Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw

Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw

Alan W. Shaw Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 11, 2007.
Alan W. Shaw "lived and breathed" his job in the military, said his wife, Sharrell. He had "0311" _ his Military Occupational Specialty Code in the Marines _ tattooed on his arm. On his left shoulder, he had a large camouflage "S." "Everybody in his unit _ all those guys called him Superman," Sharrell Shaw said. "They all called him invincible." The nickname fit his personality _ always the one to lend a hand or to break up an argument or a scuffle, said his older brother, Larry Shaw. Shaw, 31, of Little Rock, Ark., died Feb. 9 of wounds suffered from an explosion in Baqubah. He was assigned to Fort Hood and was on his second tour. After graduating high school in 1994, Shaw spent a year at Arkansas Tech University, where he was defensive end on the football team, before joining the Marines in 1998. When he was discharged in 2002, he joined the family business hanging acoustical drop ceilings for Shaw Acoustical Co. He rejoined the military two years later. He also is survived by a son, Austin, 10, and daughters Jourdan, 7, and Davyn, 6. "They walk around saying that their daddy''s a hero," Sharrell Shaw said.

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February 12, 2022

Charlie Gili posted to the memorial.

November 25, 2015

Ariana (Jourdan) Ramirez posted to the memorial.

December 27, 2014

Juan Gonzalez posted to the memorial.

Charlie Gili

February 12, 2022

Hello,
We realize that we are very late to express our deepest condolences, but we wanted to let your family and friends know that we will be sending Care Packages to deployed troops this month and several of these will be dedicated to your loved one. Each package will carry the name, photo and hometown of Alan W. Shaw US Army Staff Sergeant.

We realize that this is a small tribute, but we do this with all respect and sincerity and we want you to know that it is made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals from across the American youth hockey community, their families and friends and others who support our mission.

We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of our US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

Ariana (Jourdan) Ramirez

November 25, 2015

I didn't even know this existed until about ten minutes ago. I think I've been crying for about an hour watching all the kids get surprised by their parents coming home and the tears in there faces and the joyful tears too. Every time I see that, I wish that was you. I still wish that I can turn around in class one day and you will be there with your arms wide open and I'd hug you and everything would be okay. I just miss you so much, daddy.

Juan Gonzalez

December 27, 2014

I am proud to say I had the opportunity to serve with SSG Shaw, I did boot camp with him and he was one hell of a squad leader. Thx for being part of my life, you've inspired me brother.
Semper Fi
Echo Co.Pltn.2042 1998
Charlie Company 1/5 1998-2001
Gonzalez,Juan L

September 2, 2013

I hope his family knows he is still a hero. We will never forget him.

Peggy Childers

February 21, 2013

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw:
It has truly been my honor to sign Alan's guest book these past few years. Unfortunately, due to complications from my Multiple Sclerosis, this may be the last message I'm able to write. Please forgive me and know that Alan will always be remembered in my home.
With love and respect ~ Peggy

Shane Bowe

November 10, 2012

Happy Birthday Marine. Stumbled upon a picture of us today and it brought tears to my eyes. It is an honor to have served with you. Thanks to you and your family for your sacrifice. You are missed and will not be forgotten. Semper Fidelis.

Rick Knowles

November 10, 2012

Happy birthday brother!! And happy Birthday fellow Jarheads! Alan, men like you make this country what it is! Im proud to have known you and served with you. RK B Co. 1/5 2nd Plt.

Coby Wilson

May 4, 2012

I was Allan's roommate in college. My sincerest condolences to the Shaw family.

Sincerely
Chief Coby Wilson USN

February 15, 2012

I will never forget Alan...
Susan Peterson
Honor and Remember New Hampshire

Tim Preator

February 14, 2012

Man I'm like chuck I have talked many times about tge stuff we did Alan ! Sometimes I laugh sometimes it hurts . Not to many people know this but I joined the army because of you . Two weeks after we laid you to rest . Your an American hero miss you brother ... Ps LANDMRK !

Chuck Matthews

February 14, 2012

I said a prayer for you today Alan. I miss you Bro. I have been reflecting on all of the good times and wish you were here to laugh with me. Thank you for those great times Brother.

Chuck Matthews
DJ Chuxter

Peggy Childers

February 13, 2012

February 9, 2012
To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw:
Always remembering Alan. "Some gave all."

