Kristopher A. Higdon Obituary

I went to school and was in the band at Hood and at Permian with Kris. I also briefly worked with his Dad, Danny, at Broncho Chevrolet.

I wasn't super close with Kris, but we did hang out several times. He had a warm smile and always seemed to have a great attitude.

One memory I have of him is going to the mall parking lot on a snow day and doing donuts in his Blazer.

He's been gone a long time but I still find myself thinking about him sometimes, and the tragic loss of his (and many others) life. I hope that time has helped to heal the pain of his family as much as is possible. I'm sure it never fully goes away. My heart aches for his mother and his children that never got the pleasure to know him.

One of my favorite songs is "Dress Blues" by Jason Isbell, and I can't help but think of Kris. RIP SSgt. Higdon.

Not sure if this will be seen by the Higdon Family but if you do To Ronda and Danny
Your son was very playful and always joke about everything but when it came to business he took care of it.. we had a bond because I was from Dallas and him being from Odessa..
We figured Texas should sit together..
He used to talk football with me a lot Adrian Peterson was one of his Favorite players..
Higdon let me try dipping for the first time.. I was sick for hours! He dipped a lot on the striker. He used to wear those dark shades during combat.. May 22,2007 was a dark day,
Before I blacked out I remember Higdon shooting that 50 cal. All over the place as if he was protecting us! With his Precise shooting he help myself and others make it home!
Never got to tell you Thank you Brother!
Thank you Sgt. Higdon without your courage many of us would not be here!
To his wife and kids, your husband your dad was brave as it comes.. I remember him smiling all the time! He was a Soldier and Warrior! To his Family My condolences.
Long Live Sgt. HIGDON !

I am a soldier, I am a man
I wonder how long I can truly stand
I say, Yes sir! when I disagree
I dream that my family will stay free
I try not to worry because I know I can
I am a soldier, I am a man

I am a soldier, I am a man
I wish I wasnt where I am
I fight on even though its hard
I fight on even when I have been jarred
I have to stay calm out in the sand
I am a soldier, I am a man

I am a soldier, I am a man
I touch your letter with my hand
I miss those lost, many were my friend
I want this war to be over and just end
I hope my daughter remembers her dad
I am a soldier, I am a man

I wouldnt be who I am if you hadnt been who you were. My heart still hurts as bad as the day they told me you were gone. I just hope you knew how much I looked up to you.

I have your baby girl for the summer! It is such a blessing to seee you through her eyes! I wished you could be here to see her grow up! I miss you so! Love and hugs in Heaven,handsome! Xoxo love you, mom

Miss you more than ever, Kacie is growing up so fast. It makes me both happy and sad that she is you made over. Nanee couldnt wait to see you, pappy and Dad-dad....I hope they have scrabbel in heaven... I love you, Aunt Naynay

Its been 5 long years! Hugs and kisses to you in Heaven handsome! Love you and miss you! Mom

Missing you very much!My heart hurts so much! Wished i could dream of you! Picking up kk and going to Uncle Dales for Memorial weekend! Love you, handsome!

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Kristopher A. Higdon:
Always remembering Kristopher. "Some gave all."

I miss you so, handsome! This will be 5 years without having your hugs and missing our talks together! I guess you know that Britt got another promotion!Also going to get your baby girl. Im giving you a BIG Hug and kiss! Love you so much! Mom

How can it be that I have a cake and not you? I miss you so much, I hope you are enjoying heaven today. I saw little boys playing soccer on the way home, I hope you have soccer there...Life is not the same without you. Miss you, love you and your friends left foot, right foot. Aunt NayNay.

My handsome son! I have so many wonderful memories! You were born at 4:07 am! What a blessing you have been to me... I miss you so! I miss your hugs and your smile! I miss being able to call you and hear your voice! My heart aches so much.I wish you a Happy 30th Birthday, handsome! I know you will have a Happy one in Heaven! I love you more than you will ever know! xoxo Love you mom

My beautiful handsome son! My heart still hurts ! I cry for you yet You are still gone! I miss you everyday! I long for your smile and your hugs! I love you so much! Hugs and kisses, my handsome son! Til we meet again! Mom

Fondly remembering you Kris. Thank you for all you did for our country and for our freedoms! Now you are in God's care to watch over your family, friends and your country! Miss you!

