Staff Sgt. Jesse Clowers

Staff Sgt. Jesse Clowers

Jesse Clowers Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 14, 2007.

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February 16, 2018

Charlie Gili posted to the memorial.

June 10, 2015

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August 11, 2014

Doug Berlin posted to the memorial.

Charlie Gili

February 16, 2018

Hello,
We would like to express our deepest condolences and also let the Clowers Family know that we have made a small donation to The St. Jude's Children's Research Hospital to honor and remember Jesse G. Clowers Jr. US Army Staff Sergeant. We recognize that this is a humble tribute, but we wanted you to know that it is heartfelt and made possible by thousands of like-minded individuals across the American youth hockey community and beyond. We will not forget. May God Bless you and keep you safe and strong.

Sincerely,
Charlie Gili & Family
On Behalf of the US Hockey Players Support Our Troops Campaign

June 10, 2015

I'm sending my condolences to the Clowers family, sorry for your loss. Please find comfort in Gods word. John 24:15

Doug Berlin

August 11, 2014

Your Gold's Gym friends have not forgotten your heroism and bravery. Thank you for your selfless service to this great country and for making the ultimate sacrifice in her name. God bless you, Jesse, and my you be resting in peace...

Peggy Childers

August 12, 2013

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jesse Clowers:
Always remembering Jesse. "Some gave all."

August 7, 2012

Approaching the 5th anniversary, please be aware Jesse is still thought of honored and remembered. Remembering his family also who meant everything to him.

Peggy Childers

August 12, 2011

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt. Jesse Clowers:
Please accept my remembrance of Jesse on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.

Doug Berlin

August 7, 2011

We remember you, Jesse, and the hero you are. God bless your family.

Peggy Childers

August 12, 2010

To the family and friends of Staff Sgt Jesse Clowers:
Remembering Jesse on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Julie Kettle

August 11, 2010

I know this is a hard month and I just wanted to let the family know that you remain in my thoughts and prayers. Especially Jesse's parents, wife Kaytie and their precious children.

Proud Wife to SFC Clayton P. Kettle (ret.)

Proud Sister-In-Law to SFC Jeffrey D. Kettle (KIA Afghanistan - 12 Aug 2007)

donna weeks

March 30, 2010

May God and memories bring you peace and comfort in time of loss.

Justin Zelasko

November 26, 2009

From your VT Cheerleading friend:
Just wanted to wish you and your family a Happy Thanksgiving. I know you are up there in heaven looking down over all of us on this special day.
I was sitting here remembering the first time we met and how we were both big and bad and thought we could just toss those light weight girls in the air with one arm. Came down to technique in the end and we learned that real fast.
Happy Thanksgiving Man.

Sean Marsh

August 30, 2009

Jessie and I began our Army careers together, he was truly a special and honorable man that was a pleasure to be around. Despite his successes in uniform he always held his wife and family as the most important thing in his world. It is with a heavy heart for your, and the nation's, loss tempered with my fond memories that I wish you all the very best.
My deepest condolences,
Sean Marsh

Peggy Childers

August 12, 2009

To the family of Staff Sgt. Jesse Clowers:
Jesse gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org

Nikki Clowers

August 6, 2009

Hello, my name is Nikki Clowers, but i'm not the sister of Jesse. I am from Viginia, and I found you website through an online search, but i came across this instead. I am greatly sorry about your lose, and I am also praying for you and you family. I know it's hard to lose a love one, but I also know that God works in mysterious ways. He will not bring you to something that he doesn't believe that you can't get through. just keep your faith strong. I would like to talk to you all, we may actually be kin in someway. i'm going to leave my email address, and if you would like to email me, you can. Have a blessed day.

email.: [email protected]

Kevin Chase

July 28, 2009

I wish to extend my heartfelt support for your loss Miss Clowers. I was with Jesse in SFAS when we were selected and I was with him during the portion of the process known as team events. We would on occasion bump into each other while doing training in various portions of the Q course.

Jesse was a tough guy that showed a good character. I learned of his death when I was in Iraq as I was preparing to leave country. I never extended my condolences untill now, but know that he still has brothers that think well of and honor the commitment he offered our country.

kaytie clowes

July 7, 2009

hi my name is kaytie clowers i'm jesses wife and i'm proud to say that he is still my hero.its been close to 2 years that he has been killed but it feels like yesterday that i got the news. i will always miss and love him with all my heart and soul. thank you everyone for your kind words.

John Fisher

March 1, 2009

I first learned of Jesse's death while I was in Afghanistan. I couldn't believe my eyes when I read the article. I thought to myself "No. Not Clowers. There's no way". I knew Jesse from Basic Training. He was a good friend & an even better leader. I will always miss him & I will never forget him. My thoughts & prayers are with his family.

