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Charlotte Wilkesman Obituary

Charlotte Wilkesman, 43, of Worcester, passed away peacefully, October 4, 2008 in her home, surrounded by her devoted loving family and friends.

She leaves her son, Justin M. Zelenak who serves in the military and her mother, Marilyn Wilkesman of Worcester. She is also survived by two brothers: Gary and Dana; three sisters: Marilyn, Karri, and Shelly; and several aunts, uncles, nieces, and nephews. She was predeceased by her father, Charles R. Wilkesman and two brothers, Richard and Randy.

She was born and raised in Worcester. A proud woman, she had a great sense of humor, generous heart and will be deeply missed by all of her family and friends. She loved gathering with family and friends, listening to music, and sharing her jokes with others.

A graveside service will be held at Hope Cemetery, Webster Street in Worcester, Wednesday, October 8th at 10:00 AM. MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, Worcester, is assisting the family with arrangements.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Oct. 7, 2008.

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Justin Zelenak

November 1, 2008

hi mom,
This is your son and i just want to say this but i couldnt at the funeral cause i would have broke down. I just wanna say i loved you more then anything in the world i just wish i could have been there more for you, i loved all your jokes you told me. im really gonna miss you mom. i see people over here in iraq breaking down everyday from stress but you fought everything imaginable, you are the strongest mom i know and i thank you for giving me that strength. it killed me the day i found out i broke down and cried for hours. i love you mom so much. i got a tattoo of a bird sitting in a patch of flowers with a halo above her and a band going across the bottom with your name on it right over my heart cause thats were you will always be. i love you mom. talk to you later mom i have to go protect my country. Muah ===={~
If anyone needs to talk about my mom i would love to hear and chat about memories, heres my email
[email protected]

Amy Paquette

October 30, 2008

Auntie Charlotte was a well known, loved & cherished woman. She always knew how to brighten anyones day! She could also make anyone laugh. She would call the house everyday and sometimes 2,3 or 4 times a day and tell my father and i jokes. She will be missed by family and friends. I will miss the phone calls and her sense of humor. Auntie we love and miss you. You will always have a place in my heart. Never will i forget the smiles and laughs you have brought to my face. I know you are watching over us now, from a better place. Rest in Peace Auntie. I Love You!

Joanne Fisher (Brooks)

October 15, 2008

Mal & Kids,
I am so sorry to hear of Charlotte's passing.
She sure did have a great attitude and smile!!!
As I am sure you all know that you have a guardian angel looking down on you all.
Memories of our childhood will always be cherished

nannette laythe southworth

October 12, 2008

marilyn & kids, i just about fell on the floor when my sister kimmie emailed me and told me charlotte had passed away. i think back to our childhood memories and see charlotte and her bright smile and just want to say it was a real priviledge to have her as a friend. i admired her as a friend, mom, woman, daughter. she was always such a bouncy person telling us jokes and making us laugh. all of you have my deepest sympathy. i do hope that it does bring solace to all of you for the fact she is at peace and her suffering has ended. take comfort in her life and memories that we all have shared with her over the years and know she has earned her wings and is up there in heaven smiling down on us all.
my deepest sympathy
my heart is with all of you today.
please email me.
nannette laythe southworth

kimberley Lee

October 12, 2008

MARILYN & Family,
I'm turly sorry for your loss. One of the strongest bond that children have with there mother is the love they shared in there hearts that will never be broken. May it bring you comfort that Charlotte will always be looking down at you with her gorgeous smile and walking by your side. I will personaly remember our chilhood memories.
With deepest sympathy.
Kimmie (laythe) Lee

Michael Archambault

October 10, 2008

Marilyn, Justin, and Family:
Charlotte is at rest now and we were so lucky to share in her life! Her sense of humor and witt will be missed, as well as her phone calls!! Justin, you were the love of her life and always in her thoughts. Marilyn, you were always there for Charlotte, advocating for her and helping her. Thank you all for allowing us to share in her life and her death.
Love, Peace, and Happiness

Julia Cotter

October 10, 2008

Charlotte was one of my favorite cousins. We shared alot of good times together when we were kids. She always made me laugh. No matter
what was going on in our lives Charlotte always seemed to keep a possitive attitude. I will always remember her beautiful smile.
"May god bless you" My deepest sympathy to aunt Marilyn & Chilidren. Love Jujie

Debra Blouin (Brooks) & Family

October 10, 2008

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Darlene scott

October 9, 2008

Charlotte was very special woman. When peolpe come into our life we don't see the reasons why they come into our lifes until they're gone Life's lessons are learned and hit us when we don't expect it. Charolette is gone and we will all remember her. She has left all of us with a part of her, and we won't forget what she has taught us. We will all remember all the times we spent with her,good ,bad funny and sad. Charlotte was LOVE, she showed it to all of us,even on a not so good day. Charlotte loved all of us, she didn't care how we looked on the outside,what color we were, she just loved us all. In her memory I think we need to make a change. Let's show love to everyone, just because that's what Charlotte would do. I know she is looking down at all us with her million dollar smile saying I MADE A DIFFERENCE.

So Sorry For Your Lost!
Darlene
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shelly

October 9, 2008

We all miss her so much, god has plans for her.
the family wants to thank everyone who has took the time to share their thoughts and send their condolences, it means so much.

Pauline Gallagher

October 9, 2008

Charlotte was a lovely woman, whom I had the priviledge of meeting and getting to know since this past April. I wish I had the opportunity to know her longer as she had a lot to offer to this world and teach others. She rose and faced many challenges that others might cringe from and I always looked at her with admiration. I hope her family and loved ones will be able to find some solace in the fact that she now will be in peace and her suffering has ended.
With sincere sympathy, Pauline Gallagher

Unknown Unknown

October 7, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out To Charlottes family, may she rest in peace.

Tara Toohil(Devio)

October 7, 2008

Marilyn and Family,
Charlotte will be greatly missed she was a great woman. My thoughts and prayers go out to you all.
Love,
Tara

Liz

October 7, 2008

Marilyn & Family,
My heart goes out to you at this very difficult time. I know how important family was to Charlotte and how important she was to you. We are all missing her greatly as she was taken way too soon, but I'm sure she is in a wonderful and peaceful place now. God bless you all.

Julie Walsh

October 7, 2008

Aunt Marylin and Family:

No bond is as great as that between a Mother and child.
Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories.
Blessings form all of us +
Julie, Erika Goff & Karinna Goff

jodi aronowicz

October 7, 2008

charlette may you rest in peace you will be missed all of us at umass loved you your pain and suffering is over now may the lord help your mom through this she will be in my thoughts and prayers jodi from umass

Dottie Radcliffe-Bates

October 7, 2008

Charlotte has taken a small peice of my heart with her. I will deeply miss her laughter and playful spirit which will now live on in memories. My thoughts and prayers go out to her son and mother whom she deeply loved and we talked of often as well as her sisters and brothers and her family at Massasoit Residence. I will miss our weekend visits and phone calls.

Nancy & Louie Welch and Family

October 7, 2008

We are so sorry to hear about Charlotte. We are thinking about you all with all our hearts.

DAVID CLIVE

October 7, 2008

I was very privileged to be Charlotte's physician for many years. She was a delightful person. I and the dialysis nurses at UMass Memorial Med Center will miss her deeply. Our sincere condolences to you all.

Bernice Rawlston

October 7, 2008

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

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