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Grace Underwood Scola

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Grace Underwood Scola, 80, of Watch Hill and Delray Beach, Fla., died peacefully Nov. 19, 2007, in the hospice at the Delray Medical Center.
Grace graduated from Manhattanville College in N.Y. In 1951, she received a B.S. in Nursing from Boston College after which she was a director of nursing at Worcester City Hospital. She earned a Masters in Education from Worcester State College in 1974 and a CAGS from UMass at Amherst in 1978.
Formerly married to the Hon. Robert N. Scola, Grace was very active in the Republican Party and the arts. She hosted parties at her home for former First Lady Patricia Nixon, Mass. Governor John Volpe, numerous other politicians and a variety of entertainers including pianist, Liberace.
Grace was an avid volunteer, giving of her time for various causes from literacy programs to soup kitchens. She was an accomplished artist, enjoying painting on velvet and creating stained glass artwork.
During the summer months she enjoyed gardening at her home, and spending time at the beach. She opened her beach to neighborhood families so that everyone could enjoy the Rhode Island beach that she so loved.
Grace was an adventurous traveler, visiting the Far East to walk the Great Wall of China, see the pyramids of Egypt, and tour through Turkey, Israel, Europe, Hawaii and Panama.
In 1971, Grace was one of the first in the country to teach the then controversial Health and Safety Sex Education Course, which she taught at South H.S. in Worcester. After leaving teaching in 1981, she moved to Florida and returned to nursing. In 1983, she accepted a position for two years at King Faisal Hospital in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia. Upon her return from Saudi Arabia, she worked in various nursing homes in Delray Beach and Westerly until her retirement in 2000.
Grace is survived by her six children, Atty. Nunziata S. Reynolds and her husband Tucker of Medway, Mass., Judge Robert N. Scola Jr. and his wife Judge Jacqueline Scola of Coral Gables, Fla., Grace Gay Penney of Laguna Beach, Calif., Atty. Anthony J. Scola of Holden, Mass., Atty. James F. Scola and his wife Michele of Holden, Mass. and Atty. Nicholas R. Scola and his wife Jill of Griswold, Conn., and 14 grandchildren. She also leaves two brothers, F. Milot Underwood of Harwich, Mass. and Col. Joseph Underwood and his wife Michele of Palm Beach Gardens, Fla.
Grace's family will greet relatives and friends at the Athy Memorial Home, 111 Lancaster St., Worcester, Mass., on Sunday, Dec. 2, from 3 to 6 p.m.
A celebration of Grace's life will be held at the funeral home on Monday, Dec. 3, 2007, at 10:30 a.m.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Christmas "Toys for Tots" program by bringing an unwrapped toy to the funeral home or making a donation to your nearest "Toys for Tots" drive.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Westerly Sun on Nov. 30, 2007.

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Barbara Smith

December 8, 2007

Jimmy, Nick, I met you years ago when married to Jay Thorp. I had to let you know how sad I am for your loss. There is little less painful than losing one's Mom. I wish strength and beautiful memories to you and your family.
Barbara E Smith

Sharon Levey / Silver

December 3, 2007

Jimmy and all of the Scola family I want to express my condolences on the loss of your mom...I always had a special place in my heart for her...

Suzanne Kelly

December 2, 2007

I worked w/Grace at South High School in the 70s and early 80s. She was nothing but kindness to me. I always looked forward to meeting her in the teachers' lounge for her jokes, her upbeat outlook and her marvelous cynicism.

Wendell & Judy Forsman

November 29, 2007

We were friends with Tucker and Nunzi years ago when we lived in Worcester. Very sorry for your loss. We know how sad it is to lose parents.

Linda Carlson

November 29, 2007

Nick and Jill,
We are very sorry for your loss. Your Mom was a very accomplished person. It has been a tough year for both of you. Our thoughs are with you.

Linda and Warren

Stephen DeVincent

November 29, 2007

To the entire Scola family, my sincere condolences....Grace and I worked together at South High, and I remember her fondly

William Dorman

November 29, 2007

As a former resident of Blair St. I used to play with the Underwood children, including Grace. My deepest condolences and heartfelt prayers to the Underwood and Scola families. Bill Dorman

Rick Dunn

November 29, 2007

Please accept my sympathies on the death of your mother. There are many things to be happy about at this time. Among them are that she had a long life and that her children are such nice people.

Barbara Wickstrom (Sedelow)

November 29, 2007

Remembering wonderful and loving memories at 1 Blair St. Worcester.
Had long conversation with Grace following Jody's death. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Marion Conery

November 29, 2007

Joe, My mother, Louise Devine, asked me to send you her sympathy on the death of your sister. Frank and I also send our sympathy.

JOHN SELIGMAN

November 28, 2007

MARVIN AND GARY JOIN ME IN EXTENDING OUR CONDOLENCES TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Hubert Austin Ferguson

November 28, 2007

Judge Scola, I offer to you and your family my deepest sympathy on the loss of your mother. I will remember you in my prayers.

ALOYMA SANCHEZ

November 28, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

Virginia Best

November 28, 2007

My deepest sympathy and my prayers are with you. God is holding her in the palm of His Hand and she is enjoying eternal bliss and joy, so you need not mourn for your Mom; rather, mourn for your own loss always knowing that it is a temporary parting and you will see her again in a far better place.

Jeff Devin

November 28, 2007

Dear Judge Scola,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May the peace and strength of The Lord guide you during this time.

St. Philip's Episcopal School

Jeff Devin

November 28, 2007

Dear Judge Scola,

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. May the peace and strength of The Lord guide you during this time.

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