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Richard Terpstra Obituary

Richard R. Terpstra, 56, of Edgebrook Drive in Boylston, passed away Tuesday, August 19, 2008, in UMass Hospital, from complications of a liver transplant. Richard was a fighter, who, with a strong will, led a life full of love, caring, and the instinct to overcome adversity in life and in health. This strong will kept him going and to be an inspiration to the doctors, nurses, and those around him, for the many months he was hospitalized.

Richard was a counselor and night supervisor for many years, at Hope House, where he helped guide many men through their recovery, to become productive with their own lives. He had also worked as a truck driver for Worcester Sand and Gravel, and while in Florida, he worked in the automobile transportation delivery business.

Richard leaves his mother, Margaret "Peggy" (Burke) Trotto, with whom he lived; six sons, Matthew Terpstra and Raymond Terpstra both of Orlando, Ryan Waterman of Amesbury, Richard Madore of Revere, William LaFlash and his wife Beth of Kingston, New Hampshire, and Travis Davis of Worcester; two daughters, Toni Iott and her husband Peter of Sturbridge, and Nicole LaFlash of Hubbardston; six grandchildren; and a nephew, Michael DeFeudis of Tallahassee, Florida. His brother Donald DeFeudis, predeceased him in 2004, as did his father Richard F. Terpstra in 1978, and his step father, Matteo Trotto in 1997.

SERVICES: The funeral for Richard will be held Friday, August 22, from MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation Street, Worcester, with a Mass at 10 a.m. in Saint Anne's Church, 120 Boston Turnpike, Shrewsbury. Interment will follow in Saint John's Cemetery. Calling hours will be held Thursday, August 21, from 5 p.m. until 7 p.m. in the funeral home.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Liver Transplant Team at UMass, in care of the Foundation, One Biotech, 365 Plantation Street, Worcester, MA 01655 or the charity of donor's choice.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Aug. 20 to Aug. 21, 2008.

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Lynda

August 14, 2023

my thoughts and prayers with you and Toni on the anniversary of 15 years since the passing of Ricky Terpstra

Jackie Breault

September 19, 2008

Peggy,
We were away when Ricky passed away, I just now heard about his passing. He and Michael are together, healthy and carefree. My sympathies to you.
Jackie Breault

lynda

August 23, 2008

R.I.P.

Ken Bergeron

August 21, 2008

Although years have gone by since I last saw Ricki, the memories of our childhood are forever. We were good friends and fierce competitors. As his obit stated, "He was a fighter!" My sympathies go out to his family.

Beverley Clason

August 21, 2008

Dear Peggy, Rick and Toni, My deepest sympathy to you all in your great loss. It was obvious that Rick loved animals and he always had time to talk to and pet my dogs. He was always smiling and fun to be around. May your loving memories keep you strong. Bev Clason

Candi Madore

August 21, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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