledge. He was a good friend. I had found Troy after looking him up on myspace after not seeing each other for about 13 yrs. We had emailed each other back and forth for a few months. I know from the emails I recieved that Troy truly believed in what he was doing in Iraq. He was proud to be helping people and serving with the Marines. We will all miss Troy very much. God Bless the Nealey family in their time of sorrow.

Love Always,

Val Jackson

December 8, 2006

A TRUE AMERICAN SOLDIER Lc. Cpl. TROY DOUGLAS NEALEYShare
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A TRUE AMERICAN SOLDIER USE TO CALL ME MOM!

Troy may you always know that the laughter we once shared will forever be in my HEART.
Troy may the smile that has crossed your face always warm our HEARTS.
Troy the Love that we shared will always be true to who we really are.

I can see you walking down the aisle to where we are wanting to help us.
I can see your smiling face as you are working on one of the animals.
I can picture you in your purple windbreaker jacket and black windbreaker pants.

I can hear you say "Hey old man need some help"
I can hear you say Hi Mom.
I can hear you tell your friends that this is one of my other Mom's.

You are truly An American Soldier my friend/son.
You will always be in my HEART and PRAYERS.
You will always have a spot on my wall with your smiling face.

My love for you will forever be as it is today.
May GOD Bless us all as we grieve for the one that made us SMILE.
For all the laughs that we had and all that we will as we remember you.

Your memory will live on and we will do you PROUD as we share our memories of you with the ones that we LOVE and that you have LOVED.

Rest in Peace my wonderful FRIEND/SON may you bring laughter to the faces of everyone as we remember you.

my LOVE to you always, Val/Mom

Jan Squires

December 3, 2006

My Dear Friends,

Know that our thoughts and prayers have not weakened since that very memorable service on Veteran's Day, for Troy. I awake thinking of you and go to bed thinking of how you are coping. I feel so badly for you and gain strength in knowing that our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, has received the soul of Troy and he rests in peace.

Know that so many care and have not forgotten Troy and the grief that your family is experiencing.

Good night my dear friends and family.

And, yes, Aunt Nola, I am now going to bed.

Claire Zawistowski

November 25, 2006

Dear Nealey Family,
Even though we have never met I feel as if we are a part of a "family". My daughter's fiancee was killed by an IED in Iraq on Oct. 3, 2005. It is my prayer that you will feel God holding close to His heart as He has held my family this past year. May you know His peace and comfort as you face the difficult days ahead.

Randie Miller

November 20, 2006

I've known Troy for a long time, he was, as I'm sure many feel, like a brother to me. I feel as if I've been living these last few weeks in a dream. The news of his death came as such a shock. He was always cracking jokes, and he almost always had a smile on his face. I will never forget him, he will always be in my heart. I love you Troy.

Carol Jones

November 18, 2006

I am the wife of a Texas Marine that is attached to 1/24. I'm sure I can speak for the rest of the families here that we were saddened to hear the news about the death of LCpl Nealey.

Please know that our thoughts are with you and your loved ones during this time of loss. You are in our prayers and may your heart mend and your memories stay strong.

You have more strength and courage than you may realize, but it's there as it was passed on to your brave son and I know that your great strength, family and friends will help you at this time of loss.

Remember that "Those who live in the hearts of others never die."

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Erika Boehmer

November 17, 2006

i guess you could say that Troy was like my other brother, he lived with my brother for almost a year. I loved this kid with all my heart and will never forget him .. He was always there for me in moments of sadness and my tro moments where i just needed him to talk to and no one else could help me.. i miss him with all my heart and i will always rememvber him ...
Ilove you !!

Marcy Jankovich

November 13, 2006

Although I attended the services Saturday, I did not know Troy. However, my son came with me. My son served 8 years in the USMC. His service ended 11/10/2005. He was not in the same platoon, but he used to hang out with Troy and others back by the dumpsters at the rear of Reserve HQ in Lansing. My daddy is a WWII Marine. I came because I wanted the family to know that we know we are free because they sacrifice. We are safe because they are willing to die for their country. How could we not come to pay our repects. Thank you for raising such a strong fine son. God Bless you and your family and heal your hearts.

My heart aches for you.

Sgt John Jankovich

November 13, 2006

I served with Troy in C co. 1/24 from January 2005 until October 2005. I remember him well, as he ws so outgoing. Very funny, good to be around. Every unit has its clown, and Troy seemed to be 1st Platoon's. He however, was an outstanding Marine, and I am proud to have known him.

Semper Fi.

