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Mary Merkl Obituary

Mary Ellin (O'Connor) Merkl, 80, died peacefully on Tuesday, October 21, 2008 at the UMass-Memorial Medical Center.

Her husband of 49 years, Pierre P. Merkl Jr. died Oct. 25, 2000.

She leaves a son, Pierre P. Merkl III of San Francisco, six daughters, Clare Conlon and her husband Dr. Charles Conlon of Montgomery Village, Maryland, Katherine Bennett of Hubbardston, Laura Merkl and her husband Alec Meyer of San Carlos, Calif., Jean Merkl and her husband John Gorman of Newton, Alice Merkl White and her husband Barry White of Billerica, and Florence Merkl-Deutsch and her husband Gregory Deutsch of Chicago; 13 grandchildren, Emily and her husband Karl Dusen, and Aileen, Molly, Patrick and Beth Conlon; Laura, Elizabeth and Joseph Bennett; Kate and Abigail Gorman; Brenda Kissane; and Richard and Anton Deutsch, nieces and nephews.

Her brother Francis O'Connor and her sister Catherine O'Connor predeceased her.

Mrs. Merkl was born in Albany, N.Y., daughter of Michael F. and Catherine (Tobin) O'Connor. She was a graduate of Manhattanville College in New York. She has lived in Worcester for 40 years.

She was a teaching aide in the pre-kindergarten school program at Columbus Park School for many years.

She was a member of St. Joan of Arc Parish and a former member of St. Bernard's Parish, where she was a Eucharistic minister for 30 years. She was a longtime member of the Nereids, a swimming group at the YWCA of Central Mass. She enjoyed the company of her many friends either at church, playing bridge or bingo, or at any other social gathering. Most importantly, she cherished time with her family.

Calling hours are Friday, October 24 from 5 to 8 p.m. at the Athy Memorial Home, 111 Lancaster St., Worcester. The funeral will be Saturday, October 25 from the funeral home with a Mass at 11 a.m. in St. Joan of Arc Church, 570 Lincoln St., Worcester. Burial in Notre Dame Cemetery, Worcester, will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the St. Joan of Arc Church Building Fund, 570 Lincoln St., Worcester 01605.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Oct. 22 to Oct. 23, 2008.

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Peggy McHugh

October 27, 2008

To all the Merkls and extended family, Your mom was one of a kind. She was a lot of fun to be with. Our family considered her part of our family and, my sister Mary and I enjoyed talking baseball with her every week when she would come over for dinner. I will miss your mom very much, but at least I had the pleasure to know her and will always have fond memories. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless.

Princeton Place Team

October 24, 2008

To the family of Mary Ellin -

For many years, we enjoyed the company of both Mary Ellin and Pierre when they were residents of Princeton Place Apartments. At this time of loss, may you all know that the memories you have of her are forever - hold onto them, cherish those moments, and share them with generations to come. She was a wonderful woman who will be missed by all.

Ellen Ross

October 23, 2008

Many years ago, I worked at Columbus Park and I fondly remember Mary Ellin. Her calm demeanor and her love for the children were wonderful to witness.Her stories about her family were also amusing and touching. I hope your memories will help you in this difficult time.

Sheryl and Harold Sessa

October 23, 2008

Hello Pierre and all of your extended family,
Harry and I were so sorry to hear about your Mom. She was a really sweet person and I am certain you have a million or more memories with the large family she was so capable of bringing up. We send our love and may your Mother Rest in Peace.
Love,
Sherry (1010) and Harry

John McHugh

October 22, 2008

To the Family of Mary Ellin Merkl I am so sorry for your loss your Mom was one of the nicest person that I ever knew, I am going to miss her especially when she came over every Wednesday for dinner, I wish we never stopped.

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