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Kristopher A. Higdon:
Please accept my remembrance of Kristopher on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

We miss you everyday! Please watch over all the babies of our family!

Made it through your 29th birthday! Spending time with Kacie and seeing you through her eyes! I still miss you and my heart always hurts! I love you,handsome! I can't wait to see you again!xoxo Mom

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Kristopher A. Higdon:
Remembering Kristopher on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

We are coming up on the 3rd anniversary and my heart still hurts! I love you and miss you so much! I love you, handsome! Hugs and kisses to you in Heaven! Mom

I was Kris's 4th grade teacher and I just found out tonight from his classmate Daniel Agnew. What a sweet little boy and what a brave young man. Sending my love to Ronda and family and sending my prayers. He will be forever missed.

i went to permian high with kris and remember him being in jrotc and band. he was always in a good mood and very smart. im dearly sorry to hear about his misfortune and would like to wish his family my deepest condolences.

Friday was the 2 year mark and yet my heart still hurts! I miss your smile, your laugh and your hugs! I miss talking to you on the phone! I love you more than life itself! I long for the moment that I can hold you in my arms again! My tears will forever flow! I love you, handsome! Mom

Another anniversary Kristopher. The tears have not stopped nor the heartache diminished. It seems as if you should be coming home to us on leave and yet we realize God called you for the last leave you will need. We miss your presence, your cousins have lost a large piece of the chain that ties them together and the absence is obvious to your aunts and uncles. Life has gone on but it will never be the same without you, your silly grin and infectious laugh. I miss you so much. Aunt NaNa

To the family of Staff Sgt. Kristopher A. Higdon:
Kristopher gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

What an AWESOME painting. Thank you for sharing it with me. You and Kris are in my thoughts daily and I pray for your peace. I know SO how you are feeling. I love you.

Rhonda,

Thanks for forewarding me this that painting is beautiful, I am in the process of moving to the east coast for work. I'll try and be a little more in touch so sorry about not being in touch more.

Kris, your painting was beautiful! You are truly missed!
~ Carrie McCarty

Thank you Ronda for showing me the beautiful portrait that Phil Taylor painted. I am so grateful for the organization that is doing this for the families of our fallen soldiers. It must have been amazing to see it for the first time, not only did Mr. Taylor paint an accurate resemblence; but he captured the very essence and spirit of Kris' love and life. This is a most special gift; I hope there is one for Kacie as well. My continued love and prayers for your family.

I found a note from your cousin on here today. I am saddened by the way time has a way of going on without you in my life! I am going to see Kacie in 2 weeks and can't wait. I always see your smile and personality coming through that precious little one. I deeply continue to miss you though. My tears will forever flow and my heart will always continue to be broken until I see you again,my sweet angel! I miss you so much,handsome! Sweet dreams. With much love,Mom

Kris, it's incredible that losing your presence in our lives can still hurt so much, even now years later. Losing you, though, has reminded us to remember all those who are currently serving and to remember to bless them and serve THEM, as they are blessing and serving us and our families every day. We miss you so much and whoever said, "Time heals" had obviously never thought about what it would be like to lose a daddy, son, nephew, and cousin like you. Strength in your loss hasn't come either... I can barely glance towards a soldier wearing camo in the airport, or meeting a soldier who is on his two weeks leave, before I have to look away for the grief and sadness that overcomes me. We love you and miss you dearly.

We love our Soldiers! We love our country and we cannot express enough love and compassion to the families. War does not discriminate – It breaks my heart to see the faces of the fallen. We want to give this gift to you. We are a 501c3 nonprofit organization! Over 1,300 portraits have been completed and shipped to the parents and or spouse - at no cost as this is a gift from one American to another!
Contact us directly at [email protected] or go to www.heropaintings.com. If you have already had a portrait completed, we pray that you are enjoying the portrait and God Bless You.
Sincerely,
Kenna

Kris
I miss you brother, Ill see you on the other side.

