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Fairman Cowan Obituary

Fairman C. Cowan, age 93, died in his sleep at home in Worcester on October 14. He was born in Wellesley Hills, Mass., on April 22, 1915, son of James F. Cowan and Hortense Fairman Cowan. He was grateful that, even during the depression, his parents made it possible for him to go to Amherst College, from which he graduated in 1937 magna cum laude, and a member of Alpha Delta Phi and Phi Beta Kappa. In 1940 he graduated from Harvard Law School and became an associate at the Boston Law Firm of Goodwin, Proctor, and Hoar, becoming a partner in 1952.

Although he had met his wife, Martha Allis, while in college, the relationship with Polly blossomed in Boston, and they were married in 1943. They enjoyed a 65-year devotion to each other, and their life together focused on friends and public service. They have three sons: Douglas Fairman Cowan, M.D. of Blue Hill, Maine, husband of Posie Sides Cowan; Frederick Allis Cowan of Gloucester, Mass., life partner of Richard C. Gardner, MD; and The Rev. Leonard C. Cowan of Northborough, Mass., husband of Hallie Marshall Cowan; and five grandchildren.

Shortly after the attack on Pearl Harbor, Fairman joined the Navy, and served as a naval intelligence officer. He helped plan the Normandy invasion, and served on the command ship USS Augusta on D-Day. He participated in the Allied occupation force in Bremen and Bremerhaven, Germany, and was involved with the liberation of the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp.

Though their Boston friends thought they might fall off the edge of the earth, in 1955 the Cowans moved to Worcester, where Fairman became General Counsel of the Norton Company, and later Vice President, Secretary and Clerk of the Corporation. He was a Director of Mechanics Bank from 1958 to 1986. He retired from Norton in 1979 and, for the next eleven years, was Of Counsel for the law firm of Bowditch and Dewey.

He became passionately committed to Worcester and its people. He was a founder of the Plan E / City Manager form of government, and was an ardent supporter of first-time city politicians, particularly those committed to social justice. Often in his later years, he could be found on election day, holding a sign. From the 1940s, he believed in reproductive health and choice, and was a formative influence in Planned Parenthood's total pregnancy clinic in Worcester. He was committed to equal access to quality public education, and maintained an interest in the world of students and young people. Fairman was an incorporator of: the Alliance for Education, which gave him an award as "an outstanding friend of education"; and Advocates for Excellence in Public Education. He was appointed by Governor Dukakis to be a member of the State Job Training Coordinating Council, and was appointed Vice Chairman of the initial Civic Center Commission by the Worcester City Manager. He received a number of honors, including the Isaiah Thomas Award in 1995, the establishment of a fund in his name at the Worcester Regional Research Bureau in 2005, and the "Good Guys" award from the Massachusetts Women's Political Caucus in 2005. He was Vice-Chairman of the Board of Trustees of Clark University, interfacing between administration and students. When a student once asked another, "who's that old guy with the bow tie?" he was told, "oh, that's Fairman. He's for us". The Cowans hosted foreign students living in their home over 50 years.

Fair and Polly loved to travel abroad, and as an amateur pianist, Fair earned his first trip to Europe in 1932 playing in a band aboard a French ocean liner. He was an avid patron of the arts, including Boston and Worcester symphonies, the Worcester Art Museum, and the Foothills Theatre. At age 40 he became an enthusiastic downhill skier, and continued to ski through age 92, when his doctor threatened to cut up his skis. Ever since he was a boy, he spent summers at East Falmouth on Cape Cod, and enjoyed sailing and windsurfing, and swam every day. After retirement, he drove over 6000 miles on his moped.

Though he was a generous contributor to a number of causes, he nonetheless relished skiing free in his old age, and was one of Spag's most frequent customers. As a final charitable contribution, he donated his body to the UMass Medical School. Memorial contributions may be made in his name at the Greater Worcester Community Foundation (370 Main Street, Worcester 10608) or the Worcester Regional Research Bureau (319 Main Street, Worcester 10608).

Friends and family will celebrate his life on Friday, October 24 at 4 P.M. at Mechanics Hall in Worcester.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Oct. 16, 2008.

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Emilie "Millie" Condon

October 10, 2024

And a year after my earlier 2023 message, Fairman Cowan's presence is brought back into my life - how heartwarming. Peace be the journey, fine soul and to your many descendants who have grown since you moved on in 2008!

Emilie Condon

October 10, 2023

Oh my, how haunting: the Cowans were extended family to me. My mother, Frances Cook Condon, "Mollie" from Wellesley Hills, MA and my father, Col. Reynolds Condon brought the Cowans into their kids' lives: my younger brother, Ricky Condon and me Emilie "Millie" Condon.
I am stunned and moved to be writing these words about Mr. Cowan in my antiquity here in 2023! What a delight and honor.
Millie

Jeanette Yep

October 31, 2008

Len -- my deepest condolences to you and your family. Your dad sounds like he was a remarkable & unique man. The legacy of a life well lived is evident in who you are as his son. May you know the comfort of the Lord.

Hester Jacobs

October 26, 2008

Dear Cowans,
I only wish I could have come and shared in the celebration. How lucky we were to grow up next to you on Berwick St. The world has lost a wonderful man but I know he rests in peace.

Dick Germaine

October 19, 2008

Len,
Your father was truly a remarkable man. I can only wish I had known him as I can imagine we might have had some stimulating and informative conversations. You and your entire family were greatly blessed to have had him as husband, father, and grandfather. I pray for the comfort of our Lord Jesus Christ to be the experience of each of you.

Trish Lyell

October 19, 2008

Polly, Fred, Doug, and Len,
Fair's obituary says it all-what a wonderful snapshot of a life well and generously lived. Fair (and RALyell) certainly gave Wachusett's ski patrol a thrill the last few yrs. and power to them.
That old guy with the bow tie was, without question "for us"...we'll miss him.

Peter Rovezzi

October 18, 2008

Fairman was my customer here at Bank of America at Tatnuck Square. Extremely intelligent, well spoken and pleasant. What a great guy who had led one extraordinary life. He will be missed by all who had the great honor of knowing him.

Jean DeIeso

October 16, 2008

My life is better for having known Fair, and for being able to call him friend. I will miss him dearly.

Rosa & Herb Bromberg

October 16, 2008

What good luck that fate led us to meet the Cowans, rent their apartment, and become like family. It has been a cherished relationship for 24 years, with Polly and Fair always available if and when needed. Fair's death represents a big loss in our lives, as it does in the entire Worcester community. We are proud to have been able to participate in his and Polly's lives, and will miss him sorely.

Karen Y. Caponi

October 16, 2008

I feel honored to have known Fair. He was never without a smile on his face. His support and generosity will be greatly missed. My deepest sympathy to Polly and his family.

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