Edward Liu

February 18, 2011

I am currently deployed in Baghdad and work at the division HQ at Liberty. There is a wall by the entrance with placards of names of those who have perished over the years here. I found Alan's name and touched it this morning with my fingers as i walked in. his efforts and those who have also fallen will never be forgotten. I have come across his site at sec 60; i pledge to keep his memory and the others' alive.

Peggy Childers

February 9, 2011

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw:
Please accept my remembrance of Alan on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Peggy Childers
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Holly Davidson-Boyette

February 9, 2011

Never forgotten. Til we meet again! Miss you Alan!

February 10, 2010

SSG Shaw and Family

You were on my mind more yesterday than I care to remember. But know that I haven't forgotten you and your families loss. You are a true American hero. Rest in peace.

SSG Chris Sorum

Peggy Childers

February 9, 2010

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw:
Remembering Alan on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Nell R.

December 29, 2009

Your sacrifice will never be forgotten. The ones left behind will keep you alive in their memories. May God bless you and your loved ones.

December 1, 2009

Alan

Well I have to say that when found out that one of my fellow Grey Wolf Soldier's has passed, I told myself that I would visit you if given the chance. Well as I am sure you know, that I was able to visit you at Arlington about two weeks ago. I hope you wife and children are doing well and know that a day doesn't go by that I dont think of you and my fellow fallen Soldiers. May this holiday season bless your family and fellow fallen Soldier's families.

SSG Sorum

November 15, 2009

Good Morning SSG Shaw.

We are thinking of today, yesterday and always. Your memory is as strong as it was prior to your passing.

We love you!

Elaine Simmons

August 26, 2009

My name is Elaine Simmons and I am coordinating an In Honor and Remembrance ceremony honoring the fallen soldiers. It will be held in Jacksonville, Arkansas on September 12,2009 and we would be honored if someone from the family would be able to attend. Please reply to [email protected]

July 6, 2009

SSG Shaw,

Thought of you many times in the last few weeks. I hope that Heaven has treated you well. You are now one of our many angels, thank you for all of your blessings. You and your family are in our prayers, I hope that they are doing great.

We love and miss you.

The DeJesus Family

Whitney Nowlin

May 25, 2009

Alan- saying a special prayer for you and your loved ones today.

Chuck Matthews

May 24, 2009

Alan - You are in my thoughts and prayers this weekend Bro. We all miss you terribly. Your memory will always be with me and the rest of your buds.

May 23, 2009

SSG Shaw,

You are in are thoughts, even more so this weekend. There should be many days specified for you and the other heroes alike. I hope that your family is doing well, I know that time can ease the pain but they look to you for strength.

I have never forgotten those words you said to me on 4 October 2006. You stood true when I had doubt. You changed my life. And you've kept still kept your word. Thank you Thank you Thank you... you have and will be my forever friend.

DeJesus Family

Kenna Larra

February 17, 2009

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,400 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna

Kei Torres

February 11, 2009

I am trying to make contact with the family of SSG Alan Shaw. I am a GSM, recently moved to NWA. I have created a Facebook group called AR Gold Star Families. I hoping you will join us. We are united by our loss. Our group offers a safe place for us. A place of fellowship. We continue to honor the sacrifice of our Fallen Hero. I hope you will contact me. Or at the very least visit Facebook, AR Gold Star Families. God Bless you,

Proud Mom of
Cpl Jason K LaFleur
1/40th CAV Ft Richardson, AK
KIA 8-4-07 Iraq

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Whitney Nowlin

February 9, 2009

It has already been two years since this HERO went to watch over us all from above! Alan was truly a HERO that gave the ultimate sacrifice for our freedom. My thoughts and prayers are with the Shaw family.

Amy

February 9, 2009

To Austin and Family,

I visited your Dad on Saturday. There was a ceremony in Section 60 and families/friends placed roses on each grave in honor of Valentine's Day and to show the love we have for our heroes.

I put the rose in front of your Dad's grave and also noticed someone left a KIA bracelet for him. If you don't have anyone local and want me to get it to mail to you, let me know and I'll do my best to get it and send in the mail.