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December 15, 2008

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Jorge Leon

October 10, 2008

Brother we will never forget you, I miss having you in the shop. I still remember the few times we both brought our kids to the shop and they played together all day long.Its not the same without you, I'll see you again one day in heaven.

Michael Auzenne

September 3, 2008

I have no clue how I happened upon this guest book but upon reading the name at the top of the page my heart almost stopped and immediately sank. I first met Jesse at basic training in Fort Benning, GA. We hit it off from day one and chose to be battle buddies. We had so much in common...both in our late 20's unlike the other younger guys, both having bachelor degrees, both being married, and both wanting so badly to be Special Forces. Jesse was a born leader and anybody that spent time with him could see it within seconds. I'm sure that's why the drill sergeants made him platoon guide. Jesse was like E.F. Hutton...when he spoke people listened, including drill sergeants which was odd. I remember Jesse telling us that he was a cheerleader in college. The drill sergeant didn't mess with him too much about that probably because he could bench press the drill sergeant. Being battle buddies we had to go everywhere and do everything together. So naturally we cried together quite a few nights while at Sand Hill especially when he phoned Kaytie and learned that she was pregnant. He was so happy and missed her so much. And after talking to my wife all we could do is try to persuade each other that everything would be okay. Wow! That seems like just yesterday. The last time I talked to Jesse he had just finished SERE and was on his way to Language Training. He was so happy to be almost finished with the Q-Course and earning the coveted Green Beret. You couldn't help but be happy for him. I can't remember a single person that didn't like him. But aren't those the individuals that God calls up far too soon. To Jesse's family and wife, I know you don't know me but he talked so much about you guys I feel like I know you all. Kaytie take care of that little fella and I hope he grows up to be just like his dad and touch as many lives as he has touched mine.

Brandi (Rutherford) Beavers

September 1, 2008

Jesse and I attended middle school and high school together and we were in several classes together. We were never the closest of friends but he was very friendly and nice to everyone so it was impossible not to know him. When I read that he had been killed, I was pregnant with my first child and my husband, also a soldier, was training at Camp Shelby, MS to leave for Iraq so the story touched me in a very personal way. I was very sad to read of his death and my heart goes out to his family.

Peggy brown

August 12, 2008

Hello: I did not get the privledge to know jesse clowers, He is a very courageousyoung man. My prayers and blessings for the family of this young soldier who gave his life for all of us American's . May God bless you all through your greiving and for peace in your hearts to substain you during this time of breavement.
A friend in Christ, Peggy Brown and Family

Sommer Cobb

August 12, 2008

I had the honor of going to school with Jesse. He was always so nice and never treated anyone differently. I have kept up with the stories about him, and I must say he was a very brave soul who knew that this world needed him! I hate to hear how he left this world, but because of his bravery, we get to live free. I know I speak for others when I say he is truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family!

In Memory of Jesse ~ (Debra Estep)

August 12, 2008

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.


The Wind on The Downs

“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”

(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )

Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….

“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”


I did not know Jesse, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

The Other Side

i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.

can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.

i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side

the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.

i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.

Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)

“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008


The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol



Sincerely,

Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB

Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55

Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b

July 2, 2008

You are remembered and respected. Thank you Staff Sgt Clowers!

Josh Potter

December 20, 2007

To Jesse's friends and family I am sorry for your loss. I had the honor to know him while attending the Special Forces Qualification Course. We attended several schools together and graduated at the same time. I knew him to be a stand up guy,and always pleasant to talk with. The news of his death has spread through emails and phone calls by many of his classmates. We will all miss him and our prayers go out to you all. Warmest regards, JP

Debbie Elam

November 10, 2007

My name is Debbie Elam and I am the Chairman for the Virginia Memorial Quilt Project. Our Project's Mission is to present the immediate family of each fallen soldier from the State of Virginia with a memorial quilt. Please contact me at the following:
Debbie Elam, Chairman
Virginia Memorial Quilt Project
2621 Linbrook Drive
Richmond, VA 23228
or you can email me at [email protected]. We hope to hear from you soon! God Bless.

Shar (Taliaferro)

October 22, 2007

More than 2 months after I heard the news and I still don't want to believe it. To Jesse's mother and sisters...I have the greatest memories of jr. high and high school. Football games, times at the lake, weekends hanging out in Roanoke.... And years later at Va. Tech, working with Jesse and Bo at Big Al's, hearing his plans for the future. I saw Bo not too long after moving here to Baltimore, and he told me of Jay's birth and Jesse being sent overseas. Kaytie, I wish Jesse and I hadn't lost contact after college because I would have loved to see him so happy with you! I heard through the grapevine how much he loved his bride. This world has lost an incredible man, but the next world is overjoyed to welcome him home. You all have two brave angels watching over you and the kids. Please let me know if there is anything we can do. You're often in our prayers.

