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Robert Paré Obituary
Bob leaves his loving wife of 14 years, Kim (Lento) Paré and their daughter, Gisele, 8; his daughters, Michele Bouffard and her husband John of Ballouville, Conn., and Jennifer Paré; his son, Stephen Paré, both of Worcester; his mother, Marie (Gilrein) Paré, who resided with him at his home; five grandchildren, Sean, Ryan, Jonathan, Erin and Kevin, and two brothers, Donald Paré of Shrewsbury and Richard Paré and his wife Marsha of Davie, Fla. His father, George Raymond Paré predeceased him. His older brother, Russell Paré died at age 9.
Bob was born in Worcester and lived most of his life here. He was a 1972 graduate of Holy Name High School and a 1976 graduate of Assumption College. Bob earned a M.Ed. in Counseling at Worcester State College and an M.S.W. from the University of Connecticut. Bob served in the human services field for 35 years and was currently employed at Arbor Counseling in Worcester. Previously, he worked for Turning the Corner in Providence, CPC in Boston, Brightside in Springfield, the Center for Human Development in Westborough and Stetson School in Barre.
Bob was an involved member of the Greendale Peoples Church. He was an avid sports fan and a lifelong athlete. He was a member and used the Greendale YMCA regularly including weekly tennis matches. He was a Shakespearian enthusiast and loved the arts. He was a devoted husband, son, father, grandfather and friend. He will be missed beyond words.
Calling hours at the Athy Memorial Home, 111 Lancaster St., Worcester, are Monday, October 6 from 5 to 8 p.m. The funeral service will be Tuesday, October 7 at 11 a.m. in the Greendale Peoples Church, 25 Francis St., Worcester. Burial will be private.
In lieu of flowers, donations are suggested to a fund to benefit his daughter Gisele in care of Kim Paré, Nazareth Home for Boys, 77 Mulberry St., Leicester 01524.
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Memories and Condolences
for Robert Paré
Sharon Mattus
October 29, 2008
I just found out about Bob's passing. My ten year old son was a client of Bob's. He so respected Bob and looked up to him. Bob helped my son in so many ways. He will be sorely missed by my family.
S Campbell
October 27, 2008
Five months ago I was on the verge of losing my daughter..Bob helped me save her...I will be forever grateful.
My heart goes out to his family...he will be greatly missed.
Sondra Butler
October 24, 2008
Bob I never felt good enough until I met you. I didn't find out until our scheduled appointment today. Oct 24. I am crushed and will miss you! Thank you for what you gave me, I only hope I can do it without you.
Love,
Sandi
Syreeta Jackson
October 21, 2008
I just heard about Bob today and I am deeply saddened. I worked with him at Turning the Corner (my first real job) and he was the best boss that I could have asked for; understanding, a true mentor and very funny. He will be missed; my heart is broken.
Debra Andrews
October 20, 2008
To Bobs Family,I was a client of Bobs.He will be truly missed.He was a warm and caring person. I always left with a smile on my face after our sessions. My Prayers and Thoughts are with The Pare Family
Paul Benoit
October 9, 2008
My heart is filled with sorrow. I was fortunate to become reacquainted with my cousin Bob over the past few years. He led a life of giving to his family, clients, and friends; clearly, a life well lived. I shall miss his booming voice resonating through the Greendale Y's locker room as he rendered his (usually humorous) reviews of the latest fortunes/misfortunes of the Boston sports teams. Our most heartfelt condolences to Kim, to all of Bob's children and grandchildren, to my cousins Dick and Donald, and to my Aunt Marie, who simply has had to suffer too much heartache in her life.
Andrew Specht
October 8, 2008
Dear Kim,Gisele,and Jonathan: I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know bob that well but I know that he was a great person just by talking to him! I am so sorry for your loss sincerly,
your friend Andrew
Jack O'Leary
October 8, 2008
Dear Marie, Kim and family, May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. You are in our prayers. Please accept our deepest sympathies.
Jack O'Leary & Family
Stacey Leonard
October 7, 2008
To Bob's family
I was a client of Bob's for almost 10 months now, my daughter also. We just found out about your loss. Bob was the best at knowing how to make a bad situation seem better. I never left his office without a smile. According to the receptionist, I was the last client he saw on Tuesday night. I also feel a profound loss in that bob was my confidante, but nothing hurt me more than the though of his children and family and your loss. My prayers are with you all.
Karina Bertsch
October 7, 2008
We were both honored to have worked and hung out with Bob. He always had the best advice to offer, and exemplified living life to its fullest. As a social worker, he was exemplary. He taught us so much. He touched many lives very deeply and because of that, he will never be forgotten.