Austin - just want you to know I'll always remember meeting you, and there are many people who will never forget that your Dad is a true hero. I don't write here every time I visit him for you - but try to never forget that there are people who will always remember : )

Hope you guys are doing OK today.
Blessings to you.

Lisa Soto

February 9, 2009

It's been two years. I wil never forget. Today, I fly the flag in your honor.

Chuck Matthews

February 9, 2009

Alan - Its been two years and I still can't believe you are gone. I remember the last time we all hung out and as you left I said "you gotta do some karaoke when you come home" and you said "I'll sing one with ya when I come back".. you hugged us all and left. You are missed by everyone and you are always in our thoughts and prayers - DJ Chuxter

Peggy Childers

February 9, 2009

To the family of Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw:
Alan gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

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Greg Swartz

December 11, 2008

Dear Shaw family, You don't know me but I purchased a memorial bracelet through my work and received one with Alan's name on it. I just want to say that it is often at this time of the year that our losses are felt the most. Just know that in my eyes and many others, Alan was a true hero. It has been said that there is no greater love than to lay one's life down for a friend. Although I didn't have the honor of meeting him or calling him friend, Alan is truly an example of that selflessness that the world needs.

So, Alan W. Shaw family I just want to say may you have a blessed holiday season. You are in my prayers always, as is Alan. Thank you.

The DeJesus Family

September 10, 2008

SSG Shaw,
I am going through a course right now that made me think of you. It's about retention and it just reminded me of how you mentored me when I was teeter totting on gettin out or staying in. You helped me make the right decision. I thank you for that. You were always there for me to confide in when it seemed like no one understood. I know that your family knows how wonderful you were, lhow oving and how great at your job you were but it never hurts to hear it again. Your son, your brother, your husband, your father, made me strong enough to make it through 15 months of a deployment. Because I believed in the words that he said and as always, he did not let me down. You did not pass in vain. As the days go by so many things change and I feel like people forget what you all go through, forget the sacrifices that thousands of families have made since the War began. But I haven't and I will not let you be forgotten. We love and miss you. You are always thought about. Take care up there and we can't wait to see you again.

June 20, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Shaw!

Lisa Soto

June 2, 2008

Remembered every day. He was a wonderful father to my grandchildren and a good husband for my daughter. We all loved him and miss him so very much. He will always be a hero to me.

Susan Stanley

November 6, 2007

Dear relatives of Alan, my son SSGT Russell J. Verdugo is buried in Arlington National Cemetery along with your hero. I took some photos last Memorial Day Week-end 2007 and have a photo of your Alan’s grave site and marker. If you would like a copy emailed to you, please let me know. I know we are so very proud of our fallen heroes, but we miss them so.
In loving remembrance of our heroes!
Gold Star Mother,

Amy

September 25, 2007

Austin - I told you I would visit your Dad and went to say hi to him yesterday. It was a beautiful sunny day - and I took a moment to remember him - and you and your family.
I'll never forget meeting you - and that you took the time from your grief to ask me who I knew at Arlington. You are an impressive young man - and I know your Dad is proud.

Brittany Forbes

August 25, 2007

Mrs. Shaw,
I want to extend my condolences to you and your children. My husband, CPL Aaron Forbes, was KIA on December 28, 2005. We have a 7 yr old son. We were also at Ft. Hood, as my husband was with the 4ID. I was listening to you talk about your husband on the Military channel and I completely identified with you. I don't know if you are still in the Ft. Hood area (I have moved away), but if you are, there is a great support group on post. I am truly sorry for your loss. Our Soldiers are Heroes! They will live eternally with God and we will be reunited with them one day. Please contact me if you would like. God Bless You!

Kristie Michau

August 23, 2007

Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw, I just want to say that I had the opportunity to stumble across your wives page. You were truly a Hero to us all but to your family you were and always will be much more. I was so taken back by the unconditional love that she still has for you. It saddens me in a way to see something like that end, especially when the world we live in needs so much LOVE. Thank you for being a Man to this country and a Man to your family. Can't wait to meet you some day.

August 8, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Shaw and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

August 8, 2007

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON (KIA on 07/06/07) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Amy Hogan

May 30, 2007

Alan:
I visited Arlington on Memorial Day and happened to meet your son Austin, who was with his Mom and other family members surrounding where you sleep. I can see how much they miss you, and promised your son that I would visit you since I try and pay my respects often. You are a Hero and Austin is such an impressive young man who took the time to ask me who I was visiting. I know you are proud - and I want you to know that I will keep my promise to him and come and say hi for him as often as I can. : )
Semper Fi (once a Marine and all that)and may you rest in peace.

