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Mary Benoit Obituary

Mary E. (O'Brien) Benoit, 73, of Spencer, died on Sunday, November 16th in Saint Vincent Hospital after a brief illness.

Mrs. Benoit is survived by her husband of 56 years, Robert A. Benoit Sr.; a son, Robert A. Benoit Jr. and his longtime companion Gloria Draper of Charlton; three daughters, Mary A. Benoit of Worcester, Debra L. Mossey and her husband Richard of Vernon, VT and Lisa E. Rondeau and her husband Harry of Worcester; 6 grandchildren; 4 great grandchildren and many nephews and nieces. Mary was born in Worcester daughter of the late Joseph and Mary (Casey) O'Brien and is predeceased by 8 brothers and sisters.

She worked for the City of Worcester School Department for 18 years at the Canterbury Street School and previously worked at Hot Dog Annie's in Leicester and the Belmont Home.

Mary enjoyed spending time with her family, watching old movies and taking trips to Foxwoods.

A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Thursday, November 20th at 10 AM in Mary, Queen of the Rosary Church, 7 Church Street, Spencer. Burial will be at a later date in Worcester County Memorial Park, Paxton. Calling hours are on Wednesday, November 19th from 5 to 7 PM in the Alfred Roy & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Hammond St., Worcester.

Memorial contributions may be made to either the American Heart Association 20 Speen Street Framingham, MA 01701 or the American Diabetes Association 330 Congress St. 5th Floor Boston, MA 02210. For directions and an online guestbook please visit

www.Royfuneral.com



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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Nov. 18 to Nov. 19, 2008.

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Kenneth Percival

November 23, 2008

Dear Family
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our sincerest condolances.
You are in our thoughts and prayers
Kenneth A Percival Sr.
June A. Percival
Missionaries to Brazil

JACK BROTHERS

November 23, 2008

BOB AND FAMILY, MY SYMPATHY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR WIFE AND MOM. MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

JoAnn Schold

November 21, 2008

Bob,
My sincerest sympathy to you at this most difficult time. I will always remember the times you spent at our restaurant (JP's). You were both very special to us.

Kelly Belvery

November 21, 2008

Mom, Auntie Lisa, Uncle Bobby, Auntie Debbie & Grandpa, I watched along side of you the entire unfolding of this sad story. I think its safe to say that this was the most difficult thing we have ever had to do as a family. Because of her, our family is close. Because of her, none of us will bare this burden alone. I love you all, so much, so many different ways. She was the world to all of us, but you lost your wife and your mother... I wish I could take your pain, instead I share it. If any of you, need any thing I think you know, I will be there. She will live forever in our hearts. We will carry on her ways. They are the only ways we know. I love you all, very, very, much.

Mary (Renaud) Duquette

November 20, 2008

Bobby, Mary, Debbie, Lisa - May God give each of you the spiritual strength you need at this difficult time. Your Mother will always be by your side as a new and very special angel, watching over you and keeping you safe. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

ken rondeau

November 20, 2008

to bob sr. and the family,sorry to see mary has moved on she was a wonderfull person and i know she will be sadly missed.

Auntie Linda

November 20, 2008

Sincere and heartfelt sympathy to my niece Kelly, her grandfather, mother, aunts, uncle and children and other extended family members during this time. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Luanne Martell

November 20, 2008

Bob and family,
I'm very sorry for your loss. May God be with u during this difficult time. We are here for you.
Luanne and Paul Martell and family

Barbara Ranucci

November 20, 2008

Mary, Debbie, Lisa and Bobbie,
I am so sorry for you loss, I have many happy memories at your home when we were kids and in Drum Corp. How time flies. My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours.
Barbara

LESLIE TATUM

November 19, 2008

I WAS SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT AUNT BETTY. I WILL ALWAYS TREASURE OUR TIME TOGETHER ON FRIDAY NIGHTS ON CAMP STREET. IT WAS SOME OF THE BEST TIMES OF MY LIFE. THOUGH WE DO NOT SEE EACH OTHER MUCH ANYMORE, PLEASE KNOW YOU ARE ALL, ALWAYS IN MY HEART.
UNCLE BOBBY IF YOU NEED ANYTHING DON'T HESITATE TO CALL. LOVE ALWAYS

Dottie Mrazik

November 19, 2008

Bob and family: I was so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. Family memories will bring you comfort, for your mom will forever live in your heart(s).

Ruby Clark

November 19, 2008

Bob
We are so sorry to hear about your Mom. Know that we will keep you and your family in our prayers.
God Bless
Rich Cooley and Ruby Clark

Carol Bertel

November 19, 2008

Bob, I remember visiting you and Betty on Camp St with Claire when I was a little girl. My sincere sympathy to you and your family at this time, on behalf of me and my brother Rich.

Carol Bertel

KIMMIE LEE ( LAYTHE)

November 19, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. I REMEMBER MRS BENOIT AT CANTERBURY SHE WAS ALWAYS SO KIND TO EVERYONE. I ALSO REMEMBER HOW HER AND THE GIRLS LOVE TO ANTIQUE SHOP AT THE FAIRS.
WITH SINCERE SYMPATHY
KIMMIE

Stacy Riel

November 19, 2008

Mary and Family,

I am so sorry for your loss. May your memories comfort you going forward.

With Love,
Stacy
UMMMC

bob&bettyanne

November 19, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Ralph & Sharon Ricci

November 18, 2008

Our fondess memory of Betty is breakfast on the piazza on camp st. Betty would knock on our dining room widow and insist that we have breakfast with her and Bob in their sreen house( the piazza as Betty would call it). We would spend the whole day there playng cards and cooking out till late at night. Summertime on camp st was always an enjoyable time because of Betty & Bob. We will both miss her very much and summers will never be the same for us.
We offer our deepest sympathy to all her family. We shared your laughter while she was with us and now we share your pain.

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