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Charlie Gili
April 22, 2025
Hello,
We wanted to let your family and friends know that we are sending Care Packages to deployed troops this week and some of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Jacob C. Palmatier US Army Corporal.
We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.
We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.
Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign
Gary Klinger
May 29, 2023
As always on this day, I think of Jacob's ultimate sacrifice for our country & of how his loved one miss him. I grew up with his father in our home church. May God's peace continue to bless Jacob's survivors.
April 11, 2015
Mr. & Mrs. Palmatier, I am going on a 5,000 mile gratitude journey across America to thank our Veterans and families of our fallen heroes. I will be in Springfield on Tuesday, May 12th. May I pay a visit to you? With Gratitude, Pat Gavros/Author & Speaker (please contact me at [email protected])
Margie Palmatier
February 23, 2014
It's been 9 years my beloved son. Yet my heart keeps beating and days come and go. The pain stays with me and I am making friends with it. Not a friend I want but one I cannot escape. There is never a second when you are away from my heart, my thoughts, my very being. I know you are safe in Heaven and no one can ever hurt you but I still wish you were here. I had a lovely dream the day your friend Carrie died. I think you were here to bring her home probably. You told me you are fine and that you are happy. Heaven can do that to a person. Thanks for letting me know. Dad and I will always have a big piece of our hearts gone but we thank God that He blessed us with you. What a great joy you are to us. We miss you. ? Unconditional and unending love for you Jake-O. xoxo Mom
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Margie Palmatier
October 3, 2012
Give peace a chance.
October 2, 2012
Jacob..you will never be forgotten..I know you are safe now..God Bless you and keep you in his tender loving care..love always, Marie
Margie Palmatier
October 1, 2012
Grandpa, grandma, Dad and I went to Gold Star Mother's day in Chicago. The pain is still so fresh and there is not a minute that goes by without wishing you were still here. How can life go on when such a large part of a person's heart is gone, never to be whole again? Each family member and all friends will always miss you and never understand why you had to leave us. But we all look forward to our reunion in Heaven. Thanks for watching over us. I feel you in my heart, and always on my mind and remembering the smiles and your wonderful hugs. I love you forever and then some. Peace and love, Mom
Jonathan Simmons
July 13, 2012
To Jacob's family,
I am SFC Simmons, Jonathan G. I was not a good friend of Jacob's, but I knew him very well. I outranked Jacob and was friends with his boss, SGT Travis Hall. I used to go in the shop where he worked on a daily basis. I was SGT at that time in 2004-05 and I used to go in SGT Hall's office and Jacob would come in there with us to laugh and joke for an hour at a time sometimes. I am about to retire and I miss everyone who made me what I am today. I am a better man for having known Jacob, and I was made a better Soldier as well. God bless Jacob and his family forever!
Very Respectfully,
SFC Jonathan G. simmons
A 1-30th IN, 3rd BDE, 3rd ID
Marie Secker
February 25, 2012
Dearest Jacob, Your passing has left our hearts forever hurting..while I will never understand why you had to leave us so young I am so glad that you are safe in heaven..your bravery will never be forgotten and you will always be in my heart...love always, Marie
Margie Palmatier
February 25, 2012
Dad and I...and the entire family and friends miss you each day. We never thought of life without you. We will see you again in Heaven. I see you in my dreams and wish for one of your wonderful hugs. xoxox Love forever never ending, Mom
Peggy Childers
February 24, 2012
To the family and friends of Cpl. Jacob C. Palmatier:
Please accept my remembrance of Jacob on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
February 24, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Jacob C. Palmatier:
Remembering Jacob on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Mom
August 5, 2009
My sweet Jacob,
Everyday is like the first. It still hurts so very much but you are now safe in heaven. But why did it have to be you? My love is never ending.
Say hi to Grandma
Love
Mom
Kenna Larra
July 15, 2009
”Honor and Remember” - “Project Compassion” We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families of our fallen heroes. War does not discriminate – It breaks our hearts to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,600 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com . If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely and Respectfully,
Kenna
Marie
February 24, 2009
Margaret and David, My heart goes out to you both today..Jacob will always be in my heart. He was such a sweet beautiful person..God Bless you both as I know how difficult this day is for you. Love, Marie
Peggy Childers
February 24, 2009
To the family of Cpl. Jacob C. Palmatier:
Jacob gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Cindy Brown
February 4, 2009
Margie,
What a wonderful blessing Jacob was to you and many others. I have enjoyed reading about him, though I never knew him. God Bless You and David.