Bert Holler

May 19, 2007

We are so sorry for your loss. Alan was a hero in the finest traditions of the United States Army. We will never forget him or his heroic actions. We too have lost a soldier. Spec. Nicholas P. Brown was KIA on January 22, 2007. Nick was in 2/7 cav and loved being a soldier. Those of us left behind may not understand now why this had to happen but one day it will be revealed to us. Please accept our prayers and condolences at this very hard time. Thank you,

Joyce Speer

May 8, 2007

I met Alan Shaw in the year he attended Arkansas Tech. Fun guy, nice guy. Used to hang out at my house at times, with friends, just doing the college thing. I remember he left to join the Marines and saw him once after that. I never saw him again, because I moved away.

I received the Tech Alumni Association Mag today and his name hit me. I remembered Alan Shaw, because he wasn't someone you would forget.

My heart sank because he is my age, he's too young. He's married with children. I send my condolences to his family, if it can bring any comfort.

I am so sorry for your loss.

Sarah Frankie

May 7, 2007

My sympathies to the family of Alan Shaw. Words cannot lessen the loss but there may be some comfort in knowing that so many others care. I am a coordinator for the Arkansas branch of the Home of the Brave Quilt Project. Our organization would be privileged to present a quilt to the wife and parents of Alan Shaw to honor their loss and express our support and sympathy. If anyone can put me in touch with the Alan Shaw's wife or his parents I would be grateful. My condolences and those of my fellow quilters go out to the entire family. Thank you for any assistance.

Robin Finley

May 5, 2007

All my prayers to your family and friends during this time. May God bless you to meet your needs and comfort you through this time.

ROBYN Garside

May 4, 2007

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Cassandra Garcia

April 18, 2007

To the Shaw family I'm sorry to hear about Alan. He was a great guy. I will always remember him and how funny he was and how he would make me laugh at work. I understand the pain you feel. My prayer are with you.

Sandy Bonesteel

April 16, 2007

As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.

Tony Vasquez

March 30, 2007

Well bro, I don't really know what to say. Me and the fellas from ol' Bravo 1/5 still don't really believe you're gone. Even now I can't believe I'm doing this. It's unreal. I hate this feeling, it ain't right. Ever since I heard I've thought about the old days. Back in Pendleton, Okinawa, Australia. The cold nights out in the field on Pendleton, the windy nights in the outback in Australia. The stories we'd tell each other about how we couldn't wait to get back to the barracks or on ship for a hot shower and some warm chow. How many beers we'd be drinking on the coming weekend. So many good times, but they don't feel like enough ya know? Swapping stories about home and trying to outdo each other on our own misadventures of our youth. Being made to endure the harshest of conditions and still finding the heart to laugh about the misery on each others faces through it all. I miss you man, we're bros, we all are. Won't nothing change that. I'll be waiting though, waiting to have you check me in one day. Then we can laugh again. I miss you Alan. Good times forever brother, Semper Fidelis Marine.

Your Brother,
Corporal Tony Vasquez
Bravo Company 1st Battalion/Fighting Fifth Marines.

Whitney (Ussery) Nowlin

March 25, 2007

Alan will always be remembered as a HERO! I remember growing up with Alan, and all of the fun times we shared. He was a great guy. I know he is missed by everyone that ever knew him. I did not know he was in the military, and what a horrible way to find out. I am truly honored to have known such a wonderful person. My prayers are with all of the family.

Nell Rainbolt

March 21, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Trudy Lowe

March 12, 2007

My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.