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Higdon!

Kristopher,
My miind and heart are filled with bittersweet memories...I laugh over your pictures of river rafting, your friends-left foot and right foot, and the only love of your life, your monster,Kacie. I cannot fathom making more years of memories without you, yet time continues..tears have not brought you back to us, and sleep has not changed the realities of morning. I will be forever brokenhearted...my love

My precious son, I miss you with every beat of my heart. I love you more than words can say! I keep thinking what if or WHY? I miss your hugs and your smile. I see them in your precious little Kacie. Until I see you again, the pain in my heart will remain. I love you till the end of time. I will always have you on my heart! My tears will never stop. Love you , handsome. Mom

Kris,
It has been a year and we miss you more today than ever. I still can't believe you are gone. We will always love you and our hearts will hurt until the day we see you again in heaven.
I love you kiddo.

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”

I did not know Kristopher, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008

Visit this link to hear the song.

The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom and MIL

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Please contact me and I will email you back a copy of my
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.

Dear Ronda,
The tributes you have written to Kris are moving and the pain of your grief is so evident. While words cannot begin to describe the grief a mother carries with her each day. I know the days somehow become a little harder to bare during the holidays. I hope that you are finding comfort with the support of your family and friends. I know that no words can help to relieve the pain of the loss of your HERO Kris but, I hope in some small way it may help you to know that his brave and selfless sacrifice is and never will be forgotten and neither will your grief. To Kris and his family and to all those who serve and the ones they leave behind, Deepest Gratitude.
Proud Airforce Mom

My deepest sympathy to the Higdon family. My son is also with the 4-2 and served with him at Fort Lewis and in Iraq. May God bless each of you.
Susan Ketterling
Proud Mom of PFC Tabor

My dearest Kristopher. I miss your smile and your words of encouragement.Britt is leaving for Basic Training and we are going through difficult times,still.I wished I could call you and just hear your laugh and hear those wonderful words "Mom I love you". I long for the day to see you again.Until then my heart aches and my tears never stop. I love you with all my heart ! Mom

Through these caring people that have signed Kris' book, I feel I have gotten to know the son you miss so dearly. I'm so sorry for your heartache that reminds you each day of the pain of losing him. What a beautiful young man, what a man! He will always be etched in my mind. Love to your family, Beth

There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.

Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.

I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.

REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!

PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Higdon and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your loved one and our deepest gratitude for the sacrifice both your family and he made in service to this country. May God bless each family member and friend with peace and comfort. May you feel held in
the prayers of a grateful nation.

In loving memory of our nephew
US Army Spec Philip "Cody" Ford
C Co 3rd/509th Fort Richardson Ak.
KIA Baghdad Iraq 12/10/2006

USN/AME1 (SEL) Ron Baker & family

Kristopher, You are the joy of my life! I hate getting out of bed in the mornings because I have to come back to reality in knowing you are not here with me an Kacie!I miss you so much and love you more than you will ever know. I can't wait to see you again and see your beautiful smile. You would be so proud of your baby girl,"Little Monster". Hugs and Kisses,handsome! Love you! Mom

We sure do miss you kiddo. It has been two months now that you have been gone and I wish more than anything that we could see you again. We all miss you more than you could know. I love you so much. You will be in my heart forever.

I served with Kris at Bragg. There were times when his very quirky sense of humor would throw you for a loop. But he was still respected by those around him. Please take comfort in knowing you will see him again.

Higdon, thanks for walking the line sir. I know your family misses you, but rest assured that you will meet them again at the gates you are now guarding. We'll see you up there. --- H-Minus.

The Higdon family,
I want to thank you for allowing Kris to be a part of my life. I had the honor and privilege to serve with this wonderful man who will be greatly missed.

To you Kris,
Although you have passed, your memories will live forever. You're a True American Hero. If God would let me I would gladly take your place so you could return to your family. Thank you for protecting me and my family and defending this country. You will always be remembered. ALL THE WAY BROTHER, AIRBORNE!!