Joanne Chubb

September 11, 2007

Today, September 11th, we remember all those who have answered the call in the name of freedom. You are never forgotten. God Bless America!

Maria (Harstine) Beam

September 11, 2007

I was sitting at the park when I read the news. I couldn't help but to be overcome with sorrow. My friend, whom which I copied my homework from, had been taken away. At that moment, I heard a bird and I began to notice the life around. I know that amongst the pain and sorrow, Jesse is with us in every breath, every sound, every moment. I admire his sacrifice - to give his life for the hope and promise of peace. Jesse is an example - give regardless of the return. We cannot thank you enough for your sacrifice. May God bless and watch over your family until you one day, meet again.

September 10, 2007

I did not know Staff Sgt. Clowers, but I do know the pain of losing one of these fine heroes. My nephew was KIA on August 4th. They will live on in our hearts forever. Thank you, his family, for your sacrifice.

Sincerely,
Heidi Perry-Hipp
Proud Aunt
Spc. Matthew M. Murchison
KIA August 4, 2007
Baghdad

debbi rivers

August 27, 2007

To the parents of Jesse, I would like to extend my heart felt sorrow as I know what you are going through and what you will yet go through in the coming weeks. I too am the mother of another fallen soldier and with God's continued support in my life I try to reach out to other who might need the support of someone who has been where you are. I want to offer you the support you may need to contact me anytime so that you may vent, talk or just seek comfort I am here for you. As a Gold Star Mother I've reached out through God's blessings to many across the country and we have a good support group. May God continue to give you and your family the love, comfort and healing that you need. In memory of my son SPC Harry (Buck) Winkler III KIA Samarra, Iraq November 12, 2006

Gary Tucker

August 27, 2007

I knew Jessie senior. He helped get me a job at the phone company, and was once my supervisor. His passing was such a tragedy, as was this fine young man. I'm sure he is so proud of his son. We seem to lose the finest.

August 24, 2007

Thank you for the sacrifice made by Staff Sgt Clowers and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!

SHERRY O'BRIEN

August 24, 2007

GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY AT THIS TIME OF SAD LOSS,I NEVER HAD THE HONOR OF MEETING YOUR SON .I LIVE AT THE END OF MT.CHESTNUT.OUR FAMILY WILL PRAY FOR HEALING

Tom Gugliuzza

August 24, 2007

My heartfelt sympathy to the Clowers family in the loss of Jesse. I did not know Jesse, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Jesse you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom

"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~

Berri Gentry

August 23, 2007

Clowers Family-
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. My fiance Charles Kitowski III was in the truck as well. I know this is a hard time for everyone. Just wanted you to know I'm thinking about his family. If you would like to contact me, that would be ok.

David Layman

August 22, 2007

Nikki, I was saddened to hear the news about your brother. Jesse lived the life of a true role model for others to emulate. He was willing to put himself in harm's way for his family and his country - there can be no greater service. I know this is such a difficult time for you, your mother and sister, and Jesse's wife and children. You are a great American family.

Gary Allain

August 20, 2007

Staff Sgt. Jesse Clowers
you are my hero
may god keep you in his arms forever.

Jacqueline (Bowen) St.Clair

August 20, 2007

To the Clowers Family:
My deepest sympathy goes out to you. I wasn't close to Jesse, but we went to middle and high school together. I am sorry to see his loss. Words cannot express how deeply we appreciate his sacrifice to defend this country. Our prayers will be with his wife, children, and family during this time. May peace and comfort be with you all.

K. Sherer

August 19, 2007

Jesse, Kaytie and I all worked at the gym the summer they met. He was such a genuine person and so easy to talk to. Whenever he saw me on a treadmill he’d stand on the one next to me talking about his family and his future. He loved his dad and always talked highly of him. I felt like I knew his sisters, his mom and his friend Bo before I ever met them.

Jesse found the love of his life when he met Kaytie. Everyone who knew them saw that she felt the same. I remember how happy they were at their wedding and then seeing Kaytie when she was pregnant. She was absolutely glowing as she announced they were having a Jesse Clowers III. “Jay” she said… It was Jesse’s tribute to the father he missed. And now we’re here missing him.

Kaytie my thoughts and support are with you and your kids. The world is a lesser place without Jesse but he’ll always be with you and he’ll always live in them. We'll never forget him.

Much love,

Kristen

Paul and Carol Sheldon

August 19, 2007

To Jesse's wife and his Mom, Please accept our deepest sympathy at your loss of a true hero.
I know your feelings and pain.
The Lord will carry you through this, stay close to him.

