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Roger Rickert
November 21, 2013
Rest in Peace Hero, our Grateful Nation Salutes You.... Welcome Home
Peggy Childers
November 21, 2011
To the family and friends of Spc. Melvin L. Henley:
Please accept my remembrance of Melvin on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Roger Rckert
August 7, 2011
Rest In Peace Hero, Our Grateful Nation Salutes You. Welcome Home
A Thankful Vietnam Vet
Peggy Childers
November 21, 2010
To the family and friends of Spc. Melvin L. Henley:
Remembering Melvin on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
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August 29, 2010
To the family:
May the comfort from family and friends continue to strengthen you, and may you find comfort in the words found in the Holy Scriptures: "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away."
Kenna Larra
December 6, 2008
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Sincerely,
Kenna
In Memory of Melvin ~ (Debra Estep)
November 21, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Melvin, but I am remembering
his service and sacrifice. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
(To hear the song)
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
Safely Home
Michael Iezzi
November 21, 2008
Melvin,
Thinking and praying for you on the 1st anniversary of your passing into eternal glory. May God hold you in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends", John 15:13.
Peggy Childers
November 21, 2008
To the family of Spc. Melvin L. Henley:
Melvin gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
July 6, 2008
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Spc Henley and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
July 6, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Spc Henley!
Ed Hewitt
April 8, 2008
I just learned about Spc Henley's passing. I was his platoon sergeant ( D Trp, 3-17th CAV) during a majority of our deployment. SPC Henley was a dedicated and professional soldier. He never turned away from any taskings we may have given him, and he served his duties with the utmost professionalism. He was not only a great soldier, but a better friend to those of us who were lucky enough to know him. I am honored to have served with you, Melvin...
Tom Gugliuzza
December 28, 2007
My heartfelt sympathy to the Henley family in the loss of Melvin. I did not know Melvin, but my heart is broken and I am saddened for your loss of such a fine young person and hero. May God bring you peace in your heart as you reflect on all the wonderful memories you hold so close. Please know that you are in my heart and prayers. My heart was touched by the many wonderful/beautiful things written about you. Melvin you are my hero and you will NEVER be forgotten.
I send each of you a hug from the most inner part of my heart.
Love and Peace
Tom
"To live in the hearts
of those you leave behind
is never to die"
~Robert Orr~
Valerie Wyer-Pryear
December 17, 2007
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Chaplain Dan Gates, Georgia Society SAR,
December 14, 2007
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Specialist Henley. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Carlos Tapia
December 11, 2007
I would like to express my sincere condolences on the recent passing of Spc Henley, Melvin. Melvin was a very dedicated soldier, a comment not only by me but also by other members of the unit we used to be in. I was Melvin’s section sergeant during the time he served in D Troop, 3/17 CAV at Fort Drum NY, when we deployed together to Iraq during his first tour of duty. I spent a lot of time in his company over the length of the tour and did come to realize his great kindness and compassion towards those who needed help. And I know he was very highly respected throughout this community and profession, and his good work changed the lives of many. My deepest sympathies to his family may his soul rest in peace.
Very sincerely,
Carlos A. Tapia
LINDA CANO
December 8, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of another fallen hero. May God comfort you in your time of need. I give thanks to men like Melvin, who have the courage and dedication to serve our country. It's an honor to sign his guest book. Thank you, Melvin and may you rest in eternal peace. You will be missed by many.
December 5, 2007
We are sorry for the loss of your loved one.
The family of
SGT. Matthew Hatfield
82 Airborne
Afganistan
STEPHANIE CRAIG
December 1, 2007
MELVIN YOU MADE US PROUD AND YOU WILL BE MISSED. NOW WE CAN FEEL SECURE IN THE FACT THAT YOU WILL CONTINUE YOUR TOUR FROM HEAVEN.
your mother in law
Relenda Lee
November 30, 2007
My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to this family. I pray for the family in this time of grief. Dear fellow military family...we will hold each other through our hard times and keep each other strong. God has led us here and will continue to lead us where we shall go. I knew Melvin and his sister and he will never be forgotten.
Chaplain Dan Gates, Georgia Society SAR
November 30, 2007
With the deepest regret, I have just learned of the death of Specialist Henley. As a Vietnam Veteran and the State Chaplain of the Georgia Society, Sons Of The American Revolution, I speak for our President, Charlie A. Newcomer, III and the more than 1,400 SAR members around the State of Georgia in humbly expressing the condolences of a grateful Society. Wrapped in the integrity of service to our nation and the inestimable values of duty, honor and country, your American hero stood on a wall of freedom for us all. This precious life, lived and lost in love of America, epitomized every attribute of patriotism the Sons Of The American Revolution hold dear. And, as Americans, we could never repay the debt we owe ..!! Nor the debt we owe you… the family of one of America's best ...!!!