Alesia Smith

March 9, 2007

Alesia (Collins) Smith:

Alan was one of the sweetest people I've ever meet, he had a big heart full of love. He became a part of my family through marriage but to me he was family long before when he became friends with my son Joshua Stivers and my nephews; Kenny, Jeremy and Jake Collins. He was in a relationship with my niece Jennifer for a while and we all loved him dearly. My mother always said that was her pick for Jennifer. We are very thankful for the ones like Alan that are willing to give their life for people they don't even know. We know how proud you must be. I pray for you and your family that God will comfort you in this time of such great pain and sorrow. We miss him greatly and look forward to seeing him again someday. Your family is in our prayers. Alesia Smith

Tammy (Collins) McGhee

March 8, 2007

To the parents of Alan,thank you for bringing up such a beautiful person.Alan ended up being my cousin,but long before then,I knew him as a friend to my children(Kenny,Jeremie,Jake and Jessica)My niece and him had a very special relationship too.Thats been about ten years ago now.and after a while we didn't get to see him much.But any time we did see him,it seemed as if it had been only yesterday.at one time he almost felt like one of my own,he was a great guy.so to me Alan felt like my family long before he actually was.It was an honor and a pleasure to meet you both and your other children also.I can see where Alan got his heart from.I know I don"t have to tell you how much he will be missed,you all would know that more than anyone else.And just as Alan made it feel as if it were only yesterday,each time I saw him,when the day arrives that you(we) see him again,we will have that same feeling,and we will know that he never really left us at all.I know I will have thoughts of Alan forever,But everyady,at some time throughout the day,You, Mr and Mrs Shaw,cross my mind.And I shed a tear for you,and Alans siblings.Because I know the kind of love you all have for him.yet I can't even imagine the pain. I know God will soften this all, one day.But until then,I wish you all the comfort that each one of you can find.God Bless, and love to you all.
...and to Alan "Thanks,..for everything!" much love.
Tammy

Karen Hickman

March 5, 2007

On behalf of Gold Star Siblings, please accept our heartfelt condolences.

Glen

March 3, 2007

“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers

Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still

We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever

Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away

Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go

We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light

Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray

Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound

Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go

Lee Sirotnak

March 3, 2007

Please accept our condolences for your loss. You will be in our prayers, that the Lord provide you comfort and peace in the memories of Alan. God Bless.

Mrs. Amber Cobbs

March 3, 2007

Alan,
We miss your laugh and sense of humor. Chris feels lost without you, so keep an eye on him for me ok? So many good memories....

Selenda Hart

February 28, 2007

I only knew Alan for a short time and it was through my son-in-law, Sgt. Matthew Goble, my daughter Amber and grandson Johnathan, who were stationed at Ft. Hood and lived across the street from Alan and Sharell and their family. Alan was a good friend to my kids and I will always appreciate that. I enjoyed the trips to the lake with them and will always remember the funny incident at Alan's surprise birthday party, of which I happened to be at because I was visiting Ft. Hood that weekend. It always brings a smile to my face when I think about it. Sharell, I thank you for being a good friend to my kids and grandson and hope you know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers and if I can do anything for any of you, please do not hesitate to let me know.

Chris Sorum

February 28, 2007

SSG Shaw...Well man, I sit here in Iraq still not believing that we lost a great NCO, Father and Husband. I remember the day we had the bar-b-q at the commanders house and remember how happy you were to be headed to the line unit. Please know that there is not a day that goes by that you are thought off and will be missed and remember forever. Mrs Shaw to you and your children goes our prayers and thoughts during this difficult time. Please e-mail me if there is anything I can do. God bless you and Alan's entire family.. SSG Sorum, FOB Paliwoda Iraq

Jessica Ramsey (Collins)

February 27, 2007

Alan, I think about you everyday. It is still so weird. I was talking to Kenny today about how bad we just want to see you and say hello. I guess alot of people are still in denial that your gone. I enjoy every memory I have being your "little sister" ;) It was good seeing your brothers again, I hate it being under the situation but I saw you through them. I love you Alan and will see you again. May God bless your family!

Linda Cano

February 26, 2007

God bless and comfort all of you in your sorrow and loss. Alan was truly loved and respected among his fellow soldiers. I write to one of his friends through the Soldiers' Angels letter writing team. He is greatly missed. He is resting in God's arms now. Thank you for such an American Hero.

Dawn (Gourley) Sawyer

February 26, 2007

To the Shaw family:
I am so sorry for your loss, Alan was a great guy and anyone who knew him would say that. He will be dearly missed and is truly a hero. I am keeping you in my prayers,please remember this was not the end of Alan's life but just another chapter. May God Bless you and keep you in your time of need. Rely on Him because He will comfort you when no one else can.