Kelly (Harper) Verity

August 18, 2007

You are a true American hero. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

Sarah Velasquez

August 18, 2007

How very heartbroken we are to learn of the loss of Jesse. Rob and I are in shock as we just found out today after being away on vacation with no internet or news so this is very new to us. We really do not know what to say right now except that our thoughts and prayers are with the Clowers family tonight. We first met Jesse when he was a trainer at Gold's Gym in Herndon and he helped whip our bootys into shape for our wedding and that led to meeting Kaytie which led into a great friendship, into neighbors, into being pregnant at the same time, etc. Jesse had to bring Rob up to speed on being a daddy till it was our turn since little Jay was born first and Addy came in August of 2005. Jesse was always a sincere individual who would do anything for anyone. He was the only person we knew that has the same bulldog tattoo as Rob! We are so honored to have Jesse in our lives for the short amount of time we had. He will always be remembered.

Mike and Nancy Shorter

August 18, 2007

Joyce and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you especially tonight. How we wish we could say or do something to ease your pain. What a blessing to have had such a son, husband, father, and brother who brought light and honor to his family. What a gift from God was Jesse G. to all of us.

Nicole Weeks

August 18, 2007

Thank you for your husband's service to our country.

Robert Gladden

August 18, 2007

Joyce and family,

Please accept my heartfelt condolences for your loss. I only met Jesse a few times when he was still quite young, but from what I have heard and read he was a remarkable young man. I hope that the many fond memories you have of Jesse will provide your some measure of comfort during this difficult time.

All good wishes,

Robert Gladden (Fred & Esther's son)

Cindy Tuttle

August 18, 2007

Joyce and Family,

It was a shot through the heart to read about Jesse. I do know that he is now with many who love him....the same ones that came to take him home. Our deepest sympathy and prayers on behalf of my brother, sister, and I. Know that you now have another beautiful Guardian Angel. May God hold you and yours in the palm of His hand.
Much love,
Cindy, Robert(Freddie), & Pam

Cindy Gladden Tuttle
Robert Hannonen-Gladden
Pamela Gladden Steenbuck

Carol Borders Schwartz

August 18, 2007

I was so sorry to read of your loss. Texas Gladden was my great aunt and I have fond memories of her and her children. All though I never had the honor to know any of the next generations, you all are still a part of my family.
I will remember all of you, especially Katie and his children in my thoughts and prayers.

Heart felt symphaty on behalf the Smith family.

Ashlee (Nagle) Carlson

August 18, 2007

Jesse truly was an amazing person. I met Jesse at VT and shared some wonderful memories with him, Bo, Sart, Marks, Jacob, and Alan. Jesse always put others first and went above and beyond to make sure you were happy. His giant grin and huge heart made such an impact on my life. I am honored to share so many memories with him and wish only the best for Kaytie and the kids. Jesse never understood his father's death and maybe we can all be at peace knowing they are finally together again. My heart goes out to everyone...we truly lost one of the great ones.
Love you Big Dog!
Ashlee

Mary [Reed] Weddle

August 17, 2007

Joyce, Our heart is saddened to hear about the loss of your son. We extend our DEEPEST sympathy to you and the CLOWER family. He gave his life being a true HERO, and we THANK YOU for sharing a fine son.Although we haven't heard from you in several years, we will always remember your kind heart toward our sister, Murlene.
May God give you comfort and heal your broken hearts in the coming days.
Love and Prayers,

Sharon and Fred Deichmann

August 17, 2007

Words cannot express the sadness we feel for Jesse's family. We are both honored to have known him. His ultimate sacrifice will not be forgotten. Our thoughts and prayers are with all who have been impacted by this tragic loss.

Rhonada Rusmisel

August 17, 2007

Words cannot express the appreciation that I have for Jesse. He was and will always be one of the most amazing people i have ever encountered. From Cave Spring Jr high days to him making me trip across the drill field at VT every morning on the way to class... his memory will constantly make me smile. God Bless Jesse and his family, always. Thank you.

Chris and Amy Cyrus

August 17, 2007

My wife Amy and I had the great privilege of knowing Jesse at Virginia Tech. We will always remember his constant smiling face and warm heart. We are so proud to have known and shared time with this exceptional man. He is not only an honor to his family and country, but also to all who knew him.

Joe and Yvonne Marks

August 17, 2007

Dear Joyce and all the Clowers & Christley's and to Jesse's wife,

Yvonne and I are so sorry for this tragic, untimely loss of your dear Jesse.

What a great son, husband, brother, grandson, uncle, father, and friend he was to all.

There will be pain forever but may God give you the strength to endure.

Yvonne and I witnessed the happiness and true friendship our son Jason shared with your Jesse along with Bo, Sartain, Joe and a host of others.

We were always proud of that group of boys for hangin' together through H.S. and at VT and for havin' all that good, clean fun together. (at least the parts we ever heard about)

What Jesse did by joining the Special Forces was very courageous and took great conviction and determination on his part. It flat out takes guts to do what he did. We are very sorry he is gone but he will not be forgotten.