Michael Bounds
November 28, 2007
My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of this young American Hero. Thank-you for your service and the ultimate sacrifice for your country. May God Bless you, May His light shine perpetual upon you!
Linda Cano
November 28, 2007
May God's everlasting peace surround another of our fallen heroes. May He comfort you all and give you strength. Melvin's courage, honor and love for his country is an inspiration to all. I am so thankful for him and very proud to be able to thank you for raising such a fine person.
Mark Harris
November 28, 2007
My sincerest condolenses to the family and friends of SPC. Melvin Henley. Thank you, Sir, for your Service to Our Country. Stand Down. We have the watch now. Patriot Guard Rider.
November 28, 2007
To the Family and Friends of this Soldier:
I will stand in grief with this soldier's family to honor him. For every fallen HERO there is a bright star that shines in the evening sky to remind us of the cherished gift we were given – even if for too short a time.
My heart breaks again as I sign yet another guest book of another courageous young soldier who gave their life so selflessly. I wish I never found myself in a position to have to sign another guestbook for the rest of my life, but I promised Brent that neither he nor any like him would be forgotten and so I will continue until the day there is no longer the need.
We lost our son SFC Brent A. Adams on 12/1/05 and it seems like yesterday. I wish so badly there were things I could say to you right now to make the pain you are feeling go away, but I know first hand there simply are no words that will bring you the comfort and peace your heart aches for. Just know that you are not alone. My heart, thoughts, and prayers are with you all as you go through this tragedy moment by moment and as you mourn this loss.
We don't know each other, will probably never meet, but will forever be united in the loss of our Heroes. We have, unfortunately joined a group none of us wanted to join, an ever-growing group of families in this situation. May God grant you peace and strength to get through this and be able once again to smile at a memory rather than have only the tears that flow so easily now. To be so proud of your loved one and so saddened at the same time is a mix of emotions very difficult to deal with as our hearts both burst with pride and pain together.
I am sorry that I never knew your soldier personally. While they can never be replaced, neither will they ever be forgotten. You must trust that sometime, someday the loving memories you have will help to sustain you and help you go on. This courageous soldier will forever be your Angel watching over you all for the rest of your lives. It's what brings me some measure of peace and comfort and I hope it will you as well.
To his family and friends in pain, I offer this comfort: When you find yourself in that dark sorrowful place, think not only of how you will miss him, but instead recall the years, days, hours and minutes gifted to you by his presence. The one thing that cannot be taken from you is your wonderful memories that now will mean more than ever.
If you ever want to talk, I'm only an e:mail away and would love for you to tell me more about your Hero.
God Bless this soldier and family who gave all and God Bless legacy.com for setting up this site where families can so quickly share their condolences and prayers with others like themselves.
Proud Parents of SFC Brent A. Adams, KIA, 12/1/05, Ramadi, Iraq
Pam and Bill Adams, Lancaster, PA
shawnee (Austin, TX)
November 28, 2007
My family and I extend my heartfelt sympathies and sincerest of prayers to the family and friends of Spc. Melvin L. Henley.
Rest in Peace.
.
Kevin Roberts
November 27, 2007
God Bless his family and I feel for their loss. Though I did not know him, he was a hero and a true patriot for serving in the military.
Rest In Peace
November 27, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
I would also like to tell you about a website, http://groups.msn.com/SSPSoldierPor
traits/homepage,
where some wonderful people will make wood portraits of your fallen Hero for free for the immediate family. I became aware of this site when I wanted to do something special for Le Ron’s mother.
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett (Queens, NY)
Jeri Herrera
November 27, 2007
Though I did not know Melvin personally, he will always be a hero to me. Nothing I can say will take away the pain that you feel right now. Please accept my sincerest condolences and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
Sincerely,
Jeri Herrera
Proud sister of SFC Rocky H. Herrera
KIA 8/28/07 Jaji, Afghanistan
Gale Poindexter
November 27, 2007
I am writing to offer my deepest sympathies to you and your family over the loss of your HERO Spc Melvin L Henley. I lost my son in Iraq on May 6/2007, so I can well understand your pain of losing a loved one so dear.
I pray you will be guided by a higher power to give you peace, comfort and strength in this time.
Psalm 34:18
The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit
GOD Bless you and your family. Your soldier was a true American Hero and we are all very proud of his service. He will not be forgotten!