Karina Bertsch
William Carey
October 7, 2008
With loving thoughts of sympathy to Bob's family.
Barbara & Clayton Henckel
Susan J. O'Leary
October 7, 2008
Dear Aunt Marie~
I'm thinking of you at this time.
I am so sorry for your loss of a second son!
I cannot imagine your heartache.
i hope Peace comes to you & your Family.
Cherie Dupont
October 6, 2008
My Aunt Polly has known Marie for many years and Jonathan was a student of mine a couple of years ago...he just loved his Pepere. We will keep you all in our hearts and prayers.
Carl Bielack
October 6, 2008
Bob was a true humanitarian and sportsman. I looked forward to our weekly tennis matches and exchanges on our human services experiences. It has been a pleasure and joy to have known him. He is much missed.
Karen Allen
October 6, 2008
Kim, Gisele and family:
Bob was a blessing to us all. May you always remember the Lord is there for you and so are we at GPC. You all will be in our prayers.
Melinda Hillock
October 6, 2008
Kim, Gisele and family:
From commuting to UConn School of Social Work with Bob in 1993 to occasional breakfast meetings at the Gold Star Restaurant, I was able to spend time with a dedicated clinician, talented professional and family man. He embodied the definition of dedication and professionalism in clinical social work peppered with his fantastic sense of humor and interest in good music! He talked about you Kim and Giselle with the deepest respect and I felt honored to keep in touch with such a busy man. His ability to laugh with himself was a precious jewel and he gave me a lot of practical advice on raising my little boy. So so sorry for the pain but his time on this earth was jam-packed with a lot of professional and personal miracles.
Ronda Rivera
October 6, 2008
To the family,
Words cannot express the loss of Bob. Bob was a Mentor, a Jokester,
and most of all a friend. He will be missed greatly.
Kathi Mahoney
October 6, 2008
Kim, Gisele, and family;
Working with Bob at church and knowing you all for many years, I know Bob loved you with all of his heart, and spoke often of how proud he was of his children. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this very difficult time.
Jim Quinn
October 6, 2008
Bob, it was great working with you back in the 80's at You inc and playing basketball. You will be missed my friend.
Nancy & Jerry Turner/Peterson
October 5, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the entire family. Robert was a wonderful man and will truly be missed but never forgotten. God bless.
joanne fonseca
October 5, 2008
You will always live in our hearts and prayers.
Corice Boyer
October 5, 2008
Kim, I was so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. He was a great guy to work with and I enjoyed him immensely. He certainly will be missed. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
William Cabrera
October 5, 2008
To Bobs family i am so sorry about your loss . He was my councilor at the arbor counseling and a very caring friend.He will be missed by his funny sense of humor,and the special way he had with words. Once again i am giving my deepest condolences to the family.
Shanelle cooper
October 5, 2008
To the Family of Bob
Your husband and father was counseling my son. He was the the only one that could get him to talk. He had a great concern for young people. He has touch a young persons heart and he will truly be missed. My prayers is for your family and my God continue to strenghten you. love someone whose heart he touched.
Marie Anne Rocheleau-Demers
October 5, 2008
Dear Family,
I am so sorry for your loss and sadness. I'm a cousin to Robert, and was in his class at Ecole St. Joseph; Robert was also my First Communion partner. We have lost touch through the years, but I have very fond memories of him and "Aunt" Marie. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Marie Anne Rocheleau-Demers
ARLENE HADDAD
October 5, 2008
DEAR MARIE,
SO SORRY FOR YOUR GREAT LOSS. HE RESTS IN THE ARMS OF OUR LORD. YOU HAVE MY PRAYERS
Darcy Schwartz
October 5, 2008
Kim, Giselle and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. We will keep you all in our prayers.
Darcy Schwartz & Family
Rich Dumphy
October 3, 2008
Bob, I only knew you for a short while. But you made such a great difference in my life. Thank you.
The world has lost yet another gift that was given to us.
.
Kate Hughes
October 3, 2008
Your family is in my prayers.
Stephen Jefferson
October 3, 2008
Bob, was the best hire that I ever had as a Program Director. He was an excellent therapist and his work helped many young men in this Commonwealth. His passing is a great loss to all of us who had the honor to call him friend and colleague.
My sincere condolences to Kim and his family.
Kenneth White
October 3, 2008
Kim, Nancy & I are keeping you and Gisele in our prayers.
Jennifer Fancy
October 3, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with the whole family.
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