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS. I HAVE JUST LEARNED OF YOUR GREAT LOSS AND WISH TO EXPRESS MY DEEPEST SYMPATHIES. PLEASE KNOW THAT THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO DO CARE AND YOUR HERO WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. HOLD TIGHT TO YOUR TREASURED MEMORIES THAT HIS SPECIAL SMILE MAY CONTINUE TO SHINE. I PRAY THAT PEACE WILL FIND YOU ALL SOMEDAY. GODSPEED AND SEMPER FI.

A PROUD MARINE MOM

Kristopher, The big brother I never had, but always did. We talked more than ever in the past couple of years about our plans for life and how the years to come would be spent together as brothers and best friends. I cry just seeing our favorite shows on t.v., because, they seem to be a constant reminder of how much we communicated and how much we shared. My life will never be the same, as my views on everything seem to have changed. You encouraged me, without saying a word, to join the military yet today I am wondering why you were there and why was I not able to help you or prevent what happened. I know I am supposed to be sure of the future for all of us, but my life will not be the same without my boy there. I love you bro, and I can't express with any word how much I long to hear from you again. I eagerly await the day that we will be reunited. love to my brother, chase

“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers

Soldiers write history…they pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still

We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever

Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away

Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go

We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light

Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray

Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound

Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go

Ronda,Danny and Families,

Words can never express my heartfelt sympathy to each of you for the loss of Kris. Ronda, you and I have been friends since we were 16 years old and it seems like yesterday we were raising our boys together! I truly cherish our friendship! I hope you will always know that I am here for you no matter what the reason. You need me, you call me. I will quote from Beta Sigma Phi sorority: "May the Lord watch between me and thee while we are absent one from the other." This is not only for you and I, but for you and Kris as well. I previously mentioned to you; God needed Kris in his "Army of Angels" in heaven rather than in his Army here on earth. We may never understand, but it is not for us to question. You are in my heart and on my mind continually. May God comfort and sustain each of you and your families "always" and "in all ways!" I Love You! Sheila

I've been friends of Danny and Rhonda Higdon for years. I've also know Kris since he was a little boy. I'm honored to have watched him grow to become a strong and wonderful man. He'll be missed. I offer my prayers and sympathy to all the family and friends. God speed Staff Sgt. Higdon.

kris you were a great frind and will be missed very much

My sweet Kris, I have kissed and patched little boy boo-boos for you and your brothers for as long as you have been on this earth. It hurts my heart to know that I will no longer be able to see you and was not able to "fix it" this time. Your family now has a hole in each of their hearts that medicine cannot repair...God keep you in our heavenly home until we are all together again..I love you baby!

Ronda, I do remember you at the cemetary on Saturday, June 9th the day that I buried my son 1st LT Kile Grant West. I am so sorry for you loss and mine and I know exactly how you are feeling. Please know that I will visit your son every time that I go out to visit my son and I will leave them both fresh flowers. I have updated Kile's guest book with a photo so that you can see who he is. Please take care of yourself and your family, you will be in my prayers along with my son Kile.

I WAS IN JROTC WITH KRIS ALL THROUGH HIGH SCHOOL. HE WAS A JOY TO HAVE AROUND. HE WILL BE MISSED. I SEND MY CONDOLENCES TO HIS FAMILY. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE THE PAIN THEY ARE DEALING WITH AT THIS TIME. I AM CURRENTLY IN IRAQ AND GOT NEWS FROM HOME. MY HEART SANK AND I JUST FELL IN TO TEARS. GOD BLESSED US WITH KRIS, AND NOW HE WELCOMES HIM IN HIS HOME.

Kris,
You were my friend and playmate growing up. My cousin, yet more of a brother. I can't imagine my life now without you here, and my heart hurts in a way I have never known before. My only comfort is knowing that I will see you again one day. I imagine you walking those streets of gold, praising God and fishing with DadDad. Until I see you again, I hope you know how much I love you kiddo, and always will. Thank you for being our hero.