Leslie Straub

November 13, 2006

I love Troy with all of my heart. I just met him over the summer and the memories I have of him will never be forgotten. Troy has become a hero to me and I am so greatful for what did and the sacrafice he has made. He is an inspiration to me. ~In Loving Memory~

Kendra Wilson

November 12, 2006

Though i didnt know Troy my friend is Troy's cousin. He talked Very highly about Troy. God Bless the Nealey family.

Roger & Nancy Haynes

November 12, 2006

Our heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to the family of Marine Lance Cpl. Troy Nealey. He was a hero and part of a group of Marines who paid the ultimate price to protect our freedoms. Our nephew LCPL Tyler Haynes was in the vehicle and injured in the attack that killed LCPL Nealey. We are truly grateful for the courageous acts of these young men and their sacrifice. Americans from all over truly love and appreciate these young men for who they are, how they have given their lives to protect and to defend and how heroic their actions were. Your son and brother will be greatly missed and always remembered.

We would also like to offer our gratefulness and gratitude to you, the Nealey family for raising your son to be the fine American Marine and Christian soldier that he was and for the sacrifice he gave. While it is hard to part with a loved one under such circumstances, we pray that God will give you the strength, peace and understanding that his departure from this world was not in vain. Your family has made the ultimate sacrifice for our nation through your son’s death. He was so young and with so much promise, engaged in defending our liberty and freedom in a foreign land. He was truly a hero, working to bring freedom and independence to a newly democratic nation.

As the days move on and this period of time becomes more distant, we pray that God will bless your family and heal your wounds. We also thank you for your family’s sacrifice for our freedom and pray that you will be truly blessed as you adjust to this loss. Our Country owes your family so much for you so graciously and caringly giving up your loved one to protect the lives of others. May God be with your family as you celebrate LCPL Nealey's life, rejoice in his memory, and mourn his loss.

And on behalf of the entire family of LCPL Tyler Haynes, we offer our condolences and prayers that God will lift you up on Angels Wings and provide for your healing.

Roger J. and Nancy Haynes
Uncle and Aunt of LCPL Tyler Haynes

Katie Topping

November 12, 2006

My deepest condolences go out to the Nealy Family.

Troy, Todd and I all attended the same elementary school in Grand Ledge (Troy one year older and Todd a year younger) and we lived very close to each other. I remember walking to and from school with the boys on many days, having snowball fights and playing the "chase" game all the way. Troy was always so willing to stick up for anybody, especially us girls. This obviosly continued after he and his family moved away and on into his adult
life.

Thank you, Troy, for your ultimate sacrifice so that I might have my freedom. You will never be forgotten.
Katie Feighner-Topping

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

November 12, 2006

My heartfelt sympathy to the Nealey family in the loss of Troy. I did not know Troy, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Troy you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Jim and Jan Squires

November 11, 2006

We are Troy's Cousins and just returned from the entire day of tributes and services for LCpl Troy D Nealey. We spent 20 years as a Navy Family through Viet Nam, Bay of Pigs, etc., and Jim served at many military funerals...this by far was the most impressive and meaningful military service we have every attended.

The gym at Troy's High School was filled with family, friends and military. Pastor Scott Boles was absoluntely awesome, HS Principal Dave Johnson and Troy's teacher Ben Gillis paid appropriate honor and the Marines were absolutely the most sincere and prepared.

The townspeople lined the streets on both sides from the High School all the way to the cemetary. Little children and older people all out in the cold, wrapped in blankets and waving the American and Marine Flags.

Thank you to the ERPD, Eaton County Sheriff's team, Charlotte City Police all the firemen and safety department. Thanks to the Eaton Rapids Public Schools for everything, especially the bus transportation and the facilities managers. Thanks to the local churches for the wonderful meal and to Hastay's and the VFW National Home for the beautiful table decorations.

Last, but not at all least, thanks to Kathy and Jordan Odell for all of the wonderful arrangements for the funeral services. Thank you for taking care of our family with such class and sincere warmth.

Thanks to the quilting friends for making the quilts/pillows for the family. You're the best

God Bless Annette, Norm, Todd, Michael and the entire family...God will sustain you through this very lonesome and grieving time.

Love,
Jim Squires USN Retired
Jan Squires
Dondi Squires
Chad MacArthur
Andrew MacArthur

Laura Schruba

November 11, 2006

Though I did not know your Marine, I too am a Michigan Marine Parent and wish to thank you for his service to our great country. His efforts to bring freedom to all is appreciated and will never be forgotten. May God bless you and yours at this time and always.
Semper Fi

Gail Raphael

November 10, 2006

"Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life" John 15:13 How I wish I'd had the privilege of knowing your brave Troy. I grieve your loss and am humbly, unspeakably grateful for his sacrifice. Your entire family has my prayers not only today as do all the selfess, honorable, courageous men and women serving this country. May God strengthen their loved ones and bless and comfort your family and all those who mourn Troy's memory.