May Jesse rest in peace and may those two little kids be loved their entire lives by all the surviving family members.

Floyd Gregory

August 17, 2007

To the entire Clowers Family:
I am sorry to hear about Jesse. For the past 30 min. I have been trying to think of the right things to write. I went to high school with Jesse and I too played on the best JV football team Cave Spring has ever seen. The main thing that made us special and I don’t know if the other guys after all this time realize it but it was our heart. The love that we had for one another and every game we went to battle with each other. I know that’s the type of man Jesse was fighting for our country. I know he loved his fellow man. Jesse, I love you man. “Every where we go, People want to know, who were are, so we tell them, we are the crunch bunch, the mighty, mighty crunch bunch!” God Bless.

Aron Kosowitz

August 17, 2007

Although I had not seen Jesse for several years, he was a great friend of mine at Cave Spring. I will always remember the camping trips we used to take with our friends and four wheeling in his truck!! Most of all, I will remember what a remarkable person he was. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Clowers family. Jesse is truly a hero. He will be missed forever.

Luke Nichols

August 17, 2007

The world has lost one of the greatest men I've ever known. Jesse was an incredible family man, friend, and leader. Growing up and getting to know Jesse was truly a blessing and I'll never forget his enormous heart and big smile. You will forever be remembered Big Dog.

With the utmost love, honor, and respect,

Dan Judge

August 17, 2007

Jesse was truly one of the kindest people I have ever met. He made the ultimate sacrifice for all of us back home. I am sorry for your loss. He will live on through our memories.

Michelle Diomedi

August 17, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss, my heart breaks for you all. My family and I are grateful for the work your husband and son has done for our country. God bless you all. Our prayers are with you all.

Vicki (Coon) Burkert

August 17, 2007

The Christley Family is ever present in the hearts and prayers of the Fisher Family.

Dena Hartman

August 17, 2007

To The Entire Clower Family,

I am sorry for your loss of a great son, brother, husband, father and Solider I always will remember him running around the softball field while we were trying to practice or playing a game if there is anything that I or my family can do please let me know you will be in my thoughts and prayers

The Hartman Family,
Floyd, Kathy, Mike And Dena Hartman

Fabian & Lisa Vazquez

August 17, 2007

FINAL INSPECTION

The Soldier stood and faced God
Which must always come to pass
He hoped his shoes were shining
Just as bright as his brass.

"Step forward you Soldier,
How shall I deal with you?
Have you always turned the other cheek?
To My Church have you been true?"

The Solider squared his shoulders and said
"No, Lord, I guess I ain't
Because those of us who carry guns
Can't always be a saint.

I've had to work on Sundays
And at times my talk was tough,
And sometimes I've been violent,
Because the world is awfully rough.

But, I never took a penny
That wasn't mine to keep.
Though I worked a lot of overtime
When the bills got just to steep,

And I never passed a cry for help
Though at times I shook with fear,
And sometimes, God forgive me,
I've wept unmanly tears.

I know I don't deserve a place
Among the people here.
They never wanted me around
Except to calm their fears.

If you've a place for me here,
Lord, It needn't be so grand,
I never expected or had too much,
But if you don't, I'll understand."

There was silence all around the throne
Where the saints had often trod
As the Soldier waited quietly,
For the judgement of his God.

"Step forward now, you Soldier,
You've borne your burden well.
Walk peacefully on Heaven's streets,
You've done your time in Hell."

David and Amanda Crisafi

August 17, 2007

Jesse was a wonderful person and will always be remembered. Our prayers are with the Clowers Family.

David Crisafi

August 17, 2007

Clowers Family,

I am so sorry for your lose. Jesse was a great man. He was one of those people you loved to be around and was always of a postive mind. When you were around him you instantly wanted strive to be a better person. I have so many memories with Jesse and I know his name will live on with his friends and family. I am honored to call Jesse a friend. The clowers family will be in my prayers.

Joe & Yvonne Marks

August 16, 2007

To Joyce, the Christley’s, Kaytie, and all the good friends of Jesse G.,

I am so sorry for everybody’s loss and for the deep sorrow you feel with the untimely passing of Jesse G., a great young man, a great soldier, and best of all a great son, husband, and father.

To his wife, who I never had the chance to meet, and to his Mother Joyce who I have known for a long time, I pray that you may each find whatever solace can be found to ease your pain in even the tiniest way. May those two little children bring you all unending happiness from this day forward and may they be raised with love in Jesse’s memory.

It is obvious that Jesse G. touched many lives. The words we all share are bittersweet and really help to soothe the pain.

I am proud to have known Jesse G. and Big Jesse too. Big Jesse coached two of my sons in baseball and was always so fair to everybody on the team. I especially liked a line he used when he was teaching kids how to shag fly balls in the outfield. He would say, “You catch the ball with your feet.” I loved that line. If you don’t understand it at first, just think a little bit and realize they’re not always hit right to you. You gotta pay attention, be on your toes, and hustle. And don’t think some of that good advice didn’t rub off on Jesse G. along with the fantastic family values and good upbringin’ that produced so fine a gentleman.

