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ALBANY Mrs. Christine Thomas (Thomopoulos) Polydouris, 85 years old, passed away of Alzheimer's and lung congestion. Christina died on September 25, 2005, 9:30 p.m. in Latham, North Colonie, N.Y. at her home, the Villa American Kalamata-Lagadia overlooking Shaker Bay on a hill above the Mohawk River. Christina was born in Salem, Mass. on August 2, 1920. She was the daughter of Demetrios and Constantina Thomas (Thomopoulos). The name was legally changed before her brother Theodore was accepted at M.I.T. (Massachusetts Institute of Technology). Christine was born at home near downtown Salem and eventually the family moved to their home on Geneva Street in 1929, one month before the Great Depression hit. The family lived in the two-family house and rented one flat. The house was sold by Christine's mother after the death of her husband. Two siblings died in infancy from the influenza of 1917-1920, the first Theodore and Christine. Four children survived, Theodore, who died three years ago; Constantine, who died in 1970, a World War II Army Air Corps pilot; and her sister, Helen Macheras. Christine attended the Saltonstall School K-8, two blocks from her home, and Salem High School, Class of 1938. She graduated from Salem Teachers College in 1943 with her sister Helen. Christine took one year off to work for her family because of the stroke her father suffered. She worked at Lally's clothing store in downtown Salem as a sales girl (no associates at that time). Summers, she was an executive secretary for the chief counsel at Sylvania Electric Products in Salem as well as working one summer in the then-new Pentagon in Arlington, Va. She stayed only one month since Washington, D.C. in those days had no air conditioning. Christine also worked on Long Island for one month. She missed the cool ocean breezes of the North Shore and the ocean front parks of Salem, like Salem Willows and Forest River Park, the parks she learned to swim at during her youth. Christine was a tour guide at the Witch House one summer in Salem. The historic home was the residence of three women who were executed for witchcraft. Christine would do the housework at home, cooking and cleaning while the boys and sister Helen were more athletic. Christine did enjoy basketball in high school and college and wanted to major in foreign languages, that she and her sister excelled in in high school. She understood, spoke and wrote Modern Greek, having been tutored at home with her siblings on the dining room table twice a week. Christine took Latin, German (more important then with the rise of Hitler) and French. Salem Teachers College had no language majors but did have business. Both sisters majored in business and received baccalaureates in science in business education. There was only one building then, along with the student teaching grammar school next door. Christine worked in the bookstore. Her first teaching job was at South Royalton High School in Vt. She became certified in three states: Mass., Vt. and N.Y. She taught and wrote shorthand, a lost art. Business education or commercial education, as it was sometimes called. She taught at South Royalton during the 1943-44 school year. That old building is now Vermont Law School. The city girl dated a dairy farmer and became engaged. During World War II, farmers and priests were exempt from the armed forces. She broke the engagement when she took a teaching job at Bennington High School, Bennington, Vt., 1944-45. She played field hockey against Carroll Channing when the high school faculty played against the Bennington College girls. Christine lived with a Greek-American family in Bennington. Helen had taken a teaching job at Highland Falls, N.Y. High School so Christine jumped at a teaching offer from the village of Florida, N.Y. nearby. They both dated West Point cadets and attended dances at the Point. Christine became engaged a second time to the principal! She broke off the second engagement. She taught at Florida High School 1945-46, then at Amesbury High School, Amesbury, Mass. which she commuted to by car from Salem, Mass. where she lived with her family. In 1952, she received her master's of science degree from Boston University School of Education. She commuted on Saturdays for two years by train with her friend Tina Leftes of Salem for classes at BU. Christine took some additional courses at Russell Sage of Albany, N.Y. Certification. Marriage brought her to Albany, in 1953. She became engaged to Nicholas J. Polydouris after one date. He was visiting his relatives in Ipswich, Mass., the Nikas families, after