Losing Kristopher has deeply impacted my very soul. He lived within me and now part of me is missing. My love for him goes on, my selfish nature of having him on this earth hasn't let go yet. I know in time we will all learn to live without him. Words can't describe the sense of loss. And to know so many others are experiencing this along with all those before us in whatever war that was occurring.

It is unfortunate that war exists, our God created us in a form where we can't live in harmony. As long as evil exists war will be necessary. My condolences go to our family, we will recover, we won't forget! My condolences go to all the other families, so many fine dedicated soldiers have preceeded Kristopher, and unfortunately so many will follow.

In closing, my heart is broken, my soul is healing, my God is holding our hands, I pray for peace, I pray I carry a humble heart and I pray for the soldiers and their families. My tears will dry but my love will continue forever.

My most sincere condolences to the family of SSGT Higdon. May you find what comfort you can in your many wonderful memories and in your family and friends.
Thank you, Kristopher, for your ultimate sacrifice. You will not be forgotten.

I am Kris' mother and I can't tell you how much I will miss my precious son! He has always been such a joy to me! I have had so many memories going through my head these last 2 weeks! I feel like my heart will break!I hope no other mother has to go through this pain that I am feeling right now. Sincerely,Ronda Higdon

My heartfelt sympathy to the Higdon family in the loss of Kristopher. I did not know Kristopher, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Kristopher you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

I am Kris's Dad. Thanks to my son for what he did for our Country. WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM AND HIS COURAGE TO THE DAY I DIE. Thank you everyone for remebering my son and hope you never have to go through what we have. Love DAD (Danny Higdon)

We will never forget.
God Bless.

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

My heartfelt sympathies to your family. My heart breaks with each new name added to this list, and I am saddened by your loss. Know that you are surrounded by prayers, grace and the deep gratitude of all who live in freedom. My God hold you in his arms and grant you peace. Please find joy in the memories of your loved one and comfort knowing so many are holding you in their hearts.

Know in your heart that Kris is a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace Kris. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.

To Kris' family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.

REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU

Please accept my deepest sympathy for the loss of your Hero, and my sincerest gratitude for his service. The great state of Texas mourns for the loss of another of its sons. May God grant you peace and strength.

The Land of the Free, Because of the Brave

In memory of my nephew, PFC Chase Edwards, USMC
KIA 06Apr2006

Makayne, my deepest condolences for your loss. Kris was my Team Leader at Ft. Bragg for quite some time. He was a great guy, and an excellent soldier. Laid back in demeanor, and serious when the time was appropriate. Easy to talk to, and a good friend. We will all miss him.

Kacie and Hunter, your father was good man, and loved you very much. He used to talk about you at work all the time, and was always flashing around pictures of you. You should be proud that he was your father, and though you are young now, may you always remember him and how much he meant to you.

Kris, we're going to miss you man. Thanks for everything, Brother.

All The Way, my friend.

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

God bless the family and friends of Kristopher.
You will all be in our prayers.
Thank you Kristopher for being such a brave hero.

(In remembrance of Cpl. Joey Cantrell 4-4-07)

As the mother of a son (my only child) who is enlisted in the Army, I want to send my condolences.

Please accept my Deepest and most heartfelt sympathy regarding the loss of Staff Sgt. Kristopher A. Higdon.
The price this Brave Young Soldier and his family have paid for this country and for freedom, Will Never Be Forgotten.
There is so much thanks to be given, to these young heroes, for their Courage, Dedication and Service.

May Kristopher rest safely in God's Care and may God's Loving Grace Bless the Higdon family.
I am the sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago.

"Wait on the Lord, be of good courage and He shall strengthen your heart" ~ Psalm 27:14 ~

May the Peace of God and your precious memories of Kristopher, remain in your heart always. May this give you comfort and strength through the difficult days ahead.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I am a mother of another fallen hero. My son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III was KIA 11-12-2006 in Samarra, Iraq. I know the pain you must be feeling right now and will feel forever. May God's healing love and comfort be yours for all the family. While I don't know the name of this soldier I want to offer you my support. Please call on me at any time as together we can find comfort and support. Debbi

you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.