Spc. Michael S. Deem
Spc. Michael S. Deem
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Mike Burke
June 26, 2025
Hard to believe its been over 20 Years since your passing in Iraq now. As your commander in the 3rd Infantry Division deployed there, I remember that somber night at Camp Liberty and think about it often. I'll continue to send my condolences to your family. Rest in Peace SPC Deem.
Mary Ann Warner
May 27, 2019
Thinking of you this Memorial Day. Hoping you and Lynn are sharing this day together. Much love from your Aunt Mary Ann.
Mike Deem
March 2, 2015
Can't believe it has been 10 years since you sacrificed your life for all of usand the country you loved so well. We all miss you so much especially your unannounced phone calls. I hope you have ran into your Uncle Trevor, he left us in September of 2014. I know the two of you will be best friends up there. We all miss and love you so much.
Love always,
Your Father,
Mike
Mary Ann Warner
February 25, 2015
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Anne Griffith
April 19, 2014
Hello dear Shawn. We think about you often and earth is not the same without. I know you are much happier where you are though and for that we are grateful. Your Mom is my special friend and I love her dearly. You and Brian were her world and always will be. Watch over her and Carter and keep them safe and sound. Tomorrow is Easter Sunday as you know. God's love for us knows no limits. Watch over all of us on our journey back to Him and we will all be together again. Love you, Shawn. Aunt Anne and Uncle Dave Griffith.
Rita Pomroy
April 19, 2014
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C4dci4Z7p6A "Dancing in the Sky"
For you Shawn and your brother Brian missing you both so very much.
April 19, 2014
Shawn how very lonely it is here on earth without you, I have added a song for you that speaks volumes. "Dancing in the Sky" for any family member or anyone who has lost someone dear who would like to listen it can be heard on You Tube or just simply google it. Shawn you are in heaven and still doing God's work here on earth, Robbie 2nd. Lt. USMC your step-son is been confirmed this Easter weekend, what a positive effect you had on that young man's life I truly believe you guided him to this path of becoming a Catholic. We are so very proud of him.You have done God's work and continue to do so. You have received God's just reward and are truly His soldier in Christ. Until we meet again my sons, missing you both. Your mom & Carter.
Mary Ann Warner
May 24, 2013
Memorial Day, 2013, is almost here. I will be visiting Michael Shawn's gravesite as I have done every year since his death. I feel honored to be able to place a new flag and some flowers on his grave. I will spend a few moments remembering my nephew and the family he left behind: his widow, Lynn, his son, William, his daughter, Maran a/k/a Josie, his mother, Rita, his father, Mike and their respective spouses, Carter, Jo, plus aunts and uncles and cousins. I take comfort in knowing Michael Shawn is with his brother, Brian, and his grandparents and my own sweet Honey - basking in the light of our wonderful Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. What a lovely day it will be when we are all together again in heaven! If any of our family is reading this, I send my sincerest love and heartfelt comfort to you all.
May 23, 2013
Hi Michael,
I knew you when you were a young kid. I knew then you would be a great man. Rest in peace.
Miss you.
March 25, 2013
Missing you as another Easter approaches us without you. Your little boy William is growing up so fast you would be so very proud of him,he is so like you when you were a little fellow.
Another new email address as of today
[email protected] if any one wishes to contact me.
You and your brother Brian are in God's hands until we meet again.
your mom & your children's nana Rita Pomroy
20 Prince William Drive,
Placentia
Newfoundland A0B 2Y0 Canada
March 8, 2013
A very special heartfelt thank you to all you wonderful people who continue to remember my son Shawn. If anyone wishes to contact me please do so, my email [email protected]
Rest in peace my son with your brother Brian until we meet again.
your mom (Rita Pomroy)
February 21, 2013
Just received a phone call today from my sister regarding a recent entry that has touched me deeply. I wish to thank everyone who has entered a short message to my son who gave so much for all of us. I sometimes miss your unexpected phone calls late at night but I guess God had his plans as well. I miss him very much even though he is forever in my heart and prayers.I pray the recent entry was made by his daughter as there is no name attached to the message. I know his son William loves and misses his father very much along with his sister. Mike I know you can't be with me now but I also know some day we will be reunited in heaven. You are and remain my hero.Whomever made that lovely entry, please contact me.
Your Father,
Mike Deem
February 20, 2013
Hey dad, it's been awhile since I've done this. Or talked to you. Or been to your grave. Just wanted you to know i miss you. And I've grown up so much. Hope everything's well in paradise, god, I can't believe your gone and it's almost been 7 years. Love you.