Pastor Frank Noyes
September 16, 2008
Dear family of Cpl. Jacob C. Palmatier,
We want to say thank you. We understand that no words can be adequate for your sorrow. We certainly do not want to intrude upon your privacy. As Americans we want you to know that we deeply appreciate the ultimate sacrifice your loved one has made for all of us. We also would like for you to be aware that with this letter comes our special concern and prayers for you. We are all safer because young men and women who love their country, and know the value of a free nation, are willing to put themselves in harms way, and lay down their lives to keep this nation free and safe for all of us.
Your sacrifice is also very great. We know that we can give little comfort; however, the knowledge that your loved one did not die in vain, but died in the service of our country, gives each of us a noble example of the value of life, and the responsibility of freedom. We hope this will bring pride and comfort to you.
We at Gethsemane Church believe that there is purpose to life. We send this letter with our deepest appreciation for the greatest of sacrifices, you and your loved one have given to this country. We know it is not enough, but please allow us to assure you that your loved one is not forgotten.
Very Sincerely
Frank G. Noyes
Frank G. Noyes (Pastor)
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
(Jn. 15:13)
Raymond Hiram Houck
August 9, 2008
Although I have never had the pleasure of meeting young Jacob (his mother is my first cousin on my father's side), reading and knowing about the loss brings a sadness to me. His untimely death only brings on the reminder of the futility of mankind's greatest folly. Since the beginning of recorded history nations have been settling their disputes with the lives of their young men. I only wish the leaders of those nations could feel the pain and loss of the loved ones of those young men and women to look for other means to settle disputes between nations.
From what I know of Jacob C. Palmatier, he was brought up by two very good and loving parents. He put himself in harm's way to protect a cause that he thought was just. His unfinished life is a loss to the world. Though his time with us was very short, he left a lasting good impression on even those who did not know him. I hope his parents can take comfort in his legacy and wish them the strength to go on in his memory.
April 28, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Palmatier!
Marie Secker
February 24, 2008
I am so sad that Margaret, David and Bridget have had to go through this horrible loss of Jacob. He was the sweetest young man alive and how brave of him to want to fight for us. In the years that I had the pleasure of knowing him, he never failed to give his heart to those around him. He is very missed by so many friends and family and my heart will forever hold a very special place for him. His mother and father suffer daily of his loss however having so much support from all help them to get through the days. I constantly pray for all of you and offer my deepest love and support. I love you all, Marie
Kevin McCullen
February 24, 2008
I served with Cpl. Palmatier in 1-30 IN, 3rd BCT, 3RD ID, as part of the headquarters of that unit and am proud to say I knew him. It was a very bad day for me on 24 February 2005 (as I'm sure it was for everyone who knew Jacob). He was a good man and the world is a lesser place without him. I hold that day in great reverence and will until the day I die. He was a good man and I can only hope to live up to his example. To you Cpl. Palmatier, I salute you. former 1st Lieutenant Kevin McCullen.
Sorry it took me this long to give you this tribute but my memories from over there have not been always that easy to deal with.
Margie Palmatier
February 23, 2008
Tomorrow will be three years. The pain is as sharp as the first day we were told of your death. It stings. I long to hold you, to give you one more kiss, tell you again how wonderful you are and how very proud Dad & I are of you our beloved only child our handsome, precious son. I feel your presence some times and I feel thankful. I remember the doctors telling us we shouldn't have you and I am grateful that we ignored them. You are precious and out of reach. You gave the most wonderful and meaningful hugs. You could always make me smile. I long for you to be here. I see you in my dreams...just out of reach. You tell me you are fine, safe and happy. I love you my sweet angel, Dad does too. Keep visiting.
Love unending and always unconditional,
xoxoxox
Mom
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Margie Palmatier
July 17, 2007
The City of Springfield named a street for you Jake-o. It's in Washington Park near the tree Dad and I planted for you. Moosie and you can run free again. I still miss you every minute of every day and always will my sweet boy. Everybody who knew you misses you. It will always be difficult to accept you're not on earth anymore but if you can't be here then you are in the best place ever...Heaven.
Love, Mom xoxoxoxox
July 16, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Palmatier and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Jeff Thompson
July 8, 2007
To all friends of Jacob,
Our church in Orlando, Florida, placed flags at the front of our church on Memorial Day, and they have flown there for the last 6 weeks. This week, any members of the church were asked to claim a flag and take home with us. I just happened to leave church this morning and the flag I picked up had Jacob's name on it and the date of his death.
