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Raymond Aubin Obituary

Raymond P. Aubin Sr., 78, of 234 Old Webster Road, died Thursday, October 30, 2008, in his home after a long battle with cancer. He is survived by his wife of 21 years, Marcella A. (Dexter) Aubin of Oxford; eleven children: Raymond Aubin Jr. and his wife Sandra of Adams, MA, Alfred Aubin Sr. and his wife Debbie of Ware, Eugene Aubin Sr. and his wife Sharon of Brookfield, Stephen Aubin Sr. and his wife Linda of Spencer, Brenda Jette and her husband Clifford Jette Sr. of Florida, Paul Aubin Sr. and his wife Rachelle of CT, Robert Aubin of Dudley, Cynthia Nolan and her husband Thomas of Arizona, Kristen Aubin of Oxford, Richard Vallee Jr. and his wife Tina of Worcester, and Nicholas Aubin of Oxford; a brother, Joseph Aubin Sr. of Leominster; five sisters: Grace Mowry of Whitinsville, Jean Savistano of Millbury, June McLeod of Worcester, Rita Anderson of Worcester, and Ann Richardson of Worcester; 34 grandchildren, 42 great grandchildren, one great great granddaughter, Cynthia Chenier-Aubin, and many nephews and nieces, including Joseph Brown Jr. and Wayne Coran, who helped in caring for him. He was predeceased by his first wife of 35 years, Bette L. (Carlson) Aubin, who died in 1985; a daughter, Cheryl Aubin of Worcester; three brothers: Richard Aubin, Alfred Aubin, and Ernest Aubin; and four sisters: Bertha Trottier, Beatrice Provencher, Dorothy Siagh, and Geneva Aubin. He was born in Worcester, the son of the late Samuel and Mildred (Hastings) Aubin, and was raised in Worcester and lived in Brookfield before moving to Oxford 16 years ago. He was a U.S. Army Veteran.

Mr. Aubin was a foreman at Bates Shoe Co. in Webster for 24 years, retiring in 1988. Previously, he was a foreman at Brown Shoe Co. in Worcester and also owned and operated Ray's Restaurant in Charlton and Spencer. Mr. Aubin was a member of St. Joseph's Church in Charlton, and was a member and past president of the Liberty Club. He loved coin collecting, and his greatest joy was his family.

The Aubin family would like to thank Overlook Hospice in Charlton for their exceptional care, and give special thanks to Penny and Dorian.

A funeral Mass will be held at 10 a.m. on MONDAY, November 3, 2008, at St. Joseph's Church, 10 H. Putnam Rd. Ext., Charlton, with military honors to follow. Burial will be private at Pine Grove Cemetery, Spencer. Calling hours will be SATURDAY, November 1, 2008, from 2-5 p.m. at Paradis Funeral Home, 357 Main St., Oxford. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Overlook VNA and Hospice Services, MHS Foundation, P.O. Box 1000, Charlton, MA 01507.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette on Oct. 31, 2008.

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Melissa Thibodeau

November 13, 2008

To my Deerest Grandfather,
I would like to say I Love you so much.I would also like to say that I meant every word I said when I went to your wake & I hope Marcella will take good care of My son Nicholas & my Beautiful Granddaughter Cynthia.I want to thank you for the Pic. of Nick,His,Fiance Sara,& My Granddaughter Cynthia.All three look so great together.I would like to say Nicholas I love you so very much & Im sorry for Screwing up & not being there for you or Cynthia & that Im very Proud of you & Good luck with your Wedding. Love,
Love Your Mother!! Melissa

JUNE (SISTER) & MAC MCLEOD

November 4, 2008

Celebrating a life well lived. We will cherish the memories forever.

susan kibe

November 3, 2008

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

Sue Barrett

November 3, 2008

Aubin Family,
I was very sorry to hear that Uncle Ray had passed away. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. I have fond memories of visiting your family when you lived in Brookfield. May your family find comfort and peace in God's love during this very sad. Take care of each other.
Sue {Aubin} Barrett

Jean Callahan-Hanley

November 2, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Anthony Siagh

November 2, 2008

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Patrick and Phyllis Birch

November 1, 2008

Paul,
We are sorry to hear of your father's passing. Pat and I will always remember the times when we seen your dad at you and Rachelles house. We loved to listen to his stories. He was a good man. We will miss him.

God Bless;

Shane Brien

November 1, 2008

To the entire Aubin Family,
Our thoughts are with you during this tough time.

Shane Kathy Katelyn and Shane Brien

Frank Savastano

November 1, 2008

My most sincerest condoloences to the entire family.

Richard Thibodeau

October 31, 2008

R.I.P Great Grandpa i love you with all my heart and you will always be with me I will miss you a lot and I will never forget how much of a great grandfather you were to me i love you and miss you.
Love Ricky

karen richards

October 31, 2008

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Trycia Hedge

October 31, 2008

We will miss you raymond aka dad, I send my prayers to the family,

Dad and I would always be baking something in the kitchen, He has taught me so much.. He would always show me his coins that he was colleting, he was an awesome person, very strong person, He loved to joke around with all of us..

I Love you Raymond.. And the family..

Richie, Kristen, Nick and escpecially Marcela.. Be strong everyone.. I love you all

joe brown

October 31, 2008

joe

Lindsey/Brenda Laine

October 31, 2008

I would like to send my condolences to the whole Aubin family.Grammy I love you.If you need anything please don't hesitate to call.We made a promise to each other and I won't break our promise.Grampy we will miss you. I'm glad your not suffering anymore.
Love Lindsey Lee

RONDA OSTERBERG

October 31, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about your loss and my heart goes out to you.

Mary Seferi

October 31, 2008

We extend our sympathy to the entire Aubin family. God bless and keep you always. Ray's suffering is over and he is safe in the arms of our Lord.

Robert and Evelyn Whitcomb

October 31, 2008

Dear Marcella and family, Our deepest sympathy for your loss. Praying for peace and comfort at this most difficult time.

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