November 17, 2012
In honor of Michael Deem.
Mary Ann Warner
June 4, 2012
I visited his grave again on Memorial Day. Brought the usual flowers and a flag. I wish I could do more. It seems so little to bring when Michael Shawn gave so much...thanks for serving our country and for leaving a legacy in your children. R.I.P. nephew.
Peggy Childers
February 24, 2012
To the family and friends of Spc. Michael S. Deem:
Please accept my remembrance of Michael on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Mary Ann Warner
May 29, 2011
It doesn't seem possible Michael Shawn has been gone for six years.
Memorial Day will be here soon - another wreathe to place on his grave. He is not there, but his memory lives on. May his family receive peace about his passing and know Michael Shawn will live on in the hearts and minds of all Americans who honor their deceased veterans.
David-Anne Griffith
February 25, 2011
So many have paid the ultimate price with their lives to protect our freedom. May Micheal rest in peace and may his life not be lost in vain for procuring that peace.
Peggy Childers
February 24, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Michael S. Deem:
Remembering Michael on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Kenna Larra
July 8, 2009
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Peggy Childers
February 24, 2009
To the family of Spc. Michael S. Deem:
Michael gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
April 28, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Deem!
Mary Ann Warner
November 12, 2007
May Michael Shawn always be alive in our hearts as he is saluted and honored by so many on each Memorial Day and Veteran's Day. Strangers who never met him consider him their war hero - as indeed he was - but more than that, they salute his wife and children and Mom and Dad in their grieving and their loss. They cry as well and make every attempt to be compassionate toward Michael Shawn's family. It has to be in those moments that we find strength and honor and peace in a young soldier's memory and his ultimate sacrifice for our great country. Thank you, my nephew and my god-son, for your dedication and your perseverence for I know that even now, that same dedication and perseverence is continuing as you intercede in heaven for all whom you loved here on earth.
August 15, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Patsy Jo Reed Sircy
August 15, 2007
Sincere sympathy and love, Pat - R.N.
July 16, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Deem and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Garnet Jenkins
February 24, 2007
Please know how Deeply Sorry I was to learn of the loss of Spc. Michael S. Deem, two years ago today.
His Service and Dedication to our country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
May Michael rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord continue to be with the Deem family.
There will Never be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.
"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~
May the Peace of God and your memories of Michael, remain in your heart always.
May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
ROBYN GARSIDE
August 17, 2006
MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE ON FOR THE LITTLE ONES ALWAYS. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. STAY STRONG AND GODSPEED. SEMPER FI
A PROUD MARINE MOM
Thomas deem
May 28, 2006
Michael was my nephew who I knew as a young lad. We had some good times together. I was gladdened to meet his wife and hear how much he grew. He had an infectious laugh and smile and enjoyed living. My prayers go out to his children and his wife. May God look out for you my friend. Love ya:
Uncle Tom
Tom Gugliuzza-Smith
February 22, 2006
My heartfelt sympathy to the Deem family in the loss of Michael. I did not know Michael, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. Michael it is almost one year since you were taken. You are a hero and you will never be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Vangi & McKaLyne Lunsford
February 7, 2006
Psalm 23
1
The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not be in want.
2
He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters,
3
He restores my soul. He guides me in paths of righteousness for his name's sake.
4
Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.
5
You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.
6
Surely goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever.
This is a verse that I have found to be comforting to me during my husbands death. Remember that when it seems that no one else is round, God is still there with you! And he will be your rock!
My daughter,McKaLyne, and I send our heartfelt sympathy for your loss! God Bless this warrior, God Bless those whom serve freedom's cause! They are our true HERO's!!!!
If you need anything, please feel free to contact me!!!
Wife & Daughter of the Late
Sgt. Audrey Daron Lunsford
KIA May 23, 2005
Woodena and Howard Mays
August 5, 2005
I'm a cousin of Shree Lynn's from Arkansas. You all have our sympathies. I thank god that the children got be with their Dad before his passing and that william got to talk to his Dad alot. It is so sad. May God be with you all in this time of need.
Sincerely,
Woodena, Howard, Kayla and Richard Mays
Mary Ann Warner
March 25, 2005
Dear Rita'
Please know I am constantly praying for you that there can be some sense made out of all you have had to endure in the loss of both your sons. I am your sister-in-law and your friend forever. May we both find some comfort in loving each other and Maran and William. I will miss Michael Shawn, my nephew and my god-son. He is with Brian, my Mom and Dad, (his grand-parents)and my sweet girl, Honey. They are all together in Heaven awaiting the day when we will all be reunited - I am sure of that.