(Proud mother of Sgt Joel W. Lewis, 5/20, 3-2 SBCT /Ft Lewis-KIA 5/ 6/07, Baqubah, Iraq)
Brad Stueber
November 27, 2007
I wish I could have known Spc. Melvin L. Henley. I join with his family and friends to honor him and his sacrifice for freedom and to grieve with them too. My deepest sympathies and most sincerest prayers go out to each of you. Please know that we will continue to pray for you. Melvin is a son to all Americans. We will not forget you, Melvin. Thank you and rest in peace now, son.
Lifting in Iraq
Juan Cossio
November 26, 2007
I used to work with Melvin and eventually became his squad leader while assigned to 3rd Squadron 17th Cavalry in Fort Drum, NY. I have nothing but the fondest memories of him. He was usually a quiet person but once you got on his good side he didn't hesitate to make you laugh with his impersonations. I think this is the one side very few people knew of Melvin. Above all Melvin was an outstanding Soldier and a caring individual that never complained even through hardship.
"Henley, I pray to God that you found the peace you were looking for. Even after all these years I still remember your friendship with warmth. Brother...I am deeply hurt by your loss... I will see you in Flddler's Green someday."
7th grade Louisburg Middle School
November 26, 2007
We care and share your sorrow and pride.
Michael iezzi
November 26, 2007
Father we entrust our brother Melvin to your mercy. You loved him greatly in this life: now that he is freed from all its cares, give him happiness and peace forever. Welcome him now into paradise where there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping or pain, but only peace and joy with Jesus your Son, and the Holy Spirit forever and ever.
May God hold Melvin in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. My deepest sympathy.
Capt Carla Sizer, USAF
November 26, 2007
I can't even find the words...I lost my 19 year old son--5 Sept 2007, Balad, Iraq. I am absolutely devastated and I know that you are too...but find comfort in the fact that we will see our loved ones, our heroes again. Do I wish that I could trade places with my son? ABSOLUTELY not. He is in the arms of our Lord--"And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away" ~Rev 21:4
What a wonderful thought...
May God bless Spc Melvin L. Henley, God bless you and your family and God bless America!
Contact me if you want to talk.
PROUD Mother of
Specialist Dane R. Balcon
KIA, 5 September 2007
Balad, Iraq
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
November 25, 2007
Rest in peace.
Sandy Bonesteel
November 25, 2007
As the mother of a son who is deployed, I want to send my condolences. Please know that there are many, many people who grieve with you.
November 25, 2007
Valorie
November 24, 2007
My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I know how you feel losing a "HERO",Becoming a "Gold Star" Mother myself on 25 March.. The sacrafice our sons and daughters are making on a daily basis should tell us all..These young HEROS knew full well what they were doing and did it proudly When you hug your loved ones tonight.... Remember... We also hugged ours and they were protecting you..We.. as Americans need to make the "Ultimate Sacrafice" by supporting all our military(HEROS)...the Proud Mom of SGT. Jason W. Swiger
5th Squadron, 73rd Cavalry Regiment, 3rd Brigade Combat Team, 82nd Airborne,Fort Bragg, N.C. KIA 3/25/007
November 24, 2007
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that many many people who did not have the honor of meeting him, are feeling the loss as well, in our own way. You are not alone, and he will not be forgotten. Again, I am so sorry.
Rest in peace, Spc Melvin Henley
Debbie , Kenny Coffey
November 24, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers out to the HENLEY family. Knowing now what they have always known is one of many reasons that our HERO[ES] shall NEVER be forgotten, Rest well brother for that star spangled banner shall FOREVER wave,Your name stamped in steel shall be FOREVER clutched in the tallons,as your spirit FOREVER soars high in the skies in the symbol of our great nation. THANK YOU
SHIRLEY DONEY
November 24, 2007
REST IN PEACE SPC. HENLEY, TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS MAY THE MEMORIES OF THIS WONDERFUL SOLDIERS LIFE FILL YOUR HEARTS WITH BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES
GOD BLESS YOU
Garnet Jenkins
November 24, 2007
My Deepest and Most Heartfelt Sympathy goes out to the family of Spc. Melvin L. Henley, with a Multitude of Thanks for this Brave Young Soldier's Courage, Dedication and Service to our Country and for Freedom.
The price Melvin and his family have paid, Will Never Be Forgotten. May he Rest Safely now, in God's Care and may the Peace of God be with the Henley family.
I am the Sister of such a young hero, who made the Ultimate Sacrifice in Vietnam, many years ago
"Surely He hath borne our grief,
and carried our sorrows."
~ Isaiah 53:4 ~
May you find comfort and strength, in the beautiful memories of times spent with Melvin, quietly and gently, may healing come, with each new day.
You are in my thoughts and my prayers.
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