completing business in Boston for his private company, the Albany Linen Service. They met at a private house party in Salem and were married in November of 1953 in Salem. They honeymooned at the Greenbrier Hotel, Greenbrier, W.Va., motoring from Albany and visiting her married sister Helen in Covington, Va. Exactly nine months later, a son John was born at Albany Medical, her only child because Christine had a hysterectomy afterward. She had been told not to come home if it were not a boy by her mother-in-law. While she was pregnant, they lived on Elm Street, Downtown Albany and, before John was born, they bought a house on Western Avenue, two blocks from Albany High School. An old school man, her husband bought the house on his own. She went to substitute at Albany High for one week and was called into the office on Friday by the principal, Mr. Lincoln. He had walked by her classes and was perplexed as to why the students were quiet with a substitute. He asked her if she would like a permanent teaching job - she mentioned she had a small boy and she would consult with Nicholas. She returned and accepted the job she kept for 25 years, from 1955-1980, and was the first Greek-American teacher in the Capital District. She worked for the New York State Education Department for a few summers supervising the correction of regents exams. Christine was the top business teacher at Albany High and the best dressed as well. She loved shopping at the Country Miss, Flah's, Solomon's, Dahl's and Kral's. Her husband cancelled her store credit cards once! After the death of her mother-in-law, Christine and Nicholas almost divorced, but stayed together for John. Their bond of Holy Matrimony was tried but was unbroken and they were faithful only to each other. Her husband Nicholas took care of her for 20 years with Alzheimer's, especially the hardest last ten years. Nicholas believed in the vow, in sickness and in health till death do us part. In 1952, Christine motored throughout America in a brand new Plymouth Convertible with three other teachers from Amesbury. They went to Calif., Ore., Mont., Alberta, British Columbia, Mexico and some 40 states and provinces and many national parks. She said she liked home the most. They left Amesbury the day after school ended in June 1952 and returned the day before it started in September of 1952. Christine continued to travel with her son to Greece and Cyprus and throughout the USA, the Caribbean and Canada. In 1974, she and John had 1st class Eurail passes and traveled Europe by train and boat for two and one-half months, returning because of the Turkish invasion of Cyprus, an island they were expected to visit. She did visit Cyprus in 1979 with John for two weeks to show solidarity with the Cypriot people. She went to the Tomb of Makarios to pay respects. Christine visited Greek Macedonia, the birthplace of Alexander the Great, and enjoyed the beautiful islands especially Cephalonia, Rhodes, Corfu and Kalamata and the village of Lagadia which her parents left at ages 17 and six. She was a great benefactor of St. Sophia Greek Orthodox Church and donated the chandelier above the altar and a gold communion cup and spoon with her husband. She was a past member of the American Association of University Women and held meetings at her home. Her legacy is her students, the creme de la creme, the best secretarial students of Albany. She celebrated her 50th wedding anniversary in November 2003 at St. Sophia, one month before Nicholas died.
She is survived by her son, John of Latham; a sister, Helen Macheras, Marblehead, Mass.; sisters-in-law, Alice Metropoulos of Pittsfield, Mass. and Maria Thomas of Haverhill, Mass.; nieces and nephews, Janice Kostopoulos, Marblehead, Dr. William Metropoulos, Springfield, Mass., Matina Metropoulos, Pittsfield, Constance Welch, Marblehead, Dean Macheras, Monroe, La., Damon Thomas, Esq., Haverhill, Stacey Kirby, Billerica, Mass., Leslie Beauregard, West Newbury, Mass., John Polydouris, AG. Stephanos, Greece, Efthemia Vafiades, Anexi, Greece and Fay Stavrides, Athens, Greece; great-nieces and nephews, Andrew, George, Nicholas, Fotini and Politimi Polydouris, Spiros and Katerina Stavrides; first cousins, Judge Theodore Thomopoulos of Neo Psyhiko and Nicholas Thomopoulos of Paleo Psyhiko, all of Greece.
Funeral services will be held Saturday 10:30 a.m. at St. Sophia Greek Orthodox Church, 440 Whitehall Road, Albany. Relatives and friends may also call Friday 4 to 8 at the Tebbutt Funeral Home, 633 Central Avenue, Albany. A Trisagion memorial service will be held Friday 7:30 p.m. Interment will be in Graceland Cemetery, Albany.