Love,
Mary Ann
Marian/Russ O'Keefe
March 25, 2005
Hi Rita
Thinking about you on this diffucult time, our prayers and thoughts are with you. We are very sorry for your loss.
Valerie and Lester Power
March 21, 2005
We are deeply sorry to hear of the lose of your son. That one family should have so much grief is incomprehensible. Your in our prayers and thoughts. We love you and hope you'll be able to come to some sort of peace and acceptance.
Helen & Gord Crawley
March 20, 2005
Dear Rita & Carter & Family, I could not believe my ears when I heard the terrible news of your son, Michael's, passing. You have been through so much already it is hard to believe you are going through this again. Matthew, Jennifer and Natasha send their love. They will never forget your kindness to them in Merasheen. We are all thinking about you and praying for you. Be strong. Love, Helen (O'Brien) & Gord Crawley
Joyce Kieley
March 20, 2005
Dear Rita, Carter and Family, Please accept my deepest sympathy on the death of your son, Michael. It was a great shock to hear such sad news. Losing a loved one is so difficult but when it is a young person it is so much harder. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sincerely, Joyce Kieley & Family
Billy Taylor
March 19, 2005
You are a remarkable strong sweet woman, you are always in both mine and Marcia's thoughts...may God bless you and give you the strength to guide you through this painful time of mourning. We love you.
Tom & Theresa Ennis
March 19, 2005
Dear Rita, Carter And Family, What can a person say at a time like this? No words can adequately express the sorrow we feel for you at the loss of your son, Michael Sean Deem. Take comfort in the fact that he gave his life in the service of his country and also that he is now united with his brother, Brian. They would want you to be strong and courageous like they were and to draw from them the strength you need to go on. Know that there are many people who love and support you and will be there to help you through this very sad time.
Condolences to Michael's wife, Lynn, and his children, Marin and William. May God be with them to give them comfort and the strength they need to come to terms with this terrible loss.
All our thoughts and prayers are with you.
With love from Tom and Theresa Ennis and Family.
Dave & Anne Griffith
March 11, 2005
Michael we have fond memories of you as a young boy. We certainly enjoyed the last time you visited us. We had not seen you in several years but we always kept up with how you were doing when we talked to your mom.
Seems like you were much too young to leave us but God had other plans for you. I know you are busy carrying out His plans right now. It is still very hard on your beautiful mom and all you family and friends. Dave and I have a picture of you, your son and daughter and your mom on our refrigerator. The smile on all your faces could light up a room. I am so glad your mom sent us that picture because it is the one that will stay in our memory.
Pray for us. We love you. Anne and Dave
Geraldine Fulford
March 10, 2005
Dear Rita & Carter:
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Although we did not know Michael, we certainly feel your pain at this sad time. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Geraldine(Barnett),Wayne Fulford & family.
Fr. William Hann
March 10, 2005
Dear Rita and family,
May you find strength and support from loved ones and from your frinds and from all those who pray for you and yours at this time of loss. Be assured of my prayers and support. May you find strength in forever memories and may God bless you and yours. I will pray a mass ofr you and in memory of your son who died so that we may live in freedom. God bless you all. The people of Merasheen are united with you in prayer.
Diane Hickey
March 10, 2005
So sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sylvia Ivins
March 10, 2005
I am so sorry for your loss,my prayers are with you and your family.May God Bless You
Basil Rose
March 8, 2005
Very sorry to hear such sad news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Loretta Hann Reid
March 7, 2005
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.
Your in my thoughts and prayers.
Rita Rose - McCarthy
March 7, 2005
Dear Rita & Carter: I was deeply saddened when I heard the news of your sons death while serving in Iraq. I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time as well as his wife and little children, Moran and William. My sincere condolences to the whole family. God Bless him and may God Bless his loving family.
Rita McCarthy (Rose)
Carolyn Murray
March 7, 2005
I'm sorry that I did not know Michael Shawn but I do know his mom and my prayers go out to her and all of Shawn's family.
chris wolf
March 4, 2005
I used to be in the same unit with Deem. We deployed together to germany at the begining of the war. He was a good guy. I'm in shock that hes gone. He really cared about his family and made that clear. Deem my hats off to you.
terry hatfield
March 2, 2005
I too have lived in Rockledge Fla. on Slayton Ave. May God watch over and be with you in your time of sorrow
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