Tonya Clough

November 9, 2006

Thank you to all that has expressed there prayers and condolences. I am what you call a second mom! Ma Clough. There for the guttin'and the draggin', free meals and a good ear! This has been a devastating affair to me. He will be greatly missed and loved by all. I can still remember him taking the time with my daughter and hammering two nails into the stud of a wall and saying here Chelsea Uncle Troy needs your help. We will miss you, but as Chelsea says there is another star in the SKY for Troy and he will always be with us.

We Love you Troy.

Tony Lamson

November 9, 2006

To the family and friends of LCpl Nealey: My words can never come close to easing the pain that I know you are feeling through this loss. I have faith in Troy's heart and spirit having read all that I have about him. I never met Troy, however, I know his kind and I would have been proud to have served with him given the opportunity. Us Eaton Rapids Marines need to stick together! If there is anything that I can ever do for your family, I am at their disposal. They have but to ask. I wish I could be there to walk with you on that last walk this Saturday but operational commitment has me keeping close to base here in SC. I will be coming to say my piece in person when I come home around Christmas time. Until then, God bless you and yours and Semper Fidelis Marine!

Deepest Respect
One Crusty Old Marine

Jim and Jan Squires

November 8, 2006

Our thoughts and prayers are with Annete, Norm, Todd, Michael, Grandmother Barbara Rogers, and all the aunts, uncles and cousins. We cannot comprehend the grief that you are enduring, however, we do understand Gods unconditional love for you.

Troy earned his punches on his card to Heaven. We know how brave and proud he was.

God Bless his soul and comfort all of you.

Jim Squires, USN RETIRED
Jan Squires, Military Wife of the Year - 1971

Kayla Tuggle

November 8, 2006

To Troy's family, Troy was a friend of my sister and I know she talked very highly of him. May God be with you in your time of need.
SemperFi

ginger oestrick

November 8, 2006

We are so sorry for your loss. May our thoughts an prayers be with you at this diffcult time. May the lord bless all of our family's that have had losses.

The Oestrick Family and Cpl Brian Oestrick serving in Iraq 1/24 Wop\pns Co.

Kimberly mccarty

November 8, 2006

Our heart felt sympanthies goes out to you and your family on the loss of one of our heros.
From the family of Lcpl Brandon McCarty 1/24 A Co.3rd Plt.

Trudy Lowe

November 8, 2006

My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts. We are the land of the free because of the brave.

nola auernhamer

November 7, 2006

Thank you for your thoughts and prayers. We had no idea how many people Troy touched. His smile will remain with us forever. On behalf of Troy's huge family we thank you!
God bless you all!
Troy's aunt Nola, Newfane, NY

Joshua and April Morales

November 7, 2006

To Troy's family and friends-
My family and I are praying for you and your family during this difficult time. We send our deepest empathy as we lost our Marine on 11/30/05 in Fallujah. We are comforted to know that our Marines are serving their country with such honor and bravery. We are so proud of our Marines and all of our other service men and women for all that they have done and continue to do to keep us safe and to give us the freedom we have that so many take for granted.
They are true Heroes and need to always be remembered for their selflessness and sacrifice to better our world. We will forever be united in the loss of our heros. We are so sorry for your loss and hope our words will ease some of the pain, and maybe fill some of your emptiness.
Yesterday, Today, Forever – Semper Fi - Marines!
Our sincerest gratitude for their bravery-
The family of Cpl. William "Billy" Taylor
2/6 WPNS
KIA outside of Fallujah 11/30/05

Matt Bunin

November 7, 2006

To the family of Troy Nealey,
I am terribly sorry for this tragedy. Troy was a good friend of mine for over two years. We trained, went to war together, and found ourselves in many situations where we greatly depended on each other. His hard work ethic, his high level of compassion, and utter selflessness made him unique.