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Published by Albany Times Union on Sep. 29, 2005.

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Lleslie G Braun

October 30, 2005

Dearest John; So sorry to read of your loss---such a beautiful tribute you wrote--God Bless

Leslie G. Braun

October 30, 2005

Dearest John; So sorry to read of your loss---such a beautiful tribute you wrote--God Bless

Rick Williams

October 20, 2005

John,I am sorry for your loss and my prayers are with you and your family. What a loving tribute to your mother. I came across this story in the Montreal Gazette and felt moved to leave you a note. God Bless

joe ritter

October 14, 2005

John,Nancy and I are so sorry for your loss. You are a wonderful caring person.love from your friends Joe and Nancy

Luci Heidelmark

October 14, 2005

John, I am sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers. Your tribute shows how special your mother was in your heart. You hold a special place to many of us at 110 State Street too, may god bless!

Jack Klugman

October 13, 2005

What a wonderfull tribute to your mother. You have had said the things that mst of us never thought about saying when it was our turn. Hope that all your thoughts are happy ones.

October 13, 2005

Your mom is looking down so proud at you right now. What a beautiful and touching tribute.

Dawn Juneau

October 13, 2005

I don't even know you or your family but in reading the article in the times union, one thing is clear. Your parents did an excellent job in raising you. What a wonderful tribute to your mother. You are a wonderful person!

October 13, 2005

I should be so lucky to raise a son who thinks so much of his mom. What a wonderful tribute. Your mom must be very proud. Thank you for sharing her story.

Damian Kloss

October 13, 2005

Sorry for your loss. I was inspired by the obituary. I am sure that your mother is flattered and watching down on you.

Lana Deschaine

October 13, 2005

John,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your Mom was one special Lady. And she was blessed with a wonderful son...you! I was very moved by your tribute to her. I feel honored to have known both you and your Mom, although briefly and at separate times. I knew your Mom from Albany High School (I graduated with a "Business Diploma" back in 1978) and you from OSC when I visited the 2nd floor of the AE Smith Building from where I worked in Retirements.

I hope you are doing ok now. Stay strong and be well.

Catherine Giroux

October 13, 2005

John,



What a beautiful tribute to your mother's wonderful life. Your mother is smiling from above; you made her proud! You shine with your mother's love! You are in my prayers!

Donna Coluccio nee Salamida

October 13, 2005

I was so sorry to see Mrs. Polydouris' obit recently but thought it was such a wonderful testament to her life. She was my Secretarial teacher in AHS (1964 grad) and out of all my teachers, she is the only one I always remembered so fondly over these years. She was a wonderful teacher and person. God Bless you all.

Tammie Sobieraj

October 13, 2005

Sorry to hear about your loss. You did a fantastic tribute of her life.

Claire

October 13, 2005

My sympathies to you and your family. I didn't actually read this obit until today, after reading the article regarding it. All's I have to say is if I could accomplish 1/2 of what your mom did in life I would be very satisfied and if my children respect and love me as I can see you did your mom, I will know I lived heaven on earth. Thank you for sharing your mom with all of us.

Diane Aliferis

October 13, 2005

John,

I was very sorry to learn of your mother's passing. What a beautiful and thoughtful tribute you wrote in her honor. In several years of observing your family at church, I have always been aware of the exquisite care and comfort you provided her. You were so blessed to have each other.

Brad Wagner

October 8, 2005

John,



The detail and thoughtfulness which you expressed in your mother's obituary not only guides the reader along the life path of a remarkable woman, but also demonstrates your appreciation and love for her life and accomplishments. Beautifully-crafted and articulate, we should all hope to have our lives remembered such as this. May God look with favor upon you for the care and comfort you provided.