To Alan:
You will truly be missed, but thank you for your bravery and all that you have done for our country. Although I haven't seen you in years I have always thought of you as a great friend and I will miss not bumping into you every now and again. I will be looking forward to seeing you again someday.

Marcella

February 25, 2007

Arkansas has lost another American hero. My heart goes out to the family of Staff Sgt. Shaw. May God be with you all.

Marcella

Lauren Collins

February 24, 2007

I'll always remember Alan's smile and his funny sense of humor. I'll miss running into him but will see him again one day. God be with his mom, dad, brothers and sisters and those who truly loved him.

Chris Walker

February 24, 2007

For those of you who didnt know Alan, you missed out! One of the most respected guys to step foot on this earth, I am thankful to have had him as a friend. I will miss you,but never forget you.


Alan was a great son, brother, uncle and friend. I will always remember the smile, the smile that no matter what the mood could make you smile. Alan was always there for me and my family, to help no matter what the situation, when the going got tough you could always call Big Al.

We had alot of good and bad times - all of which I will remember for a long time. One thing Alan taught me was to always be optimisitic, he would tell me to always see the glass as half full as opposed to half empty, and I will continue to do just that my friend. For those of us he left behind, just remember that smile. Remember the good times, because there's a bunch of them, all the beers, movies, football games,girls, clubs, barbecue's and of course throwing the horseshoes.

Again, Alan will be missed but never ever forgotten! Alan gave his life for us and this country, fighting in someone else's backyard,so it wouldn't end up in ours, and for that no one can ever take away that Alan Shaw was a hero!!! Our hero!!! That is how I will remember him as a HERO. Thanks for the good times! To the Shaw brothers, Larry, Darren, Randy, and Jeffery or to the girls, Terri and Amber....if theres anything you need just call.

Jennifer Allen

February 22, 2007

Alan You Will Be Missed By All Who Knew You.I'M so Glad I had you in my life for the time I did.not a day has went by after all these years that I have not thought about you and missed you more then u or anyone else could ever know.you are and always have been my hero! I will never forget your smile and your big heart.thank you for showing me what the word love really means....One day we will all meet again.wont that be a great day.until then remember we love you and we will miss you so much.

Charles Rodgers, M.D.

February 20, 2007

We are so sorry for your loss. We are so grateful to the brave men and their families for their sacrifices that can never be repaid. God be with you and all your family.

Sonia Blankenship

February 20, 2007

My son Scott Siggins served with your son in Iraq. I know what you are going through, I lost my oldest son last July. Time does make our pain manageable but it will never goes away. May God Bless you and your family. Pls feel free to contact me at anytime. With our deepest condonlences.

Jennifer & Josh Spencer

February 19, 2007

May god be with the family of Staff Sgt. Alan Shaw. He truly is a hero and my family will never forget what he has done for us.

Paul Danforth

February 19, 2007

To the Family of Staff Sgt. Shaw: My wife and I are truly grateful for the unselfish sacrifice by Alan. We will pray for God's comfort for you his family, knowing it falls short of relieving the pain. We are sorry for this tragedy but are so proud of him and his keeping us safe.

Amber

February 19, 2007

To the family of alan shaw,
my deepest sympathy is with you in your time of sorrow. I didnt not know alan but my brother was friends with him in the marine core. Even though i never knew him,I will never forget him for what he has done for us and I just wanted you to know that he will always be one of my Heros.

SSG David Black

February 18, 2007

Dear Alan-- I know that we have only known each other for a couple of years, but they were a couple good years. You were like my brother here at Fort Hood. You have given the ulimate sacrifice that can be given--your life. I know that the military was your life along with so many others like ourselves. I miss the weekends at our old neighborhood. I am so sad that I didn't get to see you off this last time. It was not that I didn't want to--I was already over in Iraq and preparing to come home for the last time. We have alot of special memories being in the military together. You are truly a hero to me. One day we will see each other again and we will sit around and tell old stories. I will truly miss you Brother.

To your Family-- I send my deepest sympathies for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you through these trying times.

May God Bless You and Guide You.

