Search by Name

Search by Name

Sarah Jane Chaffee Neal

FUNERAL HOME

Ness-Sibley Funeral Home

23 South St

Trumansburg, New York

Sarah Neal Obituary

SARAH JANE CHAFFEE NEAL
TRUMANSBURG - Sarah Jane Chaffee Neal, of Trumansburg, NY, died quietly Saturday, October 4th, at Seneca View SNF in Montour Falls, NY.
Sarah, one of eight children of Fred Fayette and (Mary Maude) Marie Daly Chaffee of rural Towanda, Pennsylvania, was predeceased by her parents and her seven siblings. Sarah graduated from the Towanda school system in 1936, married William Rex Neal of Tupelo, Mississippi in 1937, and they started their married life in the Towanda/Sayre area. Bill Neal was one of many handsome "southern boys" who came north and worked in the CCC camps of the 1930's. Sarah and Bill moved to the Trumansburg area in the early 1940's for employment in the war effort. Sarah and Bill, raised in different faiths, became confirmed in the Episcopal Church and were active for many years in the Church of the Epiphany in Trumansburg. Sarah worked most of her married life, and went back to school to become a Licensed Practical Nurse in 1957, graduating tops in her class. Sarah was proud to be a nurse in great part because both of her parents were psychiatric nurses at the turn of the 20th century in Willard, NY. Sarah retired in the early 1960's after working several years at the old Tompkins County Hospital.
Sarah was a very curious person, always enjoying learning new things. In the 1950's, when Trumansburg school hired a new high school art teacher who gave painting classes in the community, Sarah joined and won several ribbons when her work was entered into the Trumansburg Fair. Sarah was an avid reader whose bookshelves reflected eclectic reading interests, most especially in theology and psychology as she explored the meaning of life. Sarah loved being in nature, taking walks, hunting for old bottles in rural cellar holes, finding treasures at garage sales, gardening, flowers and enjoying her family of four children, eight grandchildren, 12 great-grandchildren and seven great-great-grandchildren, all living in the Ithaca/Watkins Glen area.
Sarah was very nurturing to her many faithful animal companions. She refused to kill any visiting wasps, bugs or ants, instead quietly moving them outside. Sarah was an intense personality and inherited a fighting Irish spirit, which kept her going during times of challenge and adversity. She could remain cheerful and hopeful against all odds, which was courageous, built endurance and shaped her character.
Sarah was predeceased by her son, Skip; and husband, Bill. Survivors include three daughters, Sarah Spearman of Newfield, NY, Camille "Sue" Alger and Joann Neal, both of Watkins Glen, NY; plus her extended family. She is also survived by seven nieces and nephews.
The family wishes to thank all of the wonderful people from the Tompkins County Food Net staff and the Seneca View nursing home staff that supported Sarah during her lifetime. These individuals became valued friends and supporters.
The family will be present to receive friends from 1-2 p.m. on Wednesday, October 8th, at the Ness-Sibley Funeral Home, 23 South St., Trumansburg. Services, at the funeral home, will begin at 2 p.m. on Wednesday with the Rev. Michael Hartney officiating. Prayers of Committal will follow at Grove Cemetery.
For additional information please contact the funeral home at 1-888-534-5446.
www.ness-sibley.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Ithaca Journal on Oct. 7, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Sarah Neal

Not sure what to say?





Robert Chaffee

October 12, 2008

I know that no words that I say will take away the pain of loosing a loved one but please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. No matter whether Sarah was your Mother, Grandmother, Aunt or friend she touched you all with her warmth and kindness and she will be live on forever in your memories.

Michele LyonAlger

October 12, 2008

Dearest Sue,
Francis & I just learned of your mother's passing. We send our love and prayers your way. Altho, I never got to meet her, from the wonderful obit, I believe she lives on thru you.

God Bless your (our) family in this time of sorrow.

Francis & Michele

Liz Gallup

October 9, 2008

Dear Joann,
I know what its like to lose a mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Your friend,
Liz

Joyce Stilwell

October 8, 2008

Joanie,

I just want you to know I'm thinking of you at this difficult time.

In friendship and sympathy.

Joyce

Lorrie (Horton) Harris

October 8, 2008

Joann and family, I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.

Sarah Ink

October 8, 2008

Joann,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. The entry in the paper was beautiful and described your mother the way you always talked about her.

Barbara Hinckley

October 8, 2008

Joann I am sorry to hear about your mother. My thought will be with you.

Richard Chaffee

October 8, 2008

My thoughts and prayers go out to my Aunt Sarah's children and Grandchildren and the Neal family. I know she was Loved by many. She always had a special place in my Dad's (John G. Chaffee) heart. His little Sis.

Amy Phanhthalath

October 7, 2008

Joann,
My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I will be thinking of you.

Roger Gray

October 7, 2008

Joann,
Your mother sounds like she was an awesome person. I didn't know her, but the description of her curiosity and love of learning, and her "fighting Irish spirit" remind me of you. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Take care.

Janette McCord

October 7, 2008

Joann,
My thoughts are with you during this time. In reading all of the wonderful things about your mother I wish I had known her. My deepest condolences.

priscilla joseph

October 7, 2008

Joann and family
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. miss our walks in the morning. Priscilla Joseph

Cindy Martin

October 7, 2008

Joann,

My thoughts are with you and your family as you mourn the loss of your mom. Draw strength from your family and the wonderful memories you surely have of your mom. Both will see you through this difficult time.

Virginia Bryant

October 7, 2008

Dear Joann,

The tribute to your mother's life was beautiful and inspiring to read. My sympathy and prayers are with you and your family.

Virginia

Michael Hoit

October 7, 2008

Deepest sympathies to your family.

Joan Slatoff

October 7, 2008

Joann,
I'm sorry to hear about your mother. It was interesting to read about her- I see where you got your caring for birds and animals.
My thoughts are with you,
Joanie Slatoff

Melody Dodge

October 7, 2008

I'm sorry Joann, I'm praying for you and yours

Gina Corey

October 7, 2008

Joann and Family, So sorry to hear of your Mother's passing. My Thoughts and Prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Showing 1 - 18 of 18 results

Make a Donation
in Sarah Neal's name

Memorial Events
for Sarah Neal

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Ness-Sibley Funeral Home

23 South St, Trumansburg, NY 14886

How to support Sarah's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Sarah Neal's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more