First of all, I would like to say thank you for what you did to allow the rest of us to live in a free country. I cannot imagine the pain and hurt that the parents, siblings, and friends have gone through over the last 2 years. I have a 16 year old son, and my heart breaks at the thought that I may one day have to send him off to a foreign country to continue to provide freedom for our country. And it sometimes seems like a war that we just can't win.
But please know as I write this I am so grateful for the contribution of Jacob. I am a pastoral intern at First Baptist Church in Orlando. I attend seminary with the expectation that one day I will be a full-time pastor of a church. I read in Jacob's bio that he wanted to be a shepherd at one time after hearing a Bible story! That was so cute. I would like to be a shepherd as well to a flock of people one day. And when I think of him hearing that Bible story at one point in life, it gives me a reason for doing what I do--so that others might hear about the Great Shepherd.
I would urge you if you ever get the chance to visit the First Baptist Orlando website (fbcorlando) and I believe it is under the media label and you can actually view the church service where the members of our church carried out the flags from inside our sanctuary and marched them out to near I-4 which cuts through Orlando so they would be seen as a memorial for the last 6 weeks. The service on Memorial Day was a wonderful tribute to our true American heroes.
Thank you again for letting me step into your guestbook and let you know in some very small way that I ended up with Jacob's name just by the fact I picked up a flag today on the way out of church with no knowledge of whom it represented---and I thank you for serving.
Jeff Thompson
SS proud american citizen
June 13, 2007
Dear Soldier,
You are my hero. Thank you for protecting our country,our freedom, and for keeping us safe. You will always be remembered. I wish I had the pleasure of meeting a fine soldier as yourself.
Rest in peace sweet precious angel
Joan Kennedy
March 14, 2007
I always admired your mom and dad so I know had I been blessed to have known you better, I would have admired you even more. You made the ultimate sacrafice so we can enjoy our freedom. You're missed by everyone your life touched, and prayed for every day. Thank you, Jacob.
Peggy & Rick Skiba
February 26, 2007
Dear Bridget, Margie and David,
As always, the three of you are in our prayers. We love you. And we're thinking of you.
Jane and Harry Hendrickson
February 25, 2007
Bridget, Margie, and David:
At our church on February 24, 2007, the service was said for Jacob. When the ON EAGLES WINGS hymn was sung it took us back to the funeral in the same church about two years ago. We have never heard such meaningful and heartfelt song and spirit before, or since, in our church. We remember Jacob as a musician and lover of many types of music and feel his musical spirit.
Also, the Rochester Lions Club has renamed its annual scholarship as the PORTER-PALMATIER SCHOLARSHIP. It is to be awarded to a returning veteran interested in studying international affairs at the University of Illinois at Springfield. It honors the two Springfield area servicemen who lost their lives while serving their country in Iraq. It is supported by an offering at the annual Rochester Veterans' Day service and by a Rochester Lions Club donation. Other donations are always welcome.
Jacob's spirit lives on.
Addie & Al Lybarger
February 25, 2007
A son not forgotten:
The years pass. The sad thoughts remain. Yet, there is nothing one can do. All one can do is "hang on." So many have fallen in Iraq. Those of us remaining can only remember the good times, the little happenings, and the special place in our hearts we have kept for Jacob, who has gone to a quieter, more peaceful place.
So, as we remember Jacob, we remember him with good thoughts. We remember when we first saw Jacob at his grandparents home in Palatine. We remember attending his confirmation. We remember his visiting us in San Diego with Tom - (and his forgetting some clothes which I packaged up and sent.) And we remember all his thoughtful thank-you notes.
Jacob's Godparents,
Sgt. Jonathan & Melissa Fret
February 25, 2007
Although it's been two years, I'll never forget you or the impact your death had for our unit. You are gone but not forgotten. I pray for your family as they face the anniversary of your death. God bless them all.
Frank Denison
February 25, 2007
Margie, David and Bridgett, it is hard to believe it is two years; the loss feels too fresh. God be with you. He is with Jacob.
roy houck
February 25, 2007
We miss Jake-o and always will.
Grandma Dixie, Grandpa Roy
Jim & Debbie Wilson
February 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with
you the family. Even though we did
not know Jacob, we have come to know
him thru listening to family and friends tell stories.