I was with Troy the day he died and all I can say is, to the very end, he was trying to help his friends. God Bless Him and you.

sincerely,
Cpl. Matthew J. Bunin
USMC 1/24 C. Co

GySgt Phil Zamora (retired)

November 6, 2006

My deepest sympathies to the family of Lance Corporal Troy Nealey. I met him just before he was activated, I was on my way to my brothers house and spotted Lcpl Nealey in his Desert Digital Cammies pulling into his subdivision in Eaton Rapids, I pulled behind him in the street he slowly got out of his car (probably thought I was trouble) and I yelled out "SEMPER FI MARINE" we spoke for about 10 minutes and I told him good luck, LCpl Nealey will be missed and mourned by this Marine. Stand fast Marine you have earned your place on heavens scene guarding the Pearly Gates.
Semper Fi LCpl Nealey, Rest In Peace

Gregg & Torey Smith

November 4, 2006

We grieve with you for the loss of Troy. We had the pleasure of sharing our home with him prior to him joining the Marines. Our last visit with Troy will never be forgotten, nor will his smile we seen so often. Troy is our Hero.

Lee Sirotnak

November 4, 2006

Please accept our heartfelt condolences on your loss, and our prayers that God grant you comfort and peace. Troy will live on in the prayers of thanks that we give for those who serve with such bravery and sacrifice. We also pray that you feel the love and support that will be sent your way in prayer by many Marine families and loved ones. God Bless and Semper Fi.

Jan Hoadley

November 3, 2006

On behalf of all the members of Operation Circle of Love, the Montgomery Gentry Underground and showcattle.com we mourn Troy's passing. There are no words to ease the loss - there are no actions that can bring him back. Keeping his memory alive and the spirit of his life kindled is important. "I miss you down here, but I'll see you up there in the clouds..."

Annette Dolza

November 3, 2006

I can't even imagine how you must feel. My hart breaks for you and all our young men fighting in Iraq.
May his star in the heavens shine brightly forever.
Grandparents of CPL Garrett Mason.

November 3, 2006

To the Family of Lance Cpl. Troy D. Nealey:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

John & Patricia Austin

November 2, 2006

Please accept our heartfelt sympathy & prayers.
Thank you Lance Corporal Nealey - for you have given all, you have served honorably.

With utmost respect & honor,
Parents of Lance Corporal David Austin, 1/24 Marines, Company C

Gary Allain

November 2, 2006

Lance Cpl. Troy D. Nealey
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Renee Owens

November 2, 2006

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero, and my sincere thanks for his service. May God grant you peace.

The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave

In memory of PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
3/8 Weapons
KIA 4-6-06, Anbar Province

Lynn Fauth

November 2, 2006

I am so sorry to learn of the death of Lance Corporal Nealey. He is in the same Company as a friend of mine, Corporal Garrett Mason. Lance Corporal Nealey, his family, friends and all of Charlie Company are in all of our thoughts and prayers.

John Thomas

November 2, 2006

My deepest sympathies to the family of Lance Corporal Troy Nealy. I remember the first day that LCpl Nealy walked into my office and said that he needed gear! I said to him,"Marine, when my door is closed, you knock!" He smiled and replied aye, aye Gunny! His infectious smile, his always humble demeanor made him a joy to be around. LCpl Nealy will be missed and mourned by this Marine for years to come. Stand fast Marine you have earned your place on heavens scene. If the Army and the Navy ever look on heavens scene they will find the streets are guarded by this U.S. Marine! Semper Fi LCpl Nealy, Rest In Peace

John E. Thomas, Jr. Gunnery Sergeant (Ret.)

November 2, 2006

My condolences to the Nealey family, we share your great loss. Our prayers are with you. Lance Cpl. Nealey thank you for making the ultimate sacrifice for our nation, you will never be forgotten, you are an American Hero.

Rest easy, sleep well.
Others have taken up where you fell, the line has held
Peace, peace, and farewell..."

Jack Colnot and Family
(Sgt. Kyle A. Colnot, KIA 22 April 2006, Iraq)
email [email protected]
San Antonio, Texas

Garnet Jenkins

November 2, 2006

I am Deeply saddened to learn of the loss of Lance Cpl. Troy D. Nealey.
The price this young hero and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.
May Troy rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Peace of the Lord be with the Nealey family.
There will never be enough ways to humbly thank these heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.

Sincerely hoping that you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today, as this Country mourns with you, for someone very precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.

Surely He hath borne our grief, and carried our sorrow.
Isaiah 53:4

May the Peace of God and your memories of Troy,
remain in your heart always. May this give you comfort
and strength through the difficult days ahead.
Softly and slowly, time heals.

Don Elseroad

November 2, 2006

In recognition of Lance Corporal Troy D. Nealey's Honorable Service in the United States Marine Corps, the Tri-Cities Tennessee, Detachment Number 969 of the Marine Corps League would like to extend our appreciation and gratitude for his service to God, Country and Corps as well as our sincere condolences to his family.

SEMPER FIDELIS

Don Elseroad
Junior Vice Commandant
MCL Detachment #969

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