To Bo, … Sart, … Jason, … Joe, … Koz … and any of the other great kids from Cave Spring and VA Tech who ran around together and shared such great fun with Jesse G., I am pleased you all had the chance to enjoy your time together. Cave Spring, Roanoke, and Blacksburg all make up a very special area in which to grow up. And it’s special because of family and friends.

Please stay strong and have faith that all will eventually work out for the best.

Joe Marks

George Hill

August 16, 2007

I have never met a Christley,Clowers or Gladden that I did not like a WHOLE lot on sight.I really liked and admired Jesse,sr.Young Jesse was a blur too me,but I remember him when he was a young boy.Most people don't have a remote clue what it takes to be SF.They are the best of the best.They can do anything but walk on water.When I meet one,I am always impressed.They are all men America can be proud of and grateful to.I am so thankful for men like Jesse.His sacrifice seems so high a price to pay.I pray that someday,more of us will understand why.I have four sons who have served in uniform,two in Iraq and the same two,my
"baby"twins are going back in two weeks for tour two,so THIS subject hits me so hard.I am sure that there is a just and loving God that has facilitated the reunion of father and son.I even bet Grandpa's pal,ol' Roy has had a word with him.

Ken Sullivan

August 16, 2007

Nan and I were saddened by the news of Jesse's much too premature passing. Our hearts go out to Katie and all the Clower family members. We have fond memories of the joy and happiness on Jesse's and Katie's faces during their wedding and wedding reception. Unfortunately, the price of freedom, which Jesse willingly defended, is not cheap. We are heartened by the knowledge that he's in a better place.

Scott Marler

August 16, 2007

To the Clower family,
I learned of your loss purely by chance. I did not know Jesse, nor anyone else in your family. I am however, a veteran of the U.S. ARMY. I am saddened by all the losses of our soldiers, and sometimes angered, because I know that so many of them are such good kids. After reading the entries in this guest book it is profoundly clear that Jesse was an extraordinarily good kid. I know how proud you must be of him. I can't begin to know your pain. I am so sorry for your loss.

Mike Saunders

August 16, 2007

Although I did not know Jesse - I do remember him as a little boy. My brothers, sister, and I would play with his cousins around apple butter time at his grandparents place near their home. I was saddened to hear of his death. Our community and country has lost one of it's best and brightest. It is through his selfless service and those like him that we enjoy our way of life today. May God comfort and bless those closest to him. He will not be forgotten.

Leila (Kessler) Quinlan

August 16, 2007

My heart absolutely broke when I heard about Jesse's death. I was friends with him in high school and have great memories of him and the rest of the boys. The last time I saw him was at Monica and Jeremy's wedding. I will always remember his smile and bear hugs. My thoughts and prayers go out to his family and his friends. Jesse, you will be greatly missed, but never ever forgotten!

Debbie Gladden

August 16, 2007

Dear Joyce and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. It is so very hard to lose someone you love so much. Kristi and Nikki losing a brother is one of the worst losses that you will experience in your life. It was for me. Knowing that he is with your Dad and your Heavenly Father will bring you peace. Rely on your Savior for strength and he will bear you up. Joyce there are not enough words express my sorrow for your loss. Just remember that you will be with Jesse and Jesse G again. You are an eternal family. We love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love,
Alice, Debbie and Carrie

A. Flores-Causor

August 16, 2007

May God give you the peace he gave us when Spec. Roberto Causor was killed on July 7,2007 in Samarra, Iraq. These soldiers are true heroes who'se sacrifice will never be forgotten.

Brent Bowles

August 16, 2007

The Clowers Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. I knew Jesse as a guy who would do anything for anyone.He will be greatly missed, And to Jesses' wife all of his friends are here for you. Love Brent and Crystal Bowles

Debbie Elam

August 16, 2007

My name is Debbie Elam and I am the Chairman of the Virginia Memorial Quilt Project. Our Project's Mission is to present the immediate family of each fallen soldier from the State of Virginia in the Iraqi War with a numbered memorial quilt. Please contact me at
Debbie Elam, Chairman
Virginia Memorial Quilt Project
2621 Linbrook Drive
Richmond, VA 23228
phone 804-379-3817
www.vmqp.com
or you can email me at [email protected]. We hope to hear from you soon. God Bless your family and friends.
Debbie Elam (Richmond, VA)

Maury Daniels

August 16, 2007

To The Clowers:
I did not know Jesse well, but I knew him since elementary school. He was a kind soul and will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dana Dennis

August 16, 2007

I went to high school with Jesse and although we were not really good friends we did have a few classes together. He always had a great sense of humor and really made boring classes much more fun. My thoughts and prayers go out to his wife, children, and his entire family. Jesse, thank you for your bravery and service to this country. We all, as Americans should be glad we had this young man fighting for our country. God Bless...