Marcia Musick
February 24, 2007
Margie,David,Bridgett. My prayers are with you as you remember Jake on his 2nd anniversary in Heaven. He did a good job for our Country and will always be remembered for that. I saw the memorial that was in our newspaper today 2-24-07 it was a very nice tribute to Jake.
Annette Bishop
February 24, 2007
Margie and David,We are so sorry that Jacob was taken from you on this day two years ago. Our hearts ache for you.
Love,
Annette and Bob
Marie Secker
February 24, 2007
Margaret, David, and Bridgett, It is hard to believe that it has been two years since the loss of Jacob. My fondest memories of him were the ones when he was in grade school at Immanuel Lutheran School. As his cook it was always so much fun to see him come through the line and see his face when I had made spagehtti, homemade rolls, cookies or cinnamon rolls. He loved to eat and always had something nice to say about what I was serving him. He was a joy to have in the kitchen when he was on lunch duty. He always kept a big smile on my face. He was truly an individual who loved life and lived it the way he wanted to its fullest. He was the sweetest and most loving young man and you can be so proud of the man he became. Although his death is hard to understand he was there because he wanted to help and instead had to give his life so quickly. He will always hold a very special place in my heart and I will never forget what a wonderful young man he was. My heart aches for your loss but know that he will never be forgotten in my heart. I wish I could take away your pain. Much love to you all!!
Susan Jacobs
February 24, 2007
Margie, David, and Bridget,
Please know I'm thinking a lot about you and Jacob. Thoughts of Jake pop into my mind at quirky times, much like the man himself. I think about what he would say or do in many circumstances. Many times this makes me laugh and other times it serves as an encouraging force. I'm lucky to have this, and I'm lucky to know you guys.
With love and appreciation,
Susan
Balvina Houck
February 24, 2007
Jacob C. Palmatier's devotion to country resulted in much pain and suffering to his loved ones, but his sacrifice for freedom will always be remembered with our sincere appreciation. May our prayers for God's help ease the heartaches of his loved ones.
Tom & George
February 24, 2007
We love & miss you Jako.
Uncles Tom & George
Bob & Ann Borgman
February 24, 2007
Jacob is never far from our thoughts. He was such a positive influence on everyone he met. We were so impressed by the number of long time friends he garnered in his life. It told so much about who he was. They were as special to him as he was to them . Jacob's family was always so supportive and caring and he will not be forgotten by any of us. With loving memories,
Beth, Mark, Allie and Drew Ebaugh
February 24, 2007
Jacob's memory will live on forever in the hearts and minds of those who loved him. God bless Marg, David and Bridget along with Jacob's extended family and friends.
Garnet Jenkins
February 24, 2007
In Remembrance of Spc. Jacob C. Palmatier, on the 2nd anniversary of the day, he gave his life for our Country, with a Multitude of Thanks, for his Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
May Jacob Rest Safely in God's Loving Care and may the Peace of God continue to be with the Palmatier family.
Those who Made the Ultimate Sacrifice, So Many and So Young, shall Never Be Forgotten, my brother among them. KIA-Vietnam 1967.
"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-
from whence comes my help?
My help comes from the Lord,
Who made heaven and earth."
Psalm 121:1-2
I am sincerely hoping that you continue to feel the thoughts of Caring and Support that surround you each day, as this Country Remembers Someone Very Precious to you, who is a Hero to all of us.
I am So Deeply Sorry for your loss.
Stuart Whitaker
February 17, 2007
David, Margaret and Bridget,
I want you to know that a flag flies in front of our house in honor of your son/husband. Our family business sponsored several flags when my hometown, Lynchburg, VA hosted a US Military Flag Memorial called "A Healing Field" July 1-4 2006. Shortly after the memorial, we were given the flags to take home with us. Each family decided we would fly our flags in our front yards to further honor these brave soldiers. On my flag was a card that says "In grateful memory of U.S. Army Specialist Jacob C. Palmatier from Springfield, Illinois, who died on 2/24/2005 near Muqdadiyah while defending liberty for you and me."
It was many months later when my brother decided to research the soldier for whom he was flying the flag in front of his home. After he told me he was able to leave a message for the family of that young man online, I knew I wanted to do the same. So today I spent a few hours getting to know Jacob. I was pleased to see the number of websites honoring him and was glad to finally have a picture to go along with the flag and card we have. I printed out one of the pictures and proudly showed my daugters (10, 7 and 2 years old) and explained to them that the man in the picture is the soldier that the flag in our front yard is flown for. I want you to know that it is an honor to fly this flag and that as long as it holds up we will continue to display it proudly!