Debra Bongiorno

October 6, 2005

To the Polydouris Family: I'm deeply saddened by your loss. Mrs. Polydouris was my Secretarial Practices teacher at AHS. As a teacher she always encouraged us to do our best. I remember her telling the class that when we went on an interview that we needed to "sell ourselves" by putting our best foot forward. Throughout my secretarial career, I've relied on her wisdom and experience. In fact, I still take shorthand upon occasion. If you're lucky, once in a lifetime you have a teacher that you hold in high esteem, and Mrs. Polydouris was that teacher. I'll never forget her.

Kim Horan

October 5, 2005

John



Thinking of you. So sorry about your Mom. Having you for a son was something that I'm sure she was proud of and thankful for ... You were wonderful to your parents. Again, I'm so sorry about your loss.

In Sympathy and prayers,

Kim

Debbie

October 4, 2005

I just wanted to express my condolences to the family of Christine Polydouris. What a loving testament you have shared of your mother. I never had the pleasure of meeting her. Obviously a much loved and admired woman. What a blessing it must have been to have known her. May God comfort you during this time of loss.

Despine Coulis

October 4, 2005

I was so sorry to hear about your mom. The last time I saw her was in 1992 when she and you came to Cathy's post-wedding luncheon at the Andover Inn. I am looking at a photo of you, your Mom and Ted sitting at the table that day. The earlist moment I remember about her was when I was about 10 years old or so, she was a young teacher and had just made the most beautiful yellow gold draperies for the living and dining rooms on Geneva street, with swags across the top, which would have been considered very classy at that time. I can still remember how perfectly the swags had been gathered up at the sides--she was indeed rightly proud of them. I am sorry I don't have your street address or I would have written. Zoe se sas. Despine Coulis

Rosanne Nicotina

October 3, 2005

To The Polydouris Family:



I am very sorry to hear about the loss of Mrs. Christine Polydouris. She was my Secretarial (shorthand) and business teacher at Albany High School from 1968-1969. She was a wonderful and beautiful woman who taught me many aspects of the business world every day. I did extremely well in her class because she was always kind, knowledgeable in her field and experienced. I got a job as soon as I graduated from AHS and am still a secretarial assistant in Albany.

Mrs. Polydouris will be missed by all her students and any one that had the pleasure to know her in her life.

My deepest sympathy to all her family in this time of grief.



Rosanne Zeccola Nicotina

Albany High School (1969)

LUCYANN GENTILE

September 30, 2005

DEAR JOHN;

YOU ARE A ANGEL IN YOUR MOMS HEART.

NOW YOU CAN SEE ALL SHE GAVE TO PEOPLE WITH HER TEACHING AND LOVE.

THE LADY IS IN PEACE.

PEACE BE WITH YOU. LUCYANN

Mary Vedder

September 30, 2005

John and family:



'How beautifully you conveyed your Mother's story of life and the relationships of those within it. Thank you for sharing that with us. God bless all of you in your sorrow.



Sincerely,

Mary Vedder

Donna Reed

September 30, 2005

John,

I'm sorry for your loss.

I will keep you in my prayers.

Barbara Blanchard

September 30, 2005

My sympathies to the family. Mrs. Polydouris was also my Secretarial Practice teacher (1975-76). I learned a great deal from her. I have often thought about her. As with others, one of the things most remembered was her style. What a wonderful person - I'll never forget!



Barbara

Patricia (Phibbs) Robelotto

September 30, 2005

My sympathy to the entire family. I just need to share my memory of this very special teacher from my High School years at Albany High School. It was in her class that I was taught many of the "fine points" of suceeding in the business

world. To this day I remember some of them. In the days when carbon paper was the norm for letter copies, she corrected one of my letters by noting "avoid carbon smudge" (I had several in the letter) She then stopped by my desk and in such a nice manner explained why it was important.