Ashley Puig Herz

August 16, 2007

Hello from Ithaca, NY to the Clowers family. I am so sorry to write under these circumstances. I knew Jesse nearly my whole life - I went to school with him all the way through elementary, junior high, and high school, and even went to Virginia Tech, although we didn't keep in touch there. I was terribly sorry to hear about his death and my thoughts and prayers are with you. I know the loss will never fully go away.

Mary-Page Turner

August 16, 2007

Our deepest sympathies to the entire Christley/Clowers family. Jesse G. will be missed greatly.

Our hearts and prayers go out to all who had the pleasure of knowing Jesse G.

Mary-Page & Zephren Turner

Peggy Blankenship

August 16, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

P. Wakeman

August 16, 2007

May God bless your family and give you solace. My family owes Staff Sgt. Clowers a huge debt of gratitude, and to you as well. With deepest respect and sincere sympathy,
The proud aunt of Sgt. Dustin Wakeman, kia 8/4/07, Iraq.

Butch & Lee Holland

August 16, 2007

All sacrifice some...Some sacrifice all.

As a fellow veteran, let me first thank Jess for his service & his ultimate sacrifice to this wonderful nation. Secondly, we thank his family for supporting his decision to engage in one of the most honorable things one can do for his beloved country.

We didn't know Jess personally but I worked with his father for years at Bell Atlantic. I always admired Jess, Sr. and based on what I have read here, lil Jess was just like his Dad in so many ways.

We are left with such inadequate words to express our sorrow for your loss. But always remember there is a loving and merciful God who will provide your every need to get you through this. You are all in our thoughts and prayers and we pray that God will mend your broken hearts and may your loving memories sustain you in the coming days.

A SIMPLE THANK YOU

A simple thank you is all it takes,
to bring a smile to a veteran's face.
They have been to hell for me and you,
some are still there, what can we do?
A shake of their hand is a very small price,
as you say, "Thank you so much for your sacrifice."
Give them your heart for just a moment or two,
as they step back and take a good look at you.
As their surprise fades away and they start to speak,
you may feel your knees go a little weak.
"I was on the Astoria when she went down...
five hours in water with sharks all around."
"I was on a ship used as a shill...
while our battleship fired o're us at the Korean's hill."
"In Vietnam death was everywhere...
when new guys arrived, I tried not to care.
The worst was friends killed, an arm's length away,
there was nothing I could do, it was their last day."
"Desert Storm was the war we fought on TV,
The Star Spangled Banner gained new meaning for me.
The desert, dehydration, the tension, and heat,
the Iraqis thought we'd be easy to beat.
The world woke up to our military might,
when we showed them all, we knew how to fight."
One nation, under God, indivisible we stand,
for liberty and justice throughout any land.
So when you have the chance to show you care,
shake a hand and say "Thank You for going over there".


In Christian love,

Chuck Fetter

August 16, 2007

I saw Jesse just 5 weeks ago, as I was leaving Afghanistan. He spotted me over 100 meters away - after not seeing each other for 2 years, we had a lot of catching up to do. He was not the same guy I knew at Virginia Tech. He was of course kind-hearted & good-natured, but now he was a man with a wife, son & newborn daughter he could only show me a picture of. He was more proud of his wife & children than anybody I had ever met.

I told him that I respected him for enlisting in the Army and volunteering for SF - that speaks only for a fraction of the man Jesse was.

Jesse is a true hero and I can only strive to be half the man he was.

My thoughts & prayers are with the Clowers family.

August 16, 2007

To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA

Joanne Chubb

August 16, 2007

Our hearts are heavy as we mourn your death. We honor your commitment to freedom and your sacrifice for us all. We know you served with the best of the best. May God Bless you always and all who knew and loved you.

We honor your last full measure of devotion. You will never be forgotten.

In the long and honored history of America
There are names that shine like beacons in the night
The Patriots whose vision gave us meaning
Who kept the lamp of freedom burning bright

In the long and honored history of America
There are those that paid the last and final price
Who were called upon by chance, or desperate circumstance
To make the ultimate sacrifice

A grateful nation bows its head in sorrow
And in thanks for guaranteeing our tomorrow
The last full measure of devotion
That's what they gave to the cause

The last full measure of devotion
And though they cannot hear our applause
We honor them forever and keep alive their story
Pay tribute to their lives and give them all the glory

The last full measure of devotion
Beyond the call of duty were their deeds
The last full measure of devotion
They gave themselves to serve the greater need

And for those who did survive
And came back home alive
They join in praise of comrades who were slain
And highly resolved, most highly resolved
That these dead shall not have died in vain