Thank you for Jacob and may God Bless You and Your Families!
Margie Palmatier
November 9, 2006
Jake, we just came home from American Legion Hall #809 and they told us they named a street in Washington Park to honor you. I know you would have been embarrassed at all the hooplah but the Mayor and Park Board and Veterans felt it a just tribute and Dad and I agree. It is the street just after you turn into Washington Park from South Grand Ave. It is wonderful and we just know you would have been happy even though embarrassed at the fuss. Bridget was there and she was happy for this honor too. So give it a look from above and show Moosie too. Our love for you will never end. Love, Mom xoxoxo
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 18, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR YOU ALWAYS. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Margie Palmatier
February 27, 2006
Dear Jacob,
It has been one year since we received the devastating news of your death. We will never be the same and we will never stop loving you. The hurt has not lessened and doubt if it ever will but we will go on. We had a dinner in your honor on Friday the 24th of February. Many told touching stories of you. You are our angel. Hugs and kisses boo bear.
Love everlasting,
Mom & Dad
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 21, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Palmatier family in the loss of Jacob. I did not know Jacob, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers.Jacob it is almost a year since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
February 7, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
Mom
December 17, 2005
Merry Christmas sweetheart. I miss you every hour of every day. Say Merry Christmas to Papa Papa and Grandma Ruth and Uncle Richard and Grandma Houck.
Melissa Fret
November 3, 2005
Dear Jacob & Family
Although I never had the opportunity to meet you personally, I want to say thank you for your ultimate sacrafice for our country. My husband Jonathan told me funny things about Jacob. They worked for the same unit, just different sections. I know that time heals all wounds, but we will never forget the wound that your loss has given. For Bridgett, I think of you often and pray I never have to walk a step in your shoes. You will always be in my prayers. Your Gold Star status is one that I have the utmost respect, sympathy, and admiration.
Sincerely
Melissa Fret, 1-30th HHC Maint.
Mindy Hanzlik
October 3, 2005
Even though I'm not a member of the Houck family, Jacob was always so welcoming and kind when Tom invited me along to family functions. He made me laugh and put me at ease...what a quirky, funny, special person he was. Marg, David, and Bridget, I think of you often and keep you in my prayers. The world is a much sadder place without Jacob in it.
Kevin and Gail Wasmer
July 21, 2005
Jacob was a very special part of our lives. His death will leave a void that can never be filled. Bridget, David and Margie, our hearts go out to you.
George Moy
July 18, 2005
I thoroughly enjoyed Jacob's energy and miss him so. In the short time that I got to know him, I felt that he was Asian in his soul in so many ways. I was happy to have such a kindred spirit on the Houck side of my family! There were many things that Tom and I wanted to do with Jacob and thus we mourn him so. Attending his wedding was a joyous occasion that I will always cherish. Tom and I have adopted a few of the quirky things that were a part of Jacob into the routine of our life together. On a personal level, I hope to keep his memory fresh in my life.
Frank Denison
July 18, 2005
Jacob was my nephew. He was the eldest of his grandparents grandchildren. He was the first to bring to the older generation that certain joy of knowing there will be a next generation. His coming was an absolute delight to the entire David Palmatier generation and their parents.
As all have read he accomplished much and was honored for what he achieved. In his achievement he honored his parents for their devotion to his well being and growth. He was well manored in a way not seen commonly. He was dignified and appeared to have his own thoughts kept to himself.
He married Bridgette to the absolute joy of the entire family. In this moment of love many thought he had made his greatest achievement, marrying well above himself. You can see from the wedding pictures both were happy with the union.
Jacob made a decision to join the military and a cause. We can be comfortable he did this intelligently with the same sense of honor and determination to succeed as had accompanied everything else he did in his too short life.
We can also share sadness with Bridgette, David and Margie and all of our family.
Jacob is missed.
