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Edward E. "Bud" Carr

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EDWARD E. "BUD" CARR
CORTLAND - Edward E. "Bud" Carr, age 51, of 170 Lafayette Road, Cortland, NY (McLean), passed away Oct. 29, 2008 at his residence after a brief illness. Ed was born Nov. 24, 1956 at Cortland, a son of the late Edward L. and Laura Sherman Carr. Edward, also known among his friends and family as "Bud" or "Edgar," was married on August 27, 2005 to the former Deborah Smith. For many years, Ed was employed as the manager of the sand and gravel division of LEWBRO, Inc. More recently, he was employed by Genoa Ag South & American Storage and remained a partner, with his brother, in the family farm operation. He was a former member of the McLean Fire Department and enjoyed hunting, fishing, riding his Harley Davidson and hanging out with friends. He will be greatly missed by his family, friends and his dog, "Guss."
Survivors include his loving wife, Deborah Carr, at home; his children, Ryan, Justin and Ashley Carr; and a stepdaughter, Brandee Smith of Moravia; his brothers, Adelbert "Dell" (Kathy) Carr of McLean and Walter (Helen) Drake of Englewood, FL; his sister, Shirley (Fred) Schneider of Weston, CT; his in-laws, Rowland and Patsy Smith of Moravia; uncles, nieces, nephews, cousins, brothers-in-law, and sisters-in-law.
Funeral Services will be held at 3 p.m. Saturday, Nov. 1, 2008, at the Perkins Funeral Home with Rev. Leslie A. Smith officiating. Burial will follow in McLean Rural Cemetery. Friends are invited to call Saturday from 1 to 3 p.m. at the Funeral Home. There will be a reception at the McLean Fire Station following the funeral and burial. Those wishing to remember Ed are asked to consider a memorial to the McLean Rescue Squad, The Square, McLean, NY 13102 or the Groton Ambulance Fund, East Cortland Street, Groton, NY 13073.

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Published by Ithaca Journal on Oct. 31, 2008.

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Al And Juanita Cahill

October 31, 2008

We are to hear sorry to hear this.
Our prays are with you.

Stephanie Miller

October 31, 2008

Debbie & family,

I wish I knew the magic words to put a smile on your face and to make the heart ache go away. Unfortunately, having gone through what you are experiencing right now just a short time ago I know first hand Debbie how you hurt and wish you could change things. As much as you will miss Ed (Bud) we called him both you would not want to wish him back to suffer any more just like I would not wish Cliff back. I hope the boys find one another again and do some catching up and then take their Harley's for a ride. It made everyone feel so good to see you and Ed so happy together. Like the two of you had finally found the happiness you both had been looking for. You are in my thoughts and prayers. If ever you need and ear to listen or just someone to talk to please know that I am here for you Debbie. It has not been that long ago since you and Ed were there for me and offered so much of yourselves to me during my time of grief. Not to mention all your visits when I was in the hospital Debbie and you would stick your head in and say hi and ask how I was feeling when I had been diagnosed with my cancer. God bless you Debbie, it feels like you will not make it through this but trust me when I tell you that you will. I am just a phone call away Debbie 838-3569. Prayers and Blessings, Love, Stephanie Miller

Hilarie Larson

October 31, 2008

Dear Debbie- I am so sorry to hear about Ed. If there is anything I can do for you, please let me know. My thoughts are with you, Brandee and Ed's family during this difficult time.

Anne Dickinson

October 31, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with Ed's wife, family and friends. I'm thankful to have known Ed and to experience his kindness and thoughtfulness.

Deb Guy

October 31, 2008

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Julio Garcia

October 31, 2008

All of our thoughts are with the Carr family. We are very sorry for your loss.

Geri McCabe

October 31, 2008

Debi and Family...I'm so sorry to hear of your loss..he'll be greatly missed by many...my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time..may his memories live on...
Geri Bickal McCabe "G.B."

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