Next she was instrumental in my obtaining a part-time job with an insurance company, that ultimately turned into a fine career from which I have now retired. At the time I needed more money than a Saturday only part time job would provide ao I initially turned the job down. She had arranged the interview for me. Again she stopped by my desk to ask why I had turned the job down and I explained (being a little embarressed.) The next thing I knew was that the Company offered me additional part-time work in two different departments. I credit her with some of my financial success in life.

Eileen Perron

September 29, 2005

There is no doubt that this woman led an exciting, beautiful life. For someone to have penned this wonderful summary of her fuller-than-full life, they must have shared many a comical story with her. I never had the pleasure of meeting this woman, nor her family, but I felt an instant connection to her as my grandmother's life mirrored hers. She was a very lucky lady to have had those who loved her beside her until the end. And you, in turn, were all so blessed to have her in your lives.

Geri James

September 29, 2005

John I'm sorry for your loss. I missed you and your Dad after you transfered your mother from the nursing home. I know you will miss her very, very much. I do not think anything can be said about her that you did not say. God Bless You.

Deborah Nedeau Woodford

September 29, 2005

Mrs.Polydouris was my homeroom teacher...and I can still see her impeccably dressed...hair pulled up, makeup on...and always so nice to me...I had tons of problems when I was at Albany High...but I am married...27 years...and have two wonderful children both in college. I work with special education students.Teaching is such an honorable profession...Mrs. Polydouris was an honorable and kind woman.



My condolences to your family.



Debbie

Pamela Johnakin-Adams

September 29, 2005

John,



I just wanted to extend my condolences to you and your family, in your time of sorrow. As you knew, your mother was one of my teachers at Albany High School; your description of her said it all - she was always immaculately dressed, as well as an excellent teacher. I'm sure she'll be dearly missed. Take care, and know that she is in a better place!

Marcella Green

September 29, 2005

To The Polydouris Family, Your mother was my shorthand teacher, at the old Albany High, my senior year of high school (1967-68).



She was a very classy lady. So much of what she taught is still with me today and has helped me to make it through life. Not only was she a great business teacher, she also taught me how to act like and always be a "Lady". She was a beautiful person. Mrs. Polydouris is one of the few teachers I still think about, wondering how she's doing. I knew whatever she was doing or involved in, she was "A Lady" first... I will never forget the valuable lessons she instilled in me and so many other classmates.



She was always very poised and proper. I think I love clothes and shopping because of Mrs. Polydouris' flair for dressing so fashionable. She put the "L" in Lady... I'm sure she touched so many people in her lifetime. I'm so thanksful to have known her. She will always be with me.



Every day the Lord goes into his garden and picks the special flowers for that day to make his bouquet.

Carol DePoalo

September 29, 2005

Ms. Polydouris was my Business/Secretarial teacher at Albany High School from 1965 - 66. As a teenager I was always in awe of her professionalism knowledge and poise. She taught me alot and well prepared me for my secretarial career. I always enjoyed being in her classroom. I can't think of another teacher throughout my school years that could compare to Ms. Polydouris. To this day I have often thought of her. I believe I excelled in her classes because of the special gift she had for teaching. Thank you Ms. Polydouris.

Cynthia Hooper

September 29, 2005

What a wonderful story, a wonderful life, so full....I am sorry for your loss, it sounds like a huge one. Although i didnt know you or your family, I felt compelled to write. It is wonderful to see someone who was so full of life and full of stories, I am sure. I am sorry for your pain.



Cynthia

September 29, 2005

i didnt know your mother but this was Such a beautiful obituary, god bless you at this sorry time

Costas and Christina Doukas

September 29, 2005

With sympathy to the family and the passing of such a glorious woman and mother!

Karen Sommers LaMountain

September 29, 2005

To John and Mr. Polydouris,



As you know, your mother was my shorthand and typing teacher at the old Albany High Annex way back in 1966-67. She was always very poised, proper and as you said, extremely fashionable! In addition, she was a wonderful teacher. May God's blessings be upon all of you at this difficult time. I know how much you loved her.



Such a beautiful obituary - I don't think you left anything out, John.



Peace be with you, Karen

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