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Robert Gonyea Obituary

Robert George Gonyea of Sturbridge passed away peacefully Saturday morning, October 4, 2008 after a short but courageous battle with cancer. He was 81 years old.

He is survived by his beloved wife, Winifred Louise (Nordstrom) Gonyea, with whom he would have celebrated 59 years of Marriage on October 29th. He is also survived by two sons: Raymond M. Gonyea of Southbridge, his wife Colleen and their children, Cailin, Simon and Connor; and Dale R. Gonyea of Worcester, and his partner Adam Stanhope. He is also survived by three sisters: Edith MacDonald of Boylston, Eleanor Reynolds of Worcester and Irene Kwiatkowski of Tennessee. He was predeceased by his brother, Thomas and his sister, Loretta Maskie, who passed away in August.

He was born and raised in Worcester, the youngest child of the late Thomas and Elsie (Gordon) Gonyea. He attended South High School in Worcester, before enrolling in the U.S. Navy during WWII. After serving on the aircraft carrier U.S.S. Tarawa in the Pacific Theater, he was given his honorable discharge. Upon his return to Worcester, he graduated from the former Commerce High School, where he met his soon to be wife. During the Korean War, he was drafted into the U.S. Army and was stationed at Fort Dix, NJ, earning the rank of Master Sergeant. After his honorable discharge from the U.S. Army, he received his degree in accounting from the Worcester School of Business Science.

He was the former Vice President and General Manager of Johnson Brothers Construction Company of N. Oxford, and was working as the bookkeeper and accountant for Greenwood Auto in Leicester until his illness.

Mr. Gonyea was involved with sports throughout his lifetime, playing football, basketball and baseball through his high school years. He also played semi-pro football for the Webster Square Merchants, where he starred as a fullback. Later on, he coached in the Sturbridge Little League, Intermediate League and Babe Ruth League. He also loved to fish, and was an avid fan of the Red Sox, Patriots, Bruins and Celtics.

Mr. Gonyea was a member of St. Anne & St. Patrick's Parish in Fiskdale for over 20 years and was a dedicated volunteer, ordained Eucharistic Minister and Religious Education Teacher. He was also a member of Sacred Heart of Jesus Parish in Southbridge for the last several years. He also served on the Town of Sturbridge Finance Committee.

Relatives and friends are invited to attend visiting hours from 4 to 7 PM on Tuesday, October 7th at LINDQUIST LUNDIN FUNERAL HOME, 36 Butler St., Worcester. His Funeral Mass will be held Wednesday, October 8 at 10:00 AM at St. Catherine of Sweden Church, 1 Wiser Avenue, Worcester followed by his burial in New Swedish Cemetery in Worcester. For directions and online guest book please visit www.lindquistlundin.com.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donation may be made to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Oct. 6, 2008.

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Kate Tuson

October 7, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of saddness.

Mary Notturno

October 7, 2008

Winnie,Dale,Ray and Family.
I am sorry for your loss. He was a great man,wonderful husband,father and grandfather. He was the greatest person I have ever know. My prayers are with you all.
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Thomas ,Beth,Jon and Bethany Gonyea

October 7, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.May God comfort you at this very difficult time.

Heidi Maffei

October 7, 2008

Adam,Dale and family, may you find comfort in your memories at this time of sorrow.

Adam

October 6, 2008

Bob,
I always called you Bob, but you really were a second Dad to me. Your generosity toward me and the way you included me as "Son #3" will remain with me all my life. I was truly blessed to have know you as a Dad for the last 11 years. My consolation comes in knowing that we have a strong soldier joining the Church Triumphant!

Fred and Elly Gonyea

October 6, 2008

Our thoughts and wishes are with Aunt Winnie and the kids as uncle Bob ends his life-journey and begins another. Godspeed.

Ray Gonyea

October 6, 2008

Dad,
It's too bad it took your passing for me to fully appreciate how you lived your life. Just know that I will try to live the rest of my life as a reflection of what you have tried to pass on to me all these years. I know you loved me and I know that you knew that I loved you, too. I'll miss you. Have a great time fishing with Ray, Alan, Grampa Gus and Grampa Tom!

Your Son,
Ray

Leo and Elizabeth davey

October 6, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. The memories of Robert will always be with us.

Jean Hoffman

October 6, 2008

Uncle Bob ...we will miss you. I recall so many good times that were spent with Uncle Bob and Aunt Winnie. A visit in New Jersey, the party that you held for my parents, Chet and Loretta, the visits on Christmas Eve to Sturbridge, and the list goes on. Bob was always willing to help anyone and was always a model of a good, loving, caring husband, father, uncle, and friend. Be with God and my mom and dad.

Dale Gonyea

October 6, 2008

I love you forever Dad!!!!

Love, Dale

Joe Ashe

October 6, 2008

My deepest sympathies go out to the Gonyea family, as God has called another American Hero home.

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