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John Barr Obituary

John L. Barr, 75, of 30 Pine Hill Rd., Oneco, Beloved Husband Of Barbara (Vautour) Barr died surrounded by his loving family Monday Morning at Village Manor Health Care in Plainfield, CT. He was born May 6, 1933 in Newton, MA, a son of the late David and Sarah (Dugan) Barr.

Mr. Barr was a U.S. Army Veteran Of The Korean War, having served with the 187th Airborne Regimental Combat Team. He was employed as a Construction Inspector for Gannett - Fleming Engineering for 8 years and was previously employed by Stone & Webster. Mr. Barr last worked part-time for 3 years as the Building Office Assistant for the Town of Sterling. Besides his wife, he leaves 2 daughters, Kathryn Barr of Webster, MA., Jennifer Brochu and her husband John of Norwich; 1 step-daughter, Julie Bramberg and her husband Neal of Sudbury, MA. 2 sisters, Patricia Barr and Joan Stuffel, both of Newton, MA. Also 5 grandchildren and several nieces and nephews.

The funeral will be held Friday at 9:15AM from Dougherty Bros. Funeral Home, 595 Norwich Rd., Plainfield, CT., followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10:00AM in St. John The Apostle Church. Burial in St. Philip Cemetery, Grafton, MA will be private. Visiting hours are Thursday, 4-7PM. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to The American Cancer Society, 106 Rt. 32, N. Franklin, CT. 06254.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Oct. 14, 2008.

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Jody

October 24, 2008

Barbara~&~Family
John's great presence will be missed dearly, but remembered lovingly. I held an exceptional respect for his wisdoms and the way he shared them with me! (laugh) He reminded me to lighten-up and not take things so seriously. We shared jokes and other stories; no one else will call me kid with such endearment I am sure. There are a lot of things to miss about John, but I am so grateful for the opportunity to have known even a small piece of him. I will be smiling for years to come as I remember such an honorable man!

Michael Barry

October 14, 2008

John and I spent many, many hours working at, and traveling to and from Millstone in my little blue VW. I was always amazed at his knowledge of classical literature, art, and music. I remember when you came our wedding. I missed him when our jobs sent us in different directions. I willalways remember his kind words,and technical guidance. Please accept our most sincerely condolences.

Mike and Ann-Marie Barry

Joan Burnore

October 14, 2008

Barbara, I'm sorry to hear about your loss.He will be missed at the 7:30 mass. He always made me smile with his sayings. You are in my prayers

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