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Betsey Varnum Obituary

Betsey T. (Mason) Varnum, 89, formerly of North Brookfield died Sunday, October 12, 2008 in Cape Cod Hospital after a brief illness. Her husband, Edward W. Varnum died in 1999.

She leaves two sons, Herbert M. Varnum and his wife Jean of Worcester and Roger E. Varnum and his wife Sandra of Cape Porpoise, ME; six grandchildren, Karen Matt of Holden, Susan Marrone and her husband Vincent of Maryville, TN, Deborah Tong and her husband Kyle of Gahanna, OH, Lisa Staples and her husband Ben of Princeton, Amy Jacobson and her husband Larry of Natick and Betsey Varnum of Cambridge; nine great-grandchildren; many nieces and nephews and her devoted caregivers, Debra Engling, Cindy Chaffee, Jennifer Greene and Heather Lawry. She was also predeceased by a daughter Judith Ann Varnum a brother James Mason and a great-grandchild Courtney Staples.

She was born in Massachusetts daughter of the late Herbert T. and Florence (Gassett) Mason and lived in North Brookfield before moving to Florida 24 years ago.

Funeral Services for Betsey will be held privately. There are no calling hours. Burial will be in Walnut Grove Cemetery in North Brookfield. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Christ Memorial Episcopal Church, 133 North Main St., North Brookfield, MA 01535. Varnum Funeral Home, Inc., 43 East Main St., West Brookfield is directing arrangements.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Oct. 14, 2008.

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Mavis Hager

October 17, 2008

Betsy, We loved you so. It will not be the same without you. You were a dear, kind person. We also loved your Ed, he was so special. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers. Mavis & Herb Hager

Bob Swinconeck

October 15, 2008

Herb and Roger,
So very sorry to read the passing of your mother. I'm sure she will be in you memories forever. God Bless

Victor Hood

October 14, 2008

The Varnum Family was blessed by a spirit and kindness which personified Betsey's being. Thus I, as so many fortunate others, will miss her smile, manner and goodness. She could be great fun and was loved by so many.

Fuzzy and Marilyn Fuller

October 14, 2008

Herb and Roger,
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother.

Patricia Strong

October 14, 2008

Betsey will always hold a very special place in my heart and thoughts. I will miss her annual arrivals to her Osterville home, giving me time to spend with her. Betsey was a wonderful, kind, thoughtful neighbor. We had some great laughs and wonderful conversations.

Robert Potvin

October 14, 2008

Please accept my sympathies in your loss.Your mother, too, was a "classy lady."

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