I am a Proud Military Mom of 3 Men-2 Army, 1 Navy

Linda Morrison

August 16, 2007

To The Family of Jesse Clowers:
May the peace of God be upon you each as you face the days ahead. My deepest condolences and graditude for Jesse's bravery and heroism. He will not be forgotten.Pslam 34 helps.
Sincerly,
Linda J. Morrison
Anchorage, AK

Corey Clayborne

August 16, 2007

You truly will be missed Jesse. We definitely had some good times together on the Varsity cheerleading squad; especially on the away trips. You have passed away with great honor and integrity; serving the United States. We love you for that and most appreciative. I pray your family stays strong through this time of sadness. You will never be forgotten. You have a place in all of our hearts.

Misty (Willmott) Hensley

August 16, 2007

To the Clowers Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. Jesse was truly a wonderful person. He was kind to everyone and one of those people that everyone wanted to be around. I am truly greateful from the bottom of my heart to him and all the other soildiers who fight for everything we have in this country. I hope you find some comfort in knowing how many people he has touched.

Maggie Hamilton

August 16, 2007

I am a wife of a Fort Bragg 7th SFG soldier whose husband is fighting in Afghanistan this very moment. My husband may have known SSG Clowers, but I have never had the privilege of meeting him. May God's peace rest on his loved ones. Thank you, SSG Clowers, for your strength, courage, and bravery! You will never be forgotten!

Jeff & Ginger Henderson

August 16, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Donna (Matheson) Payne

August 16, 2007

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Clowers & Christley families along with anyone else lucky enough to have been touched by Jesse during his short lifetime. I remember as friends with Kristi in school seeing Jesse everytime I came over to her house for sleepovers. Joyce was like a second mom to me for a long time. I really can't even imagine what you all must be going through now. I had not seen Jesse in many, many years but he truly will be missed. Please take comfort in knowing that you have so many family members and friends that are there for you in this very difficult time. Hope to see you all soon!

Taylor (Houk) Daly

August 16, 2007

I met Jesse in 1987 when we were both in second grade at Back Creek Elementary School. We were a very tight-knit class all throughout the years. Like so many others have said, he was a great, great guy and will be sorely missed by so many. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

AJ JAKLITSCH

August 15, 2007

I FIRST MET JESSIE AT MY HOUSE WHEN HE, SART, BO, MARKS AND KOZ CAME OVER. WE HAD MANY GOOD TIMES IN "THE BASEMENT" AND THOSE MEMORIES WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ME. HE WAS ALWAYS NICE AND VERY ENTERTAINING. HE WENT TO COLLEGE AND USED TO INVITE ALL OF US OVER WITH OPEN ARMS TO HAVE A GOOD TIME. WE ALWAYS HAD A PLACE TO CRASH. THAT WAS THE TYPE OF PERSON JESSE WAS. HE WOULD GIVE THE SHIRT OFF OF HIS BACK TO YOU JUST TO SEE YOU HAVE A GOOD TIME. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH THE CLOWERS FAMILY AND HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

Dan Spurlock

August 15, 2007

Greatness is not found in possessions, power, or prestige. It is found in character, goodness, strength, and service. Jesse defined greatness in how he chose to live his life. I will honor your sacrifice by not forgetting. My thoughts are with his wife, children and family.

Kurt Lancaster

August 15, 2007

I grew up with Jesse from kindergarden until we graduated highschool. He was one of the best friends I ever had. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

Jonathan Navarro

August 15, 2007

My heartfelt condolences go out to the Clowers family. I was lucky to have known Staff Sgt. Jesse Clowers and words can't express the sorrow I feel at this loss. Jesse was a wonderful person who was full of life and energy, whom people liked immediately upon meeting him. He always had a smile on his face and never said an unkind word about anyone...he was genuinely a great guy.

Even before he joined the military, you knew that Jesse had a strong sense of pride and great devotion to his country. Like so many others who have made the ultimate sacrifice, Jesse died too young and had so much more to live for.

I'll always have very fond memories of Jesse and he'll forever have a special place in my heart.

Rest in Peace, Jesse. May God bless you and your family.

Nadine Stewart

August 15, 2007

Hello, I am a co worker and friend of Jesse's cousin, Brittany in Idaho. I just wanted to let you all know you are in my prayers. I also wanted to thank you for letting Jesse serve our country thank him for doing that. God bless you all.

Linda Clifton

August 15, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Carol Cline

August 15, 2007

Staff Sgt. Jess Clowers & Family:

Know in your heart that you are a true hero and will never be forgotten. All gave some, some gave all. Rest in peace. You will be missed by everyone’s life you have touched.

To the family, as the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family, friends, and all Americans for the sacrifice of one of your family members for our freedom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in the loving embrace of our Heavenly Father.

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