With love and prayers, Uncle Frank
Carolyn Evans
July 18, 2005
David, Margaret, Bridget,
My heart is always heavy when I hear that we've lost another soldier. Since I lost my son in the Gulf War, 1991, I am at a loss for words as to how to express what I feel, if I'm feeling at all. Sometimes, I'm still numb. The reality of it all still staggers the imagination. Yet, I am filled with the pride that these fine young men and women are willing to fight for the value we hold dear. And I can tell you for certain, I sincerely enjoy my freedom each and every day. As I set on my patio and look at the memorial to my son, I often think of you and so many others who have traveled this road. Knowing of the other soldiers who fought and families back home and the love and support they each give. I feel so blessed to have been chosen to pay such a great price for freedom for so many. I cannot travel this road alone, however. IN GOD WE TRUST is still my motto. Much love.
Mom
July 2, 2005
I went to your grave today for the first time since you were buried. There will not be a day that will pass that I won't think of you and be grateful for the short time we had you. I know you are happy with God but I still wish you were here.
Thank-you for serving our country. I know you "just had to see the Iraq countryside mom" but my heart will forever hurt because you are gone, because they killed you. I love you very much, my beloved Jacob. You are forever with me. God blessed us richly when loaning you to us. I love you Boo.
Mom xoxoxoxoxox
Susan Johnson
April 20, 2005
May God bless your family and bring them comfort. Thank you brave soldier for your selfless sacrifice to secure the freedom of others. May you now find peace and rest in the loving arms of Jesus.
Tom Houck
March 29, 2005
Jacob was one of my favorite relatives and one of my favorite people. I miss him more than I can put into words. Now that he is gone there are so many silly little things that remind me of him - like this little rhythmic clap he used to do when he was about 10. I never realized it before now, but I've been tapping out that same rhythm almost every day for the past 20 years. I just realized that came from Jake. So I'll always have that part of him with me, and will continue to think about the ways he affected my life in both big and small ways. God bless.
Kay (Bollig) Iwen
March 28, 2005
Dear Palmatiers,
From the kitchen, I heard the start of the "Fallen Heroes" segment on CBS and a name I had known several years ago. As I went to view the rest of the segment, I fervently hoped the cute, bright little boy I remembered from my days in the Springfield area wasn't the same Jacob Palmatier they were honoring. I am so sorry that they were describing your Jacob. Please accept my sincerest sympathy at the loss of someone who sounded like a remarkable young man. I cannot even begin to imagine the depth of your sorrow. Please know that I will be praying for healing for you and the peace that only God can eventually give.
Love in Christ,
Bridget Palmatier
March 28, 2005
Jacob was such a special man. It is hard to imagine life without him. We had made so many plans for post-military life and we were looking forward to traveling and spending more time with our friends and family. Thank you to everyone who has posted messages here and elsewhere, sent cards and good wishes, and called to see if there is anything they can do. It means a lot to me. God bless you all.
Joy & Adam Raskin
March 26, 2005
Bridget, Mr. and Mrs. Palmatier
We are so very sorry for your loss. I know that Jacob was a wonderful man. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Patty Crusius
March 25, 2005
Dear David, Margaret and Bridget,
On this Good Friday, I can't help but think of Jacob: "Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends." (John 15:13) We were all very saddened to hear about Jacob's untimely death. (Ironically, the day before, I had just been thnking about him, shopping for the items to include in a care package for him!) We were also quite moved by all the wonderful and lively things that were said about him at the wake and the funeral. I am not very good at speaking in front of a large group; I do better at writing, so I'll share some memories I have here. I remember Jacob best as a five-year old, when I had the privilege of baby-sitting for him. He was so cute and full of life (I guess that never changed!). I remember how he liked to drink coffee because his mom could, why couldn't he too? (I think it had lots of cream and sugar.) He used to love to "raid" the cookie jar that Margaret always kept filled with good things. (He usually asked first, though.) He loved to go to the playground. I remember being there and watching the TV on the day that then-President Reagan was shot; thinking how ironic it was that this happened when he was 5, and I remembered that when President Kennedy was shot, I had been 5, also. Jacob loved to be tickled! He thought that was hilarious! I remember being at his confirmation and graduation from high school. He was a very fine young man. I wish we had had the opportunity and time to get to know him better as an adult, but by that time, we had become busy raising our own two kids (who are the youngest of the Palmatier grandchildren; Jacob had been the first, and the one that made me an aunt initially). We always enjoyed seeing him with David and Margie at holidays such as Thanksgiving, Christmas and Easter. Christina remembers that we had Jacob's name one Christmas and that we bought him a denim shirt with a picture of a Shar-pei, the same breed of dog as "Moose". We met Bridget the Thanksgiving before Jacob went to Korea, and I had the pleasure of going to her bridal shower. We were looking forward to getting to know Bridget much better too. We still hope to do that!! We are so sad for your misfortune to lose your husband after only one year of marriage and without kids!! My heart really goes out to you. I just hope and pray that God will comfort you and continue to uphold you and guide you in the days ahead. The whole thing seems so unfair (how tragic for David and Margie to lose their only son -- another parallel to God's only Son Jesus); but I can see that God has made all of you strong and compassionate people. He will meet your every need. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not unto your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths." (Prov. 3:5,6) I agree with the sentiments that the pastor quoted from Bridget's letter at the funeral. It is a tribute to both you and Jacob to not respond to his death by hating the "enemy". Jesus said we are to love our enemies, and pray for those who persecute us; and Jesus died for the sins of the whole world, and all of us are sinners. Jacob was so like Jesus in this way. I'm sure he has a special place in heaven (as well as in our hearts). We will miss him so very much. May God grant you peace, love, hope and eventually joy again, after the hurt has lessened somewhat through the years and through the love and care from good friends and family. We love you and will keep you in our prayers. Because of the miraculous event of Easter, Jesus has made it possible for us all to meet in Heaven again someday. May you have a blessed Easter. We will be thinking of you.