Linda Rhodes

February 16, 2007

Heaven's Call

Heaven called and you were taken
So young to go, to young to know

The call of heaven did not wait
Your time here a short stay
You were called away
To be part of God’s everlasting garden

Borrowed seed from the Master
A small little bud that graced us with your beauty
Now returned upon heaven’s call

A finely chosen rose
Taken before it bloomed
Before your beauty had time to unfold

He is the Gardner and you his prize winning bud
Perhaps He seen a storm that you could not with stand
So he picked you before the wind would fall

The memories forever etched in our hearts
Our little bud now blooms
With the angels up on high

Scottie Berg

February 16, 2007

To the Shaw Family,

I was very sadden to hear of the loss of Staff Sgt. Shaw. My son, Spc. Ryan Berg, was in his company. God took Ryan on Jan. 9th in Iraq, just 4 weeks before Staff Sgt. Shaw. I know this is the worse thing your family is going through. I know you are proud of him. My prayers will be with the entire family. Take one day at a time. God bless you all and rest in peace Staff Sgt. Shaw.

Soft and Slowly,
Scottie Berg

B C

February 16, 2007

My deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Shaw. This fallen hero will always be remembered with pride and gratitude.

Tom Gugliuzza-Smith

February 16, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Shaw family in the loss of Alan. I did not know Alan, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Alan you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten. I live close to ARLINGTON NATIONAL CEMETERY and I visit there three or five days a week. I promise each time I am at ANC I will visit/honor Alan.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

February 15, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

Kate

February 14, 2007

I am so deeply sorry for your loss. Our hearts break for your family. My brother is headed back to Iraq and I've learned that when your family member is there, it feels like each soldier becomes a family member. Please know that I will keep Alan and your family in my prayers always. Alan is in a safe, beautiful place and will be with you always. God bless you.

Bruce and Karen Thurston

February 14, 2007

If he can stand in battle to ensure our freedom,
We can stand in grief with his family to honor him……

In Remembrance of SSGT Alan Shaw,

To the Shaw Family, our sincerest and heartfelt condolences are extended to you for the loss you have endured. We pray that in time grief will turn to pride and the pain of loss will be replaced with peace in knowing your loved one is in the hands of the Lord.

For every fallen hero, there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us that freedom is a cherished gift and it is not without sacrifice.

May you take comfort in knowing that many families across this great nation grieve with you in your time of sadness.

Our prayers are with you for peace and healing.

Sincerely,

Blue Star Mothers of New Hampshire

Susan Peterson

February 14, 2007

To the family - my heartfelt sympathy in the death of Alan. I am so glad I got to meet him when he stopped at Pease (New Hampshire) for refueling on October 4, 2006. He became my "adopted" soldier and I so enjoyed sending him packages and letters. I pray that you all will know how much he loved you and his country. I pray that GOD would hold you and give you comfort and strength. I also hope that the precious memories you have of Alan will give you comfort.
Please know that you can call me anytime.

Blessings,
Susan
Proud Mom of SPC Alex Peterson
serving in Iraq)

Dewayne Standridge

February 13, 2007

Alan,
You made Arkansas and the country very proud, We will never forget your sacrifice, God Bless You.
Rest In Peace Hero!

Karen Hickman

February 13, 2007

On behalf of "Gold Star Siblings" Please accept our heartfelt condolences.

Garnet Jenkins

February 13, 2007

I am Deeply Saddened to learn of the loss of Staff Sgt. Alan W. Shaw,
The Price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.

May Alan rest safely in the Loving Care of God and may the Grace and Comfort of the Lord be with the Shaw family.
There will Never Be Enough Ways to Humbly Thank these Heroes for their Supreme Sacrifice, my brother among them. KIA~Vietnam, 1967.

"Cast thy burden upon the Lord,
and He shall sustain thee."
~ Psalm 55:22 ~

Hoping you can feel the thoughts of caring and support that surround you today and in the days ahead, as this Country mourns with you, for Someone Very Precious to you, Who Is A Hero to all of us.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Dennis & Pam Robertson

February 12, 2007

We are saddened to hear of the loss of another young soldier, a hero. May God comfort and embrace you during your time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Uncle & Aunt of Lance Cpl James R. Davenport KIA 11/22/06

Gary Allain

February 12, 2007

you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

SHIRLEY DONEY

February 11, 2007

GOD BLESS YOU MY FRIEND YOU HAVE EARNED YOUR WINGS IN HEAVEN, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS HOLD CLOSE ALL THE MEMORIES MAY THEY BRING YOU COMFORT

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