Much Love,
Patty, Phil, Christina and Daniel.
Bruce Palmatier
March 25, 2005
May the Lord richly bless us with remembrances in laughter and tears, as we have already been blessed by Jacob.
Margaret Palmatier
March 19, 2005
Thank-you to all who signed Jacob's guest book and wrote very touching and heartfelt sentiments. Jacob has left us far too soon but he will always remain in our hearts. David & I will never be able to express adequately how much you all mean to us & the kindness shown our family and the respect shown for Jacob. He really was the best & our hearts will never be the same. We know he is in heaven.
God bless you all.
Margie
Cindy Busch
March 14, 2005
Dear Margaret, David, and Bridget,
I'm reading "A Travel Guide to Heaven" and it gives an awesome picture of what to look forward to in heaven. If what the auther says is true, or even half-way accurate, Jacob is having a great time, and it's the perfect place for him, (but I guess we already knew that because it IS heaven, after all). According to this author, heaven is full of all kinds of opportunities and adventures, and that's just what Jacob was about. He wanted to experience everything and now he gets to.
It just stinks that he got there so much sooner than the rest of us.
God's Blessings to you.
JIM & DEBBIE WILSON
March 10, 2005
DAVID AND MARGARET
OUR PRAYERS AND FRIENDSHIP GO OUT
TO YOU
Dixie & Roy Houck
March 10, 2005
We were deeply impressed about the long strean of commendations for Jacob's army service, then, by the high level of love and loyalty of his pre-service and college friends.
Marcia Musick
March 9, 2005
Margie,David,Bridget
My thoughts and prayers are with you
at this difficult time in you life.
Jacob is safe in the arms of Jesus. He served his country well and gave his life for our country. God be with you all.
Debbie Stokes
March 9, 2005
David, Margaret, & Bridget,
I think of you daily & pray for you. I know Jacob was very special. I hope you can find peace in having been able to be blessed by Jacob for 29 wonderful years.
Bob & Ann Borgman
March 9, 2005
We felt privileged to have attended the services for Jacob. He had garnered the love and respect of so many friends,fellow servicemen and relatives--it was inspiring.With deepest sympathy,
Beth and Mark Ebaugh
March 9, 2005
Marg, David and Bridget,
We wish you peace and inner strength. Jacob lived each day to its fullest..something more of us ought to do.
Bless You
Love
Beth and Mark
Married Jacob
March 8, 2005
Newborn Jacob
March 8, 2005
Army Jacob
March 8, 2005
Kevin & Gail Wasmer
March 8, 2005
Jacob was a wonderful man and a good friend. We miss him terribly. We, along with his family and the rest of his friends, want to thank everyone for the love and support you have all been giving. We appreciate it so much.
Joan Kennedy
March 1, 2005
My prayers are with Margie, David, and Bridgette. My heart aches for you all. God Bless Jacob.
Frances Evans
February 28, 2005
With deepest sympathy,VFW Post 9640 and DAV #31 chapter Tazewell Co.
Jason Dart
February 28, 2005
My sincere condolences to David, Margaret, Bridget, and all of Jacob's friends and family. My prayers are with you. God's peace.
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